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TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 10 by layefa123(f): 2:36pm On Feb 22, 2021
Hi everyone....please how do I address my transcript request to WES. Do they need the hard copy etc....please anyone who had done so kindly advice me....thanks
CelebritiesRe: Kudirat Ogunro: I Want My Husband To Have Side Chicks by layefa123(f): 1:15pm On Jul 12, 2019
Abegi....she get her own package wey she wan run
Nairaland GeneralRe: Coza Pastor Rapes Busola! Nigerian Journalist Blows Hot, Says "Busola, Are You.. by layefa123(f): 4:12pm On Jun 28, 2019
It's a sad fact,but I've come to realise that alot of men are insensitive to rape. Can you imagine someone asking such a senseless question...no wonder alot of rape victims find it hard to come out. I'll advise that journalist to do a brief study/research on the power of shame and its victims....
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by layefa123(f): 10:38pm On Jun 16, 2019
Good evening sir . May God continue to strengthen you. Please what does it mean when someone gives you money in the dream. . The first person gave me 1k,while I was still trying to count how much the other person gave me before I woke up. I know the person who gave me 1k physically
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by layefa123(f): 11:34am On Jun 13, 2019
Good morning. Please what does it mean when you dream that a friends wedding was postponed because a burial was being held that day.
FamilyRe: What’s Your Mum’s Favorite Statement When Angry? by layefa123(f): 2:46pm On Jun 02, 2019
Okezedan:
hello layefa, I hope you are having a good day?? Wanna be your friend if you don't mind.
Hi...just seeing your chat. Tnx
FamilyRe: What’s Your Mum’s Favorite Statement When Angry? by layefa123(f): 2:42pm On Jun 02, 2019
nicepoker101:
your cup has no bottom. That's why e never full yet. grin
Hehehe
FamilyRe: What’s Your Mum’s Favorite Statement When Angry? by layefa123(f): 8:42pm On May 27, 2019
Your cup will soon be full...lolz....d cup still neva full till today
FamilyRe: Which Of These Childhood Treats Did You Miss? by layefa123(f): 1:32pm On May 11, 2019
Lemme confess.... I had a goody goody addiction. Back then when I was in jss1,and started having small money, I would buy N50 worth, hide so no one would beg me and chew them.... Also had a fanta/mirinda addiction....finally outgrew it when I went to boarding house.
CelebritiesRe: Girlfriend Hospitalized After Finding Out Her Boyfriend Is Getting Married by layefa123(f): 8:23pm On Apr 06, 2019
She should be happy....she just dodged a bullet.
CelebritiesRe: Olakunle Fawole 'Abounce' Checks Out Yvonne Jegede's Backside In Playful Photos by layefa123(f): 1:02pm On Mar 10, 2019
So sad that a year and half later,they're divorced......who would've thot�
FamilyRe: I Need Help by layefa123(op): 12:13pm On Mar 10, 2019
Tnx guitarlife....ure funny sha�
FamilyRe: I Need Help by layefa123(op): 12:12pm On Mar 10, 2019
sisisioge:
Omoge. Whew!

The craziest thing a woman can do to herself is to ruin her own self esteem and happiness! A woman with low self esteem mostly gets used like a doormat while the unhappy woman mostly gets avoided. Biko, go and change your wardrobe, hairs and the crowd you move with...you've got to revamp! No woman should undermine herself! We are all incredible beautiful!

About the bobo...forget him. There are so many better dudes out there.

Concerning the acne, biko start reading online materials on how to clear it or find any of the natural soap babes on IG to work with. You will be fine. Cheers.
Mehn If only u know all I have done because of this acne. So many products,chemical peels,facials and bla bla,they work for like 2weeks but nothing has been able to suppress the breakouts. I was recently able to get a pharm who sells accutane and started a dose.I'm praying it works so i can then focus on treating my scars. Tnx for ur words
FamilyRe: I Need Help by layefa123(op): 12:02pm On Mar 10, 2019
[/quote]Tnx for ur advice. Recently started getting self help books plus my bible..will also start working on my goals(including learning to face a crowd,plus going back for my second degree) I'm hopeful all this will help.
FamilyRe: I Need Help by layefa123(op): 2:37am On Mar 09, 2019
Thanks for the advice. Really,only I can help myself at this point. Sometimes I get over it briefly and after a while the whole feeling just comes back again. I'll keep trying my best tho. Tnx
FamilyI Need Help by layefa123(op): 12:42pm On Mar 08, 2019
Good day everyone. I have a long epistle to type here. It's the way I feel and I cant really say it out to anyone.All I really just need is good and honest advice that works
For about a year plus, I was in a relationship with someone. In the end,it couldn't work out because of issues from my parents. He eventually gave in to the people who had been pointing him in the direction of someone else who liked him and trust me she is beautiful. I was heartbroken and understood that he needed to move on but the whole saga did something to my self esteem. I felt he moved on so fast.(not like he owed me that tho).I shamefully begged severally but I always got a no and I think that was what got to my self esteem the most. Started feeling like I wasn't worth waiting for. I've always had acne my whole life and it affected my self esteem at some point which I overcame. The babe in question has an unbelievably smooth face and it made me low.(cos I remembered how he talked about my face sometimes). I just kept imagining how he must have taken time to compare us before deciding to move on. I always feel like no matter what,I'll never be as beautiful as her and so I'm a loser in the things that really matter(keeping a man). I used to be this carefree babe and was happy being focused,aspiring, Godly and humble,but now all those things dont seem to matter anymore. I get intimidated easily and feel like I cant achieve anything anymore. I feel this heavy sense of shame like a looser and cant be anyones choice. Sometimes I cant even look on the mirror cos I feel so ugly and worthless. I eventually summoned the strength and blocked him on all platforms where we can communicate and he told some ppl I was keeping malice with him and he wants to be friends.They all tell me "ure a Christian and that's not how to handle such issues".dont worry ull get over it"...sometimes their reactions make me feel ashamed of feeling the way I feel.. trying to get a shrink who can assist me. Haven't met the right one yet.....but this feeling is killing me. Its stealing my joy. Sometimes I try to be happy,I remember all this and get depressed again. Even for those who have asked me out,I just feel deep down,they're not really Interested in me,they probably just want a decent wife and will port once a better option comes up.....thought I'd be over these feelings by now,but they keep coming back....really dont know how to handle them

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