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AutosRe: Toks Accord 2015 For Sale by lendahand(m): 9:45am On Jan 30, 2025
Location, drop contact.
HealthRe: Help!!! I Am A 31-Year-Old Struggling With Tramadol Addiction!! by lendahand(m): 8:12am On Jan 30, 2025
papyjaypaul:
Is your cousin's bro not your cousinhuh
in your mind now, you are better than him in English language grin
EducationRe: Scrabble Vs. Chess: Which Is A Better Board Game For Children's Education? by lendahand(m): 8:33am On Jan 28, 2025
GanagiBitrus:
Saying one's opinion doesn't count, without giving valid arguments to counter such opinion, is a dumb reply, to say the least. &my response was not an insult.

I played Chess back in the days. I even got a little book that analysed some classic games by popular Masters like Kasparov & Bob Fischer.

In all, I still regard Chess as a glorified draughts, or Advanced Draft like someone commented.
&I don't consider those who spend hours playing chess any different from idle folks who spend same hours playing Draft.
It's only those who don't understand Chess that look at chess players with awe.

Only advantage of Chess over Draft is if you're going professional where you'll participate in money-making competitions.

&back to the topic, Scrabbles remains better option for a kid. smiley

Cc:
lendahand
eventainment
Krismas
IbnB
pneumatikos
budaatum
I have never bordered to learn draught because of the type of persons I see gathered around where it is played. Chess is for sharp minded men and women and can't be compared to draught. Draught moves are one way patterned whereas chess has different pieces with different moves, you can be sniped at any moment and protecting yourself, hitting back at your opponent makes it all the fun. If a newbie goes to a draught joint, he will learn same day without anybody explaining to him but if you stand around chess play for years you might still get nothing except you are thoroughly tutored. One demands no skill, the other demands skills.
EducationRe: Scrabble Vs. Chess: Which Is A Better Board Game For Children's Education? by lendahand(m): 4:24am On Jan 28, 2025
budaatum:
Confession!

I do play chess all day, and I'm currently playing 12 games.

The oldest started 19-Dec-24 is below, and as you might note, I'm no genius.
why waste such time. Play faster bcus chess is normally timed.
EducationRe: Scrabble Vs. Chess: Which Is A Better Board Game For Children's Education? by lendahand(m): 4:20am On Jan 28, 2025
GanagiBitrus:
Even if my opinion counts 1million, it will never translate to ₦1million, so that makes it irrelevant.

But perhaps you are one of those who spend hours playing chess thinking you are doing something dignifying.
Bro, truth is there is no difference between you & those idle traders in the market who spend hours playing draft. smiley

Cc: budaatum
have you played a chess game b4?
EducationRe: Scrabble Vs. Chess: Which Is A Better Board Game For Children's Education? by lendahand(m): 4:16am On Jan 28, 2025
Niceguy4ever:
I can be your local supplier. What quantity do you need. My shop is at Oroyinyin Street, Idumota, Lagos Island, Lagos State.
how much for a sizeable chess board
CrimeRe: Man Cuts Off Wife’s Hand In Nsukka, Victim Battles For Survival (Photo) by lendahand(m): 11:19pm On Jan 27, 2025
We4all:
Respect is reciprocal and being loquacious doesn't make one a bad person.
oga the logo of a good wife is respect. She should dish it out always. Even when dragged around, she wins by being gentle and respectful. A loquacious woman is liable to err. A submissive woman is charming and avoids black eyes and scars. I don't support violence at all but I'm talking based on experience and divine method of peaceful human coexistence.
CrimeRe: Man Cuts Off Wife’s Hand In Nsukka, Victim Battles For Survival (Photo) by lendahand(m): 11:14pm On Jan 27, 2025
descarado:
Why will she talk less?
Who are you to stop her from expressing herself?
What are you afraid of?
Why are you so insecure?
You can talk but she shouldn't talk?
Which planet did you come from?
So much low self esteem oozing.
A talkative blunders a lot. You have two ears and one mouth for a reason, use your 6. Pass my message to your girl folks if you understand English at all. Merci boku.
CrimeRe: Man Cuts Off Wife’s Hand In Nsukka, Victim Battles For Survival (Photo) by lendahand(m): 10:09am On Jan 27, 2025
descarado:
You give birth to a female child in Nigeria. Don't be too hasty to marry her off yet.
First, train her to love herself starting from childhood and secondary, be self sufficient. When you love yourself, inferiority complex will disappear and you can be bold, not tolerating anything thrown her way.
She should not be afraid to question the norm and revolt if needed.

