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Op, is there any sign that one had made it in the lower class""? >

marieolae: reli?

ya, check your mentions, if you don't see it, I would bring it again.

marieolae: Babe d guy dnt like u..dnt waste ur time

I once gave you a mention. I'll be glad if you attend to it.

Y'all advising her of a snitch somewhere ever heard of the word personality before?

Misblah: Okay I need a boyfriend urgently! Just got out of a 2yrs relatnshp...I can't handle being single its killing! Depressing!! I miss Tboy

if you're the one on your dp, I won't be surprised if it was your bf who jilted you

polymathic: Oti binu, aduru eleyi funmi... Bro, that's d truth.. Altho I sounded so confident, but truth s I didn't notice tis 117, tot tis 116

still giving excuses? Grab his msg and move on

tellwisdom: What is collabitation??

upon all your wisdom





PS: I'm not seeing anything wrong with cohabitation, it's fun. Enjoy it while it last. If at all I'll get married, I must cohabit for long to what I'm getting myself into, les is not that tolerating type.

marieolae: The guys I've been wid r jus not romantic

do you in any way, live in nsukka, or was there earlier this month?

EfemenaXY







There's a reason why he's called an ex. It's past. Over and done with

that's the problem, its supposed to be done with but in this case, if she named the baby because of the lost ex, it's a big problem but if not, no wahala but I wanna go for the former

. And ontop of that, the guy's deceased. So what really is the problem?

as regards the former above, death Is a physical end, doesn't mean that emotions are ended, that's emotional cheating

How and why should the child's name cause any problems in his relationship, if he isn't idle and just looking for a fight?

how will you feel if your husband name your baby after someone you are meant to despise??

What do you mean by doing whatever she wants to do with her ex? She isn't doing anything with him. Or am I missing something here?

that's for me, with reference to the initial former I pointed out, I know guys whose married exes still contact them, that's what I'm saying, contact your ex, flex with him, think about him always, I don't care but don't just bring that into my home to the extent of naming my baby after him, is she mad?? >

Like someone pointed out earlier, what if this dead ex's name happens to be the same name shared by the venting husband's very own sibling? Or parent even? Would you, if you were in his shoes take the same stand you're taking?

referring you back to the initial former I listed out, if she named my baby after her ex purposely even if that name is mine, I stick to my guns, it all depends on the reason for the naming tho and if its because of an ex, totally unacceptable

And then you go on to mention divorce. You think divorce is something to be tossed about with like some sort of yo-yo? If you want to divorce a spouse, at least have a valid reason and not over the name of some deceased person. A name, which in all probability, is shared by millions of people out there.

you kinda make sense here so got to be careful in replying, but lemme say, after having my fair share of emotional trauma from the female folks. I'm not sure I love wit up to ¼(25%) of my emotions and ya, I have some things that are listed out that I won't think twice about before considering divorce and this just made the list.

And then you finish off your sentence with the statement If I knew, I wouldn't have married her initially. If you knew what exactly? That she had a relationship with someone (before meeting you), who is now dead?

knew what exactly That she's nit over an ex!!! A dead one for that matter, and for the fact she knew him before me is more reason she should get it over with because I won't sympathize with her, that's emotional cheating and naming my baby after him is the highest level of disrespect I can ever tolerate.

EfemenaXY: @Les: If you're going to quote me, kindly do it properly. I can't for the life of me decipher what you're trying to post on here.

modified, that's the proper way to quote, seun's attention is needed here cos this quoting System is tough like hell, to you tho,

EfemenaXY







There's a reason why he's called an ex. It's past. Over and done with

that's the problem, its supposed to be done with but in this case, if she named the baby because of the lost ex, it's a big problem but if not, no wahala but I wanna go for the former

. And ontop of that, the guy's deceased. So what really is the problem?

as regards the former above, death Is a physical end, doesn't mean that emotions are ended, that's emotional cheating

How and why should the child's name cause any problems in his relationship, if he isn't idle and just looking for a fight?

how will you feel if your husband name your baby after someone you are meant to despise??

What do you mean by doing whatever she wants to do with her ex? She isn't doing anything with him. Or am I missing something here?

that's for me, with reference to the initial former I pointed out, I know guys whose married exes still contact them, that's what I'm saying, contact your ex, flex with him, think about him always, I don't care but don't just bring that into my home to the extent of naming my baby after him, is she mad?? >

Like someone pointed out earlier, what if this dead ex's name happens to be the same name shared by the venting husband's very own sibling? Or parent even? Would you, if you were in his shoes take the same stand you're taking?

referring you back to the initial former I listed out, if she named my baby after her ex purposely even if that name is mine, I stick to my guns, it all depends on the reason for the naming tho and if its because of an ex, totally unacceptable

And then you go on to mention divorce. You think divorce is something to be tossed about with like some sort of yo-yo? If you want to divorce a spouse, at least have a valid reason and not over the name of some deceased person. A name, which in all probability, is shared by millions of people out there.

you kinda make sense here so got to be careful in replying, but lemme say, after having my fair share of emotional trauma from the female folks. I'm not sure I love wit up to ¼(25%) of my emotions and ya, I have some things that are listed out that I won't think twice about before considering divorce and this just made the list.

And then you finish off your sentence with the statement If I knew, I wouldn't have married her initially. If you knew what exactly? That she had a relationship with someone (before meeting you), who is now dead?

knew what exactly That she's nit over an ex!!! A dead one for that matter, and for the fact she knew him before me is more reason she should get it over with because I won't sympathize with her, that's emotional cheating and naming my baby after him is the highest level of disrespect I can ever tolerate.

