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ARES: What I shall be remembered for?! dude I have no plans to die anytime soon.... I am still here god damn it. What's wrong with u!!!!

*chuckled* u ar funny, u want to live 4ever. Besides, do u wanna spend d rest of ur time on nl? No retirement?

nas 00: @Poster: What you'll be remembered for is a sample of the general impression of other NLers who have observed your online character over a period of time.

It's not my call to state what I will be remembered for on NL, I believe. It's said the eye doesn't see itself.

Maybe if you had asked: 'What DO YOU want to be remembered for', it would have been appropriate for each man to speak for himself. You might want to review the thread topic in view of this. That's your call

noted

Once a nairalander is always a nairalander. 'What goes around comes around,' also they say. Fellow nairalander, to which category do u belong:
1. Love councillor
2.Entertainer/funny/lively
3. Smart player
4. Debater
5. Feminist
6. Male chauvinist
7. Religious hater
8. Athiest
9. Sexology
10. Egotist/boss
11. Religious chauvinist
12. Bully boy(man)
13. Tribal activist
14. Soft n gentle
15. Marauding beast
16. Corky
17. Dorky
18. Scammer
19. Deluded/weird
20. Nasty
21. Witty
22. Naturally humble
23. Boring
24. Dull
25. Non-commentary et cetera.
Pls, dont hesitate to add other attributes.

maclatunji: Ok my brother.

Thanks.

Frankly, l can't imagine why? Particularly ladies, they keep pretending until they over ripe.

maclatunji: I am not really asking you to explain. Just talk about what you want in a wife and what you can offer as a husband.

just a simple, tolerant n intelligent being n l offer my best and ability in life.

Hmmm! Your opinions dig on relevant trend in d contemporary society, such as ours. I hope we both i.e male n female make amend to avoid name calling of such rather than joining d band wagon. Thxs.

Classical ideaology! Only if human being can stick to it.

Divorce is bad. Only if it can be outrightly avoided, marriage could ve be d only true means of union.

@op, Life goes on.

Same

maclatunji: ^Bros. you are mixing a lot of things together. You are trying to explain how you might have ended up having so many Christian women in your path and at the same time trying to state your positive qualities break it down and separate them.

You are emphasising Salat which is very important but Islam goes way beyond that, it shapes your daily routine, how you think and live.

You might want to understand apply this.

the link is nt clear to me. What do u want me to explain, pls be specific? Thanks.

dmcdad: Slap her Maka why na? Abeg do or act as you wish, but avoid violence...

@dmcdad, nay joke l dey joke. I never beat a lady before, l am non violence.thanks bro.

maclatunji: I believe you need to check yourself. What do you want in women? Maybe it is what you seek that makes Muslim women relatively unavailable to you. Are you saying you are ready to get married and are looking? If so, what are your credentials (Not academic O) that would make any Muslim lady want to spend the rest of her life with you. Marrying a non-Muslim is not encouraged. Your faith will suffer.

Thanks, l stared through my past n l realised dt my various institutions of learning ve contributed significantly. Though l am a Lagos based, come to lookat it, I did my first degree in UNN,Nsukka this is a university where Islam is nt welcome, our small central mosque ws donated by an emir from d north after series of appeals many years before l ws admitted. The first time we called Ahthan/azdhan i.e call-to-prayer, that was 2006, the school authority summoned our imam and warned him nt to turn Nsukka to muslim community, Nsukka being Igbo Catholic dominated community, the issue ws serious dt we suspended it before our chief imam from Saudi intervaned. A community where d percentage of d xtian is 99.9, they openly mocked d muslim sisters with hijab and called them 'ORIAPA' Meaning masqurade in nsukka. My second degree ws even worse 4 me.
Though nt enough reasons 4 me, bt it is wise l haven't compromised my faith. Though nt desperate, l wouldn't mind muslim lady.
I am a simple, committed and relatively social person. Despite all odd, l dont compromise my solat.I am in my 30s, a Lagos based. Work presently with an health stream alliance firm, a non governmental.
Thanks brothers and sisters in d forum.

godman01: so if its an assumed old adage, that means the way to your own heart is through your stomach?
Guys are now looking out for better things in a lady, even sex does not do it for them not to talk of food.

yes man!

[quote author=street-soldier]Lolz...but really, I can't slap my woman no matter the wrong..I think a serious warning will follow the statement she made!!! Though I wish I can slap but I don't av the annointing to slap a woman!![/quote]u a right man. I never tried dt b4

2goodbobo: Lol@ "as d soldier of her heart.


Well no guy will feel happy been compared with an Ex. I will advice you have a talk with her and ask her what her Ex does that you don't and see how you can adjust.

correct shaa! Just joking

Nice! Keep true luv in ur heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when d flowers ar dead. Lot of ppl tink dt gravitation is responsible 4 fallin in luv. I doubt there is true lv only mere companion exist.

RIP

Coparing me as being better than her ex, no problem. If otherwise, l adjust. If she is being unreasonably selfish, l shun her, as d soldier of her heart

Assalam alaikum my beloved brothers and sisters in this God chosen religion, ISLAM. I am folarin olanrewaju abdul lateef, I ve be around since 2010 bt l dnt come around here until recently. I ve some jaw breaking challenges in dating, ever since my 1st degree(07) to d 2nd degree, this year , l ve nt 4 once opportune 2 date a muslim lady, mostly they ar xtians.

Though no one 4 nw, my question is: what happened if l eventually ended up wit a non-muslim? Hope l can still mentain my dedication to islam? As a practising somebody, I dont in any small interest compromise my solat, infact dat is my first wife. Blessed brothers n sisters, have l been moving wit d wrong ppl? Or are muslim ladies difficult to get? Pls brothers, do u ve d same issue?

My experience makes me to like From*smiling* to *chuckle* then*laughter*

From*smiling* to *chuckle* then*laughter*

*Inexperienced*

So what do u want since u ve n't suggested any other paradigm in place of ur assumed old usage?

It is a thingh of d heart, no lady is to hard 2 approach. If u like a lady, go 4 hr, gone ar days when guys used to receive slap 4 wrong n untimely approach.

Mirango exclusive, u wan try?

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]I'm not gay, ask the ladies. [/color]

is dat a qustion of gay? That is a definition of ugly.

Only time reveals.

Let it be, l no dey jealous.

LadyTC: Well am just saying that if you like someone, don't pretend act like u don't. If u ave ever heard the saying first you play the game with ur head then your heart. I guess I just find it long. Why people pretend not to be interested when they are not and make the whole process long.why can't guys and girls just be real if u like each other go ahead.

l understood ur point quite well, bt u ladies pretend mostly and end up discouraging some good seekers. Surely, some Ladies are pretentious while some guys are dubious.