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ideology:
Lepetitechic, AgapeCharis, Specialist900, Alezy, HFOG, Odunharry, elantraceey, BreezyRita, luxanne, lordreed.

Good night, have a blast tomorrow, if am not online tomorrow, be cool, am likely going to be busy tomorrow also expecting visitors.

Do well to extend love to everyone, family, friends if possible visit health care homes for kids and aged.

God bless you, i love you @ all


Tracey, have not forgotten your request though, have not taken any pic recently but Will upload from previous ones, see my diary later.

Happy Valentine's day

Thank you sir, good morning and happy valentine's day to you

AgapeCharis:
Obhiedo uwe khin a?

Ehnn, sokpan e gua zedo, vbe rrio or write it well for that matter, I speak better than I write though uwe vbo?

Alezy:
wow...me I want to learn French o. will u guyz teach?

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Specialist900:
c'est bon.

Ça va ?

Bien, Merci. Et chez toi?

Specialist900:
c'est vrai au faut mademoiselle ?

oui, tres vrai

Specialist900:
I need go report this guy to MI6 for stalking me . Na by force to be your friend? We no want party na by force?

For your info, no be first to call police dey win case o. Always remember 'the police is your friend'

Lol @ the bolded

HFOG:
Good morning ma'am. How are we today?

Good morning Ma, I'm fine thank you o how are you and the family?

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HFOG:
You can say that again ma'am. That's big bro for you

LordReed:
Amen and Amen! No cake but drinks on me anytime

Happy birthday sir, thanks for keeping me entertained with your posts here.

p.s, you have a lovely family!!

Principal Mrs Chinweokwu - chichi baybay/willy-willy(she was trying too hard to look young plus her weave was extremely "spongified"
Vice principal Olukoya - Olubumbum (had an unusually womanized behind for a man)
Chem teacher - meatpie head (all he would eat and his head was starting to represent)
Further maths teacher - had the misfortune of introducing all his names plus initials to us, answered Mr "movie" for the 2 terms he was with us.

Because they too crammed to pass, it's the circle of life

The second chance - Nyengi Koin
Time changes yesterday - Nyengi Koin
The maids are not to blame (forgot the author) and yes, maids!
Ebony wood carver(forgot the author)
The bottled Leopard - Chukwuemeka Ike
Would pay anything to see these books made into movies or given a sequel lol looove them!!

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Nonso23:
How do you know the lady is a prostitute
Many married men and women have very indiscreet and dirty chats with members of the opposite sex and do not count it as cheating. Maybe why he doesn't even think it is necessary to apologise is because he believes the same. You still do not have sufficient proof.

With regards calling bluffs; we are very alike. Does your husband like chess too?

Oh you were attempting to corner him with the " i will tell mummy and daddy for you" trick in this 2015? No man wants to be controlled you flopped,

@bolded please do unto others as you want done to you, if it was reversed I bet you'd be the first to scream blue murder!

faceless04:
For the first 6years, I was busy with school. I schooled in a separate state from where we reside. It was when I finally came back from service that I started hinting him about marriage.

That notwithstanding, you should have known. after all you both were still dating throughout that time, you had holidays and weekends you must have talked on the phone as well distance isn't much of an excuse for not knowing, really, we'll it's done now, just don't do the same thing next time else mama "meno" might meet you at the door then. I wish you all the best stay safe, protect yourself do NOT be lurred into going back unless there's a new space in the check box(and it's official) right after single, married, widowed, love-is-blind. :p

Poster, I really can't help but wonder what you both did for 10yrs.. "bump pelvics" alone? How your partner feels about marriage is something most people learn In the first/second.. third year at most of dating that person. You just kept going along with it didn't you? You should have talked about things like this even learn how he feels about having kids so you don't get the surprise of your life later*sigh* anyhoo, since you realized you both are on two different sides of the relationship coin and you called it quits and he is threatening to go Jack the ripper on anyone else you meet who gets serious with you, my advice for you is, tell people about it, if possible file a complaint at a local police station, avoid him like a plague, just cos he's a doctor don't mean he's stable, he could just find real smart ways to be on top of you. Take a self defense class if you must, but protect yourself and pray he finds someone else. Next time love, go on dates, talk about stuff, not just bedroom bounce alone.

P.S 10 years is not Okay to be a girl(without-a- future-with-him)friend.

veave:
I know this guy. He works with glo. True or false op? Had about 3 baby mama on his case the last time i heard. And was asking another lady to get preggsie before he marries her.

Prolly trying to raise his own village

No, not true. I'm light skinned, was born this way both my parents are light skinned and they both got it from their fathers,3 of my brothers are light skinned too and one isn't as light skinned as the rest of us so it's hereditary, I've never bleached or anything of the sort, funny tho I wanted to be dark skinned when I was younger cos I got teased a lot - still do but I've learnt to love my skin the way I am. I think everyone should love their skins too Beauty comes in all shapes and colours

Nothing! Just be happy for her, celebrate her achievements and encourage her to do more after all if it's good for her, it's good for you too i.e you're both in it together. 1+1=1.

