AreaFada2:
OP nothing do you.

Most babes nowadays are like that.
There is too much poverty in the land.
Many want beautiful things.
Guys are their surest easy way out.

With few genuinely non-materialistic ladies around. Hope you get one of those.

Even if a girl does not ask you, it does not mean she's not expecting from you like others. She believes you know the usual. If you do not do the needful, her attitude will soon change. Most anyway.

Most of those that manage to be independent are usually arrogant. Always announcing that they are independent, as if it is not how it should be. If independent, let your behaviour show it. Independent ones only want to date those who earn far more than them. And eventually marry up.


You won't easily find those who won't ask for money or expect without asking. They are so few around now.

You may not know the exact truth about your friends and their babes. They may not be telling you the complete story.

Good luck anyway.

Area Fada indeed. This is completely true. Nothing to add or subtract.

alexialin:




I knw givers never lack , cos I give as well.. Am not tightfisted .
And God is always blessing me for giving and blessing my man too.

To bolded give wisely to family , friends and church . Don't give all your life savings with nothing left, cos if u do? U will only have yourself to blame .
And about treble my hustle ? Yes why not ? I have financial plans , so I can step higher from where I am, to where I want to be . So that's not a big deal. Am not a lazy woman. I got to where I am today , due to diligence , late nights burning candles mapping out plans , precise calculations of how I want my biz to be ,where I want it to be , etc.
Its not easy to be successful it's hard work and divine grace from God
Grumbling are for losers and end of placing wrinkles on your forehead.
Stop grumbling , stop complaining and start thinking positive about success.
Pray to be successful, Map out a plan, think of ways to achieve your plans without breaking the bank or defrauding anyone . Then watch and see if the law of nature won't smile on you.
Think Positive !

There is a big difference between being labelled a 'giver' and then fleeced than simply giving to people that are deserving and that is within limits.

God is blessing you regardless and not on a quid quo pro on whether you give or not.

I am positive but seriously very negative about people that set themselves up as takers and do not do the blessing thing or give credence to religion or tradition.

Tight fisted - well, I work hard and have to think about my bottom line, pension and inheritance for my children...

firstking01:
Smh.

Dont let it fall off

Billyonaire:


Your kind of ladies are rare these days mam. Trust me I have designed relationship structures and followed blueprints, even to the point of putting girls on salaries (allowances). But it happens that they see that as 'running cost for the relationship', while special demands like 'I need to rent new apartment', 'Vacation to Dubai', 'I need a car' became the centerpiece of my relationships with ladies. I have ran out of ideas and I really cant be without some extra-marital romance in my life. The OP is only experiencing a fraction of what others go through. And if one goes to the club for escort, you lose wrist-watches, necklaces and sometimes rare gems.

Love and relationship is becoming a trap.

Couldn't help but laugh out loud especially where you admitted "I really can't be without some extra-marital romance".haha.So Mr.Billy what if you found out that your madam is also seeking the extra romance elsewhere especially with a 'sugarboy'.Oga wetin you go do o?

AlvanT:
Couldn't help but laugh out loud especially where you admitted "I really can't be without some extra-marital romance".haha.So Mr.Billy what if you found out that your madam is also seeking the extra romance elsewhere especially with a 'sugarboy'.Oga wetin you go do o?

I am sure of only one thing. I will not die....LOL

Billyonaire:


I am sure of only one thing. I will not die....LOL

so im go still pain you sef? chai!

AlvanT:
so im go still pain you sef? chai!

No man can stand it seeing another man tumble beneath the sheet with your gf let alone your wife

chrisj2:


There is a big difference between being labelled a 'giver' and then fleeced than simply giving to people that are deserving and that is within limits.

God is blessing you regardless and not on a quid quo pro on whether you give or not.

I am positive but seriously very negative about people that set themselves up as takers and do not do the blessing thing or give credence to religion or tradition.

Tight fisted - well, I work hard and have to think about my bottom line, pension and inheritance for my children...

To be fleeced is bad ..
And God is blessing me because seriously and sincerely have paid my dues in the past and I passed certain series life tests. That's why am having it easy this period and for many years to come . Lets just thank God for life .
Anyways let's leave this topic ,and lastly its a great plan to save for pension and for the kids . best of luck bruv!

ThatIgboBoy:

This ur terms and conditions no be here o

Lol..... D truth now

oluwashedy:
Are you sure?

