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TabletMan:Not true. How many inter-ethnic marriages have you surveyed? Five? Ten? Twenty? Or a hundred? I am a product of an inter-ethnic union, and so were my parents, and they are the most focused and understanding people I know. One common feature of inter-ethnic marriages is that both partners learn how to adapt to situations, families and events. In marriage what matters most is not just love, but respect, tolerance, sincerity, support, trust, loyalty and understanding. These are the things that foster compatibility, and not tribe. A person may come from your tribe, and yet may never understand you, but another person from a different tribe may be willing to die for you, in addition to understanding all the deep things that reside within your heart. Communication is the key! |
princfred:Stop using Wharf as your excuse. Even those among your townsmen, who have NO business at the wharf still run to Lagos. There is a wharf at Onne, why don't you use that one? ![]() |
ZorGBUooeh:Bia, don't allow me to open your nyash here. So in all the motorparks in the Southeast, there are no touts that collect money from bus drivers? From Ogui Road to Ogbete Market in Enugu to Ewulobia park or Upper Iweka in Onitsha, there are no touts that ask the bus drivers for money? Or are those touts over there no longer Igbo, but they are from other ethnic groups?
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princfred:Mechie onu! Keep kwayiet dia! You chaps think you have the monopoly of insults and derogatory remarks, and when others pay you back in kind, you start crying that they hate you.
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LivingFree:I am not part of any problem. So some misguided guys can waltz in here, heap scorn on women from another ethnic group, and we should all hail them, clap for their clueless remarks or give them a pat on the back? Or what the heck are you saying? I debunked their propaganda with facts. If you can't see that, let me borrow you my contact lens, to read through all the posts made on this thread! |
Luxuryconsult:Hehehe... I don talk say I no go laugh dis night, but...! ![]() |
vexing:The best political union ever! ![]() konkonbilo:Another beautiful political union! More grease to their elbows. Keep it coming... ![]() |
Gratefulheart1:Ehn, that is what you think. Please do more research. You will come to a different conclusion... ![]() |
ZorGBUooeh:Jackpot of what? Biko, commot from my front. You people just say anything to make yourselves feel good.... ![]()
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blazhykowskyi:Savage! See finishing! ![]() |
princfred:Please buy yourself a brain. You have forgotten that there are over 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria. Simply because I refuted your lies, you are now calling me a Yoruba man? Oya, provide evidence to show that Laudate is Yoruba. Include the name of his town, local govt area and traditional ruler. Every correct answer gets 30 marks. |
ZorGBUooeh:You see...when deluded clowns like you decide to talk, everyone must laugh. So his brothers were ashamed of Lola, yet they helped him arrange the wedding and even attended it? Can you see how clueless you sound?Stop deceiving yourself. Nobody is beating chest over Chioma on NL. They are merely waiting for her to be discarded so they can sympathise with her.... |
princfred:Bloody liar! You and your friends on this thread are harbingers of hatred! |
LivingFree:No, Ma. I only took those who were weaving tales of petty propaganda to discredit other ethnic groups, to task. I guess you did not see them insulting others, before you decided to latch on to my post? |
blazhykowskyi:Guy, you quoted me wrongly? I am not Igbo. Please go back and read my post again. |
ZorGBUooeh:So in your view Davido speaks for all Yoruba men in Nigeria, not so? Can you see how you have joined the bandwagon of insulting Yoruba women by claiming they are rude and disrespectful? I have met several aggressive and rude Igbo women, but would I ever say Igbo women in general are rude and aggressive? No. Because only people who are not enlightened do so.When Davido eventually dumps Chioma like he dumped the other 3 women he dated before her, you can come and send her a message of condolence on NL. |
princfred:Cut the crap. Read through all the posts on this thread before jumping to your misguided conclusion. Nobody is hating any other person, except your friends that take every opportunity to insult others, using their derogatory remarks. You chaps are ridiculous. You think everyone who disagrees with you is Yoruba? There are over 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria! Free your mind. I never turned anything into an insult. Go back and read through the crap your friend spewed out here and you would see the responses I gave.
