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trolley: Isn't it intriguing how you expressly attribute the 'use and dump' characteristic to the male gender?

Isn't it ironic how you relate ridicule specifically to the male gender but you conveniently forget the 'class warfare' in females?

You ultimately determine the denial of pregnancies as a male factor but you intentionally overlook the intrigues ladies play to rope in unsuspectong male victims. The mortal pain and sorrow many men have and will experience down the years over the realisation that the child they have nurtured is not theirs.

Relationships are not drama free and looking at them through a 'feminist's' screen won't paint a perfect picture. Correlation does not imply causation.

trolley: See, nature and if you will, extrapolate that to the society, does not confer equality on both genders. There are so many things guys get off with that makes evolutionary equality a farce. It is an immutable law of nature.

The bolded is what really matters.

Donmichaelz: -she might marry you to cover her shame

there's no shame in child birth, children are blessings

-she might marry you so that the responsibility will be less

nothing wrong in giving out a helping hand, this will only be a problem if there is no love attached

-she might marry you just because no other guy wants her

guys don't discriminate ladies because they are already a mama, some might be glad because they are sure of her virility. This is baseless

-she might marry you because her parent rain insults on her

how about non-baby-mamas-still-unmarried-still-living-with-parents-turning-cougars-to-be?? This is a general reason some ladies marry and not exclusive to single baby mamas

-she might marry you out of frustration

not exclusive to single baby mamas

-she might marry you so that no one call her names

go back to number 1, btw, who calls single baby mamas names?? And what kinda names

-she might marry you and will try to make people feel you are her babys daddy

baseless, I'm marrying her and not people and automatically I'm her baby daddy, we should concentrate more on making me feel good down south

-she might marry you for shelter

nonsense, even beggars have shelter not to talk of comfortable baby mama or are you insinuating that all single mama don't have shelter??

i am totaly against a guy marrying a lady who already have a child simply because no matter how happy she is with you she will always prefer to live with the guy who got her pregnant.

Agree?

vinebaby: Pls, I tink u shld go straight to your point.

Nwanneamakah: LOL...I never said I tell guys what to call me...seriously, how does, "I'm xyz, but you can call me sexy" sound?
I just said "I prefer being referred to as hot/sexy to being called beautiful...beautiful seems "uninteresting" to me"
I'm in a relationship and I get this thrill when he refers to me as sexy/hot when I'm all dressed up and ready to go out or something...that thrill isn't really there when he calls me beautiful.

Guess it depends on who's doing the calling...if its just a random guy, then

Nwanneamakah: LOL...I never said I tell guys what to call me...seriously, how does, "I'm xyz, but you can call me sexy" sound?
I just said "I prefer being referred to as hot/sexy to being called beautiful...beautiful seems "uninteresting" to me"
I'm in a relationship and I get this thrill when he refers to me as sexy/hot when I'm all dressed up and ready to go out or something...that thrill isn't really there when he calls me beautiful.

Guess it depends on who's doing the calling...if its just a random guy, then

emmadan: you know most times,its not what you say that really matters,its how you say what you say that matters.what i know is that one must lie.

vinebaby: Why do u ask?

remsonik: bros u sef wicked,after four years!! Oga o,just tell us how u used and dumped the poor girl....mttchew

Nwanneamakah: I'm trying so hard not to believe your point 2, because I prefer being referred to as hot/sexy to being called beautiful...beautiful seems "uninteresting" to me

Preceedo: Can you elucidate further?

Preceedo: Yes, I was thought that in sec school:- " A lady is moved by what she hears and not sight while a man is moved by what he sees". So, so true.
BUT, inasmuch as I agree on the fact that a guy who always say things bluntly to ladies is extremely RUDE eventhough he is saying the truth, I beg to differ on the point of telling lies to make a girl happy.
I believe in saying it in a presentable, friendly way so far the message has been passed accross!!

Happy new year in advance.

davida222: you right mate, some guys on here saying ON point are just trolls, real men dont conceal words we tell u straight to ur face. 95% of guys that are saying On point to what d op wrote on here are trolls and sisi.

Teenzy: I really dont agree with u on No7..A guy will definitely ask a girl if she has a bf to know what he's up against....

vinebaby: Well, I tink u r right, but mine was different because I was the person that did wrong, got dumped and was even begging but I kept on receiving too many insults