Yes, you can defy your parents and wicked traditions that discriminate against women to set yourself free.

Mothers especially,start teaching your male child to appreciate and respect their female siblings. No preference. All kids enter kitchen, all kids do house chore. Discipline all equally.
And fathers, stop thinking providing money is training. Train your boys by example.
and also remember to teach the girl child to be respectful and talk less.
CelebritiesRe: “You Look Untidy With Your Fake Baby Hair Almost Touching Your Brow”- Noble Igwe by lendahand(m): 11:59am On Jan 25, 2025
Olatara:
Daft ke, from where to where? I didn't quote you, please mind your business.
this is a forum and I can quote anyone in an interactive session. The mention was not personal though.
BusinessRe: Fuel Pump Attendant Scams A Minor ! (video) by lendahand(m): 8:39am On Jan 25, 2025
Judolisco:
Even if na 5k fuel I dey buy inside my car... I dey always come down check oh... Uno fit dey scam person again untop 1k per litre fuel
even at that, they can still pump in air for you.
BusinessRe: Fuel Pump Attendant Scams A Minor ! (video) by lendahand(m): 8:37am On Jan 25, 2025
olisaEze:
Madam na poverty dey worry u. Dis kind person go call Efcc for akara woman if all this noise is because of a 5 ltrs! cheesy
I know your voice will be loudest in a room where Tinubu and Nigerian politicians are castigated, yet you spill this senseless comment here.
CelebritiesRe: “You Look Untidy With Your Fake Baby Hair Almost Touching Your Brow”- Noble Igwe by lendahand(m): 8:19am On Jan 25, 2025
Olatara:
Stingy man, you no wan spend money for hair angry
you actually sound daft.
CelebritiesRe: “You Look Untidy With Your Fake Baby Hair Almost Touching Your Brow”- Noble Igwe by lendahand(m): 8:04am On Jan 25, 2025
Ginaz:
I stopped wearing wigs last year, infact I gave out my most expensive wig to someone.

The money and stress spent on wigs ain't worth it. It doesn't give you the confidence to rock your natural hair and feel beautiful in it.
💯 lazy and dirty ladies endlessly wear wigs, hiding away their unkempt hair.
CelebritiesRe: “You Look Untidy With Your Fake Baby Hair Almost Touching Your Brow”- Noble Igwe by lendahand(m): 8:01am On Jan 25, 2025
PulaPower:
He’s right. It also makes them look old & ugly..

You’ll hardly see me with wig-wearing ladies..

My favorite amidst ladies are the ones that to barb the hair - a simple low cut!
or even plait their natural hair. That wig is used to hide dirty and unkempt hair that smells most times.
PoliticsRe: Ex-FCT Minister, Jeremiah Useni Dies at 82 by lendahand(m): 9:37am On Jan 24, 2025
IvarTheBoneless:
Enjoyment Minister. Jerry Boy. These ones quietly ate money.

