smartmom:
This is so so beautiful and a needed lesson for ALL parents rich or poor to to teach our offspring. Sharing this in the www. nigerianparentsforum.com.

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REMMEI:
Why is it that people in this part of the world keeps undermining PSYCHOLOGY..?

Hmmmm..... For where! No be Nija we dey. Dey don't know d usefulness at all. If u tell a person dat u r a psychologist d next question is Oya temme what am thinking! Lolzzz Nija pple I hail oo....

Where is her wedding band?

Aisha, I quite understand d points u trying to bring out. Well, as a matter of fact my self as d poster is neither married nor have a child but dis post is to bring out d family values in our children. Alright talking on d hardship painting dat was given to d woman in my story, d suppose man there is someone in his 20s if not 30s even. Some decades ago ao many women r educated or exposed? How many of dem focus on their own body as it is dis days?etc those days most women lived for their children so don't feel dis is a biased or sentimental based post.
But in all I will want u to read and digest d 2nd to d last and d last paragraph cos dat d moral that I want us all to gain from my post.
TGIF.......Have a great weekend!

One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview.

The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no".

" Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"

"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied.

" Where did your mother work?"

"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.”

The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

" Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"

"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future.

After cleaning his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when he asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

“I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, I would not be who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own. And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one’s family.

The director said, "This is what I am looking for in a manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.”

“You are hired.”

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop an "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?

You can let your child live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your child learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

wakacome:
dem no teach you spelling for school?

Wakacome abeg help me ask! He dey form Wole Soyinka hahahaha!

Ephemmm:
The most astonishing thing about women to me is that they will all be gisting as if they were born to the world in group at the same minutes whenever they see themselves. But they will start persecuting themselves after departed.

Things like - the clothes she wears, her new hairdo, her shoes, her homes, her make up, her glasses etc will be the subject of persecution immediately they departed.

According to anonymous:


1. Female dogs become so wicked when they give birth.

2. Female fowls chase people when they hatch.

3. Male lions don't eat humans no matter how hungry they are, but female lions do tear people apart.

4. Females human beings spend average 28years of their lives asking for recharge cards from males....hmmmm abeg.ooo

5. And the most annoying one is it is the female mosquitoes that causes MALARIA.


Females get wahala, walahi.

Haba..... Dis guy research well ooo. But remember without us there's no u!
Females rock!!!

As a Lady I support her 100%...... She's very right. Nobody holy pass but pls let's be our sister's keeper. Cos na turn by turn oooo.

kandiikane:
This chick
www.nairaland.com/attachments/1793754_20141018125855_jpeg2eb960a3c18ba87a6ba11cfb64fd5113

Possibly Beverly naya too but cant see anything.

Sowiie will go for Toolz. Odas look anorexic.... Plus size ladies rock!!! Proud FAT (Fabulous Attractive and Thick) babes.....

Geenet:
Sexy girl... Getting to menopause