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RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 11:10pm On May 13, 2018
TabletMan:
unfortunately I won't settle for love in marriage rather I will go for understanding and compatibility. you know how complex inter tribal marriage is , and I am not the emotional or lovey type. 75% of inter tribal marriage lacks focus and understanding.
Not true. sad How many inter-ethnic marriages have you surveyed? Five? Ten? Twenty? Or a hundred? huh I am a product of an inter-ethnic union, and so were my parents, and they are the most focused and understanding people I know. One common feature of inter-ethnic marriages is that both partners learn how to adapt to situations, families and events. In marriage what matters most is not just love, but respect, tolerance, sincerity, support, trust, loyalty and understanding. These are the things that foster compatibility, and not tribe. A person may come from your tribe, and yet may never understand you, but another person from a different tribe may be willing to die for you, in addition to understanding all the deep things that reside within your heart. undecided Communication is the key!
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:58pm On May 13, 2018
princfred:
Igbos are there because the warf there is more used by them. So now Yorubas not coming to east is no more about the people not being lovely but for economic reasons? Keep changing the post.
Stop using Wharf as your excuse. Even those among your townsmen, who have NO business at the wharf still run to Lagos. There is a wharf at Onne, why don't you use that one? huh
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:53pm On May 13, 2018
ZorGBUooeh:
Hahahahahaha! Nah..yorubas are the most hard working tribe in the whole universe..yu must be a joker. Guy when yu wake up tmorrw stroll to any bus stop near yu ad see how hardworking yur brothers are..They are working hard collecting owo mi da from lazy bus drivers.
If yu know how other tribes especially women curse them in public buses..Yu will be ashamed of yur hardworking men.
Bia, don't allow me to open your nyash here. sad So in all the motorparks in the Southeast, there are no touts that collect money from bus drivers? From Ogui Road to Ogbete Market in Enugu to Ewulobia park or Upper Iweka in Onitsha, there are no touts that ask the bus drivers for money? Or are those touts over there no longer Igbo, but they are from other ethnic groups?

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
princfred:
See what someone who accuses others of hate is writing? The hateful replies by many Yorubas to that assertion in my first post is already proof.
Mechie onu! Keep kwayiet dia! angry You chaps think you have the monopoly of insults and derogatory remarks, and when others pay you back in kind, you start crying that they hate you.

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:40pm On May 13, 2018
LivingFree:
I think you guys are all the same and in your attempts at taking them to 'task' you joined in and added to the problem by show casing your own petty propaganda at discrediting other ethnic groups. Basically, you are part of the problem.
I am not part of any problem. sad So some misguided guys can waltz in here, heap scorn on women from another ethnic group, and we should all hail them, clap for their clueless remarks or give them a pat on the back? Or what the heck are you saying? huh I debunked their propaganda with facts. If you can't see that, let me borrow you my contact lens, to read through all the posts made on this thread! shocked
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:30pm On May 13, 2018
Luxuryconsult:
though your point is still as lame AF buh kindly explain @ bolded. And if you guys can't tell your friends you are dating a yoruba gal, is it not because of the fear of rejection by them.. Cuz the hatred that has bn all over you all since birth. You know they'd condemn your action and advice you to go back home and find your local mate same way you people are disturbing mikel because of olga, have i not seen countless post by igbo people saying all sort to mikel to come back home and marry from his local town, caling olga all sort of f**kery names. We yorubas date whosoever we want, we care less about tribe or race. Have f**ed idoma, igbo and my tribe. And so we are. Buh that someone is jackpot, you are only deceiving yourself. And you people shouting Davido and Chioma upandan, first know Davido grew in Atlanta and a citizen of the U.S and he is an international artiste who could have find and date any girl any where all around the world, he found love in chioma just same way peter found love in Lola that he was/is ready to sacrifice his family to protect lola because he knows everything is all because of the hatred his people have towards all other tribes in Nigeria. All 2nd class infact 3rd class citizens in Nigeria were trained with hatred from infant.
Hehehe... I don talk say I no go laugh dis night, but...! cheesy shocked grin
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:27pm On May 13, 2018
vexing:
Congrat bro. I am also from Etsako East local government of Edo state and I am married to a beautiful Yoruba girl from Ondo state.
The best political union ever! cheesy

