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FamilyRe: My Wife's Married Ex Keeps Sending Money To My Inlaws. S by Lekby25: 5:21pm On Oct 30, 2025
Feisu:
I'm sure he still has feelings for my wife and she's feigning ignorance.
If she and her family are comfortable receiving monetary and other forms of gift from another man, don't you think I should be worried.
It is not good for a married woman to maintain a relationship with her ex, it can destabilize her own marriage
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by Lekby25: 2:46pm On Oct 30, 2025
tobeezman:
I met this fine geh at a tech event in Lagos.
Before the event started, we had a little chit-chat and mehn, she was exactly my type. Beautiful, intelligent, confident, and we just clicked. You know that kind of connection that feels like you’ve known someone for years? Yeah, that was it.

Throughout the event, we kept vibing, laughing at the same jokes, sharing ideas, everything just aligned.

At the end, I asked for her name she said Linda.
Cool name.

Then I asked where she was from, she said Anambra.
My eyes lit up. I’m from Anambra too!

So I got curious and asked, “What village?”
She mentioned it and boom, it’s in the same local government as mine. I was like, “This is fate.”

Everything was lining up perfectly.
She was single, I’m single, we shared interests, goals, and background… until one tiny moment changed everything.

She gave me her business card and I didn’t see a single Igbo name on it.
Both her first and last names were English.

When I got home, I texted her, I asked, gently, “Don’t you have an Igbo name?”

Her reply?

“I don’t like my Igbo name, and I don’t like speaking Igbo either.”

That one message drained everything I felt for her.
Instantly.

It wasn’t about tribal pride or anything dramatic, it was just the realization that we might see identity differently.
Because for me, being Igbo isn’t just where I’m from, it’s who I am. It’s the rhythm in my thoughts, the tone in my laughter, the root of my values.

And when someone rejects that part of themselves, it feels like they’ve rejected a part of me too.

So yeah… I ghosted her.
Not because she wasn’t amazing, but because something in me went cold.
I'm a Yoruba man, but i share your feelings, why will someone castigate and reject his/her source, where you come from, that is somehow surprising to me. I think you should ask her for the reasons for that, probably she might have genuine reasons.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Approves 15% Import Duty Tax On Petrol, Diesel by Lekby25: 11:40am On Oct 30, 2025
Fuel importers will cry, those who want to continue importation at all cost
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Approves 15% Import Duty Tax On Petrol, Diesel by Lekby25: 11:38am On Oct 30, 2025
PoliticsRe: Customs Recruitment: 'Lagos got more slots than all Northern. states combined" by Lekby25: 11:17am On Oct 30, 2025
Bahamas95:
What do you mean by "Southerners"?



Be specific next time, don't involve we south south people in your romance with your alley.
Are you people not in the southern region of the country?
PoliticsRe: Customs Recruitment: 'Lagos got more slots than all Northern. states combined" by Lekby25: 11:15am On Oct 30, 2025
aribisala0:
When states were first created
They were 12
All other states have been split into at least 2 some 4 or more states

East Central is now 5 states
Lagos state is the only one of those 12 states that has not split and has only about 20 Local Government Areas

Yet it contributes most

Lagos state is most marginalised. If Lagos splits into 5 states it is okay

It is four times the land mass of Singapore
Are you saying Lagos is bigger than Singapore? Let me hear that again
EducationRe: Private Universities Vs Federal Universities; Which Truly Offers Better Value? by Lekby25: 2:28am On Oct 28, 2025
Smartwave:
Keep on with old glory. Which resourceshuh? Visit some of top private universities and come back here.
Let him go and visit Covenant University, and make research, he will know what they call resources, and good management of the resources.
BusinessRe: Man Raises Alarm After Spotting Hundreds Of Dangote Tankers, Sparks Monopoly Fea by Lekby25: 12:52am On Oct 28, 2025
aribisala0:
Dangote is 68

