Even if you divorce, you might not be able to impregnate another woman. U got low sperm count. I can feel ur urge to haveyour own kids but Oga u gotta work on urself.

Try IVF, if she does not want to adopt then,go for assisted conception.

Lola,
Pele, it happens in life, the person you love does not love you back, the ones you don't have feeling for will be the one after you.

The ones you are mutually together having almost the same feeling for might suddenly be unavailable may be due to some natural circumstance.

many married people did not marry their best, most did not, if they do, they might not be the love of the other spouse.

Take your time , Pray hard, you will meet somebody that loves you and you love back. It might not be 50 50 though.

What is all this hype about Paul, IT is just an OCTOPUS, an animal for that matter. Can he see into the future? Why can't he be predicting FOREX as well,

Be strong, You can begin all over again. every body got a story which will bearth a testimony.

Look inward, learn from all ur mistakes, go ahead, move on. Yesterday is gone, Today is an open cheque. Tomorrow is in God's hand.

You can begin again, you will definitely make it.

What does not destroy you will will make you stronger.

Go for Gold

Bawss1:


By all means marry, if you marry a good woman you will be happy, if you marry a bad woman you will be a philosopher. - Socrates

a philosopher like kind way , lol

Please kind way no offense oooo

it depends on your destination. Travelling even by air is dangerous as well so THE LORD IS YOUR SHEPHERD.

emotional affair and internet affair <> extra marital affair?

U married a wrong woman.

@Mad_Max
What will you do if the man you love and married is in love with another woman and he is not remorse about it? and see nothing bad in sending recent picture and erotic IM?

The poster loves the lady and its obvious she love somebody else. Her heart is with somebody else.

It's hurting the poster, its hurting good Nigerian ladies that need sincere love out there. its hurting the real men that want to show real love.

Where is carolence and Big_Man.

My Opinion.
The marriage is all over before it started. if the above story is true, Man, it is hard but you have to move onnnn. 5 years of relationship, marriage and all investment is gone. Alllllllll gone man. it is painful but that is the reality. The trust can never come back no matter what. Count your loss, thank God you are alive, Bounce back and better but please do not go for distance relationship again. Once beaten twicw shy.

@Lady Dee,
let us call a spade a spade, Its all the woman's fault. She promised to get a transfer to lagos , now she is relaxing on another man's lap after becoming MRS.

@Poster,
You have to check yourself and ask Can you live with it even if she promised to change (she will not change sha)
Be ready to withsatnd pressure when you are back to your base. She is going to beg and use all means to tell you its the devil, she is going to use people to beg and beg and beg

I don't really know what is going on in our society again, that is how one women replaced his husband picture with that of a boyfriend the other time. In no time, the ladies will be blaming they guys that they don't want to marry them

dont give them any car key or house key or property document, unless he put it down in his will. You are legally married and u carry on where he stopped.

If you are truly in love as you said, do not break up with her. Here are my suggestions.
The likely hood of having SS baby is 25% so you have 75% chance of not having SS.
Let me share with you a true life story of a person I know

Mr A has been dating Miss B for about 4 years (immediately the girl left Secondary school), Mr A asked for her blood GP out of desperation she lied that she is AA 'cause she does not want to loose the guy, only for Mr A to detect after getting married and she was pregnant and a test was taken on her.
She has since have 2 babies, non is SS. The man kept on telling me that they always put it to God in prayer everyday whenever she was pregnant and GOD do answer prayer.

U can do it prayerfully. If you are buoyant, you can as well go and check the the blood Genotype of the fetus. There is nothing like having a happy family

Its not a new format, It has been like that since, Its just that some of these new parishes has not been doing it. All the old RCCG use this format. Ur tithe is between you and God. Not for humans to see you . It is high time people server God in spirit and in truth Jare.