konkonbilo:
I have covered one before,bride Yoruba while the groom from taraba
Another beautiful political union! cheesy wink grin More grease to their elbows. Keep it coming... wink
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:14pm On May 13, 2018
Gratefulheart1:
Lol, I don't think igbos are like that. Yoruba men still womanizes more and like jumping from one woman to another compared to Igbos. The only fear with igbos is, yoruba parents think they may be harsh and maltreat their daughters. Yoruba are brought up to be peaceful, accommodating and humble. But an average igbo guy may look troublesome, that's the fear of parents.
Ehn, that is what you think. Please do more research. You will come to a different conclusion... undecided
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 10:13pm On May 13, 2018
ZorGBUooeh:
wetin come cause dem family beef?

Guy admit that yoruba men see igbo women as jackpot ad rest.
Jackpot of what? huh Biko, commot from my front. You people just say anything to make yourselves feel good.... sad

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:20pm On May 13, 2018
blazhykowskyi:
Who is chest beating about chioma? David is the one helping her. What does she bring to the table aside her pussy? You are just being funny.
Savage! cheesy See finishing! cool
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:19pm On May 13, 2018
princfred:
And you Yoruba lovers are showing it fully here. Lol. Also you guys earned the name Yoruba demons by being soo lovely. Lol grin
Please buy yourself a brain. sad You have forgotten that there are over 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria. Simply because I refuted your lies, you are now calling me a Yoruba man? Oya, provide evidence to show that Laudate is Yoruba. Include the name of his town, local govt area and traditional ruler. Every correct answer gets 30 marks.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:17pm On May 13, 2018
ZorGBUooeh:
LOls..when peter married lola his brothers were all ashamed of her na.. A wise man once said.Craze man no dey shame but na im family members dey shame for am.
If davido dumps chioma na im sabi, but he ad yu nairaland yorubas should stop chest beating about chioma like beggar wey dem dash 100 dollar.
You see...when deluded clowns like you decide to talk, everyone must laugh. So his brothers were ashamed of Lola, yet they helped him arrange the wedding and even attended it? Can you see how clueless you sound?Stop deceiving yourself. Nobody is beating chest over Chioma on NL. They are merely waiting for her to be discarded so they can sympathise with her....
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
princfred:
That disrespectfulness is also a function of loathing and inherent hate just as i wrote. More Yoruba guys marry igbos girls than the other way.
Bloody liar! You and your friends on this thread are harbingers of hatred!
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:09pm On May 13, 2018
LivingFree:
You have ruined a beautiful thread with your rants. Why can't you wish the bride and groom well and leave? I hope you have gotten it all out of your system and can now move on.
No, Ma. I only took those who were weaving tales of petty propaganda to discredit other ethnic groups, to task. I guess you did not see them insulting others, before you decided to latch on to my post?
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:02pm On May 13, 2018
blazhykowskyi:
Only that your "truth" is delusion borne out of ignorance. No Yoruba man has the time to hate Igbo. If yoruba hate igbos, you won't be this much in the south west. Igbos are born to hate. They hate everyone including within themselves. That's why you hardly see strangers in their land. This propaganda and victim mentality that people hate you is stale and no one is buying that crap. Igbos are fond of taunting others and disrespectful. The first coup and the resulting war is as a result of igbo hatred for northerners and taunting them after killing their leaders. People are aware of your antics.
Guy, you quoted me wrongly? huh I am not Igbo. Please go back and read my post again.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 7:00pm On May 13, 2018
ZorGBUooeh:
They are disrespectful ad rude, ad its among the numerous reasons why we are ashame when we marry one. Forget yur friends..why davido ad yoruba nairalanders dey see chioma as jackpot? but when anichebe date otedola by her g wagon no ibo man use am brag.
So in your view Davido speaks for all Yoruba men in Nigeria, not so? shocked Can you see just how shallow you are? When Peter Okoye of PSquare married Lola Omotayo as his wife, was he ashamed of her too? undecided Can you see how you have joined the bandwagon of insulting Yoruba women by claiming they are rude and disrespectful? I have met several aggressive and rude Igbo women, but would I ever say Igbo women in general are rude and aggressive? No. Because only people who are not enlightened do so.

