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Politics / Re: "Nnamdi Kanu Is Alive" - Kemi Olunloyo by leonard002(m): 7:57am On Apr 22, 2020
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Romance / Re: The Craziest Thing You've Ever Saved Someone's Number With by leonard002(m): 5:53pm On Apr 21, 2020
Dreyton36:
Olosho bariga
Olosho ikoyi bayo juju
Olosho hardly pick
Heavy breast
Red nipples
Best doggy style

Abeg them many jare

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Romance / Re: Should I Lend My Boyfriend Money? by leonard002(m): 5:49pm On Apr 21, 2020
Yes. He has proven himself to be a good person. Lend him the money. He will repay the loan
Travel / Re: Christian Emeka Ibeagwa Dies In U.S.A. Do You Know Him? by leonard002(m): 5:28pm On Apr 21, 2020
JasonJidenna:
You see why I dislike Facebook?

Someone who was kind enough post the picture of a man who died in the US, but 15 Efulefu's "LIKED" the post.
Posts with more reactions gets higher number of views, so they are actually being helpful

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Politics / Re: Wo Lawal Mato Is Dead! President Buhari's Bodyguard Dies by leonard002(m): 5:26pm On Apr 21, 2020
RIP to the dead
Phones / Re: ....... by leonard002(m): 7:32pm On Apr 20, 2020
They will deliver it bruh. Calm the f"ck down
Celebrities / Re: 10 Most Insane Celebrity Makeup Transformations (See Photos) by leonard002(m): 10:48pm On Apr 18, 2020
Romance / Re: Loneliness & Dating Abroad: Perspectives of a Nigerian Student in The U.S by leonard002(m): 10:24pm On Apr 10, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


Honestly I think you have good points in your paragraphs. I agree that as women we shouldn’t single out every man who isn’t walking in their purpose at that given time. However I would never advise anyone to settle.

Some of the financially challenged/student men who come to the US, a very large percentage have taken advantage of good women all in the name of love. I can only use myself as an example. I have dated guys who weren’t stable financially so I can only try help my fellow sisters.


Man 1: Yoruba guy - I dated him for 5 years. Great guy however refused to self improve. He did yahoo. I found out about it and tried to make him stop and do legit as I wouldn’t want our foundation built on potential blood money. He refused a legit job and informed me he knew “the life he wanted for himself and 9 to 5 was not it.” This is because he was consumed by lifestyle and driving range rovers and a Porsche’s. I stuck with him for love but I refused to marry him or his proposal as he didn’t believe in taking care of a woman. He was very selfish (during the course of a 5 year relationship this man never gave me any assistance for upkeep - mind you I didn’t need his money as I do very well for myself but every woman wants their man to be able to support and provide in small ways. This shows me you’re stable and can support our family should we hit hard times. He would always ask me why I need money and what I do with the money I earn. $10 to buy a panty he could not even do, but he stayed embellished in Gucci, LV and Prada. He also had a baby on me and begged me to raise the child with him if it was his after dna...I was scared toput myself in that position as a time when I have to depend on him will come and he would not man up as he should so I broke it off. He proposed I said no. . No way I can submit to a man like that?..

Man 2: was an international student, the devil himself in human form, they say respect them, support them and let them reach goals.. this guy I supported financially for months, paved a way for him to get his paperwork.. loved and supported. He was nice at first but when we started dating he started changing. Abusing me for not giving 5k usd and not wanting to marry him for green card... I thank God for protecting me from that one chance. He is the biggest regret and bad mistake I ever made in my life. So disheartening you support someone and they physically, verbally abuse you and blame you for the wrong going on in their life... read my story on my profile from 2 years ago for more context Note: I myself am not perfect and I’m constantly working on self improving and strengthening my bond with Christ. I’m big on giving advice to others so they won’t repeat the same mistakes I have made.

My aunt always told me never to date down. Never settle and I did. All the women waiting...wait for Gods time don’t force or rush things because you want to get married. You will end up with someone who puts baggage on you and breaks you emotionally, physically, financially etc. Let Go and Let God. If it’s his will for your life it will be. Don’t leave worse off then you started.

I also have a friend she married someone coming straight from naija. They lived as man and wife 3 years. He got his green card and went back to Nigeria to marry his real girlfriend.

