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I vote for refiner, optional1, lanicky, missgdope
Cc Nljega

chronique:
Over time,I've seen most of you youngsters write about relationships and all that and to a large extent,most of you have flawed opinions about so many issues. Romantic relationships in the first place,should be between two adults or at least,an adult and a youngster. That way,there'd be someone to lead the way and possibly be the shock absorver when things go wrong. These days,we have too many people who do not understand that having fun and being in a serious relationship,are two different things altogether. Everone is trying to be smarter and outwit the other person and that's where the problem starts from. Way too many folks,get into relationships for the wrong reasons and aren't totally honest with their partners. Those who love sincerely are taken for granted and get hurt in the process and when they get out of it,they're looking for someone else to do payback time with. Now,I hear people say the power in a relationship lies with the one who loves less;do you have an idea how that sounds? When one gets hurt in a relationship and moves into another with this mindset,someone else will definitely get hurt. This circle continues like a merry go round and leaves the society with emotionally wretched folks,and also mean folks. When it's time to settle down,we all start looking for the good sweet soul,after contributing to the destruction of souls. Truth is,this scenario would keep repeating itself till the end of the world. If onl people could be truthful to others,honest and sincere;life would have been a better place to live in. The innocence of the world has been taken away,and life gets wilder on a daily basis. Sometimes,I wish I could go back to the era when the words "I love you" were said with all honesty and sense of responsibility. These days,I love you is akin to good morning;people say it without meaning it. Men who have side chicks and women who have side guys,have made love a curse but no matter what,I'd always believe that I'd someday,be with that person who'd be honest,loyal,truthful and sincere to me and the best way to finding such a person,is to first be all of what I want from that person. You can't give what you don't have. If we adopt this mindset and attitude to life,a lot can be corrected...

Dis comment is inspiring. Nice one, so true. U shuld create a thread with dis, it'll help a lot of peeps change there negative mindset.

I vote refiner, ivyy, lanicky, mysticgal, optional1, missgdope
Cc NLJega

Only d fisrt pics i understand

Dis is rubbish, utter balderdash.. So u created a thread cos u got banned, and ur even serious about it. Don't u have a life outside nl?? Besides, if u don't break any rule, u wont get banned. I've been on nl for over 5 yrs, and i've never been warned, let alone banned. Dont break any rule, and u won't get banned...

Welcome to d club

Why dont u call her instead

I experienced similar thing. Wanted to take d matter to court, but folks advised me not to, cos d money involved wasn't much. If it hapened a second time to me, won't take it lightly.

Lol.. If dem go gree hear

I do number 4 a lot, until she reads in-between d line and confronts me. Then i spill d beans.

Some of ur points are making sense. Some women now see men as atm machine. Smh for dem

Op who provoke u.

Being an introvert, u wont hav many friends, but at same time u wont hav much problems in life.

KnightX:
Hogwash! Inferiority complex has been so ingrained in you that you get an _erection when a member of the pale race mentions or quotes you. I bet you have a mental image of a WHITE JESUS TOO.

You should study your history as an African. Your predecessors even knew they were superior to these whiteys.

Members of the Knights Crew are intellectuals who are self-confident enough to emancipate themselves from MENTAL SLAVERY.

It's asslicking, favour-seeking, nadir-esque self-esteem folks like you who allow Strahovski1 and his team of garlic-reeking folks bully you when in reality they're inferior to you.
YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF WHY THEY HAVEN'T FLOODED THIS THREAD WITH THEIR RACIST SLURS AS USUAL - they know I'd attack them.

Why do think they were called "BARBARIANS" and "VANDALS" in times past? They are savages!

Save yourself!
You're jealous of our superior intelligence.

Are u ok at all??

TheValiant:
That dude up there was defending your honour as an African when whiteys were dragging you through the mud. All a coward like you can do is say "thank you" and then STFU.

I didnt see any denigrating thing kashybabe said about blacks in her initial comment. Are u guys ok at all?? Abusing a lady for no reason.

TheValiant:
I'm curious, why should he be envious of you?

Why do u knight crew always go about looking for trouble? U kids shuld grow up.

Op i dont think nl gals r ugly or r oloshos. their problem is most of 'em r too irrelevant and broke in real life, so dey come here to seek attention to become relevant. But dats just an illussion.

Op ur very correct. I once lost my school fees thru betting and had to withdraw my admission for one session. Since then, i've never gone back to betting.

----Modified: Dont fall 4 d peeps below claiming dey hav been successful thru sport betting, dats a big lie. U can never be successful thru betting. Punters will never tell u wen dey lost huge amount, but will be very quick to announce to everybody wen dey win. Once i won 27k and went to skul to tell all my friends and dey were hailing me. But when i lost my school fees: 62k, i told no one.

