Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:26pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:21pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
OlujobaSamuel: I wish to, but not having financial capacity due to some other things for now and the time also. with the foreign exchange crisis, I might need close to 1.5m to do that. But I try to satisfy her is other ways I can, and we do exchange gift to celebrate memorable moments. Aww dats sweet enough |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:33am On Apr 03, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:32am On Apr 03, 2016 |
oluangelkay: Layla you are totally correct. Mine has been 4yrs now. We do have problems but whenever the problems arise, always try to sort things out immediately. It helps a lot. And b very romantic, tease him with romantic words, tell him how much u miss him. Whenever am cooking delicious meal, I always inform him, telling him what he is missing at home. And when he complains about wanting to eat my good. The answer will always be, if u really want to eat,then come back home. Always remind him what he is missing at home. And also don't complain too much. Encourage him to always do well. Cool  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:19am On Apr 03, 2016 |
OlujobaSamuel: thanks for this. I initially thought am too emotional or weird because this is exactly the way I relate with my lady. you gave a perfect description of my relationship, just that we've not been able to visit each other, but we do others. Happy for you...its not easy. Put the visit on your to do list  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 11:17am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Ugojames: If only my ex knew some of these things we would pea ahoy still be together Did you try on your part? If you did, there's a chance she would have reciprocated |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 10:37am On Apr 03, 2016 |
pweetychyka: Thanks lovie but den I 'm not d OP! Only asked should in a case I meet someone who needs ma advice on such
Cc: Layla129 Alright dear...spread the word  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 7:01am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Krismart: I love this. Cos most ladies don't give themselves good advice when it comes to relationships. Some would tell her to forget d guy as he would be somewhere chilling with another girl and all sort of that. But this girl just gave a sincere advice. Nice one Thanks *taking a bow*  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 6:59am On Apr 03, 2016 |
fartkay: .
As if u know what's on my mind. Am in it too right now. We spend at least two hours on day time call n at least three hours midnight call. We do all that it takes to get closer dou wide apart. Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing. Lol  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 6:03am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Josephamstrong1: Sm1 said here, outta sight is outta mind. R u dz crass? wat happens to absence makes d hrt grow fonder. Read my friend, read! sm1 nided advice on hw to salvage a distance relatnshp and u're here blabbing coz u had a failed one or dat u ain't faithful coz of ya 6G conji level. @Fulanigal, Trust, remove pride, stay humble and faithful. see, wen u're... show it. men don't joke wt Fidel women. even if he plays around wtout u kwin, he'll stl turn around. Communication, i said communication. discus and talk abt evrytn. Create d tym and plz, learn to say...I'M SORRY. weda u're wrong or not. settle ya ish within 2days, don't use pride and don't let it linger. Then b busy too buh don't sleep off any day wtout chatting or callin' to say I LUV U. Finally, kw ya man. Use ya instinct, ya God given to kw if dz guy is ryt for me, b sensitive enuf to kw him each tym u guys r together. b a fast learner. Anybody can b in distance relationship... we dnt kw whr life is takin' us. u'll undastnd better wen u marry.
Layla129 has said it all....plz thread close! Sure. It can't always go wrong for everyone |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 1:14am On Apr 03, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: Your choice my dear... 
are you in a LD relationship? Yeah, what can a sister do  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 1:06am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Bluezy13: She is asking for a way to intensify their romance regarding the long distance....
But comments above... Seems they reason with their anus.
And here comes Layla with some sense. Lol, thanks hunnae |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:58am On Apr 03, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: You are as beautiful as your intellect. I owe you a drink ma'am Yipee! Can't wait. Pls make it hollandia yoghurt  ...thank you |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:54am On Apr 03, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:53am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Chommieblaq: Tanx Dear!
Ur advice will be of great help to her. Glad i could help  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:52am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Kelvin125: if you are not an Igbo, try to marry one. Check my signature Lol, thanks anyway |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:37am On Apr 03, 2016 |
nwanwaoge: . I respect ur ideas...nice 1 Thank you dear  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:36am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Kelvin125: this my sister must be an Igbo because only Igbos have sense like this. The rest are packets of salt So, ayam a packet of salt??  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:34am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Chommieblaq: Exactly ma dear.
I don't even feel the distance, we talk like we are together, play same way, talk naughty, no matter how much we fight, we always find a balance, and finally transparency is utmost important, trust is one of the things that kills long distance relationship, so try and be transparent to him. Best of luck. Communication is key. Keep it up sis |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:33am On Apr 03, 2016 |
MzThormi: This is just my bf and I. It will surely work.  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:32am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Stanleywaxy: Big thumbs up Layla ... This is just 100% key .... Should I fall in love ever again ... You'll be my tutor  I'll be here darling, thanks  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:31am On Apr 03, 2016 |
pweetychyka: Very informative tips! It really will go a long way! But then wat if d guy in question doesn't key into d video call or chat thing? Then, how do u guys communicate? He can't be too busy to talk to you for even 15mins a day now. Fine, the video calls can be fixed somehow not the chats...communication is what holds the relationship dear. |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:27am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Chinatownm: ur head is owambe, sorry ur head is dia All join, thank u  |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 12:26am On Apr 03, 2016 |
joshing: Walahi I wan date u...dt ur final point is da bomb..thumbs up Lol, thanks dear |
Romance › Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by layla129(f): 9:59pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going. 1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels. 2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him. 3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider. 4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that. 5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things. We know each other's schedule for the whole day 6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do  Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions. These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Why I Don't Indulge In Indiscriminate Sex. by layla129(f): 8:40pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Its so refreshing to know some guys still think with their brains not deeks. Welldone But i don't agree with number 3. What if you're faithful and she's not? |
Romance › Re: Question Of The Day by layla129(f): 8:20pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
BoiledHead: Magun is fake myth joor... Yoruba myth Lol, that stuff is not fake hunnay. Its effin real |
Romance › Re: We Had MouthAction And She Finds It Hard To Close Her Mouth. by layla129(f): 8:19pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
She can't swallow saliva? Her mouth should be full of saliva by now *holds laugh* ...sorry bro |
Romance › Re: Who Wan Marry These Girls ? by layla129(f): 8:06pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
If i were a boy, i would love me a virgin  |
Romance › Re: Say No To HOMOPHOBIA by layla129(f): 7:50pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
YES!! TO HOMOPHOBIA |
Romance › Re: If You Love Me, Shave My Kittykat. by layla129(f): 6:04pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: If You Love Me, Shave My Kittykat. by layla129(f): 3:12pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod: now I think I know you. Lol
That's why I asked. Really? How is that? |