Forget karma, likely has choice properties all over best locations in Nigeria 👌 👍

Yes he took nothing to Heaven / Hell but 2 - 3 (or more) generations will still benefit from his thievery.
this your statement is the reason Tinubu don't take you guys seriously because he knows he is a saint to majority of you.
PhonesRe: Tiktok Is Back In The US by lendahand(m): 8:03am On Jan 20, 2025
With a clause...Trump mentioned in his victory rally yesterday that America will own 50% of tiktok for it to have a presence in America. Trump is such a business guru and he came back prepared. He plans to hit the ground running today.
Christianity EtcRe: Used To Be Scared Of Hell fire When Young But Not Anymore, Why? by lendahand(m): 3:42pm On Jan 19, 2025
[quote author=MichaelSokoto post=133778105][/quote]that meme is hilarious 😂. I Na agba meth?
Christianity EtcRe: Used To Be Scared Of Hell fire When Young But Not Anymore, Why? by lendahand(m): 8:56am On Jan 19, 2025
Queengee:
When I was young, I used to be very scared of hell especially when in church and the preacher narrated the horrors of hell, but now things have changed.

I don't know maybe because eyes has seen many things in three decades of my existence, really don't get scared of hell fire anymore.

Anytime someone or pastors talk about it, it sounds like every other takes to me, I think something is wrong with me, does anyone here now feel the same way?

Men of God in the house please how can I go back to my former self and start believing hell is real?
IF THE REASON YOU NO LONGER GET SCARED IS BECAUSE YOU HAVE received Christ, FALLEN IN love with the Holy spirit and now walk with Him everyday, I will relate but if you still live anyhow comfortably no longer scared of hell, then you have every reason to be scared about your life. Devil is truly at work in your life then. Hell was mentioned in the bible by Jesus more than heaven to show you the seriousness. I myself as a Christian do not allow familiarity with my God to make me disobey God who has the power to kill me and cast me into hell.
Christianity EtcRe: Woman Boldly Preaching The Gospel On The Streets With Baby On Her Back (video) by lendahand(m): 8:47am On Jan 19, 2025
Doing this in Latin America where crime is predominant takes a large dose of courage. Going the extra mile with a baby strapped cannot go unnoticed. The rewarder will reward her and those with her.
PhonesRe: Tiktok Goes Offline In America by lendahand(m): 8:37am On Jan 19, 2025
adalame:
It would have been better to ban it in Nigeria, along with other social media platforms, to help our children focus on their studies. Social media is having a detrimental effect on our youth. We may not always notice it, but when you take a closer look, you'll understand.
slowly but steadily turning them to zombies.
RomanceRe: Men Can Never Be Wise. See What She Did To Him [Picture] by lendahand(m): 9:38am On Jan 12, 2025
Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday sad
The guy Na little boy. What even makes her entitled to a woman that's not his wife, leeching on him for just his money?
PropertiesRe: A Tenant Doesn't Want To Move Out After His House Rent Expires by lendahand(m): 5:54pm On Jan 10, 2025
Darlingme:
Someone that is threatened me with juju already. He has told me several times that I don't know who he is and what he can do diabolically.
akuko, get the threat on record and visit the police. He will do absolutely nothing.
FamilyRe: Who Is Eligible To Return Bride Price by lendahand(m): 7:36pm On Jan 01, 2025
Negroid001:
It's like buying a car and you a given a refund despite mileage used. You no lose my bro
refund of ₦8000 highest? While you spent millions on the wedding and marriage proper. Keep joking 😃...
SportsRe: Song Of Praise At Victor Osimhen Birthday At His Father’s House In Lagos by lendahand(m): 2:24pm On Dec 31, 2024
Simple and lovely. Good to always remember the giver of life. Is that the wife?
RomanceRe: Why Is Moving On After A Divorce So Difficult, Help A Brother by lendahand(m): 1:53am On Dec 30, 2024
Odafe360:
no work for now because I'm on my annual leave. Till the end of January. Except if i can plan a vacation.
in this short life, you are living like a perpetual Buffon. Guy, the mind makes a man not your biceps and chest. I'm currently going thru same thing and I have soldiered on for close to two years now. I have completely forgotten about her even after knowing her for 11 years. Yes I cried few months after she left, I had the thoughts of going to bring her back but I manned up, stiffened my upper lip and today, her replacement is out. Just seize this opportunity to become closer to Jesus Christ and hear what he will tell you concerning your future. That woman is not your wife, otherwise, she won't be stressing you like this. Move on without her for without scars, a man is not made. Disappoint her family forever this time around and have them invited to your upcoming wedding to your real wife. You didn't divorce her, she left just like my own did. Myself and my entire family are now good without her. See, no man is irreplaceable. If you make yourself a god to your fellow man, God will dethrone you because he is a jealous God. Move on!! Live like a man and be free. This time around, scan carefully and prayerfully for a woman called the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. God will answer you. SHALOM!
Christianity EtcRe: How My Churchy Upbringing Influenced Me As An Adult (long Post) by lendahand(m): 11:10am On Dec 22, 2024
otipoju:
I understand what you are saying....nevertheless I will tell you the only ground worth standing on is God.

