foolinlove:


Just don't fall in love in the first place. Best advice ever.

one cannot do without love.

naijaboiy:

one cannot do without love.

foolinlove:


That's what God's for.

How about human love?

naijaboiy:

How about human love?

foolinlove:


I'm no lesbian, I just hate men.

Lemme ask you this: someone gives you box of chocolates and you know that 90% are poisoned. Will you eat any of those chocolates since you don't know which ones are poisoned and which aren't?? I wouldn't. That's why I choose not to date anymore. 90% of men (probably more) are cheating a$$holes. I'm not going to let anyone cheat on me ever again.

Chrisrare:
Eyaah... Ur right about men being cheats.. But u'll still get married to one, whether u like it or not. So stop deceiving urself.

foolinlove:


That's just stupid. As my ex would say "love is an illusion"

Your ex told you that?

foolinlove:


I don't have to marry. No law says I have to marry. Imma be single for life sha.

naijaboiy:

Your ex told you that?

naijaboiy:

Your ex told you that?

2BB4CB3E:


you will still fall in love! cant run from it dear

Chrisrare:
Easier said dan done sis.. By d time u r castigated by society u go no how far. Nothing wrong in staying single, but ur reason for not getting married is lame.

2BB4CB3E:


that ur ex eh needs better cele flogging

i swear!

foolinlove:


I don't think it's lame that I don't wanna settle for a man who cheats me.

chronique:
Over time,I've seen most of you youngsters write about relationships and all that and to a large extent,most of you have flawed opinions about so many issues. Romantic relationships in the first place,should be between two adults or at least,an adult and a youngster. That way,there'd be someone to lead the way and possibly be the shock absorver when things go wrong. These days,we have too many people who do not understand that having fun and being in a serious relationship,are two different things altogether. Everone is trying to be smarter and outwit the other person and that's where the problem starts from. Way too many folks,get into relationships for the wrong reasons and aren't totally honest with their partners. Those who love sincerely are taken for granted and get hurt in the process and when they get out of it,they're looking for someone else to do payback time with. Now,I hear people say the power in a relationship lies with the one who loves less;do you have an idea how that sounds? When one gets hurt in a relationship and moves into another with this mindset,someone else will definitely get hurt. This circle continues like a merry go round and leaves the society with emotionally wretched folks,and also mean folks. When it's time to settle down,we all start looking for the good sweet soul,after contributing to the destruction of souls. Truth is,this scenario would keep repeating itself till the end of the world. If onl people could be truthful to others,honest and sincere;life would have been a better place to live in. The innocence of the world has been taken away,and life gets wilder on a daily basis. Sometimes,I wish I could go back to the era when the words "I love you" were said with all honesty and sense of responsibility. These days,I love you is akin to good morning;people say it without meaning it. Men who have side chicks and women who have side guys,have made love a curse but no matter what,I'd always believe that I'd someday,be with that person who'd be honest,loyal,truthful and sincere to me and the best way to finding such a person,is to first be all of what I want from that person. You can't give what you don't have. If we adopt this mindset and attitude to life,a lot can be corrected...

foolinlove:
I'm done wit dis. U so sure I will fall in love again but I don't see anyone lining up for me.
Maybe I will love, but dey don love me. #lifeisntfair#

