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highchief1:
ok o but give the guy small time e go soon begin cry.i also tot my wife was sent from heaven until lately.

yea people do change but most times the red flag is there but ignored by us in the heat of the moment. That is why you should marry a god-fearing babe.

highchief1:
marriage na scam.i have falllen for it.im working on modalities to walk out of it.na my kids welfare I Dey consider.theres no need to marry a naija woman.They are only after what u can provide.i have not seen a Nigerian woman that loves a man genuinely.

I talk am say you are passing thru a lot and it's reflecting totally in your outlook on life. Not every marriage will be ill-fated like yours sir.

My condolences though.

highchief1:
who told u u are lucky.do u know what she is cooking,

oga highchief, you have a disturbingly negative outlook on holy matrimony. This is obvious right now.

naijapikin2:
See ehn... This thread is timely. I am married (for want of a better word).. the case of divorce between her and I, has been in court for close to a year. And it's expensive. I just cleared the last installment of payment 3 weeks ago, so we both will be free say by this month end. Wahala everywhere... To marry wahala... To divorce wahala.

I won't advice ant young man to do court wedding sam sam. Just do traditional after you must have impregnated her. As for us... Our wedding didn't produce any children.

I'll come here and celebrate, maybe do giveaway when the divorce is concluded.

Nothing like peace of mind o.
. wallahi

imagine 34 year old lady I want to marry is insisting on court wedding, trad and white wedding before she will allow me have sex with her, can you imagine? Me I like her and she is a virgin but her conditions can't be met by me.

Ahmed0336:
What did he see in that small girl? Despicable!!!!

where in this write up was a girl mentioned?

Sometimes, all a woman needs is to chill and know exactly what the husband loves and not just making assumptions and scoring herself high.

Gambling is a very wicked spirit. E no get pity laye.

Myrepublic:
Infection has taken over his gbola. Sighted someone like that around a bustop yesterday. I was just laughing,cux of the way he was looking at people around him,to see if they are seeing him.

no eyes won't see him because he is in ghostmode

HEAVEN4444:
brah , married or not, I no fit.😁 Walahi talahi

I have an angel for a wife, I can do it for her. We are one!

highchief1:
be nice enough to come back here when e set.been there done that.

marriage is not a one size fits all. What works for you might not work for me and vice versa. My formula is working for me 💯. Quarrels dey normally come oo, we dey resolve am.

Animal Gattuso.

Baba naked in year 2005 champions league finals.

HEAVEN4444:
hmmmm you are on your own ooooo werey 😁😁😁😁😀😀😀😀

it means you are not really married then. These things shouldn't be strange to you. Listen, what I did was a one-off thing because of the pains she was in when her flow started in my presence. She normally handle her things, no big deal.

highchief1:
e go soon tire u.u don go motuary once?u know wetin dem Dey write for the door?”we were once like you”.People who divorced loved their partners more than u.dey play.

The Love of God for you no fit tire am. Christ commanded me to love her the way He loves the church. Talk about the submission, she get am 💯. Let's ride bro.

GreatOchuks:
Please some of us are eating while scrolling through, don't make me throw up

Taa, you sound as if you don't use the convenience. Forget guy, we all are humans. You should thank me for the lectures. I know a lot of things practically about the being called WOMAN. It's okay by me.

HEAVEN4444:
Hmmmmm well that is the Koko of the matter is keeping it sweet. The only way is to stay sexy and avoid seeing finish. Don't let him see your bloody draws during period or smell your shit. As a woman you must be perceived as a flower, smelling nice at all times and looking fresh and so you must insist on your own private bedroom where you do things that should not be seen. Keep fit and eat Mediterranean diet. Don't go and be eating 10 wraps of iyan oooooo , nobody wants iya apati 😀😀

You do not seem to understand what love is all about. I have washed my wife's panties with her flow on it. I have seen some secretions that don't look so nice, she has farted uncountable times in my very before . Guess what, I'm loving her harder! That to me is real love. Love should not be conditional if it is to be pure. Yea keeping fit is very essential and both of us do that and also live healthy.

MMempire:
Something must kill a man. One man's food is another man's poison.

yet when this death comes facing you, you start crying 😂

Unseen:
In military, one of the Rules of Engagement states that a civilian with a weapon is military and should be treated as such.

In man/woman relationship... A woman that hits you first is a Man and should be treated as such

if you see a thunderous slap a Keke rider gave his female passenger because the woman gave him slap first. We held the man so the situation don't escalate. I later thought to myself that that slap on the woman's face was befitting since she felt it was okay to slap the Keke rider publicly.

Nnamdipapa:
Lazy, no ambition, extremely religious, house is always dirty, never cooks for the kids and always on social media.
I pray and wish she cheats so I can have a legit excuse for divorce.

what the hell? I would have wondered what made you fall out of love.