All other grounds is sinking sand.

Nigeria is not working because we have endemic corruption from top to bottom.

Europe and America works for business because of access to credit. As long as your credit score is good, you will have banks and other financial institutions to lend you money.

If your worship of God is based solely on what you can get from him then you have not started. Paul was not healed of his deformity, yet he loved God. Moses, David, Joseph ,Stephen even Jesus Christ all faced debilitating trials, yet they did not abandon God.

The key to being relevant in this world is to add value to yourself continually. Make money , save for rainy days and plan for your children's future and enjoy yourself with your family.

But placing your trust in fellow human beings will bring you more misery long term wether in church or socially.

I have friends everywhere but still keep my circle very very very small.
religion and spirituality are two different things. Someone can be in church from Sunday to Saturday yet doesn't know anything about the spiritual world. Reason some spiritual men keep it small when it comes to social circle is to avoid being tempted into drinking and doing other things that negates their spiritual foundation. Socialising is beautiful but do it with dexterity.
RomanceRe: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by lendahand(m): 8:48am On Dec 18, 2024
TableLeg:
Ode ni daddy e.
you people are the problem of this country from Tinubu down to keyboard warriors like you.
RomanceRe: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by lendahand(m): 5:46pm On Dec 17, 2024
TableLeg:
You are insane, bloody cretinous troglodyte!
Who are you? Abi oya weyrey ni? O fe soriburuku wo inu odun tuntun ni?
Basta....rd!
must a Yoruba person shout and write curses/abuses to prove a point? Disgusting!!
RomanceRe: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by lendahand(m): 5:36pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
see ehn!! I knew him when I was very young. He was so involved in my family and I guess I was too naive to notice the red flags then. A lot of things I saw then, I waved aside thinking that when we got older and more matured he would drop those things. Boy! I was wrong. It got worse. How does a man dish out 6 hot slaps on one side of a woman's cheeks because she confided in his elder brother to tell him to stop smoking cigarettes because of his weight. His anger was that I should not have told his brother he smokes. My face was swollen for almost a week
the red flags are always there but we ignore. You were yoked to a beast. Women too are quick to bury their own bad side to garner pity while narrating incidents like this.
Christianity EtcRe: Can I Still Get A Miracle Before The End Of 2024 by lendahand(m): 12:30pm On Dec 17, 2024
RealityKings1:
Where you there when they wrote the bible?
I don't talk long grammar, I deal on proofs. Do you need one to disabuse your mind?
Christianity EtcRe: Can I Still Get A Miracle Before The End Of 2024 by lendahand(m): 1:30am On Dec 17, 2024
sonmvayina:
Who ever told you all these crap is obviously lying to you...and you believe.

Men, you fit believe anything .....
Well believe us just believe...it has nothing to do with reality and truth.
The truth remains that Jesus is a Roman invention to deceive and control people...and you fell for it..

Better wake up..
they didn't just tell me, I know it! My Bible is my highest treasure. Spirit of Christ Jesus lives inside of me. Do you want a proof?

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