Nigeria will inherit the refinery
By the grace of God, Dangote will live very long on the earth, so forget about him dieing early and Nigeria inheriting his refinery
BusinessRe: Man Raises Alarm After Spotting Hundreds Of Dangote Tankers, Sparks Monopoly Fea by Lekby25: 12:49am On Oct 28, 2025
bluefilm:
The man raising this alarm and crying wolf now must be from nupeng or pengassan
Sure, he should be
BusinessRe: FOREX Traders Struggle To Survive As CBN Cuts BDCs Off From Dollar Supply by Lekby25: 5:28pm On Oct 27, 2025
Kukutente23:
You didn't explain how it won't
You don't seem to have good comprehension capacity
What is the relationship between BDC demand for foreign currency and using naira cards for international transactions?
Allowing the use of naira cards to transact international business means you no longer need to carry cash dollars abroad when traveling, thereby reducing demand for cash dollars, meaning that nothing to force the price up, simple economics
PoliticsRe: Sen Adeola Yayi Launches 12 Power Projects In Ogun Communities by Lekby25: 10:44pm On Oct 26, 2025
Ikumapkayi:
This is not propaganda. He just gave us a new transformer in my area. On the contrary Eleyi moved tractors to our road, yet they aren't fixing the road. What they do everyday is to move sand up and down. The man is a disaster if their is any other word to describe him. Ogun and Osun states are the worst run state in the South West.
Heeh! Please don't bring Osun into your
comments. What do you know about Osun.
Adeleke is still performing far better than
the immediate past two governors of Osun
State. He is well loved in Osun. Except those who are pained because they were driven out of government by the Osun people because of their bad performance
Christianity EtcRe: Man Reveals How Nathaniel Bassey Gave Up ₦1.4B To Preach God’s Word (Photos/Vid) by Lekby25: 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2025
Racheal45:
No vex bro
But how do you differentiate between God voice and a demon voice
Both speak to their servant
God's voice comes with peace,and never negates His written word, you will know God is the one speaking to you
RomanceRe: Avoid Sleeping With Someone's Wife by Lekby25: 1:01am On Oct 26, 2025
DMCA:
guy u are free to explore in this case cool
Sleeping with a widow before marrying her is fornication, it is still not right. In this case you are enjoying what is not yet legally yours
PoliticsRe: I Rejected El-rufai As My Successor – Obasanjo by Lekby25: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2025
MarkNsukkaBread:
When e reach your turn to choose a successor make you choose person wey you no go fit control you hear grin
Why do you need to control your successor. Two persons don't see things thesame way all the time. Sometimes you have different opinions about a situation, hence the reason why a person can't be controlling the other everytime
PoliticsRe: I Rejected El-rufai As My Successor – Obasanjo by Lekby25: 12:38pm On Oct 25, 2025
AMINDA:
Apt. He passed up on Elrufai after losing out on 3rd term agenda and imposed a sick Yaradua and a pliable Jonathan on Nigerians to rule by proxy. Only to resort to letter writing when Jonathan dared to be his own man. Despite all his excesses, Obasanjo remains the most detribalized Nigerian till date and assembled a cabinet that no single President has matched till date. In hindsight, his quest for third term may not have been bad afterall but we will never know.
Your analysis is very true. You are a sincere analyst
PoliticsRe: Any Attempt To Detain Sowore Will Be Met With Mass Resistance - Sanyaolu Juwon by Lekby25: 11:07am On Oct 24, 2025
sreamsense:
Who are the "mass" you are referring to? You, your family members and ignorant friends, right? This your test of microphone for making noise will not work, Sowore is now legally arrested. If you call for protest again, police will approach court again for another order and you will go and join your boss. Tell your account to prepare his worker salary on time, and pay his workers their due because Sowore may spend days in detention. Pray they not use delay tactics to get bail. Little by little, you will get sense
Oooh! We shall see who owns the country
Forum GamesRe: Delete One Forever by Lekby25: 2:02am On Oct 24, 2025
SisterAnn:
I'm already on my sixth pregnancy by myself.
How
CelebritiesRe: MC Mbakara: Why My Daughter Has Been Asleep For Nine Years by Lekby25: 7:54pm On Oct 22, 2025
Pootle:
menh this is very sad. nigeria did not happen to her that lame excuse. at childbirth anything can happen, people give birth on the street, public busses, home without proper medical attention the children are fine,

in life not everything go the way you want it at times.

