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whitebeard:
1.u are foolish
2.u are really stingy
3.1 & 2


Guy and u still haven't sent her anything. Omg, no seriously she try, she is very unique, I trust my slay queens, u no go chop anything, and just know that's the end.

ofcourse I sent her money afterwards..

emeraldknytt:
Doting on and spending on work hand in hand, according to most ladies however, I do not see spending as away of showing affection. She prolly knows your game, that is exactly why she didn't ask you explicitly. Poor girl, must have reached her breaking point.


Wife material isn't judged by how enduring a lady is in time of need. A lady could endure your relationship while she hop around with someone with some wads to dole out... Getting a wife material is becoming a tiring task but if you love a woman with all your heart and she reciprocates the feeling... Dont let the ceiling hold you down... Go Go Go for it. Happy sunday.

.. thanks bro. I do my best on her.. trust me

emeraldknytt:
Doting on and spending on work hand in hand, according to most ladies however, I do not see spending as away of showing affection. She prolly knows your game, that is exactly why she didn't ask you explicitly. Poor girl, must have reached her breaking point.


Wife material isn't judged by how enduring a lady is in time of need. A lady could endure your relationship while she hop around with someone with some wads to dole out... Getting a wife material is becoming a tiring task but if you love a woman with all your heart and she reciprocates the feeling... Dont let the ceiling hold you down... Go Go Go for it. Happy sunday.

.. thank you very much bro.

modelmike7:
What a wicked, insensitive, worthless, STINGY guy you are!!
I had to read your story thrice for me to see where your sense re-booted, but couldn't see any.
Not that you don't even have to help her, but you doing it INTENTIONALLY?! I Wonder what that TREASURE of a girl is doing with you in the first place...
Kindly leave her for the person that will appreciate her, i beg you!

.. my brother we dey quarrel before? Don't judge me like that �. Girls don deal with me, the ones I spent money on don't value it. Of course I do send her recharge cards and money in her account.. just for that visit.. haba you dey vex ooo

I have been talking with this lady since 2016 we are friends and I have told her how I feel about her and she admits that she feels same way too for me.. I'm kind of guy that doesn't use money to get girls so I don't try to impress her with money and I made that obvious from the start. Now I visited her in school because she's a student and intentionally didn't get her anything(you know like beverages and stuffs like that) just to know what her reaction would be and before the visit, she had been saying that she's running out of food stuffs that she can't wait to finish her exams so she can head back home to sort herself out, but I absolutely ignored all that lol.. this very lady later told me SHE USED HER LAST MONEY to prepare that delicious meal she prepared for me when I visited her. She said that to me because I was having argument with her about her love for me and she mentioned that and I was shocked. The funny part on that argument is when she said & I quote " yes I love you but I have a problem with you... you are stingy" and I laughed. So nairalanders, is she worth keeping? Is she really a wife material? Please advice

eji1979:
Let me inform you in China they don't extend visa.If your 30days expires,you have turned to be an illegal immigrant and the authorities there are so mean.The best thing is,go to China buy goods cos its very cheap and come back to naija simple to avoid spending some time in the cooler in China.

thanks

Hello great people, I wish to seek public opinion about my plans, please I need candid advice about this issue. I have a mini fashion business here in Nigeria and of course I buy them from china. I have been pondering in my heart if it's a good idea to get china visa, go there, start buying them myself and be sending down here in Nigeria. I have a shop and shop assistant. My worries are about my visa extension while in china! I plan to focus on that legit business that I'm doing. People who have experience should please advise me as I don't want to make mistakes even though mistakes are part of learning but don't need it anymore as I have had enough of them couple with I'm now in my early 30's. Thanks

rali123:
Lack of communication top the list.

. I thought as much too

Teletexter:
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/Scarlett-Johansson-hobo-yoga.gif

.. see answer. This one weak me oo

Amarabae:
Lack of Communication, even in our relationship with God.
We start backsliding when we stop communicating with him in prayers and bible reading.

.. amarabae, you need to top up your mobile phone for this answer you just gave.. Abeg

taylor88:
killer

.. Taylor say something nau.. killer dey the list,?