When Davido eventually dumps Chioma like he dumped the other 3 women he dated before her, you can come and send her a message of condolence on NL.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:49pm On May 13, 2018
princfred:
If a Yoruba guys says many gbo guys and ladies hate fulani , Igbo's won't turn it into insult but for Yorubas they must use and slight opportunity to hate. You are just confirming that my first post.
Cut the crap. sad Read through all the posts on this thread before jumping to your misguided conclusion. Nobody is hating any other person, except your friends that take every opportunity to insult others, using their derogatory remarks. undecided You chaps are ridiculous. You think everyone who disagrees with you is Yoruba? There are over 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria! Free your mind. I never turned anything into an insult. Go back and read through the crap your friend spewed out here and you would see the responses I gave.

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:40pm On May 13, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Whatever makes u cum brah cool

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:39pm On May 13, 2018
ZorGBUooeh:
Guy calm down..Evry one knows that yu guys are very lazy..The epistle yu wrote cant change the fact.

Ibo men ad other tribes hardly marry yorubas,ad when they do they dont make noise about it becos they are ashamed of announcing it,but yu pipu see ibo ladies as jackpot ad american visa lottery becos of yur inferiority complex.
Don't be funny. sad What do you mean by 'you guys?' And if you and your fellow Igbo guys are ashamed of marrying Yoruba women, then why was your friend making noise on this thread about how disrespectful, or foul-mouthed Yoruba women are, and how they have 'unnatural loathing' for Igbo guys? What was the point of your friend's silly propaganda, on this thread, then? shocked I have several friends who are Yoruba, and none of them considers an Igbo girl as a jackpot or visa lottery, so stop deluding yourself.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:33pm On May 13, 2018
princfred:
You just summarized that guy and it almost matches with that my post. Also he is projecting what he is on Igbo's.
So it is ok, for you and your friend to say rubbbish about other ethnic groups, but it is wrong for others to refute your deceitful claims? This is not about the Igbos. It is about you and your friends deceitful lies and petty propaganda.

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Ur problems are many...but leme tell u the major ones

1) ur heart is heavy with hatred I can read ur comments here..the way u agree and d way u call people names.

2) u are hypocritical ..u blive lazy people are every where and Every tribe but in ur notion " all igbos date Yoruba gals to dump them later "

3) u are a big liar... U are a yorubaman but keeps denying u are not.

So I'm done here arguing with u till u man up and trash out this issues of urs.
No sir, everybody can see the hatred oozing from your end. Your post is filled with untruth, and riddled with deceit. angry

). Your heart is filled with disdain and evil towards the Yoruba women...so you had to weave tales of propaganda to discredit them, by claiming they lack respect and are foul-mouthed. You even claimed that their parents are petty and primitive. sad

2). You tried to hide the true intentions of your Igbo brothers....by lying that Yoruba women have 'unnatural loathing' for Igbo men, instead of telling the truth that Igbo men just like using and dumping Yoruba women, which is why such women avoid them. shocked

3). You are a big deceiver....which is why you are making lousy claims about percentages of Yoruba men who do not take care of their wives, without having conducted any survey, throughout the southwest. sad

4). You are a blatant, notorious liar.... who is making false claims about me, simply because I debunked your false propaganda. undecided Please provide solid, incontrovertible proof to show that Laudate is Yoruba. Include the name of his town, local government area and traditional ruler, while you are at it. Every correct answer gets 20 marks.

I have not called your people any foul names, neither have I given them any derogatory labels. All I did was point out a habit of their men. If it upsets you, too bad!

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:07pm On May 13, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
.. I dont know what propaganda im not a becoz im not a yoruba, they are people who know how to use propaganda...my argument is Based on experience. Hope u know this saying "experience is the best teacher"
So I dnt care abt the trash u are saying here brah cool
Thank God everyone can read, and they can see that you are the one recycling trash. angry Your propaganda is dead on arrival, because it is based on falsehood. So cut that crap about experience. You know nothing! shocked
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 6:00pm On May 13, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yep the unnatural floating came from bad advice from a parents.
And to correct ur misjudgment..
Igbomen font treat Yoruba women badly..
Igboen are known to be the best care takes of their wives.. I'm not saying this becoz I'm igbo. But its a fact most people know.
Even some Yoruba ladies that are not tribalistic known this.
There is a topic I'm looking for here.. I'm.yet to locate it when I do, I will use it to prove ur assertions wrong.

