₦airaland Forum

Some of the comments here to you are insensitive and harsh maybe by people who have never carried a child. Thank you to the first person at commented.

Please take heart! It is always best to be secure in a marriage before mating. However, everyone’s story and path is different and God turns all situations for the good of those who believe. There are indications that you are carrying a child with unique and significant destiny. Every great future attracts great distractions. The man is not himself. Even a lot of married men misbehave during their wive’s pregnancy. I have 4 boys and the experience with each child for my wife has been different. There was one child that we thought this is the end of our marriage. Life is a movement against frictions or opposition. Please rise above the hurts, forgive in advance, cry when you need to, but speak daily to he child in your womb. Tell the child, mummy loves you. Daddy loves you. You’re a blessing to us and to the world. Play soft music whiles you are sleeping.

Finally, the fact that you carry a child for a man does not mean he is your husband. Time would not permit to tell you about one of my best friends, who came back to live in the city of her birth, became homeless and got pregnant for the man who offered a house. She went through hell, I look back today, the child is now on route to Univeristy, she is now married with two other children. Then, she was studying for first degree, now she has PHD and a good jobs with great business in London. We cried together during her pain, but today we laugh about it. The man might be yours, but focus on this child first.

I pray, you get angels visit you in human form to comfort you. Please, don’t harbour bitterness. The child is not a mistake. Selah.

It is cruel for anyone to crucify this women. I am 40 years old and I have lived 21 years outside Nigeria. I once went to Licence office to obtain Drivers Licence. Months later, my Licence was posted to me. On next visit to Nigeria, I was told by police that it is fake and was proven. On another occasion, paid for car documentation and some were not correct.

The system running in Nigeria and the desperate by some not all staff, it is not impossible for this to be a genuine mistake. But mischievous and most opposition are, they would crucify.

If we keep dealing like this, we would keep on killing the best of our brains.

This woman deserves more respect in this matter. Lived, 21 years in UK and I know how difficult it is to ascertain whatever you are getting from Nigeria.

That said, this would not serve as a case study for all abroad to check this with a lot more scrutiny.

Judging from the last election Ekiti held and how the previous government helped to rig. With Fayose and Obanikoro - There must be a reason a state governor does not want to receive the president, beyond just playing opposition. There must be something the police are looking for in the state house that you and I do not know.

Fayose is not clean in elections based on his antecedents.

But my issue with this APC lead government is - if they put the same level of effort is fighting the headmen killers and shame them publicly like this - they would need not to to work too hard to win elections. You cannot be selective in your fights. Fight the common enemy of the country not your private foes alone.

The greatest fight that can be given to Nigerian right now is for all of this politicians to repent, resign and retire. Allow fresh innovative and successful people to run the country. We are tired of this dramas.

For those hating Davido about asking Americansto come collaborate. You probably lack the sense of what is going on in the world. Nigerian Music is taking over the world. He is simply telling the Americans who haven’t to spot the opportunity.

Everything about his speech is spot on. I Don’t have his music but no matter the country I get to, you must hear someone playing his music or other Nigerian artist.

Black Americans need to start coming home more.

Please Manage this situation with wisdom.

Davido is chain smoker.

D’banj was a smoker!

Basketmouth was a chain smoker.

Being a smoker is a bad habit but you it can be overcome or he can still succeed with that personal defect. Don’t write him off... Nigeria frustrations and poverty leads many to get high on something.

Opportunity changes destiny and this family’s break came through you and therefore you must not end it abruptly.

The governments in Nigeria are proven irresponsible themselves. If they are responsible, a 5 year old would not be on the street begging for food. Where I am privileged to live - A child has benefits from birth while the mother has benefit for taking care of her child. This exists in some African countries too. It’s called social services.

Taju is not too young to be up and down. Emmanuella of Mark Angel was only 6 when she had her breakthrough. Her uncle who is her destiny helper is still there by her and he is making money being there.

Please, don’t derecognise the guy who helped Taju by recording him. In Yoruba Langauge they say “if one head Sunwon, it will rangba”

Nigerians are survivors and one person making it feeds many others. It’s our survival instinct and way of dealing with irresponsibility of leadership to structure national resources to benefit all.

The father can be rehabilitated. AY or anyone else can help him to move his trade or business to Lagos. Let him father his child, let him witness his greatness. Let’s allow them all to enjoy the fame. The ovation is loud on them. Let’s all see their transformation. If he fails again, let’s all rebuke him publicly.

The woman that gave food.... Comedians should go and eat at her shop, it will cost little to build her a bigger shop in the same place and actors should use her restaurant for movies. Her own breakthrough has come too.

As for you carrying him up and down. You are a unique human being. You may actually see your calling in this. It might have happened by serendipity, but, it could reveal an assignment. Look at my friend TY Bello - I knew her from singing (Kush ). I once saw her in London and thought, oh no Kush is gone. But her breakthrough came with Camera, photography which accentuated her Music. Today she is still relevant and would be for so long. She found Jumoke but has since helped transformed many others. Her brother who tried to do his best to see her and her team breakthrough is still relevant in the the industry.

Let us not be tired of doing good my people. For one day, you, your children or generation will be written in the Nigerian Bible.

My name is Abraham Great

It is working...

This is Wikipedia

He could not have this and not still be a graduate...

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dino_Melaye

Beautiful graduation... both men were able to talk to us freely. Took picture with as many. It's first time I see Governor of Sokoto in suit he looked great. His son says I have not seen him a lot then... lol..

Hmmm Nigerians...

If God the creator gave human being right to choose to go to Heaven or Hell..


If Bovi choose not to go to hell - It is his WILL

If Bovi Choose not to go to heaven - It is his WILL

If you choose to abuse my comment - It is your WILL

I think 2FACE should start addressing government with songs and Bovi can protest from his stage...

As for Governent --- You guys need to let people know you still don't know the answer but you are trying.


As for president:

Maybe if you can forget any hiding agenda if any exists at all in your heart.

If you can forgive more than you hold old grudges

If you can address the issue of nepotism -

Maybe you can build a better government...

Nigeria does not belong to anybody just as you do not belong to anybody.

Nigeria belongs to everybody just as you belong to everybody.

We be great Nigeria with ONE MIND...

I think last ever commented on this site in 2005, but this is so funny that it is a news that I have to comment.

What's wrong with going to Lome by road. It is safer in west africa to do that journey by road than by air. I used to travel that road at least four times a year from Lagos to Ivory Coast as a teenager. I use to drive to nigeria from Ivory Coast. Lome is only maximum of 3.5 hours from badagry and the road is clear. Accra should be 5 hours. Its is better than having a casualty on a plane for 100 staffs.

Please stop making fun of a wise decision. If I am ever to travel to Ghana from Nigeria at anytime, it would be by road. I love it so much that that I still enjoy travel from UK up to Ireland on Road, Paris on Road and doing UK to Germany with family in August.

The road is ecowas's road and the last time i travelled on it to visit, it is still very good.

Nothing wrong!!!