chronique:
Over time,I've seen most of you youngsters write about relationships and all that and to a large extent,most of you have flawed opinions about so many issues. Romantic relationships in the first place,should be between two adults or at least,an adult and a youngster. That way,there'd be someone to lead the way and possibly be the shock absorver when things go wrong. These days,we have too many people who do not understand that having fun and being in a serious relationship,are two different things altogether. Everone is trying to be smarter and outwit the other person and that's where the problem starts from. Way too many folks,get into relationships for the wrong reasons and aren't totally honest with their partners. Those who love sincerely are taken for granted and get hurt in the process and when they get out of it,they're looking for someone else to do payback time with. Now,I hear people say the power in a relationship lies with the one who loves less;do you have an idea how that sounds? When one gets hurt in a relationship and moves into another with this mindset,someone else will definitely get hurt. This circle continues like a merry go round and leaves the society with emotionally wretched folks,and also mean folks. When it's time to settle down,we all start looking for the good sweet soul,after contributing to the destruction of souls. Truth is,this scenario would keep repeating itself till the end of the world. If onl people could be truthful to others,honest and sincere;life would have been a better place to live in. The innocence of the world has been taken away,and life gets wilder on a daily basis. Sometimes,I wish I could go back to the era when the words "I love you" were said with all honesty and sense of responsibility. These days,I love you is akin to good morning;people say it without meaning it. Men who have side chicks and women who have side guys,have made love a curse but no matter what,I'd always believe that I'd someday,be with that person who'd be honest,loyal,truthful and sincere to me and the best way to finding such a person,is to first be all of what I want from that person. You can't give what you don't have. If we adopt this mindset and attitude to life,a lot can be corrected...

2BB4CB3E:


babe is looking for boyfriend

but sorry boo i dont do nairaland girls
have seen like 5 in person and they are either very ugly or slim

Puresolutions:


Nice one @chronique

Help us ask the ladies why they date bois and then blame men for the failures..

Bois commits the offence

Men take the blame

Why settle for less,when there are men why settle for bois..

Too many ladies go into relationships before they are formed from it and when the slope tilts their balance we get the blame..

Which of una i do bad oya talk?

chronique:
Over time,I've seen most of you youngsters write about relationships and all that and to a large extent,most of you have flawed opinions about so many issues. Romantic relationships in the first place,should be between two adults or at least,an adult and a youngster. That way,there'd be someone to lead the way and possibly be the shock absorver when things go wrong. These days,we have too many people who do not understand that having fun and being in a serious relationship,are two different things altogether. Everone is trying to be smarter and outwit the other person and that's where the problem starts from. Way too many folks,get into relationships for the wrong reasons and aren't totally honest with their partners. Those who love sincerely are taken for granted and get hurt in the process and when they get out of it,they're looking for someone else to do payback time with. Now,I hear people say the power in a relationship lies with the one who loves less;do you have an idea how that sounds? When one gets hurt in a relationship and moves into another with this mindset,someone else will definitely get hurt. This circle continues like a merry go round and leaves the society with emotionally wretched folks,and also mean folks. When it's time to settle down,we all start looking for the good sweet soul,after contributing to the destruction of souls. Truth is,this scenario would keep repeating itself till the end of the world. If onl people could be truthful to others,honest and sincere;life would have been a better place to live in. The innocence of the world has been taken away,and life gets wilder on a daily basis. Sometimes,I wish I could go back to the era when the words "I love you" were said with all honesty and sense of responsibility. These days,I love you is akin to good morning;people say it without meaning it. Men who have side chicks and women who have side guys,have made love a curse but no matter what,I'd always believe that I'd someday,be with that person who'd be honest,loyal,truthful and sincere to me and the best way to finding such a person,is to first be all of what I want from that person. You can't give what you don't have. If we adopt this mindset and attitude to life,a lot can be corrected...

2BB4CB3E:


babe is looking for boyfriend

but sorry boo i dont do nairaland girls
have seen like 5 in person and they are either very ugly or slim

foolinlove:


Give it time, you will relate. Some a$$hole will break your heart, too. Unless you are smart enough to never fall in love.

Oliviaarims:


Falling in love isn't about being smart or not. I actually do like being in love. It's a jolly nice feeling.

foolinlove:


I'm not even from Africa dude. And I ain't looking. Not for you, not for any man. Ur all gross.

prettythicksme:

2BB4CB3E:


Me!!!! I nearly choked on my lunch! Lmao!
I know girls like you sha! Sharp mouth slim figure!

2BB4CB3E:


Boo boo has arrived lmao

prettythicksme:

Oliviaarims:


Falling in love isn't about being smart or not. I actually do like being in love. It's a jolly nice feeling.