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RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:26pm On Apr 03, 2016
just2okworld:
thanks for this insight
Glad i could help wink
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:21pm On Apr 03, 2016
OlujobaSamuel:
I wish to, but not having financial capacity due to some other things for now and the time also. with the foreign exchange crisis, I might need close to 1.5m to do that. But I try to satisfy her is other ways I can, and we do exchange gift to celebrate memorable moments.
Aww dats sweet enough
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:33am On Apr 03, 2016
mart2k:
Rubbish
Thank you sir
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:32am On Apr 03, 2016
oluangelkay:
Layla you are totally correct. Mine has been 4yrs now. We do have problems but whenever the problems arise, always try to sort things out immediately. It helps a lot. And b very romantic, tease him with romantic words, tell him how much u miss him. Whenever am cooking delicious meal, I always inform him, telling him what he is missing at home. And when he complains about wanting to eat my good. The answer will always be, if u really want to eat,then come back home. Always remind him what he is missing at home. And also don't complain too much. Encourage him to always do well.
Cool smiley
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:19am On Apr 03, 2016
OlujobaSamuel:
thanks for this.
I initially thought am too emotional or weird because this is exactly the way I relate with my lady. you gave a perfect description of my relationship, just that we've not been able to visit each other, but we do others.
Happy for you...its not easy. Put the visit on your to do list smiley
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:17am On Apr 03, 2016
Ugojames:
If only my ex knew some of these things we would pea ahoy still be together
Did you try on your part? If you did, there's a chance she would have reciprocated
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 10:37am On Apr 03, 2016
pweetychyka:
Thanks lovie but den I 'm not d OP!
Only asked should in a case I meet someone who needs ma advice on such

Cc: Layla129
Alright dear...spread the word wink
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 7:01am On Apr 03, 2016
Krismart:
I love this. Cos most ladies don't give themselves good advice when it comes to relationships. Some would tell her to forget d guy as he would be somewhere chilling with another girl and all sort of that. But this girl just gave a sincere advice. Nice one
Thanks *taking a bow* wink
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 6:59am On Apr 03, 2016
fartkay:
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As if u know what's on my mind. Am in it too right now. We spend at least two hours on day time call n at least three hours midnight call. We do all that it takes to get closer dou wide apart. Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing.
Lol grin
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 6:03am On Apr 03, 2016
Josephamstrong1:
Sm1 said here, outta sight is outta mind.
R u dz crass? wat happens to absence makes d hrt grow fonder. Read my friend, read!
sm1 nided advice on hw to salvage a distance relatnshp and u're here blabbing coz u had a failed one or dat u ain't faithful coz of ya 6G conji level.
@Fulanigal, Trust, remove pride, stay humble and faithful. see, wen u're... show it. men don't joke wt Fidel women. even if he plays around wtout u kwin, he'll stl turn around. Communication, i said communication. discus and talk abt evrytn. Create d tym and plz, learn to say...I'M SORRY.
weda u're wrong or not. settle ya ish within 2days, don't use pride and don't let it linger. Then b busy too buh don't sleep off any day wtout chatting or callin' to say I LUV U.
Finally, kw ya man. Use ya instinct, ya God given to kw if dz guy is ryt for me, b sensitive enuf to kw him each tym u guys r together. b a fast learner.
Anybody can b in distance relationship... we dnt kw whr life is takin' us. u'll undastnd better wen u marry.

Layla129 has said it all....plz thread close!
Sure. It can't always go wrong for everyone
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 1:14am On Apr 03, 2016
TonyeBarcanista:
Your choice my dear... grin




are you in a LD relationship?
Yeah, what can a sister do grin
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 1:06am On Apr 03, 2016
Bluezy13:
She is asking for a way to intensify their romance regarding the long distance....





But comments above...
Seems they reason with their anus.




And here comes Layla with some sense.
Lol, thanks hunnae
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:58am On Apr 03, 2016
TonyeBarcanista:
You are as beautiful as your intellect. I owe you a drink ma'am
Yipee! Can't wait. Pls make it hollandia yoghurt grin...thank you
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:54am On Apr 03, 2016
wiringdpt:
Thanks
You're welcome
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:53am On Apr 03, 2016
Chommieblaq:
Tanx Dear!


Ur advice will be of great help to her.
Glad i could help kiss
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:52am On Apr 03, 2016
Kelvin125:
if you are not an Igbo, try to marry one. Check my signature
Lol, thanks anyway
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:37am On Apr 03, 2016
nwanwaoge:
. I respect ur ideas...nice 1
Thank you dear kiss
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:36am On Apr 03, 2016
Kelvin125:
this my sister must be an Igbo because only Igbos have sense like this. The rest are packets of salt
So, ayam a packet of salt?? cry
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:34am On Apr 03, 2016
Chommieblaq:
Exactly ma dear.

I don't even feel the distance, we talk like we are together, play same way, talk naughty, no matter how much we fight, we always find a balance, and finally transparency is utmost important, trust is one of the things that kills long distance relationship, so try and be transparent to him.
Best of luck.
Communication is key. Keep it up sis
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:33am On Apr 03, 2016
MzThormi:
This is just my bf and I. It will surely work.
wink
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:32am On Apr 03, 2016
Stanleywaxy:
Big thumbs up Layla ... This is just 100% key ....
Should I fall in love ever again ... You'll be my tutor cheesy
I'll be here darling, thanks grin
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:31am On Apr 03, 2016
pweetychyka:
Very informative tips!
It really will go a long way! But then wat if d guy in question doesn't key into d video call or chat thing?
Then, how do u guys communicate? He can't be too busy to talk to you for even 15mins a day now. Fine, the video calls can be fixed somehow not the chats...communication is what holds the relationship dear.
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:27am On Apr 03, 2016
Chinatownm:
ur head is owambe, sorry ur head is dia
All join, thank u grin
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:26am On Apr 03, 2016
joshing:
Walahi I wan date u...dt ur final point is da bomb..thumbs up
Lol, thanks dear
RomanceRe: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 9:59pm On Apr 02, 2016
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going.
1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels.

2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him.

3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider.

4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that.

5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things.
We know each other's schedule for the whole day

6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do tongue
Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions.

These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis
RomanceRe: 10 Reasons Why I Don't Indulge In Indiscriminate Sex. by layla129(f): 8:40pm On Apr 02, 2016
Its so refreshing to know some guys still think with their brains not deeks. Welldone
But i don't agree with number 3. What if you're faithful and she's not?
RomanceRe: Question Of The Day by layla129(f): 8:20pm On Apr 02, 2016
BoiledHead:
Magun is fake myth joor... Yoruba myth
Lol, that stuff is not fake hunnay. Its effin real
RomanceRe: We Had MouthAction And She Finds It Hard To Close Her Mouth. by layla129(f): 8:19pm On Apr 02, 2016
She can't swallow saliva? Her mouth should be full of saliva by now *holds laugh* ...sorry bro
RomanceRe: Who Wan Marry These Girls ? by layla129(f): 8:06pm On Apr 02, 2016
If i were a boy, i would love me a virgin tongue
RomanceRe: Say No To HOMOPHOBIA by layla129(f): 7:50pm On Apr 02, 2016
YES!! TO HOMOPHOBIA
RomanceRe: If You Love Me, Shave My Kittykat. by layla129(f): 6:04pm On Apr 02, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
lol. You have any 'Olurogba' brother? Omo iya Jide tongue tongue tongue


Still trying to remember your name
No. Where?
RomanceRe: If You Love Me, Shave My Kittykat. by layla129(f): 3:12pm On Apr 02, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
now I think I know you. Lol



That's why I asked.
Really? How is that?

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