My brothers missed this bus my an inch, he didn't stop when they asked him to so they took another bus. I am grateful for their lives but I truly pray the passengers get better, the whole driving situation in Benin is appalling. Drivers be trying to beat Usain bolt, practically flying past the traffic lights, I wish more could be done, I honestly have no words for so called "law enforcement officers" highly disappointed

uplawal:
Dnt ever tell your wife you kissed her o or smooche her,cos she will hate the lady for life,just tell her her presence is tempting you

Really?! should we still be concerned about saving a friendship like that? Wtf who cares? Op be honest it's the least your trifling arse can do.

zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.

Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.

My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.

We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.

She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.

Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.

Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.

It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.

My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.

Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.

Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.

Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.

The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.

Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?

I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.

Please what do I do?

I opened this topic and I saw shame running for the hills, op that's your shame ooo you have no shame at all 42DD?really? That's all it takes, your kid had a cold for crying out loud!! wth is wrong with you?! I "piri" your wife, you are a d-bag who knows nothing about respect if you did you wouldn't be smooching her 42DD breastfriend. I bet you want to hear ignore it and keep on smooching abi? You had better kick that 2 timing no good home wrecker out your house talk to mama apologize then treat the missus out tell her what happened, apologize as many times a possible and actually MEAN IT. SMH the nerve of some people mtchewwwwwwwwwww

annoyed:
I am a naija man and I am married to a beautiful oyinbo girl for the last 3 yrs.
However there are 2 things about her which I cannot stand and I am seriously considering a
divorce.

1. Her friends
    My wife has the same group of friends since she was 12 . They all went to high school together.
    They're is nothing wrong with these girls. They are not riff raffs or anything. It's their childish
     and immature thinking that gets to me. They act like 16 yr old schoolgirls, my wife included. All
     they care about is who has the latest handbag, painting their nails, how they look, etc. These
     bimbos come around to my house every week and have a catch up with my wife. The conversations
     they have are unbelievable. Making snide remarks about random people and giggling away to them
     selves. They are truly nothing more than a shallow bunch of Barbie dolls and its getting on my
     nerves. I admit that my wife was also like this when I met her but that was 5 yrs ago and I thought
     she might grow up. But shes just turned 25 and I am really tired  i want to start a family soon but I
      don't think I can when she's a child herself.

2. The sex we have is extremely boring. She seems to have no interest. I admit she was also like this
     when I started dating her but I thought I would turn her into a freak in bed. I am always the one
     doing the work yet she just lies there saying " are you finished yet?'' I think she's a frigid or some
     thing. I was wondering why white men left this beautiful girl to waste. Now I can see why.

     Other than that she's a very good wife, very respectful towards me, cooks my meals, would do anything
      for me and very reliable. I love her in so many ways. But I still want a divorce and get a matured woman.
      My family will not agree as they love her so much but I can't live like this anymore
      Any advice??

"oyinbo wife"... why can't you just say wife and be oblivious of color or race after all she is a woman abi? My dear don't divorce her, man up and make your marriage work people like you running out if it gets a lil too hot to handle who asked you to marry someone with the intention of changing her?shouldn't you love her for who she is and if the person she is, is not one you can handle then leave instead of going ahead to marry her thinking about "oh if this doesn't work I'll just get out" oga op sit her down and tell her how you feel and you both reach some compromise on what you're going to do there is counseling and prayers that helps too. Besides nobody said marriage is easy irrespective of the race you're married to.

In high school, we called it G4 while a roommate of mine at the uni called it cassava flakes and peanuts very tushed up name like that

DoubleQueen:
Day break ogbono soup is everything. Great with pounded yam or Semo. It seems the ingredients relax and circulate better overnight. There is just something magical about it.

Seconded, I agree

Next day/warmed ogbono soup tastes better in fact ogbono soup tastes better as the day goes by lol just combine it with poundy hooooo

veave:
I feel your pain bro.
Still have an issue with this indomie and noodle adverts...
They cook theirs and you see vegetables, chicken and even elephant meat. I cook mine and its just white and empty...

Seconded! :/

I feel like the only reason your hubby wanted a baby in the first place is cos mama(your MIL) wanted a grand child to keep her company while your hubby spends his time hustling, in that case that would make you a pawn in this.. I am not a mother yet but the way I love kids ehhhnn nobody can ask me to choose money over my kid o, I'd advice you to take care of your baby and enjoy all those little moments you otherwise will miss out on if you choose to leave the baby behind. For now put those issues aside and try to stay healthy, mind and body. I pray for God's strength and peace in your marriage cos an unhappy marriage, is not healthy to raise a kid in.

VisaOfficer:
I'm afraid I don't have any additional information for you at this time.

Thank you Ma. Will be there the 30th.

VisaOfficer:
We do need to see you in person. I see that you have an appointment scheduled for Jan. 30; please e-mail us if for any reason you cannot make it on that date.

Do I need to bring anything else and can we at least know the reason for the change?