3cycle: Just a name sweet, nothing to be upset about here.

are you seeking for advice or do you wanna prove a point? Names are not just ordinary. If you are a Christian, the way God exalts his name above every other names should tell you that a name is not just something to joke about.

a name is like an identity, how do you feel when you identify your ward as your spouse dead ex??

EfemenaXY: What's important is the meaning of the name

do you really know the meaning of the action itself

Is that name unique to the deceased only, and no one else in the world?

but to the man, its unique to a dead ex, you speak like issues of ex is something that shouldn't be bothered with. I might not have problem if my wife does whatever she wants to do with her ex, but naming my child after her dead ex is not just cool. Second to frequent lying, this is the second thing that can make me option for divorce, because if I knew, I wouldn't have married her initially.

Mintayo: i find this thread as been intersting,but unfortunately the 'bigotic' and the the 'fanatic' nature of the Op won't stop him from speaking ill of christainity.
I am not surprised though,because i believe no muslim's message or write-up will be complete without mentioning and condemning Christainity! Thats's the way islam strive!

and if he's wise, he could have removed it, he could notice that even Christian read this and writing something to spite them is not cool, what stopped him from making adjustment??

kheart: so athiest have started using shalom too?

did I say I was an atheist too?? Have you heard of freethinkers before?? And stop enclosing your mind, anybody can use anything but what I don't tolerate anyone using is rubbishing one's faith to prove a point. When I was about believing that not all Muslims are terrorist, the non terrorist are even doing worse. Rubbish!!!

kheart: hmmm smh in disbelieve of ur outburst. So ur likes ll preach gospel to me sayin all xtians have HOLY SPIRIT。 spit

did I say I was a Christian

sandijey: I was actually reading it till I got to that part. If the scientist do not believe in God because of the trinity is it Allah they believe in? Who doesn't no that Allah was just one of the many deities in mecca. See the smellos actually comparing Allah to God. Right from time I never believed we worship the same God. People who say it's one God need to read wide. The terrorist claim that the bible was corrupted yet they took out of the bible to make the quran and just added jara. How do u take out of a corrupted book? How can u call a religion true when everybody is compelled to pray in Arabic. Doesn't it mean that their God only understands Arabic which goes to show their god is not universal and that God is an Arab god. What ever it is. I am always thankful each day that I wasn't born a Muslim. Might not have a choice. God knows wiv all this terrorism associated wiv their religion, by now shame for don dey catch me.

it's good you do what you do. There are portions of the bible that stated scientific facts long before they were discovered and I have read that Christian compilation of facts before without them making reference to the group of people the bible condemns, who face towards the east while praying(ya, its the bible and I don't know where but I think it was referring to Islam tho) this thread, it can be inspirational, but to me, it's a bit educative. The portion where he condemned the Christian faith turns me off like real badly. Shalom!!

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Did you invite me to stop halfway Better update or what happened in 9/11 will repeat itself. https://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/agressive/t0103.gif

Mzdivacious: THE YOUNG SHALL GROW
les miserables
keep displaying ur retardness

stop calling me and giving me unnecessary mentions.

PrettyHausaGirl: Umm sure! What do you have to say to her topic though?

I'll PM you, @topic, well, I don't get what her problem is, if she decides to be rude to her man, it's her cup of tea, na potential feminism de worry am, instead of evaluating herself, she's demonizing men to prove a point, rubbish!! I'll advice her to stop generalizing too because I can't remember the last time my younger sis respected me and I didn't open a topic here saying 'my problem with the lack of respect shon by African woman ' or did I?

PrettyHausaGirl: Are u white? Cuz here in africa, we blacks take the male folks as the head. In our families, the man is the breadwinner, it is a kindergaten orientation for ur. Religiously Men are often head of churches and churches run by females are less taken serious, we believe that the Man has more of a physical and emotional strength than the woman. I think we in africa love it this way

beauty +brain= Les's acquaintance, NNE, may i get to you mbok??
[color=#000000]NB;[/color] "no" is not in the options

Liability: eww...dats disgusting

what's disgusting? Realising that ur veegee ain't worth what you think it is or some guys don't need it at all?

Liability: what is this one saying? Without our veejee you cant get satisafied with sex.

you speak like you ladies don't need sexual satisfaction?? And ya, some guys are gay.

Liability: what is bad in offering money while he gets sex from me. Some men sef.

if you are a LovePeddler, be proud of your job but if you are not, why won't you pay the guy for sex??

Wrong thread


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But this is quite funny, guys complain they invest on ladies without sex while ladies complain sex without investment. (We are wired differently, that's why feminism won't work, at least not with me

Not only are you advising your fellow ladies, you are also complaining. Subtly revealing your worries. Well, it's ok if you understand that is the way women are being wired. Guys will never complain about this nor advise fellow guys about certain sexual encounters with ladies, that's the work of daddies, this is because guys don't attach much importance to sex other than the fun, unlike ladies who see sex as something else just like you are bringing up negotiating sex for some certain INVESTMENT, need I tell you the type of ladies who use sex as investments?? I'm not calling you anything but you have the mindset of those type of ladies. Have sex if you want to, if you must have a connection before sex, get a boyfriend no big deal. Now if I may ask, what kinda investment??