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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Xioxing: 10:04pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
IME1:lol gory? There is a difference between gory and a disgusting picture painted by a mentally disabled artist.. so please use a better picture which suits your choice of words next time between I am not telling you what to do with your data just reminding you to be considerate cause there are people here who will not like the sight of that weird shit you crave for and that does not make them weak...they might be harder than you... lastly judgement of a picture or viewing shit doesn't make you strong !!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
PoliteActivist:I don't concede to anything |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
kkins25:That oath has nothing to do with my personal life and the choices i choose to make. So if I say, no dating, no marriage, it works for me, it's my opinion. It's what i want and it is my life. Which is in keeping with evolutionary biology. I merely advised op, she is free to take or leave it, i am not trying to prove right or force my opinions down her throat like you. Last i remember, i am first a human being, a woman, an african before a doctor. The oath tells me to take care of myself, that also includes mentally, physically, socially and spiritually. Have a lovely day 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by IME1: 11:04pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Xioxing: Na now you dey wake? Go back to sleep... Sweet dreams Make i look for one picture dash you first
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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 11:05pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: U mean "I don't concede anything". Well why not? Show how the statement is false |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by LedRock: 11:54pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Ybaby:Ok little girl, please yourself. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by LordOfTheGame: 12:03am On Jun 12, 2020 |
olumide4christ: Thank you and God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by kkins25(m): 12:11am On Jun 12, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:well of course, don't take this personal. So if I say, no dating, no marriage, it works for me, it's my opinion. It's what i want and it is my life.sure. Its not your life we are talking bout. My querry was-is with the suggesttion to the OP that you- a prof in the field gave on basis of sentiments and not considering that the OP has a life quite different from yours. A patient cant come to you for counsel on STDs and you tell him not to have sex. No!! Which is in keeping with evolutionary biology. I merely advised op, she is free to take or leave it, i am not trying to prove right or force my opinions down her throat like you. i wasn't forcing my opinion down anybodies throat. I was merely pointing out that suggesting to the OP a particular option because its your own operus mandi was unprofessional. This of course i assumed you were advicing as prof in your field. However, i forget, you too are human and this isnt a hospital. In that case, my humble apologies fumi. Last i remember, i am first a human being, a woman, an african before a doctor. The oath tells me to take care of myself, that also includes mentally, physically, socially and spiritually.wait lemme check again
Hmmmm.. Interesting!! With regards to the above, kindly be more considerate. Although i dont see where it particularly says : "The oath tells me to take care of myself, that also includes mentally, physically, socially and spiritually"of course to do your duty, you yourself must be well. Have a lovely daysame to you too. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by 2loadedguy: 1:06am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Intrepid01:Pls can u connect me yo this lady cos that's what I want too. A baby mama with no strings attached. I will sign up a contract to cater for the kid. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Intrepid01(m): 1:35am On Jun 12, 2020 |
2loadedguy: Oga stop it....your children deserves a home with a father and a mother to guide them. Do you know the bulk of the problems you see in the society today stem from disjointed family units. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by 2loadedguy: 2:04am On Jun 12, 2020 |
olumide4christ:That is your own cup of tea if you think the scam called marriage is what makes u matured. Some of us are heading to our 40s and still don't see any usefulness in the scam called marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by 2loadedguy: 4:09am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Jeferious:U are the most sincere person on this thread and may God bless you. I'm 37 and still don't see any benefit in wifing a woman. I can cook my meal or order from jumia, i can have sex whenever and however I want with any girl of my choice including the wives of the so called married responsible people, I give my clothes to the drycleaners and i have a worker that cleans up my duplex weekly. Can you now tell me what benefit a woman will bring to my home in the name of marriage other than to come and complicate my beloved life i'm living? All my friends are married and they tag me as irresponsible but the moment I remind them that they all have girlfriends more than me they shut up immediately. Marriage is solely for procreation and once u are able to get a child through whatever means available it's of no use anymore and a big scam. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Jeferious: 7:54am On Jun 12, 2020 |
2loadedguy:Don't mind the hypocrites. Na for people wey even get ear to listen to their blackmailing. As for me, personally I don cut off my own ears. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 8:05am On Jun 12, 2020 |
