Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 11:24pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
Solcampbell: Good morning I believe their lifestyle could be a major contributing factor. Majority of the northerners still strongly maintain traditional and religious values. I'd say about 90 percent of northern women wait until marriage to lose thier virginity.
Even when they get married, northeners still frown at birth control pills and methods. We all know that.
Generally speaking, It has been suggested that hormonal contraceptives, abortion pills could interfere with a woman's fertility in the future.
You see, it's not just about the eggs released every month, there's also an intricate web of reproductive system and every part play a role in fertility and birth.
Also, the regular food people eat might influence their overall health and immunity. The core and improverished north consume fresh and locally source food which are still nutrient-dense. This is way better than junk food and sugary snacks.
Honestly, I've never met or heard of a hausa woman with fibroids. But that doesn't mean they're non-existent. you are making sense. |
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Health › Re: My True Horror Story Of Crack Addiction And Recovery Process by lendahand(m): 6:24pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by lendahand(m): 1:09pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 12:54pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
malcom1X: Giving birth early but if I got your post correctly, you said they continue churning out babies even when they are past 40 yrs of age, without complications and IVF just like they did in their 20s. |
Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 12:48pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Villa12: I shall want you to know that men plenty pass women in terms of population. not true |
Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 12:42pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Solcampbell: Bro. Thanks for your this. I've seen many comments saying " statistics that have proven that getting pregnant over 35 years is risky" and blablabla and I'm kinda confused.
Here in the north, some women will get married at their late teens or early twenties and continue to give birth till the day they stop seeing her menses, 45, 50 or 55. Giving birth to 12, sometimes 14, or 17 children. Infact I've even seen a woman who dropped 21 children and there was no twins o. All na single births.
What's more intriguing, southerners no dey born plenty. I guess the average children amongst households over there is 2 kids, especially in this economy. But a average hausa woman at age 35 might still go ahead and add like 3 to 5 children to the kids she already have.
Here in the north, it is very common to see a woman whose first grandchildren are same age as her own last borns or even older sef.
Mind you, quite a number of northern women still give birth successfully at home rather than opting for the hospitals, even the ones that are above 30 years. No surrogacy or IVF no nothing and the baby very healthy.
Are these commenters saying that women in the southern part of Nigeria were built differently since they are prone to a higher risk pregnancy due to age according to "statistics?" those northern women, what's their secret for smooth child bearing?? |
Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 12:39pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
tete7000: I am the last in my house and my mum gave birth to me when she was over 40 and thought she was done with childbearing and I am not deformed. I have a sister who had spinal cord injury, she had her last child with her condition after she was 40 and the child is a big graduate and employed now. I have seen people who were young and gave birth to deformed children. So where do all these your assertion come into my experience? How does someone like me relate to it? They are simply some of those baseless biases some of you decide to build around life. God should be allowed to guide people individually in their choices in life. There will be so many who marries early and won't have children until late in their marriages, infact there has been many like that without deformed children. If your life is ruled by such fears, you can keep them to yourself and your immediate families,.no need to stop spreading panics and your paranoia to others. God bless you. These people are too absolute in their deformed submissions. Internet makes more and more people dumb by the day. |
Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by lendahand(m): 12:04pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Okortor: Too late cos all ur boobs must have gotten flat alongside ur pussy...so venture into single mother hood and let a man marry fresh virgin with standing boobs nipple. Enough of serving men with evening newspaper........ You talk carelessly and thoughtlessly yet your signature makes who you are all the more confusing. |
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Travel › Re: Country To Go On A 10m Budget by lendahand(m): 1:51pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
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Health › Re: Have You Ever Been To A Morgue? by lendahand(m): 5:47pm On Nov 16, 2024 |
illicit: When my dad died
His body was returned to his hometown. Because he was believed to be attacked spiritually by unknown enemies. Yoruba call them Aye (world) and their potent tool is Ofa (invisible Arrow)
So he wasn't taken to the morgue. His brothers, nephews and male cousins laid him on a bed in his old room. Cleaned and dressed him up in his favorite dress. Then I was summoned as one of his two boys and his last child.
I witnessed them putting a matchet that was wrapped with red linen in his hand and chanting incantations that he shouldnt slumber, he must find his killers and cut them down.
I was maybe 9 but I know that they were just being poetic and dramatic, that is personification of a corpse. A dead man can not use a matchet. Only a living person would. If a spiritual world exists I doubt if he would need a matchete to bring anybody down. I believed that they were confused but they were very serious.
When he was being buried. These same relatives were there and a reverend was officiating and they were reciting the bible passages and singing hymns that he should rest and praying and saying Amen.
