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Swtbabyvee:
she over powered him that he couldn’t push her away

See foolish statement, what about female rape victims that didn't fight with the rapists would you say they weren't raped? He said No that's the important thing, so it's rape.

Most women are rapists

Ybaby:
Zero belt and plenty trousers #marlians

Silly man preying on girls with low self esteem.

Regards to your mama .... Tell her she didn't bring you up right.

Ok little girl, please yourself.

SweetCunt97:
How much exactly is Abortion that a lady would wanna lie to get? Wetin that money wan do for her life?

Na today women start to lie about abortion to make money? Women wey dey lie say their mama die just to collect money.

Walai:
She's marketing for a company but most male customers try to lure her under the guise of patronizing her.
I intend starting a business for her if tnx flow well

Marketing indeed, the only people she markets her goods to, are men abi?

MoodyQueen:
Useless things. Keep trying to dictate how your girlfriend should live... Phantom authoritarians.

This girl is gradually taking over from Millenniumlady in the hierarchy of foolishness.

Guy make I no like for u, d baby maybe yours but she is sure not fucking only you. Who answers multiple calls from the opposite sex infront of their boyfriend/girlfriend?

I can feel you have low self-esteem just from the way you write, you better take charge of that relationship and treat that your arrogant girlfriend fvck up, if you don't she would turn you into her personal slave.

At least be a indirect slave even if you want to enter marriage not a direct one.

Confusedgirl869:
Hey guys, I have taken the bold step. I have blocked him on WhatsApp. Now to move on! It's really not easy, I've cried my eyes out. This is my first real and painful heartbreak, before him I learn to love with my head and not heart. I have no friends at all which will make it a more difficult journey.

I have an idea though, I will keep an online diary here so I need all support you can give, thanks

Good, the guy will find a babymama for himself, marriage no be by force.

PoliteActivist:
[s]A family. Living with your own exclusive wife and kids. On the rare occasion it works it can beat singlehood[/s]

Out of everything you typed only having kids is what makes sense and a man can get that without getting married.

VenumX:
First, negroes convinced you African women to have sex with them before they wife you. Now negroes just want you to birth for them. Meanwhile, one kobo, your waste of space boyfriend has not given you to show he can be a responsible father.

When will you realise that the enemy you have been sleeping with is there to ruin your life?He has no home training and good values- nothing! I am sure he is one 35 year old agbero looking creature who is about to become a fool at 40.

Let me tell you something about this your blind bat boyfriend. By the time he is in his 50's and suffering from erectile dysfunction, nobody will tell him to go and get married. He will go and get one girl like Regina Daniels to wife. All his money, he will spend on her whether she is faithful to him or not. While you will be there struggling to pay your last child's school fees. You better don't fall into that trap!

Ignore all the miscreants with no future here telling you to listen to that fool you call your useless boyfriend.

Dump him fast and move on with your life. Let him go and meet all those ratchet broke jezebels that will deal with him mercilessly.

You have been warned!

You sound like an agbero.

Ade3131:
I know your boyfriend will regret loosing you. It's just a matter of time. I'm a guy and in that state of mind right now. He will grow up and realize it's late already. I wish you well in your next relationship bcuz you're obviously and definitely going to part ways with him. I pray you find a man you both have so many things in common with.

"Regret losing". I laugh in German.

zedman1:
If truly you're who you say you are then you must be a good girl. The good ones suffer more in relationships. I hated break ups while I was still single cos' I get hurt so bad for so long.... As a guy o. But truth is, some persons just don't see you as one they'd spend their lives with, no matter how convinced you are that you're meant for them. It's hard to move on (used to be for me though), but you don't force such persons on yourself. If he wants you, he'll stay, explain to him again, if he isn't ready for the kind of union you want, I think you should move on.

Dude the guy is not interested in getting married to any woman.

Confusedgirl869:
You? A red piller, never.

So you one of those feminists that shame men here, good thing your man is smart not to enter a bondage called marriage with you

coputa:
Oh,sorry,i thought you know the dude(davido)you ass lick so well, if you are saying a record lebel can take care of his lavish lifestyles: putting on gold chains worth millions of $ which does not add any value to his life and multiplication of baby mamas,then you need to format your brain.

Dude you are so daft, why don't you go and meet Davido and ask him about his investments, so if he has investments he should be shouting it everywhere, so tell me what is the investments of Beyonce, Justin Bieber or Eminem.

manontree:
[s]I have seen some situations where a couple needed advise from me. The lady said, Doc, I cant live without him. The man said, God, she is choking the life out of me. I simply want my space

A few years later, both were wrong. The lady not only moved on to a better man and better things, he realized he is the one that couldnt live without her and desperately came to me to help him win her back

You see, no man that respects you (which to me is a cardinal point in a good marriage) would ever wish this on you. He clearly dont value you nor desire being with you for life. In short, you are a stop gap to finding his life mate. Ask yourself, wont he plead for marriage the moment he sees that woman that he cant do without?