Nnamdipapa:
I cut her off already and she is not allowed to pass the night in my house. Same goes for my brother in laws. Unfortunately, my wife has turned out to become her mother version 2.0 and has refused to consider a divorce when I told her I no longer love her. She would rather die in the marriage.

What can you say made you fall out of love with your wife? Decline in her sexual prowess? Faded beauty?

EvilMerodack:
He is right tho

Be specific about the kind of girls you roll with. I use their profession/work place to save contact. If you dey work for big firm or you dey very very succesful in business, i go save am. I no dey do corpers, students and random street ladies



I have never sent Data or Airtime to a lady in 5years. There are also ways you psyhce women in your first few convo that they will be scared to say shii like this

Plus, if woman see say you fit pull higher value women with substance, she no go follow you dey discuss hunger matter

What of your fiancee?

Rickz247:
My Brother if there's anything that is more than faithful that's what I am to her, [b]she took the advantage that I always apologize to her even when it's crystal clear that she's the one at fault, [/b]she even went as far as telling me to call her people to refund me the Bride Price I paid and all that, now I've made up my mind because my life is more important, let her go since that's what she wants I know it's a painful decision but let it be as she wants it.

I have been at this bustop of your life, trust me. When you do this, it is very dangerous because women are like children and sometimes don't even know what they need. Even if she decides it is irremediably over, you will be fine, trust me. When my Ex-wife left the second time, I cried uncontrollably and after sometime, I found true love, heaven on earth. No man can hold your life down bro. It can be excruciatingly painful right now but you will be fine.

SKYloafFISH:
We do beauty for ourselves and not to please any man. Can't I look good for myself?

all those nonsense you lots do is not beautiful oo. Make una give una self sense oo.

chiiraq802:
The wan I hate pass but no be makeup. na dat wan weh dem dey lift there tops, mk dere yansh dey show..... thunder go fire who invent dat tin

lol some women no just get sense.

Dtruthspeaker:
I know in your seemp world you people are accustomed to wasting your time and monies on a girl just for her to say hello to you. And for her touch and hold your hand ₦200k plus would have left your account. And in all these you people stupeedly rationalize it saying that you are helping the girl.

Only for you to come out shouting and wailing how you have been wasting money on a girl yet you got nothing in return.

If you people enjoyed helping them then why are you complaining about the monies you spent? It's you lot that make women think that men are f00ls.

go and take pap boy.

Monopoly was killed by the Dangote refinery that was built. It still also appears as politics to me. He seems to be working hand in hand with FG to be able to put up that massive refinery, otherwise, FG wouldn't have allowed him build that.

Love800:
Yes na.
I did well in my exams.
What else do they want from me!

is exam the true test of knowledge? Is passing exams the definition of passing through a higher institution?

Dtruthspeaker:
Bros, sorry o, I no believe you. You know how much you don bleed troway already?

Men no dey troway money for woman wey dem no penetrate. And from the way you still allow her hang around you, e be like say you dey collect release

your submission is very shallow and hold no water. So you belong to the evil club that cannot help a feminine gender without tearing apart her undies? You lot are perverts.

Connected1:
To be honest eh, I am always glad I never asked her out for fun or whatever neither did I ever have sex with her and she has been hiding under the mask of being a strong Christian.

She's very manipulative but it's well, we learn everyday.

manipulation is the stock in trade of most ladies. I use binoculars to look at every lady that claims to be a strong Christian.

Rickz247:
Bro I think we in this mess together, I married a woman I truly love and will do anything for her, but lately she changed after three kids, this woman always flirts on social networks with all caliber of men, ranging from Coco, tango and various social apps that are mainly for single ladies. The most annoying aspect is that she doesn't hide it at all, each time I tried to talk Sense into her she flares up and become violent, she will lock herself inside while she flirt with all sorts of men and refused to come out to meet me when I return from work, am just a broken man, am entirely handicapped because of the three kids that are involved, I even thought of divorcing her but looking at those innocent kids make me think twice, I just left her this afternoon because I can't stand her video calls from one of her clients laughing Merrily like two love birds, am really heart broken

she fell out of love with you. Do you believe in God? Are you faithful to her? Pray for a return to normalcy and status quo.

pocohantas:
Hahaha. This one is kinda true.
I have a friend like this. Funny she was trying to pass the paranoia to me. Always telling me a friend is out to get me/my home over things as basic as ant infestation. 😂😂😂

this is a terrible case!

Farrason:
How does a woman who has been calibate for a year have STI or STD. Where e pass?

STI or STD is only through sex I suppose.

you can get those from sharing toilets with infected people.

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

T-R-U-E-S-T.