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Graphy: I ve got killer smiles 2,lol

l am the only one dat knows that. It is our secrete.

Pleas n please l am nt interested in ur past relationship, l only need ur true self because l ve my ugly and unmentionable past which l may nt be earnestly n honestly detailed. We all had our mistakes while growing up n the most regretable mistakes come from dating or nay relationship.

Graphy: i just love realistic people.

l just luv people that appreciate realistic people.

amyg: Give me attention,ATTEntion and ATTENTIOn.I can make my own money

sure! Ok u ve my 100% uncomparable attention bt no money attached. I get back to u diva.

Una be fool: Money is the best attention a man could ever give a woman.

undoubtedly correct, my experience with some ladies nt all that l ve met in naija and elsdwhere indicate that without money, my attention would nt always bn welcome. Sure u win their luv wit attention but money sustains it.

Dont be ingratitude. That is all he could afford at moment. Optionally, u can send it to me via....

I ve nt tried any before.

advocate666: I agree with you. Couples should try to make their marriage work.
The problem is when it is not working and divorce is the only option, most nigerian women still stay in this marriage and prefer to suffer than to divorce.

you that divorce is nt easy, especialy when kid(s) involved. Once peeps realised that someone is a divorcee, they stay away(stigmatisation) because they can fathom what led to his or situation. So, dt makes them manage even if is a hell.

When l get to dat bridge, l will see how to cross it.

Phrase!

You are d one encouraging married women to leave their husband? What if most of them are the same? Divorce shouldnt be d next thing. Both ve to make it work, since no perfect marriage. The husband cannot blow hot and the wife blows hot at d same time, one needs to be a sheep n d other a goat. Even d so called men of God ve problem in their marriage. There should be compromise or else....

@op can u go back n get d real biological father's name n report back, lt could be any of these nairaland mods

seunfly: Women are bundles of secret, even though they don't have stomach to keep alot of secrets and thats is why their hubby or a close malefriend may be their confidant. Yet they are the best in keeping the most dangerous secret that can affect their marital or s*exual relation survival.
However if i'm to put your list into order of women they are:
* Secret
* Money
* Clothe
* Virginity

point

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tobechi20: U must be an antichrist. Lol. Just kidin

pro christ joor o!

Lesson!

What is religion sef?

I will also remember d day that l will take my last breath.

So if eventually, what do u think would happen to d chicken, drinks, gift items, etc that l have spent thousand of naira to acquire. Stop speculating what u dont know anything about because l ve more than 101 reasons to refute such claim, Though I am not afraid of death. What do u think folks?

hisblud: Moving up to the seventh

hmmmm

dmcdad: Can you be able to elucidate on your point in order to back up your assertion?

what's up dmcdad?

k2039: That's the problem, I dont conform, that's my orientation and view towards life.

I can love and un-love, it's my choice.

The two statement are problematic and that's why we have a lot of people crying over heart break.

I love you because I need you
If you love because you need her, it means your destiny is dependent on her.
A need is a necessity, so if she doesnt love you, you will commit suicide or do something irrational.
That explains why a lot find it hard to get over a heartbreak.

I need you because I love you Infact I dont see any different between both, though this sound a little better though
The need is born out of the fact that I love you, so if I dont love you again, I can discard you because it will mean you are no longer needed.
I prefer this to the other because my destiny lies in my hand, if I deem it fit that you are no longer needed I can as well tell you to fvck off but the girl on the recieving end is in trouble from the on set of the relationship.

the two staments are meaningful, but d first sees luv as a necessity while d other see luv as thingh of d heart. your last paragraph supports the conclusion. These are two logical argument statements inferred from d premises or inferences of love statement, the author only tried to see which among d two concludes d argument.

The holly books command us to give to the needy. Here are seven kinds of givers:
First, those who give spontaneously and generously, but only to themselves: auto-givers, they might be called.
Second, those who give thoughtlessly, without any real or high motive: givers of ocassion, as it were.
Third, those who give as a sop to conscience and self-esteem: in a spacies of atonement for the evil that they do: penitential givers.
Fourth, those who give as a matter of display, to win public applause for their generosity: theatrical givers.
Fifth, those who give because others give, because they are expected to give, and are ashamed not to give, and therefore give grudgingly: conventional givers.
Sixth, those who give because they feel they ought to give: who give through a sense of duty and not through love: moral givers.
Seventh, those who give in the spirit of God: who give because they love their neighbour as themselves- and above all thinghs desire to help him: spiritual givers.
To which kind do you belong?

k2039: None of the above.

For me, I love you because I chose to love you.

k2039 stick to d option pls there is a reason 4 it thxs man.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Love is not born out of the need for someone. It should be more of the reverse so I would chose the later[/quote]hmmmm

Which way out?

Which of these expressions reflects true love : I Love You Because I Need You OR I Need You Because I Love You?

Ladies are on holidays! Pls check back.

Granduer! Hope they take ur words. Ladies, dont always assume it all going to be the same dead end while looking 4 partner, every guy deserves a chance. The fact that ur ex is a marauding beast doesn't justify ur action on others, no, rule it out. After, we learn new experience daily. What do u think, between two evils, l always pick the one l never tried before.

lrguru: @larrymoore, u reminded me of way back 'ol school lapel' .....lol, o boy, t'was fun men.....never wrote love lettere tho, but my elder bro was a champion love letter writer. He can use 4-fullscarp paper to write love letter to his babe then.

Remembered back then in 2001 in the university, i had one cutie, all i did was to write a memo of her everyday on a 60-leaves note. She found it one day when it was almost full. She cried and cried after readin all i wrote about her, and took the note away and never gave it back, cos it was like she even love the words more than me....lol.....good ol' days. Missed evry sha.

good old days!