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mrbenjame:
I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.

I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that atleast once a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it. Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.


I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.

Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.

I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides this it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her ( though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!).

She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.


After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.


Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.


Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?

Werey oni love. ..You must be a scriptwritter...
wasting ....Your.. . Time on diffrent classic of hoe..

Pregnant girlfriend... Not wife... With boyfriend not husband...Hmmmm girls are truly a waist..

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Bola146:
I really pity their wives, because only God knows how they will beat them if #100 is missing from their pockets Poverty na bastard!!!!!

you are hear again

Bola146:
E pain am Omo oshi

see ode

Bola146:
Ritualist... continue barking pele

if to say i be ritualist ehn people like you they unfortunate to the call so tey if i use u ehn... You no go pay shishi... Omo ale.. Jatijati

Bola146:
One of the useless dogs on earth.. continue barking bingo

how many people have you given your kpekus in the name of boyfriend or fiance ehn... They form holy.. Wey be say you dey boil well well

Bola146:
Monkey... ask anybody, I'm not as cheap as you are. I don't follow any man to his house, for what?!

See this mumu oh......Cheap dog wey no fitt dey common agbero...

AlataSuesue:
Omg I totally love your sis

Some men are truly useless and shameless

oponu useless and shame less... Like you sacrificing your hoe up and down abi

MrBrownJay1:
the important question would be:
whats wrong with that? when women everywhere are portraying themselves as sex objects, why shouldnt men want solely what they are offering?!?!?

the foolishness is from these same women who dress like hoes, talk like hoes, act like hoes, and then when men approach them as "hoes", they want to be treated like wife material.....bwaaaaaah! if tittays and bootays is all what you showcased to get the attention of men then thats the exact same reason why men will approach you for... aka tittays and bootay!

You said it all bunch of olosho...

Bola146:
First date in his house, he will ask can you sleep over I'm lonely at home

Thief you don seee big guy abi you kon follow go house... Infact he suppose rape you ni

Adaba0803:
The transmission oil should around a month old

the transmission is faulty might be from the opd user of the car or the way ypu maintained it sir

Riele:
About what ?

Study the enviroment and you see the reason

Riele:
Brace up , it's a long post on Men's wickedness




Today , I made up my mind to get a national ID card even though , it was no longer a requirement for Jamb registration .

When I got to the Secretariat , I met other individuals who also came for Registration , I took out a sit and waited for a form to be given to me .

While filling the form I was given , a girl my age came to sit beside me , and since I was bored , we started a conversation .

During the course of our discussion , I found out she had registered but the man in charge had refused to give her the ID . According to her , he keeps telling her to wait .

I felt bad for her because , she was one of the first set to register , I even tried helping by reminding the Oga in charge that she was yet to get her ID , the man's body language made me suspect his intentions .

After the registration , the Oga cornered me to a corner and ask me to settle him , we know the usual trend !

I did settle him even tho I read the big poster in Front of his office which says registration for National ID was free .

I met the girl standing outside obviously waiting for me , I enquired about her sudden decision to go home without taking her card .

And with tears in her eyes , she told me the man wanted something special from her and you'll know what it is .

She doesn't know what to do , her parents aren't too educated to understand the usefulness of an ID and so she considers forgetting about the Whole ID card stuff .

I'm so angry right now for two reasons .

First , for agreeing to offer some money to the Oga that has a sweet Jeep outside his office for a service that was made free by the Government.

And secondly , for his evil intentions towards a girl probably his daughter's age .

Like , why are men this way ??

I won't let this slide away , this is corruption Buhari was referring to .

As an ICPC member , this Oga must eat his humble pie .

This wickedness must end

Men , when will you all stop this nonsense .?

Still Confused....

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Adaba0803:
That was the first thing I did when I discover this issue it improved it but not normal

. But for how long have you been using the old oil in your transmission...?
because it might have affect seriously... And so it means you should change the transmission completely.. There is not like repairing of transmission hear in nigeria *avoid been scam.. Thank you ... For asking a question hear on my thread

White04:
Good day Engineer, please I need your professional advice. My Lexus es330 was acquired by November 2019 (Toks) and properly serviced.

A few days ago, after going on a trip, the "Maintenance Required" light came up on my dash. And I have just driven about 3k miles with it in the past two months.

I have checked the oil gauge, and I think it's at an okay level, oil not dark nor greasy.

Do I ignore this notification or is there a fix?

Hello sir... according to you. You said your maintenance required light come after driving it .Not up to 3k miles...
*Did you check the service record of the car befor buying it i mean the history..
*Did your dealer serviced it when he/she bought it.
*And also how long has it used in Nigeria before you buy it.
Yes sir the maintenance light that comes up suddenly after like about 3k miles is not okay..
But you wil consider the time he has used in nigeria and did the seller service it before selling it to you... And also did you take an automechanic down to the car for an inspection before getting it.. If not sir. Get a mechanic to help you run a check on it i mean a good technician that make use and understand the scan too very well sir..He should help you and run a computerized scan on it sir...Look into all what i have written sir.. And pls let me get a feed back from you..Thanks.

Adaba0803:
Pls my Toyota Sienna 92 is not showing the over drive light and always refused to move from gear 3 upward what can I do ?

Hello sir for how long have you do the transmission oil change..

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