blaming every misfortune on the country is baseless, its time for us all to cherish this shithole, when you have data for youtube check out living conditions of countries like countries solmalia, central african republic, burundi, south sudan etc then you realize that you living in plenty in your little
There is no reason why Nigeria should not have better than this, if we have been managing our resources judiciously. 65 years of independence, no stable power, no good water, natural resources God gave to us freely without asking us for one kobo, we are not enjoying any benefit from it, except very few people and their families enjoying the common wealth, Haba, think of it yourself nah, is that fair enough
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 5:43am On Oct 21, 2025
ArcSEMPECJ:
Sometimes when people talk , I find it difficult to understand the understanding that they lack the knowledge of what is fighting them...

The deep cause of what is fighting you is not physically manipulated , inshort if you try anything physically, your Father will chase you out of that his house...

You need to go seek for a Greater power, go Spiritual, talk to God in prayers, declare a spiritual war to claim and reclaim your possession in the family , give yourself fasting, check in the bible, Bible verses that deals with manipulation and house hold enemies, and deal with them immediately....

Also know it that the woman has been in the background since, what she gave your Father is not today, she is only manifesting now in the Physical after winning your Father in the Spiritual.... just know you don't have a Father for now but someone manipulated from the dark world....

If you don't know how to pray, go to your Church if they are grounded in prayers and make a request, the fight is not a Physical battle ...you will lose if you fight physically Sir...

Command her to leave your family by fire 🔥 of the Ghost Spirit...be prayerful,
He said himself and his father have never entered any church before. He said he doesn't need Jesus for anything
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 9:45pm On Oct 20, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to the @OP, abeg! 🥱🥱🥱
All of you that has no value for Jesus, i can assure you, you will be brought down to your knees to confess his name, except God is no longer alive i swear. Mark my word for it
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 9:31pm On Oct 20, 2025
natedensel:
Jesus isn't my concern now, na physical battle I dey fight rn due to this woman and her encroachment tactic, she might unalive my dad and move everything soon.
You are very, very, ignorant. You are fighting a physical battle without a spiritual strength. You are risking your life my dear brother. Do you know how spiritualiy strong that your father's concubine is. With her spiritual strength she has turned your father into her slave, and you are telling me Jesus no be your concern now. Whether Jesus is your concern or not, you will definitely come to this nairaland to say, that is if you are lucky enough. I will not say more than that. Good night
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 9:20pm On Oct 20, 2025
Omoawoke:
Most people that die untimely death is due to marriage
Nothing else takes the life of a man faster other than a bad marriage. And most men that fail in life are as a result of bad marriage
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 9:15pm On Oct 20, 2025
natedensel:
My dad has never set foot in a church, nor have I, and he's not Muslim, but he believes in God, just that he's not churchy or religious, but I'm in my 20s and the oldest and my siblings are teenagers and adolescents.
There is a very serious problem here, if your father and you never step into a church. You better go and give your life to Jesus first, then accept Him as your Lord and Saviour, build yourself up spiritually before concerning yourself with family matters, or else you are risking your life.
FamilyRe: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by Lekby25: 9:02pm On Oct 20, 2025
natedensel:
My mum died not long ago, and my dad has a hand in her demise because her marriage was a turbulent one and she died of HBP, now shortly after she died, my dad came along with one woman who is very bold and shameless, first off she already has children from another fling not marriage, and now she comes and sleeps over, infact she's not discreet about it she's bold, brazen and doesn't feel ashamed of what she's doing.

Recently she has gotten more relaxed , she used to mind her business, she comes and do her thing and leaves, now she overstays, and she's now meddling in our family affairs, trying to mom me and my siblings now, then turning our dad away from us, now my dad sponsors her and her child from another relationship but neglects us like he did our mom.