Yes

tosyne2much:
No man can stand it seeing another man tumble beneath the sheet with your gf let alone your wife

but chai e dey sweet if you dey drill another person own... I agree that men a predatory in nature bro.

NotOfThis:
Je ne sais pas.

Why don't u know?

CaraJewel:
Dont let it fall off

How can it fall of when it's deeply and thickly stuck in your clits

gentlechyke:
culin

Sir

free2ryhme:


me no get hbp you fit don get make u dey use verse psychology

na advice

guy I think the problem could be the way you present urself always ready to pay for as cheap as her transport fare when the both of u just met. I was also having the problem of gals demanding from me before the relationship just kick start but I blocked that with an I don't care attitude and not afraid to lose them when I say no to their outrageous demands they begin to respect me more. some when they demand I turn it around like for example give me 2000 naira "oh tanks sweetie lemme send you my uba bank account so that you can send the 2000 naira. u are the best" .
I insisted a gal pay for her things and my as well sometimes, if she doesn't I don archive her be that she is just a liability to me nothing more.i can't be paying for everything we do impossible.

ioreth69:
na advice

Na u need the advice pass

It is the asking for money direct within a short time of meeting that is a 'put off'.

I met a hardworking and struggling single-minded recently. I was just fascinated about her pleasantness, dignity and motherhood. I wanted to buy her a recharge card as some Nja folks do use text and just start calling for minor things... We could not buy one cos of rain and I gave her the #500 (my first time of meeting her alone). She refused!

I bought the card on the way home and texted her. I had about 1.5 months relationship with her and ended up spending lots without her asking me directly for anything. I even gave her the equivalent in pounds of her months salary on my last day.

Girls should try to be dignified and humble!

* The relationship is now a long distance one - I hate that and I tried to discourage her but we shall see...

thehedge:
yes he would, because he wants a girl that spends on herself but doesnt want to be d one spending. he should be ready to share then

how can u have a taste 4 something, eventually u get it then u start complaining? that's d height of contradiction. d gentleman didn't say he wants a girl who spends on herself.he said he doesn't want girls who without knowing him are quick 2 make financial demands. there's nothing wrong with that

firstking01:
How can it fall of when it's deeply and thickly stuck in your clits

please dont quote me with such again

xty50:
yes why do u ask?

Hmmm, Thanks I got my answer.

jy2kbeyond:



Hmmm, Thanks I got my answer.

jy2kbeyond:



Hmmm, Thanks I got my answer.

CaraJewel:
please dont quote me with such again

Hmmm, thought we are friends??

And us looking for love are still single!
I wish I had a gold diggers bone, I am too independent and old to ever ask another human being for money

firstking01:
Hmmm, thought we are friends??

Have some respect.which kain friendship be dat one

CaraJewel:
Have some respect.which kain friendship be dat one

True friendship knows no boundaries.

firstking01:
True friendship knows no boundaries.

This is not a true friendship
and boundaries are set in every thing whether true or false

CaraJewel:
This is not a true friendship
and boundaries are set in every thing whether true or false

But we almost once had it going?

firstking01:
But we almost once had it going?

Had wetin?friends?.life got busy.you,cant be friends with everybody.nearly cannot kill a bird

Dimples182:
And us looking for love are still single!
I wish I had a gold diggers bone, I am too independent and old to ever ask another human being for money

irony of life

passionate87:
guy I think the problem could be the way you present urself always ready to pay for as cheap as her transport fare when the both of u just met. I was also having the problem of gals demanding from me before the relationship just kick start but I blocked that with an I don't care attitude and not afraid to lose them when I say no to their outrageous demands they begin to respect me more. some when they demand I turn it around like for example give me 2000 naira "oh tanks sweetie lemme send you my uba bank account so that you can send the 2000 naira. u are the best" .
I insisted a gal pay for her things and my as well sometimes, if she doesn't I don archive her be that she is just a liability to me nothing more.i can't be paying for everything we do impossible.

.. bro ehh, I almost fight to get common pictures from the girl that claims to love me.. one Naira I never chop from her.. always me buying buying in the name of she's a student. Thank goodness I broke off

lexy2014:
how can u have a taste 4 something, eventually u get it then u start complaining? that's d height of contradiction. d gentleman didn't say he wants a girl who spends on herself.he said he doesn't want girls who without knowing him are quick 2 make financial demands. there's nothing wrong with that

seriously