Ibknqo u are a Yoruba man so stop sounding like u are not
I am not Yoruba, but i have lived in Yoruba land for years and God willing I would marry from there, if I can.

Stop that your junk and chest beating about how Igbo men take care of their wives. sad I have told you before, the good, bad, ugly, lazy and downright useless, exist in every ethnic group, district and street. Every responsible Nigerian man, irrespective of his ethnic group, takes good care of his wife and family, not just an Igbo man.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:55pm On May 13, 2018
Simplybami:
Where did you get this absurd notion from? How many Yoruba girls have you dated to know for a fact that they loathe Igbo guys? This is really preposterous. For the fact that the few Yoruba girls you've approached turned you down, doesn't mean they automatically hate Igbo guys. Stop making it sound like Yoruba girls are tribalistic. Maybe you should check yourself though. They might not just be attracted to you, not necessarily that they hate Igbo guys.
What makes you think Yoruba guys hate Igbo guys? SMH. This is really funny though.
Don't mind the mugu. sad He has been recycling his petty propaganda on this thread for a while now....
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:53pm On May 13, 2018
Gratefulheart1:
You're partially right and partially wrong. Most ladies don't have tribal minds unlike we guys. Especially these days when everyone is mixed and educated in a civilised society. Love and compatibility is the important thing. The real issue is with parents. Some yoruba Parents have ethnic and tribal bias mind, if their daughter wants to marry another yoruba ethnic or entirely diff. tribe. Many Igbo guys would have loved to marry Yoruba girls, if not for parent problem. Yoruba men too love to marry Igbo girls too, but I think igbo parents still have more support for inter tribal marriage than some Yoruba parents.
Don't deceive yourself, sista. undecided Most Igbo guys just prefer to use Yoruba girls, then dump them before running back to their ethnic group to marry their fellow Igbo women. Yoruba parents are aware of this, so they try to protect their daughters from making a mistake by not allowing them to tread this path, without caution. Too many of such stories happened, when I was in the university. They just won't admit it.

Yoruba parents value their daughters, so they won't just dash her out immediately to just any guy that shows up. sad They will first refuse, until they have studied the guy, gotten info about him and done a check on his background. But such practices are even dying out, these days. Like my Yoruba neighbour always says: "You cannot give up something you value, in a cheap manner, without a struggle."
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:48pm On May 13, 2018
blazhykowskyi:
Stop talking nonsense. Akoko Edo is in Edo state. Ondo is a pure Yoruba state. Ijaw is minute and are found in some villages in the riverine south. Ebiras are not indegenous to Ondo state. It's like saying ibos too are found in Ondo. Akoko, Owo, Ondo, ikale are all dialects of Yoruba.
Don't mind that guy. sad There is a huge Akoko community in Ondo state. From Ikare-Akoko, to Oka-Akoko, Akungba-Akoko etc. Out of the present 18 Local Government Councils in Ondo State, the Akokos occupy four, from Akoko North-East, Akoko North-West, Akoko South-East and Akoko South-West. They are a pure Yoruba group.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
NIGHTMAREOO7:
U should know I made a mistake in the comment I made which input in quote.
And there is nothing like propaganda here.. All I said here are part of my experiences.

And the examples u gave are lame. " ur uncle paying some1 school fees" blq bla bla.
Ofcoz there will b exception..
But We are talking on greater percentage bases.
What dirty percentages? huh Did you conduct a survey among Yoruba communities from Lagos, to Ife, Abeokuta, Ibadan, Ilesha, Gbongan, Akure, Ondo, Ekiti, Itawure, Ile-Oluji, Shagamu, Okitipupa, Erin-Ile, Ogbomosho, Akungba-Akoko, Idanre, Owo, Ikire, Epe, Omu-aran etc before arriving at your conclusion or fake so-called percentages? Can you see how clueless you sound? huh You are recycling some petty propaganda that your people have been spinning since the days of the civil war, to discredit other ethnic groups, and you expect everyone to swallow it? Chai! shocked

RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Lols ur hypocrisy is out of this world.
U accused me of peddling lies.. But u are not peddling lies in ur own case abi.?

Let me tell u.. The reason igbomen dont marry Yoruba women apart from the yoruba parents bad advice is that Yoruba women have foul mouth the can insult for Africa which u know very well. An average Igbo man likes total respect. Which many Yoruba gals dont have.
Its even one of the reason some Yoruba men run away from them.