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NIGHTMAREOO7:
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ZorGBUooeh:Don't be funny. What do you mean by 'you guys?' And if you and your fellow Igbo guys are ashamed of marrying Yoruba women, then why was your friend making noise on this thread about how disrespectful, or foul-mouthed Yoruba women are, and how they have 'unnatural loathing' for Igbo guys? What was the point of your friend's silly propaganda, on this thread, then? |
princfred:So it is ok, for you and your friend to say rubbbish about other ethnic groups, but it is wrong for others to refute your deceitful claims? This is not about the Igbos. It is about you and your friends deceitful lies and petty propaganda.
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NIGHTMAREOO7:No sir, everybody can see the hatred oozing from your end. Your post is filled with untruth, and riddled with deceit. ![]() ). Your heart is filled with disdain and evil towards the Yoruba women...so you had to weave tales of propaganda to discredit them, by claiming they lack respect and are foul-mouthed. You even claimed that their parents are petty and primitive. ![]() 2). You tried to hide the true intentions of your Igbo brothers....by lying that Yoruba women have 'unnatural loathing' for Igbo men, instead of telling the truth that Igbo men just like using and dumping Yoruba women, which is why such women avoid them. 3). You are a big deceiver....which is why you are making lousy claims about percentages of Yoruba men who do not take care of their wives, without having conducted any survey, throughout the southwest. ![]() 4). You are a blatant, notorious liar.... who is making false claims about me, simply because I debunked your false propaganda. Please provide solid, incontrovertible proof to show that Laudate is Yoruba. Include the name of his town, local government area and traditional ruler, while you are at it. Every correct answer gets 20 marks.I have not called your people any foul names, neither have I given them any derogatory labels. All I did was point out a habit of their men. If it upsets you, too bad!
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NIGHTMAREOO7:Thank God everyone can read, and they can see that you are the one recycling trash. Your propaganda is dead on arrival, because it is based on falsehood. So cut that crap about experience. You know nothing! |
NIGHTMAREOO7:I am not Yoruba, but i have lived in Yoruba land for years and God willing I would marry from there, if I can. Stop that your junk and chest beating about how Igbo men take care of their wives. I have told you before, the good, bad, ugly, lazy and downright useless, exist in every ethnic group, district and street. Every responsible Nigerian man, irrespective of his ethnic group, takes good care of his wife and family, not just an Igbo man. |
Simplybami:Don't mind the mugu. He has been recycling his petty propaganda on this thread for a while now.... |
Gratefulheart1:Don't deceive yourself, sista. Most Igbo guys just prefer to use Yoruba girls, then dump them before running back to their ethnic group to marry their fellow Igbo women. Yoruba parents are aware of this, so they try to protect their daughters from making a mistake by not allowing them to tread this path, without caution. Too many of such stories happened, when I was in the university. They just won't admit it.Yoruba parents value their daughters, so they won't just dash her out immediately to just any guy that shows up. They will first refuse, until they have studied the guy, gotten info about him and done a check on his background. But such practices are even dying out, these days. Like my Yoruba neighbour always says: "You cannot give up something you value, in a cheap manner, without a struggle." |
blazhykowskyi:Don't mind that guy. There is a huge Akoko community in Ondo state. From Ikare-Akoko, to Oka-Akoko, Akungba-Akoko etc. Out of the present 18 Local Government Councils in Ondo State, the Akokos occupy four, from Akoko North-East, Akoko North-West, Akoko South-East and Akoko South-West. They are a pure Yoruba group. |
NIGHTMAREOO7:What dirty percentages? Did you conduct a survey among Yoruba communities from Lagos, to Ife, Abeokuta, Ibadan, Ilesha, Gbongan, Akure, Ondo, Ekiti, Itawure, Ile-Oluji, Shagamu, Okitipupa, Erin-Ile, Ogbomosho, Akungba-Akoko, Idanre, Owo, Ikire, Epe, Omu-aran etc before arriving at your conclusion or fake so-called percentages? Can you see how clueless you sound? You are recycling some petty propaganda that your people have been spinning since the days of the civil war, to discredit other ethnic groups, and you expect everyone to swallow it? Chai!
