Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by oluwashedy: 7:36am On May 20, 2017 |
26andsearching: I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies
Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.
Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.
But the kind of gals I meet eh Be like
I need money to make hair 3k...
I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.
Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.
I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na
I always admire my friends babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is. She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one
Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.
Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind
Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.
I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.
This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.
I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.
Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)
Or they money smell on me when I walk
Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.
I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
Thanks I'm faced with the same dilemma.... The matter tire me 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Cleopatra4(f): 7:43am On May 20, 2017 |
26andsearching: I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies
Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.
Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.
But the kind of gals I meet eh Be like
I need money to make hair 3k...
I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.
Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.
I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na
I always admire my friends babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is. She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one
Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.
Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind
Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.
I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.
This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.
I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.
Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)
Or they money smell on me when I walk
Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.
I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
Thanks I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by LEBEfirstson: 8:40am On May 20, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it. .. only her moniker says it all. Broh she's expensive oo. Run for your life 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Cleopatra4(f): 9:21am On May 20, 2017 |
LEBEfirstson: .. only her moniker says it all. Broh she's expensive oo. Run for your life Chill na have you dated me before no put sand for my garri 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by LEBEfirstson: 9:31am On May 20, 2017 |
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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by BrainArk(m): 9:36am On May 20, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it. Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by LEBEfirstson: 10:00am On May 20, 2017 |
BrainArk:
Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire. .., hahahaha I said it earlier.. that moniker is enuf to tell you who the person is.. she will obviously finish 25m in one week looool |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by BrainArk(m): 11:21am On May 20, 2017 |
LEBEfirstson: .., hahahaha I said it earlier.. that moniker is enuf to tell you who the person is.. she will obviously finish 25m in one week looool Yes o |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 6:09pm On May 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it.
Cleopatra am tempted o
respond to my pm |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 6:15pm On May 21, 2017 |
BrainArk:
Is it not the same cleopatra that a whole city or is it country was used as dowry for? Op be careful, you maybe jumping from fry pan to fire. with all my experience I pray o |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by newslifeop: 6:25pm On May 21, 2017 |
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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by dalaman: 10:32pm On May 24, 2017 |
As the saying goes. The day you ask a Nigerian lady out is the day you start owing her money. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by safarigirl(f): 10:33pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching:
For how long
I mean I suffered to get a job
Now I must also suffer to get a gal if you have a job in Nigeria at 26, uncle, you no suffer. As for the girls you date, they are simply a reflection of who you are. Ypu people need to stop disturbing us about these gold diggers you encounter on a daily basis, na wetin you find enter market na im you go see. There are good girls o, but those ones do not do waka waka, they don't live the life you guys expect and you don't see them starting threads on how they can't find good guys. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by bonifieldstun(m): 10:34pm On May 24, 2017 |
GOOD FOR YOU |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by thehedge(f): 10:34pm On May 24, 2017 |
kimbra: The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing. it is not the impression he creates, its his taste. there are diff kind of girls, and impression or not, they want what they want. I hope d op undrstnds 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by anibestlala(m): 10:35pm On May 24, 2017 |
Your first impression says it all.give the impression of an all sufficient guy and you may have a liability on your hands.Also try not to rush a new friendship, take your time and build it gradually over time.good luck next time. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by jjjjj2017: 10:35pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching:
Yes o
That's my compulsory criteria
I find it difficult to move with worwor gals
I always go for naturally beautiful ones 1st comment don give u clue. I don date fine/rich gal many times without number & dont spend on them. stop playing Mr Nice Guy ok |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by ekefre4(m): 10:35pm On May 24, 2017 |
A mere 3k? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 1234IKECHhukwu: 10:37pm On May 24, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:
I feel your pain. Come date me and you will never regret it. Cleo ur own go worse from the way I see it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by LOVEGINO(m): 10:37pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching: I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies
Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.
Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.
But the kind of gals I meet eh Be like
I need money to make hair 3k...
I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.
Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.
I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na
I always admire my friends babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is. She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one
Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.
Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind
Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.
I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.
This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.
I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.
Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)
Or they money smell on me when I walk
Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.
I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
Thanks lol. Shabi u dey show ursef? U dey learn work. |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Gerrard59(m): 10:39pm On May 24, 2017 |
I have to agree with Safarigirl. It's something I've observed, the kind of ladies/girls men/boys meet are simply a reflection of who the males are. It's not just impossible for a cereal dude to meet a less cerebal lady.
This certainly defies the law in physics where like pair repel and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by omosedollar(m): 10:39pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching: I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies
Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.
Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.
But the kind of gals I meet eh Be like
I need money to make hair 3k...
I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.
Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.
I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na
I always admire my friends babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is. She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one
Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.
Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind
Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.
I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.
This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.
I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.
Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)
Or they money smell on me when I walk
Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.
I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
Thanks This is a Nice Story Bro. If you send it to deardapsondapson@gmail.com they will post it on their platform and you will get mature advise and feed back |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by ajokeade920: 10:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
Man up bro. |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 1234IKECHhukwu: 10:40pm On May 24, 2017 |
ekefre4: A mere 3k? people like u cannot give a girl ordinary 1k without thinking of nyashing her in the first place. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by macphilip: 10:41pm On May 24, 2017 |
That was how I was chatting with an old female friend on FB, next thing I would hear is "can I get like 50k" Anyway OP, 95% Nigerian girls are like that, there is serious hunger in the Land 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Danjunior(m): 10:45pm On May 24, 2017 |
Evablizin: Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols Me too, I've been having same issues. Come and date me 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Goldenheart(m): 10:46pm On May 24, 2017 |
I have met n helped many girls with financial issues....if God has blessed you. Do not hesitate to help others.. Even some ladies who are currently hooked up still ask for financial aid... That's how we roll 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by reereespace(f): 10:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching, you probably don't know but you maybe come off as rich, I wouldn't ask somebody for money if he didn't tell like me or if I didn't think he's rich. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by ACE1010: 10:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
26andsearching:
Yes o
That's my compulsory criteria
I find it difficult to move with worwor gals
I always go for naturally beautiful ones Na that natural beauty go finish your enemy!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 10:47pm On May 24, 2017 |
It's normal op, it's not easy to be a female in Nigeria, esp when the parents are struggling. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by reereespace(f): 10:48pm On May 24, 2017 |
Goldenheart: I have met n helped many girls with financial issues....if God has blessed you. Do not hesitate to help others..
Even some ladies who are currently hooked up still ask for financial aid... That's how we roll yimu, Mr Goldenheart if its true why are you the one bragging about it? do your good in silence oga helper! 1 Like 1 Share |