kkins25:This is not a hospital, but a public forum. I don't treat relationship advice as a medical condition. Don't bring my profession here pls. Its very annoying. She asked for relationship advice, you are bringing my profession. Of course if this was a hospital setting, it's different. I am doing an okay job of seperating the 2, kindly do the same. Are you reading the old version or updated part of the oath? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 8:06am On Jun 12, 2020 |
2loadedguy:Read it again, she wants nothing to do with you |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Rita5(f): 8:24am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Dicktion: Thats weirdly specific |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Youngpo413: 8:36am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Ningen:façade,damn! You are intelligent. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Luminary1: 8:52am On Jun 12, 2020 |
He doesn't see anything of value in you to warrant the ring. Your principles and his doesn't align. Any reasonable person would break up and find someone with same ideas. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Rita5(f): 8:56am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Hey there this is a tough one. I can only imagine how you feel. But my advice is that you tell him one last time in plain terms, that you don't want to be a baby mama, that you want a marriage instead, ask him not to interrupt you before you start so you can clearly and fully get everything off your chest. Tell him how you feel about him, express yourself and your intentions with all the love in your heart. Don't come off offensive or like you are setting an ultimatum even though that's the point of this conversation. This will only make him defensive and raise up his walls. Be loving and emotional in your approach, give him the ultimatum in a way that sounds like you don't want it but you will have no choice to walk away if he doesn't change his mind. He might most likely stick to his guns afterwards. If this happens, I know its hard but let him go and walk away. You won't be happy if you go alone with his babymama stuff and he won't be happy if you force him to marry you. The aim of this little display is to get him seriously thinking afterwards. If he truly loves you, he will come crawling back seeking your hand in marriage. If he doesn't come back, its okay too, you will find someone better. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by tammie24: 8:57am On Jun 12, 2020 |
vickydankal:you have said it all |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 9:23am On Jun 12, 2020 |
2loadedguy: Your opinion and choice, which in itself is a 'gift' from God, but never the fact! We shall all give account to God for our actions based on our CHOICES, right or wrong, and the FACTS of God's word! One more thing - if you have a sound relationship with God, you will never see marriage as a scam because you would know & have seen people who got married & had successful homes, just like I have. Happy Democracy day! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 9:24am On Jun 12, 2020 |
olumide4christ:Don't mind them 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 9:47am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: I hope you have made up your mind about your boyfriend. Trust me, moving forward to be his baby mama will never be God's will for you and like others have said, it will surely end in tears and regret. Men who start out having a baby mama will most likely never stop at 1, but will have many others, a case in point is Davido. Baby mamas will always be a statistic in the man's life & will always have regrets when they see their friends get married and have good homes. Most children that come as a result of baby mama are unstable and I don't know if you want that kind of situation for your children. Life as a single mom is demanding and not something you should wish for. To sum it up, Marriage is God's will & creation, I will always choose God's will over the will of men...I hope you do too. God will help you. I am a counselor in these kind of matters (offline) & I have & am currently counseling young people about these issues. I have recently started some online pages on Facebook, Instagram & YouTube where I will be posting videos, articles and quotes which talk about Relationships, Marriage, Finance & Career, just to guide people like you in making the right choices. If interested, you may send a WhatsApp message to my phone number in my profile so that I can send you the names/links to the pages. You may also WhatsApp me for further counseling, if you wish to. The Lord God will help you make the right choices going forward in Jesus name, Amen! Happy Democracy day! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by lightpurple: 4:36pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Boredasf:My friend go and listen to ladies of class, not the village mongers you sleep with. It’s now the other way around. Men are becoming liabilities very fast. Mostly Nigerian men like you |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 4:40pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
lightpurple:Leave the idiot. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by kkins25(m): 5:55pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:ehhhhn, are you paraphrasing what i said neh |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Leave the relationship and take to your feet. Such irresponsibility! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SURElee(f): 8:40pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
And you are creating an account to tell this sordid request from a boyfriend? If you like turn yourself to a baby mama na you sabi. I wonder what you are doing with a man who doesn't see you as a partner/wife to be and he doesn't have plans for you. If he is scared of marriage, he shouldn't be wasting your time. Kick him from your life and move on so a man who values you can see you biko. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by IyaTola: 6:23am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Ibfpleasant:Hi there! I am unable to access my ml mail so do well to drop your mail address. Thanks |
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