I truly dislike when men put down women like this post. Marriage is not an accomplishment. It will be nice to find a compatible companion but sister- you are enough as you are. Don’t let anyone rush you. Some are happy but many more want to get out of the marriage you are rushing to. Be wise and Let God lead.

Pray for God to give you discernment. Marriage is life and that’s a long journey. Don’t end up with the wrong person because of societal pressure and advice from OP above. I have said my own

Quite sad you had to deal with people like that. I'll drop a little one for you. It appears you're locking up but don't. It might prevent you from meeting your dream man ok? Keep an open heart and don't let those experiences influence your thinking and decisions. I'm touched by your story and I wish you the very best.

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Romance / Re: Loneliness & Dating Abroad: Perspectives of a Nigerian Student in The U.S by leonard002(m): 10:20pm On Apr 10, 2020
Crispels:


Lol. No vex. I’m only trying to share my experience. I know a lot of people will find it helpful. I also found the previous threads helpful - so I decided to also add to the conversation.
I find your experience and exposition quite insightful and remarkable

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Romance / Re: Loneliness & Dating Abroad: Perspectives of a Nigerian Student in The U.S by leonard002(m): 10:15pm On Apr 10, 2020
The truth is relationships are the most complicated things ever.

Nobody has a straight foolproof theory about relationships and how they work and how to make them work.

Relationships are not science or math.

In reality, even if you follow a hundred percent all the advice written by the author and by millions of other authors on relationships, dating and marriage there is no guarantee that you're going to get the best of results.

There is no guarantee that the other party will be in the same reasoning frequency with you and cooperate with you.

It's just how complicated human beings are in interacting with one another.

Sometimes we get lucky and find the best but a lot of times we are unlucky and all we get is a big bucket of heartbreak.

The truth is we should keep trying. We learn from our lessons and move on with all hope and optimism. We should keep being good and nice without prejudice.

With a bit of luck and a bit of preparedness, perhaps we may meet the 'perfect' person and live happily ever after.

That's life for you.

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Celebrities / Re: Naira Marley's Letter Of Apology To Lagos State Government (Photos) by leonard002(m): 7:05pm On Apr 10, 2020
Tissaia:
The Dangers of Marijuana Use
Research has found that the use of marijuana can have a negative effect on multiple body systems. These effects include:

Cardiac problems. Marijuana increases blood clotting, which in turn can increase the risk of heart attacks and arrhythmias.1
Neurological issues. Smoking marijuana overstimulates the THC receptors in the brain; this can result in a change in sensations/perception of one’s environment, a change in the perception of time, impaired/slowed thought processes, and impaired muscle movement. It can also lead to psychiatric complications include loss of touch with reality (psychosis) and strong but mistaken beliefs (delusions).2
Respiratory problems. Smoke in any form has a negative impact on the health of the respiratory system and this includes marijuana smoke. Research has shown that marijuana smoke contains many of the same toxins as tobacco smoke, including some that cause cancer. Research has linked marijuana smoking to increased risk of respiratory infections such as bronchitis and increased coughing and phlegm production.3
Negative impacts on pregnancy. Research has linked the use of marijuana use during pregnancy with negative outcomes for the exposed newborn, including physical problems like low birth weight and cognitive problems such as learning and attention deficits later in life.4
Marijuana can lead to addiction. It is estimated that around 10% of users will become addicted to this drug; however, if an individual began smoking during adolescence, that number rises to 16%.5

Do you know? medically, marijuana is less deadly than tobacco

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Romance / Re: I'm 31, Single And Ready To Settle Down by leonard002(m): 9:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
Blaze14k:


I'm game..

Sure thing bro.
Romance / Re: I'm 31, Single And Ready To Settle Down by leonard002(m): 9:28pm On Apr 09, 2020
Op let's hang out anytime you're chanced probably on a Sunday. I stay in Owerri and I work at Everight diagnostics.

Quote me if you are game

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Romance / Re: How Do I Beat My Wife by leonard002(m): 3:36pm On Apr 09, 2020
lolz. you can hide the decoder remote grin
Crime / Re: Soldiers Beat Driver To Death In Calabar; Passengers Didn’t Wear Face Masks by leonard002(m): 2:39pm On Apr 08, 2020
Why do Nigerian security operatives take the slightest avenue to inflict pain on citizens they were supposed to protect.