You can get them in Enugu. Enugu is about 2 hours flight from Lagos Nigeria.

it's not opinion. It is fact with the exce
Most, I mean most Nigerian women are not submissive or respect man. They are very rude, insulting and saucy especially if they are working class.
1. Go ask the men that have women has BOSSes .
2. A Nigerian girl will just size u up , size up ur pocket before she dates you
3. So arrogant in their approach as u can see a lot of example in nairaland
4. Will believe they are equal to the man or above him
5. will want to make decision instead of listening to the man
6. Want to rule the house
7. Want to be the one to wear the trousers in the house
8. They want to dictate the pace of things, decide the eatery to eat in, decide the kind of wedding, without minding the man's ability

I have gotten the opportunity to see how women from Ghana, Liberia, Sierra Leonne regardless of Gambia treat men. U will be so humbled and happy to be a man.

We need to learn how to take care of ur men

Be careful, the baby inside her might not be yours, she might not even be pregnant. She is on her own man and be ready to carry the cross. there is no way a woman will carry a baby for 6 months without informing  the owner. according to ur earlier post , she was very wide After being despoiled. Ladies don't get wide just like that after being touched once. Be careful man

the whole thinh might be a set up from this woman. She might have been frustrating hell out of this man and want to use the opportunity tto collect 1b and get some houses in UK.

Come to think of it, selling Virgin products bought the man 5 houses in UK, naijaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Almost all the people that told you to leave this guy are f. For the fact that they were together since school days does not mean she is a wife material for him. You have heard it all that he did not propose to the girl. The girl might be the one chasing this guy from school days and the guy might have seen enough attitude that his unbearable.
When he was asking you out, is it for friendship or for a lasting relationship?
help the guy out if you really care for him. stay close to him and make him realize you are there for him.
If he is not into the ex anymore he can be pressurized to propose to her and be unhappy for the rest of his life

if raindrop could represent how much love is, I will ask the Lord to send a storm,

I want to live each day with you as if it were my last. To be honest with you even though it may sometimes hurt and tell you everything about my feelings as well as my thoughts without fears. I want you to know that I promise you all the happiness I am capable of giving.

, there is a load of weight under my waist, I might need a raise so that it will not be a waste

For the broken hearted ones I say

U might have been left alone in the rain, out there without a cover but this is to let you know that the rain gotta stop, the sun will shine again and a new green grass will emerge,

lets get the words flowing!

, All I need is the heart. If i get the heart I can get to the a.s.s.

Halleluyah be onto you Lord. I praise your name BABA.

Note that the VISA girl put his name as the husband. She might do this out of love and 2. She is the one that came to inform him. which implies that she is still very much interested in the guy and ready to roll on with him.

I thought it was only me, She said her name is Sheila living in DAKAR. She does not even know if I am a male or female.

You can do the wedding on a low scheme (Ur immediate family, ur close pals, ur in laws and may be two others). Not more than 20 people.
Get a photographer and a friend to borrow u camcorder+digital camera
25k for the registry
20k for the ring
15k for the food and drink (20people* 750)
5k to Rent a wedding gown.
12k for your suit.
3k to rent chairs+table
5k for the officiating ministers
10k for the traditional
5k for other miscellaneous
Get a car from a friend or relative

Wedding is just a single day thing. Marriage is d koko.
Wish u happy married life in advance.

Snooooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring!!!!!! can be embarassing sometimes especially when ur wife or husband records it on his/her phone. By the way how can it be controlled. I've tried different sleeping positions but no diff. I am plum though,

Is the certification what matters here in uk or what one knows?
way forward pls!

paper is legit.
finally! means ready to give it what it takes
IT: ITIL, MCSE, Prince2 (exam to be taken in 2 weeks)

Hi Nairalander,,
I just landed in jand few days ago (as in relocated finally), I need guys that are on ground in London (especially those who are fully settled down) to show me the way.
I am a professional IT person.
All constructive suggestions on how to settle down (accomodation, jobs, mortgage etc)are welcome.

If you need to send me private mail that you don't really want it to show on this board, you can mail me on lead.team@ymail.com

thanks