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NIGHTMAREOO7:I have also lived in Yoruba land for many years. I schooled, lived and worked in Yoruba land, and I am still there. Igbo men do not marry Yoruba women, because they only use and dump such women who are not from their ethnic group. At the end, they run home to marry their fellow Igbo babes. Respect is key, in several Yoruba families, but do not think you can illtreat a Yoruba girl, and retain that respect. So don't even talk about respect, as the Yoruba people I know are custodians of respect, unlike your own guys. ![]() And if according to you, the Igbo man cannot marry a Yoruba girl because of the reasons that you earlier claimed, why were you lamenting that Yoruba women have unnatural loathing for Igbo men? Can you see why I called you a liar? ![]() |
willibounce1:Don't mind them. They keep using Yoruba girls as target practice, and they think those girls would not wise up to their antics. Now that Yoruba girls and their families, know that Igbo guys will usually dump them to go and marry their fellow Igbo babes, those Yoruba girls have decided to avoid them, instead of becoming sitting ducks and getting their hearts broken. And one Igbo boy is now here lamenting about how Yoruba girls loathe them, instead of checking the antecedents of his brothers in this regard. Nansense! ![]() |
NIGHTMAREOO7:You do not even know what you are saying. Look at what you said: "Yoruba women are mostly fed by their women...." Which women? This is the same petty propaganda and rubbbish fallacy, that your people have been recycling for years. Two of my cousin's female friends are married to Yoruba men. One of them paid school fees of my cousin's younger brother in the UK. This same man has taken care of his wife and her family till date, over the past 12 years. He is a pure Yoruba man...and to think she did not even want to marry him initially, because she wasn't too keen on him. The second Yoruba guy who married my second cousin is also highly responsible, and takes great care of his wife and kids. Even when my cousin decided to go into private business, he didn't blink and supported her in cash and kind. I have seen first hand how far Yoruba men can go in taking care of their families. So stop saying what you do not know. You are too old to be spreading petty propaganda, recycled from civil war period... ![]() Your sister can marry from the moon. Nobody cares.... Na una sabi. |
NIGHTMAREOO7:Go back and read my previous posts. You guys date the Yoruba girls to while away the time, and have fun. Many of you are not interested in marrying them. When you are ready to marry, you run back to your SE region or your hometown to marry your fellow Igbo girls. The Yoruba girls are now wiser, and so are their parents. They understand these tricks of yours,' so they avoid guys like you.... |
NIGHTMAREOO7:The good, bad, lazy and ugly exist in every tribe and district. So stop peddling your peculiar brand of propaganda. I have met Igbo men that do not take care of their wives, as well as Idoma, Itsekiri, Nupe, ika, etc that do not take care of their wives. I have also met those who do. The landlord of my estate association is a Yoruba man who takes exquisite care of his wife and kids. He bought her a Mercedes jeep 350 last Easter, and they go abroad every summer. He owns a construction firm. He even adopted 2 more kids from an orphanage, and is treating them like his own. Your friend's sister was unlucky to get involved a myopic wastrel, who happened to come from another ethnic group. How come she did not notice his lazy ways early enough when she was dating him, and why didn't she call off the relationship then? ![]() |
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How many inter-ethnic marriages have you surveyed? Five? Ten? Twenty? Or a hundred?
I am a product of an inter-ethnic union, and so were my parents, and they are the most focused and understanding people I know. One common feature of inter-ethnic marriages is that both partners learn how to adapt to situations, families and events. In marriage what matters most is not just love, but respect, tolerance, sincerity, support, trust, loyalty and understanding. These are the things that foster compatibility, and not tribe. A person may come from your tribe, and yet may never understand you, but another person from a different tribe may be willing to die for you, in addition to understanding all the deep things that reside within your heart.
Communication is the key!
You chaps think you have the monopoly of insults and derogatory remarks, and when others pay you back in kind, you start crying that they hate you.