Chrisrare:
Hmmm.. How do u wake up early for work/school if ur used to sleeping late.

Its possible. I take afternoon siesta most times.

Chrisrare:
Ok bro. U must be a night crawler.

Yeah. I'm used to sleeping late.

I'm chatting with a very old friend of mine on whatsapp. We just got in touch after many years. And i'm using one eye to browse nl

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Synzu:
My friend keep quiet. Mimzy dissociated herself that from person. Stop tryna whip up past issues to score brownie points with.

U bunch of kids shuld grow up and stop playing dirty. Dis contest isnt a do or die affair.

Gabadaya:
Lol!even with the heavily edited photo's the uglyness still can't go away.

Mimzy u better call dis ur supporter to order cos she's really giving u a bad name. Nobody will want to vote 4 someone whose supporters denigrates other contestants.

Edybleketara:
----Why do people always cry in movies? Does it make the movie more interesting or what?? To me its really boring watching them cry like babies.

----I thought its only Nollywood and Telemundo dat cry too much, but I watched an Indian movie on Zee World and you need to see the way adult men are crying like babies. So why do they always cry, do viewers enjoy watching them cry? They need to do better.

Lol.. I blame our future presidents. They dont have sense.

evegran:
Lmao! Funny photo!

Hahahaha... See their fat yansh

A1159:
I am really concerned here. It happened 6 months ago. I was jealous. I would make this short and brief.

8 Months ago, my fiance and i, went to a dinner party somewhere on the Island in Lagos. Then there was this girl he met and claimed she was his old friend in school. They really exchanged pleasantries so much that i felt jealous. He completely migrated his attention from me to her. They hugged and all sorts.

Driving back home, i told him i wasnt comfortable with it. He was angry and he said i am too insecure that if i don't want him to talk to females because he is engaged to me i should say it. I felt embarrassed and sad like i wasn't mature. So i let it go. But days later i discovered they have been chatting, seeing each other and other stuff. He told me one day that he was traveling to Abuja to collect his Passport at the Immigration office that he wont be around for a few days. But 2 days later my friend and i were chatting and i told her i'm missing my baby and she was like 'Isnt he around'? And i said he traveled then she told me that he has been in their building for a few days that he leaves at night. And when i went to my friend place he wasn't there but i met this girl he claim is his old friend. She also lives in that building so he was seeing her and lied to me. Iw as hurt so i went online on facebook to rant then an Indian Lady sent me a PM telling me she can fix it.

She gave me her number to call her. Her voice sounded like a 12 year old girl but i just played along. She told me that she can prepare a cake for me that would make my relationship ok. She said the cake cost small money but she will send me the cake first and collect her money. She sent the ingredients of the cake to me via DHL as i received it 2 weeks later after saying Yes to her since i won't pay until i receive it. I felt i have nothing to loose. I followed the directions and baked the cake. She told me to say somethings in india language on the cake and eat the cake. I did. I was ok. My fiance had already returned from Abuja(As he claimed). I pretended all is well. After i had eaten the cake, the next night, my fiance and I had sex. I fell in love with him again but for some reasons(Work, stress, etc) we both abstained from sex since then for 6 months. We never attempted it. So last week when we tried again as our wedding is coming up very soon. He couldn't even do anything! He was impotent. We went to a doctor and he was confirmed impotent. My mother said she did some fasting and her pastor said someone spell him with charm(I remembered the cake thing). Doctor examination showed he was impotent for the past 6 months(When i did the cake stuff) we just didn't notice.

Please it has been 6 months i have lost contact with the India lady on facebook. She did not reply my message. Seems she is no longer on facebook i don't know and i have lost her number too. It is long ago please what can i do? I am scared of going to church with my family and his own as im sure the pastor will know it was me. Any help?

Aiit

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dare2differ:
Says a boy who keeps quoting me because of a nonsensical moniker

I will pass!

Says a girl who has 100 monikers on nl. Ur joblessness nor be here.

dare2differ:
You know yourself so well

Has she given you get number yet?

U must be very irrelevant to be trolling ur fellow lady. Ok if it is attention u want come an collet it.

dare2differ:
Your moniker is dvmb and you are an asslicker. Give me one good reason why i would check your profile.

Just go to hell! I hope she gives you her number!


Maga!

If ur not here to lick Jade's ass den wot r u doing in her thread. Like i said b4 i didnt see were she mentioned u in her thread. U just jealous of her. Get a life

ba7man:
Oga, why you dey behave like T-billz naa? ...... is she your Tiwa Savage?

The trolling pain you pass the op sef.

Lol.. Bro d gal thread dey make nl interesting, and she seem matured. dont want any baga to dampen her spirit.