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Lobby money is working wonders.

JohnAOne:
Then, maybe, you don't have any problem

I never mentioned that I have a problem.

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Elipheleh, my story is very similar to yours and it's been on for over a decade now.
3rd class, no job, no business. No ambition.
All she wants is a good life and money to spend.... and it is frustrating to say the least.

This is despite the fact that I broke my first true relationship of over 4 years because of this fear. I had seen enough experiences with my uncles to know it's not a good idea. All the wife would care about are her kids, watching Nollywood all day, and wanting the latest items they see on other people they gossip about. I discussed this with my wife before marriage that I do not want a wife like this and she said yes, ok. Only to count several years in marriage and she never stepped out of the house to go work for one day. I've designed CV multiple times and given her money for business. All down the drain because she has no drive to do it.

But I will reecho what honour8 said. I met my wife at a low point in life but ever since, I have found myself in an upward trajectory. Every big project I put my hands into, even though it's quite difficult and takes a long time, eventually turns successful. I previously had a cycle of 3 years of good tidings and by the fourth year I would be expecting some kind of setback but things changed since I met her. She talks about it too.

Now, I'm not so spiritual or anything. I have fought with her countless times and given her several ultimatums in this issue but it's just ingrained in her not to do/want anything other than her current life.

I'm not giving up on her however because even though her inaction has put me in dire straits when it comes to making some big career decisions multiple times, I choose to look at the positives. She's good natured, loves to care for the kids better than anyone else I know and does all housewifely chores gladly. Cook, clean, etc

Besides there are many educated Nigerian couples out there today with only the husband working. Even though the wife wants to work, there's no opportunity. So just manage your accounts and lead your family the best way you can given the situation.

When did this trend start? Now, they abuse everything. The naija way

Ọmọ, mhen don see things.

Some days body go dey, other days, big disappointment.

Had a similar experience but this girl, I dey feel am then because she's comes with the full option and I've been on her case for a little while but nothing wey I no do that day, Baba downstairs didn't rise to the occasion even when she gave some h**d.

Just like you, shame wear me like Agbada.

This ride, so pretty on the outside but the interior is a poor deal for that price point.

Not demeaning your car in anyway. Just a general personal opinion.

JohnMo2:
Front-runner for the Presidential ticket of the African Democratic Congress (ADC),

This introduction is funny 🤣

This dealer didn't just kill his conscience, he grilled it and joined it with garri.

Sec is the poor man's only enjoyment. It's dopamine inducing and free. Unfortunately they have no resources to prevent unwanted pregnancies.

Maybe you don't know but Gold can also be smuggled just lie cash and should be monitored closely.

What about the people who have booked appointments over 18 months ago. Whats the meaning of this?

When it's just as easy as picking up a cooperative victim and spend a few days in the bush in return for millions of naira, why do you think kidnapping would not be rampant?

The only way to stop this thing is by crushing any kidnapping ring with unalivement. Right now, the returns are more than the risks with public donations for a few days work.

Unfortunately those who should spearhead the collective resolve to reverse this evil trend are busy with propaganda and rounding up protesters

Piggybacking on his social media followersship to trend

I wonder why the mods keep hosting and entertaining visible scammers like this on the platform. Isn't it the website's partial responsibility to protect its users to a certain degree?

Looks more like a covert western operation.

kingthreat:
Settlement is now becoming like agent fees in house rent.

Collect settlement from buyer, collect another settlement from seller.

Eating from both sides of the mouth.

I made a comment during crossover about the dangers of being outside by midnight during crossover when elements of the devil know people will be wandering at ungodly hours. Here is one result

Dennisochampa:
Volunteers can do that too.... So if u go there and set up camp to help rescue the survivors, we will all celebrate you

At least I would be better than you who sits behind the keyboard giving suggestions. Talk is cheap.

harjay1986:
You people always talk as if you are God... Please the Gate to the so call sane country is still open kindly go there... In safety there is always a saying that you can only save a life that is safe able... And you can only risk your life if it won't end just now... Somebody is under a rumble and you want a fireman to go there, why cant you volunteered... At least you can receive calls from the victim... In a sane country you mentioned there is no fire Head that will commit his team inside such except they all sign dead contract... Yes life is involve but is there a way they can be rescue no... So why committing more resources to something you can't safely rescue Emotion is not allow when rescue is been don many casualty will be recorded....

Watching too much American movies they affect you

Of course it is understandable that rescue efforts are executed with caution but the pace of work is a different topic. Is it more practical to wait until all fire subsides when you have necessary equipement to put human lives first. The situation here is clear; lack of necessary equipment or skills leading to loss of lives. Call it what it is and not give excuses.

And for your comment on me voluntering. If I am on ground and skilled in such, I would do it. I only offer value where I can, not for keyboard warriors who won't do same if found in the same situation. There's also life and learning opportunities beyond American movies. You should go out some more.

Expect no shocks in the iimmediate future. At least not in the next 2 years. Crude production is also regulated so its not falling below a certain benchmark.

I won't advice. Respect is rare among couples close in age not to talk of the woman being older than the man.

Other than that, I would always advice to marry someone way younger. Like 5 to 7 years. By the time you clock late thirties, she would be looking way older than you and may no longer match your energy or sexual appetite. Your wife would be looking older than your mates wives and she may feel isolated.

There's a reason why older rich men go look for a young lady to marry. It's not like their first wife is a devil. They are simply lacking in required traits.

In a country that makes sense, responders will set up camp on this place and work day and night to ensure survivors are rescued.

Even if it takes using a xray scan to detect movement and work towards surviving victims.

We are having victims calling from within the rubble for multiple days when your rescuers are closing for the day and going home to sleep.

A failed country is what it is and nobody in authority is willing to call a spade, a spade and take responsibility.

The frsc official the other day on Arise is asking journalists to call emergency numbers which he knows never work. Instead of admitting that this is a problem and correcting it so it works next time, they would let it slide until another calamity happens and then trend in the news again.

Emergency response is dead in Nigeria. That's a fact

Well I chase success for my own benefit not to share my harvests with unknown women who are clearly around to parasite.

bmd1010:
Thanks alot man typing error I just fix it

Nice. It's a cool ride. Wish you quick sales

You must mean 2008 because this is not a 2018. Upgrade or no upgrade.

Cross over service now will only bring flashes of that bandit attack on the church that was live streamed.

I rather follow the livestream online than to be a conspicuous taget in the middle of the night by men of the underworld who know people will be wandering around in the middle of the night.

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I pity some buyers oh. You will save, count and give #4m for this.

Now is not a time to buy cars in Nigeria tbh. People are currently selling junk for fortune.

#Not saying this ad is junk anyway.

Literally a 'Get out of Jail free' card for the corrupt cabals who have robbed the country blind for decades.

They are forgiven to go and enjoy their loot in peace as the govt no get strength to fight.

Kwantinue

Looks like you don't play Codm.