I could easily make life miserable for her but I am not interested because I'm moving out as soon as possible, but what about my siblings, she has taken over everything and now she's my father's voice.
See, if that woman is making life miserable for you and your siblings, then the woman is a wicked woman. If you have the opportunity of restricting her wickedness now, and you refuse to do it, she will make life more miserable for your siblings when you are no longer there. Wickedness resides in the heart of a person. Situation doesn't make a person wicked, it only brings out the wickedness already residing in the heart of that person.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria’s Rising Debt Profile Scaring Away Foreign Investors — Afe Babalola by Lekby25: 5:36pm On Oct 19, 2025
Alliswell248:
Baba, you are a legal luminary and not an economist.
The debt profile is still under 100 billion usd.

US is owing in trillions, equally china.
UK, Germany and many others are owing thousands of usd in billions.

Debt is needed to speed up infrastructure development.

We need money for railway, electricity, and many things
Stop comparing developed nations to Nigeria in terms of debt acquisition. Is it the way we pay heavy salaries and buy SUVs worth several millions of naira to our politicians here thesame way other developed countries pay their public servants. The level of curruption that takes place here, is it thesame level of curruption that takes place in the developed nations.
Foreign AffairsRe: ICC Rejects Israel's appeal To Void Arrest Warrant On PM Netanyahu & Gallant by Lekby25: 8:59pm On Oct 18, 2025
Softmirror:
I told one Israeli obsessed fanatic that Netanyahu is a wanted criminal by ICC. He didn't even know.
But ICC knows the road to Israel, they should go to Israel and arrest him there, is he running away from them?
Foreign AffairsRe: ICC Rejects Israel's appeal To Void Arrest Warrant On PM Netanyahu & Gallant by Lekby25: 5:15pm On Oct 18, 2025
CondemnBattery:
You can actually help ICC in arresting him.
You all are clowns
Go and arrest him nah, ICC no no the road to Israel, you arrest him and arrest Trump join am, because Trump gave him heavy military assistance, toothless ICC.
FamilyRe: My Newly Married Wife Took in and Had Refused To Copulate by Lekby25: 12:52am On Oct 17, 2025
Ozzyk:
A legally married man should put his cap on hold for 9 months? And who told you you can start knacking you wife again immediately after 9 months? U must at least give her 8 weeks to heal after delivery
And it differs from women to women
Some could take more time
This is one of the reasons why people of old usually had more than one wife, but christianity has changed everything, so some men find it difficult to cope
HealthRe: The Hidden Dangers Of Unregulated Agbo Herbal Mixtures by Lekby25: 8:25pm On Oct 15, 2025
online4business:
You're spot on. Here's something to add.

Nadfac get kick backs from many fake drug barons.

Now it's going out of hand they want to pin it on abgo sellers.

How many Nigerian take agbo and how many states really sell agbo.

Fake and counterfeit drugs and substance nadfac should regulate.

rather they are always in bed with these merchant of death.

Nadfac know the people behind the importation of Fake and counterfeit drugs. And it's not the average agbo seller.

Nadfac should go after them leave the agbo seller trying to make a living.

Fact: The late Dora refused to play ball with drug baron and she was silenced.


Even in the US pharmaceutical companies cause more harm than good...they are all out for profit.

The so-called pharmaceutical companies are even greedier than people selling adulteration products.

Covid, moderna, fizer (Monsanto the evil corporation all proved it)

All these companies are own my nobody else by Black Rock and vanguard group.

Herbs is God's way of protecting people who know and value nature.

Here's hot sauce for people who want to learn.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_largest_pharmaceutical_settlements_in_the_United_States

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_off-label_promotion_pharmaceutical_settlements
The Late Dora Akunyili was never silenced, by anybody. She was a woman of courage who refused to give up. She died a natural death
PoliticsRe: Why I Was Absent At Council Of State Meeting – Wike by Lekby25: 1:00am On Oct 15, 2025
zero8zero:
He broke the news that someone is sick? grin. Who doesn't fall sick?, doesn't Sowore himself fall sick, does he announce it to you when he goes for treatment?. You guys are 🤡
But remember Sowore is not a public servant.

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