ElizaVeta:
NO TRUST - That's my final answer!

.. can you trust without communicating?

Hello NairaLanders, I got a shocking question from my friend this morning about my opinion on what kills relationship very faster and the lists goes on like this: 1. NO SEX, 2. POOR SEX, 3. NO MONEY, 4. NO TRUST, 5. LACK OF COMMUNICATION. Good people of NL, what do you think the right answer(s) should be? Thanks.

oodua1stson:
let me see it then

here are the pictures

The pictures shows the components of the phones.

oodua1stson:
I'll buy if you'll see it for 10k

.. it is really worth 15,000. I will still upload the features that I mentioned for you to see.

surrogatesng:
How much? Drop your contact

... 15,000. Phone number 07014939101

Hello Great NLers, I have got this phone for sale: it has 3 sim slots, can be used as power bank i.e. You can use it and charge other phones via USB slot, has USB light. Interested buyers should request for more details. I'm in Lagos

OK

Enavie:
Ibadan, Oyo State.

WHERE ARE YOU AT?

Enavie:
I am not in Lagos, and I don't think that can affect the service I want to deliver. My service is pay after, so there is no cause for fear. Or you probably have another reason for insisting on Lagos.

YOU ARE IN LAGOS RIGHT?

Enavie:
You can reach me on WhatsApp: 0814 579 8559

/ email: kensharval@gmail.com / phone: 070 5957 9603.

I AM IN LAGOS, WHO WILL HELP AND BUILD A WORDPRESS BLOG FOR ME?

passionate87:
guy I think the problem could be the way you present urself always ready to pay for as cheap as her transport fare when the both of u just met. I was also having the problem of gals demanding from me before the relationship just kick start but I blocked that with an I don't care attitude and not afraid to lose them when I say no to their outrageous demands they begin to respect me more. some when they demand I turn it around like for example give me 2000 naira "oh tanks sweetie lemme send you my uba bank account so that you can send the 2000 naira. u are the best" .
I insisted a gal pay for her things and my as well sometimes, if she doesn't I don archive her be that she is just a liability to me nothing more.i can't be paying for everything we do impossible.

.. bro ehh, I almost fight to get common pictures from the girl that claims to love me.. one Naira I never chop from her.. always me buying buying in the name of she's a student. Thank goodness I broke off

Op! That's exactly what happened to me. If you doubt me go see posts I made this week about same issue. I don't really know what is wrong with Nigerian girls. My own Na replica version of oliva twist because say she be girl, Na olivia twist. She's too demanding, stingy, selfish infact she's a parasite. I have got advice from here when I complained about my own wahala here and want to share the same with you please. (1). Next time, please find a LADY for dating and not girl. (2). Stop swimming in ponds, go swim in SEA. Thank me later

BrainArk:
Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire.

.., hahahaha I said it earlier.. that moniker is enuf to tell you who the person is.. she will obviously finish 25m in one week looool

Cleopatra4:
Chill na have you dated me before no put sand for my garri

.. op you wan try?

Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.

.. only her moniker says it all. Broh she's expensive oo. Run for your life

BlazingAyomikun:
She's obviously brainy and fantastic. If she's not saying most of these things from experience, then she's incredibly smart!

.. indeed! This girl in question is in no doubt still the pond fish type, I wish I had seen it coming! I should have read the signs. Anyways I guess it's over! Omg I can't believe I'm the fool again

BlazingAyomikun:
Excellent. I've seen you on threads a couple of times, and there's this aura of maturity that's always emanating from your comments. You're a very intelligent lady, I give you that.

.. THAT LADY absolutely said it all " upgrade swimming in seas and not in ponds ". I refuse to ever swim in the ponds henceforth! Raine80, thanks very much indeed for this priceless piece of advice. I really really appreciate

Atlantia:
Gbachi ya nkiti...

.. omalicha nwanyi, o Nwere ihe m mere gi?

hylyne:
Nwanyi oma, Op choro ite umu nwanyi igbo unyi...

boss man not really. It's my personal experience broh