I have lived in Yoruba land for many years so I know what im talking about
I have also lived in Yoruba land for many years. sad I schooled, lived and worked in Yoruba land, and I am still there. undecided Igbo men do not marry Yoruba women, because they only use and dump such women who are not from their ethnic group. At the end, they run home to marry their fellow Igbo babes. Respect is key, in several Yoruba families, but do not think you can illtreat a Yoruba girl, and retain that respect. So don't even talk about respect, as the Yoruba people I know are custodians of respect, unlike your own guys. undecided

And if according to you, the Igbo man cannot marry a Yoruba girl because of the reasons that you earlier claimed, why were you lamenting that Yoruba women have unnatural loathing for Igbo men? Can you see why I called you a liar? huh
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:30pm On May 13, 2018
willibounce1:
As usual...igbos are always innocent. Everybody is always hating on them
Don't mind them. sad They keep using Yoruba girls as target practice, and they think those girls would not wise up to their antics. undecided Now that Yoruba girls and their families, know that Igbo guys will usually dump them to go and marry their fellow Igbo babes, those Yoruba girls have decided to avoid them, instead of becoming sitting ducks and getting their hearts broken. And one Igbo boy is now here lamenting about how Yoruba girls loathe them, instead of checking the antecedents of his brothers in this regard. Nansense! sad
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate:
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Thats on rare cases? Yoruba women are mostly fed by their women.. Thats why they like to marry igbonwomen becoz they sabi hussle die.
And also the person I'm talking about is a sister to a friend of mine , not my own sister.
Plus other experiences I know.

My sister can't marry a Yoruba man o.
U guys subject them to hussling life.
You do not even know what you are saying. sad Look at what you said: "Yoruba women are mostly fed by their women...." Which women? huh This is the same petty propaganda and rubbbish fallacy, that your people have been recycling for years. Two of my cousin's female friends are married to Yoruba men. One of them paid school fees of my cousin's younger brother in the UK. This same man has taken care of his wife and her family till date, over the past 12 years. He is a pure Yoruba man...and to think she did not even want to marry him initially, because she wasn't too keen on him. The second Yoruba guy who married my second cousin is also highly responsible, and takes great care of his wife and kids. Even when my cousin decided to go into private business, he didn't blink and supported her in cash and kind. I have seen first hand how far Yoruba men can go in taking care of their families. So stop saying what you do not know. You are too old to be spreading petty propaganda, recycled from civil war period... undecided

Your sister can marry from the moon. Nobody cares.... sad Na una sabi.
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:11pm On May 13, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
What tricks.l, I have dated 2 yoruba gals the last one we broke few months ago.. So what tricks u talking about undecided
Go back and read my previous posts. sad You guys date the Yoruba girls to while away the time, and have fun. undecided Many of you are not interested in marrying them. When you are ready to marry, you run back to your SE region or your hometown to marry your fellow Igbo girls. The Yoruba girls are now wiser, and so are their parents. They understand these tricks of yours,' so they avoid guys like you....
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Yoruba: Traditional & White Wedding Photos by laudate: 5:08pm On May 13, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
U dnt know what u ate saying..
Most women I kniw married to Yorubmen men are the ones fending for their families.

My friends sister recently broke up with a Yoruba guy he is dating..
Reasons being that the guy almost wana turn her to house gal expect her to come wash his clothes and cook for him always.. Despite the tact she go ves him money.

If a Yoruba guy is taking care of u.. He just wana chop the punny and.dump u at some point.. The reason for the "Yoruba demon" tag.
I still wonder why some gals still fall prey to this.
The good, bad, lazy and ugly exist in every tribe and district. sad So stop peddling your peculiar brand of propaganda. undecided I have met Igbo men that do not take care of their wives, as well as Idoma, Itsekiri, Nupe, ika, etc that do not take care of their wives. I have also met those who do. The landlord of my estate association is a Yoruba man who takes exquisite care of his wife and kids. He bought her a Mercedes jeep 350 last Easter, and they go abroad every summer. He owns a construction firm. He even adopted 2 more kids from an orphanage, and is treating them like his own. Your friend's sister was unlucky to get involved a myopic wastrel, who happened to come from another ethnic group. How come she did not notice his lazy ways early enough when she was dating him, and why didn't she call off the relationship then? huh

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