The reverend probably didn't know that there was a matchete in the coffin. people who claim to be traditional are the most confused set of folks bro. You open a can of water or drink in an open place and then pour libation (to your ancestors) but you open same bottle inside your living room and start drinking without pouring same? Confusion!!!  |
Romance › Re: Girl Got Flogged By Brother After Tattooing Boyfriend Face On Her Chest (Photos) by lendahand(m): 6:19pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
pointblank247: na lie . Gen Z is known for fearlessness and smartness plus thech savvy. This fool with boy friend's tattoo is not gen Z. GenZ is not only about age. It's also about quality of mind you mean to say foolishness? |
Family › Re: Married Men, What's Your Greatest Regrets About Marriage by lendahand(m): 10:48am On Nov 15, 2024 |
nevilbot: Next time, read to understand and not to be ist to comment. Everything isn't about emotion , sometimes apply common sense before commenting.
In your rush to comment, you totally ignored where I said "if your economic situation allows it".
Or are you saying there are no peeps in their late 20s or early 30s whose economic situation allows settling down and having a child? I want to understand how there is no fun in having a baby in your 40s. |
Family › Re: Married Men, What's Your Greatest Regrets About Marriage by lendahand(m): 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2024 |
harqinhola: 1,Marry a woman that loves to keep a home and be married. You cannot keep who doesn’t want to be kept.
2, Marry someone that values your efforts no matter how little and chooses to be with you regardless . Remember , there will always be someone better than you outside .
3, Marriage is a liability, if you have a dependent wife . Your growth will be slow.
4, MARRY SOMEONE THAT RESPECTS AND ADORE YOU . That way, you will have a reason to be selfless.
5, REPEAT NUMBER 4 . Brilliant comment. There is this lady I want to marry but I'm still in the wooing stage. She blocked me on Facebook and blocked me on WhatsApp always claiming that I don't know how to answer a lady. She asked me my name, what I do and my age and I simply told her to date me and in the course of the dating, she will get to know the answers to all the questions she asked, she got angry and blocked me on WhatsApp thinking maybe I will call or sms her. It is more than 3 months now, I locked up. I can' marry this one in this condition oo. |
Family › Re: Married Men, What's Your Greatest Regrets About Marriage by lendahand(m): 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2024 |
nevilbot: My greatest regret is that I didn't get married and start having kids earlier. My advice to anyone planning to get married will be do what you have to do and get married before your 30s if your economic situation allows it. There is no fun in waiting for so long once you are convinced you have found the right person.
No fun in having a baby when you are close to 40 or in your 40s oga stop playing. I rather have a baby when I'm fifty and give it the best life effortlessly rather than have one at 20 yrs and struggling for the rest of my youthful days to raise it. |
Family › Re: Married Men, What's Your Greatest Regrets About Marriage by lendahand(m): 4:32pm On Nov 14, 2024 |
Zimzy: My greatest regret is that I married late at 35 aside from that am having a fulfilled time in marriage. my father got married at 48! At 38 now I'm still single bro. |
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by lendahand(m): 11:57pm On Nov 13, 2024 |
BlindAngel: You hit the nail right on the head, early last year when I was struggling with absolutely nothing. I mean absolutely nothing, I don't even have as little as 1,000 naira as at then, I sold my Gen, my home theater, my dstv pan and decoder. Just to pay house rent, no one looked my side, not even 200 naira to assist me now because I'm doing well, they think that I've a tree that grows money that I'm plucking from. guy don't apologize and add a threat of locking up anybody that you perceive a threat to your peace. They will never get over all this shock because you suddenly grew "wings" my only blame on you is impregnating someone like this from such a family. You somehow dragged yourself into this mess. |
Romance › Re: "What My Friend Learned From A Heartbreaking Experience: A Wake-up Call For Many by lendahand(m): 10:24pm On Nov 12, 2024 |
advanceDNA: She should go to hell naaaa.....So all the other money nko?? Otilor?? Sigh!!
Btw..why u just sending money anyhow to a girl u met online and hasn't proven to valuable or loyal to you....u just opening urself to easy exploitation..... Do u just feel u have to pay a woman to make them think u are serious...? Paying makes them think u are mugú
Make a women like u first, see that she's really into you, before u start being nice with your urgent 5K and people like this Maga will never help his fellow man. |
Politics › Re: Video Of Ex-Governor Fayose And His Family Praying By A Water Body by lendahand(m): 1:37am On Nov 12, 2024 |
Oshokomole! A very lively and drama-dishing governor. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Gas Cylinder: The Miracle That Happened In My Compound Which I Can't Understand. by lendahand(m): 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
NoFoodToCook: Last Thursday would've been a day I would've become homeless and brought back to POINT ZERO (even clothes I won't have again to wear) even when i'm still trying to build myself.