Another point, few women can give what you give. You dont ask for money, you take care of things, you love him...That's scarce commodity in today's women. If you have all these, except you look like a whale, there would literally be a long queue seeking your attention. Why settle for this?

Like someone said earlier and like the story of the couple above, a few years down the line and you would look back at this with horror about the mistake you nearly made. For truly he is a mistake

Last shot: For those slating marriage, I have been married for almost two decades, as are my friends. Too numerous to mention. Everyone is having a ball. For that one bad marriage that social media highlights, there are thousands, yes thousands, of amazing unions. Keep deceiving yourselves. Marriage is this and that. Like you arent a product of one[/s]

It's not a must to get married, enough of the lies 90% of people in marriage are regretting, the cheating, domestic violence, nagging and many disadvantages.

Ybaby:
You are not a perfect match. Only a man can decide a perfect match then gets on one knee and the lady can accept his proposal of perfect match so wake up.




Why don't you disturb him for money? Is he supposed to hit you? That is not what makes a good woman rather it is what good donkeys are made of - hardwork and not materalistic



You have left your goalpost and now playing attacker. Listen! when a man wants you - nothing can stop him from letting you know and he will pull every legal trick in the world to show it to you. You will not have to think - you will know.




It is not him!



He feels you are independent enough and hardworking enough to look after yourself and his child without being materialistic and needing him.

Are you?



Did you come to earth with anyone? Are you leaving earth with anyone?

You are trying to force a man into marriage and the women who did it before you - suffered for it.

At 26 years old, you are young and tight - do not waste these years with a man who does not want you because a man who will take 50 strokes of cane for you is somewhere, who will fight another man for you, who will provide for you and your kids is around the corner but this nonsense endeavour you are in - will not let you see him.





Work on your self esteem dear. Give that man 2 -5 years and he will meet the woman who he will kill for and her kids will live in the house with him while your kids will live with you. He will pay her kids school fees and you will pay your kids school fees.

Anyway I stand a hardworking non materialistic woman - but he still don't want you! The woman he will pick will not be "hardworking" and she will be materialistic and yet he will beg her to be with him.

What are you worth

Continue deceiving her, if at all she gets another man to marry, the man will still get fed up.

olumide4christ:
Some people are just a disgrace to us as men. Imagine a 35 year old man not thinking of getting married, but planning for baby mama. At his age, I had been married for 5 years and up till now, still enjoying my home - wife and children - after 9 years of marriage.
Some men will just be growing age-wise, but still be reasoning like a 21 year old!

What a pity!

Marriage doesn't make you matured simp.

coputa:
sorry,i did't know you 're a die hard fan of Davido. Big names in the entertainment industry in the world came down with their career because of women and expensive lifestyle.Your boss has million dollars neck chains,a house in banana island and retinue of baby mamas but no single investment.when he comes down,because nothing last forever,the young ones are growing,what will he then,fall back on to maintain his lavish lifestyle.oh!,i forgot you 're there'you will help by selling your china android phone and donate the proceed to him.

You are a dumb , how did you know Davido doesn't have investments, his music record label is what?
Me sell China phones dude you are drunk, do you think everyone is miserable like you on Nairaland?

TomMary:
Chicken brain only weaklings are scared of marriages

Only cheaters get into marriage

You guys have time to reply this idiot OP, who stops women from reciprocating cheating

Swinger60:
I only have one question though.

Biko, how is marriage favouring only women in Nigeria?

The same Nigeria marriage I see women contribute 50% of financial, emotional, spiritual support and yet, still remain submissive, loving,
faithful and respectful to the man.

To poster, look for a man who wants what you want.

What's the big deal about marriage sef? If not for society pressure, most women will not want to get married.

Then women should accept the babymama offers, that would be the best for the sexes.

Babymama all the way.

Smart guy, Confused869 you better accept his request before he finds another girl

coputa:
These baby mamas should be wise,they should extort money from him (Davido) and invest for the future of their child. I am saying this because all these davido wealth (nigeria celebrities)are over hyped. When something happens now,you see them begging for assistance. The recent one is majek fashek

Yen yen yen, that's the way you people say hushpuppi is broke but now he is in Interpol custody for $35million, Davido wealth over hyped? Man you are drunk.

Looks really disgusting

Justbehave:
Trash.He is jobless now and spamming because your fellow lady rapist has been bursted? You ladies here are all hypocrites.

She is a hypocrite and rape apologist.

Ishilove:
You are jobless and psychologically unbalanced. Don't quote me again because if you do, I will report you for spamming the forum.

How is it spamming?

She get jazz and she still dey sell food for inside street, nonsense of the highest order.

No be only Jazz na Jazzman Olofin.