Can you not see we're in a deep mess?

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Autos / Re: Innoson Vehicles Manufacturing Company Nnewi Pictures Yet To See by leonard002(m): 9:36pm On Apr 05, 2020
Imagine like 8 of these kind of plants scattered across the country. The economic benefits

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Romance / Re: . by leonard002(m): 11:56am On Apr 05, 2020
Quick advice bro. Don't worry about her behaviour. She's still young. Don't treat her harshly.

All she needs is reassurance. She is not insensitive to your plight. What's a few minutes of call every day to someone you love.

Call her and reassure her. If possible meet in person. According to what you wrote, she's special to you. Don't follow bad advice of some people here to break up. It's difficult enough to find someone you love and who truly loves you.

Don't lose this one over a flimsy thing as 'you didn't call me for five days'. A word enough.
Phones / Re: Glo Excites Customers With 1.25GB For N200 by leonard002(m): 9:14am On Apr 05, 2020
MTN has been offering 1.5GB for N300.
Business / Re: First Bank Salutes Medical Professionals Tackling COVID-19 by leonard002(m): 9:12am On Apr 05, 2020
Thank you. We as health care workers. Lockdown does not affect us. People will get sick and we will go to work to save lives.
Education / Re: Delisted by leonard002(m): 6:48pm On Apr 04, 2020
If you are a young graduate, you need to read this book.

Order a copy by sending me an email.
Education / Re: Smashing Your Semester Exams Like A Boss... Guide To Academic Excellence by leonard002(m): 6:44pm On Apr 04, 2020
ASUU is on strike. COVID-19 is terrorizing the world, but they will all end soon. You are at home as a student. What are your goals? What are your strategies to achieve academic excellence?

My book will guide you on how to be a smashing student. Order a copy today.
Education / Re: Conquering The 14 Habits That Belittle You (EBOOK) by leonard002(m): 6:25pm On Apr 04, 2020
Do you know, it is better not to fight with pigs because they will drag you to the mud and beat you with experience. It is better you ignore a troll or someone who always seeks your trouble.

This book is still available for sale.
Romance / Re: I'm 36years ,my Fiance Is 24years,please Is It Advisable For Us To Get Married? by leonard002(m): 5:25pm On Apr 04, 2020
Abalado:
Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

There's no issues sir with this. I've seen 15 years gap in age living very happily

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Family / Re: We Have Not Been Able To Have Sex Yet After 7 Months Of Marriage by leonard002(m): 5:21pm On Apr 04, 2020
Take her to a gynaecologist. Don't take matters into your own hands. A minor surgery to break the hymen may need to be conducted on her

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Romance / Re: Toasting According To Profession (See How To Toast) by leonard002(m): 5:15pm On Apr 04, 2020
SpecialAdviser:
Engineers See you have screwed my brain. It is filled with electromagnetic radiation. Spanner cannot loose what your love has tighten on my body. I feel like using autocad to draw the magnitude of what I will do to reward you. I hope you have enough processor and memory space to computerise what I will do for you.
whoa...guy this is something..lol

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Politics / Re: COVID-19: 11 Million Poor Nigerians To Get Palliatives — FG by leonard002(m): 9:06am On Apr 01, 2020
I hope this is not a propaganda because it's sounding like one
Phone/Internet Market / Re: My Experience Transacting With A Nairalander (damzyofficial23) by leonard002(m): 8:54am On Apr 01, 2020
I've transacted with many Nairalanders on trust and haven't had a negative experience. So sad bro. You transacted with the wrong person

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Romance / Re: Help! Staying at home is making me always hungry. by leonard002(m): 9:49pm On Mar 31, 2020
By Drinking WATER. Anytime you feel unnecessarily hungry, go drink water

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Phones / Re: Google This, Google That by leonard002(m): 8:14pm On Mar 30, 2020
SeunStats:

I will be so Happy... I can give u evidence of ownership
ok great send me a pm
Phones / Re: Google This, Google That by leonard002(m): 7:11pm On Mar 30, 2020
I can reset it for you if it's actually yours

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