I live in a face-me-I-Trouble you compound and what usually happens in such compound is not strange to many.
Where my two neighbors cook, it's just a place near the entrance of their room door as there's no private kitchen and their cylinders are not far from each other.
On the said day, while one neighbor had already put on her cylinder, burning actively and cooking, the other came back from refilling her own cylinder.
In the process of the second fixing the burner on her cylinder, the regulator cut and the gas she just refilled was released uncontrollably.
Of course there's a serious panic and they started shouting and running away, including my very self. I was only on boxer in my room when it happened and that was how I ran out with only my phone I was holding at hand.
Due to the panic nobody even thought of putting off the cylinder that was burning. We all ran out and left the area like that.
Guess what?
Even when the released gas covered the entire building, it didn't cash fire from the one that was burning.
Please, who can explain how that was possible?
It was after we didn't hear noise from the cylinder that someone checked back and the other was still burning even when everywhere was smelling gas.
I strongly believed it was God that showed Himself. Otherwise, there would've been an explosion and the entire building would've been on fire.
I returned all the praise to God for the wonder miracle that is beyond what mouth can say. Because of his mercies we are not consumed. His mercies are new every morning and great is his faithfulness. Lamentations 3:22/23. Show appreciation to Jesus abeg. |
Celebrities › Re: Verydarkman Reacts To Donald Trump Banning Gender Transition(vid) by lendahand(m): 3:39pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
JASONjnr: But Kamala is a straight woman and she's married to a man.
Why is she supporting gay people?
Also, the democrats are a bunch of useless people. The concept of gay is a moment sponsored by powers in the democrats cycle.
From the day Biden won and on his swearing in, the gay people stopped praying and started misbehaving.
But I'm happy that Trump will erase that nonsense.
Imagine Kamala going from one African country to another to ask them why they're not practicing gay marriages? Na Obama devil use start all this trash. |
Investment › Re: Bitcoin Price Tops $80,000 For First Time As Trump Win Boosts Crypto Market by lendahand(m): 3:33pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
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Investment › Re: Bitcoin Price Tops $80,000 For First Time As Trump Win Boosts Crypto Market by lendahand(m): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
meobizy: If I could travel back in time, I would’ve bought thousands worth of Bitcoin in 2012. I would’ve adviced my family members to do the same. I honestly assumed it was a fad which would fade away like the dreaded music genre, dubstep. that's the future gold. How do I know? Check MCap!! |
Investment › Re: Bitcoin Price Tops $80,000 For First Time As Trump Win Boosts Crypto Market by lendahand(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2024 |
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Celebrities › Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Encounter With A Man Ransacking His Dustbin For Food by lendahand(m): 10:37am On Nov 11, 2024 |
Normal sight in Lagos. Scavengers eat food from the refuse bins within Ajao estate and other high brow neighbourhoods. I have witnessed this live. I was shocked to my marrows then, about 4 years ago not to even talk of now. Intact they come in batches and the batch that comes around 7am will not meet any food again  My sound bar is for sale in Lagos, call 07059598147 |
Investment › Re: Bitcoin Price Tops $80,000 For First Time As Trump Win Boosts Crypto Market by lendahand(m): 10:18am On Nov 11, 2024 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: The Flesh Is Still Weak by lendahand(m): 3:56pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Sowing to a dying flesh is death, says the Bible but sowing to the spirit is eternal Life. Lord Jesus, help the ones you suffered and bled for, to win this race. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Baltasar Ebang: Why Relapses Shouldn't Break Your Resolve To Quit Masturbation by lendahand(m): 3:13pm On Nov 10, 2024 |
Emma09: Mtcheeeewwww. Masturbation and watching of porn is a thing of the mind. I actually watched the video and I didn't masturbate. I had quit masturbation for almost 3yrs now and it stays like that. In as much I have my wife that I have access to for sex, Y would I go back to masturbation after almost 3yrs of quitting it just because I watched a leaked sex tape. I just made my mind strong after watching it and told myself I would never watch the video again. Me wey no even like to dey have porn video on my phone. I just see it irritating and irresponsible. So those that went back to masturbate after watching the sex tape, na dem Sabi. Lolzzzzz should we say you are standing strong because of your wife's availability? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Woman Shaves Her Hair To Protest Trump’s Win In America Election(vid) by lendahand(m): 8:52am On Nov 07, 2024 |
Softmirror: Trump may end up being assassinated like JF Kennedy. wake up from your dream. That won't happen. Save this mention. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Presidential Election: Trump Projected To Win Pennsylvania With 94% Votes In by lendahand(m): 9:43pm On Nov 06, 2024 |
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