₦airaland Forum

benpuzzy: In addendum, where were they when Fashola deported some South Easterners? I can see a mass hatred on Owelle

vickyO: I am not imposing it on anyone.
At the end of the day it's still a matter of choice.

Even if the world goes premarital, I will not and I will keep advocating for what is best and right.




Or are you scared Ladies won't want to have sex with you?

They will, they plenty sef.
Just leave me to my advocacy, let me liberate those who choose to be liberated.

vickyO: Does that make protected sex better than abstinence?

Abstinence yields more positive result than protective sex. It's just that many people choose protective sex over abstinence.

vickyO: Then I believe you aren't a true Christian.

Abstinence is the best remedy to sexual related problems.
Have you ever heard the proverb prevention is better than cure.

I preach and I advocate for abstinence and I practice it.
I don't preach abstinence and ignorance.
Learn and know about sex but don't do the real thang. It might be tempting but don't do it.

And lastly a girl who dates has more tendency of yielding to sexual advances than those who don't.

Just abstain from fun driven relationships and embrace mArriage driven relationships.

Sex is sweet as in sweeeeeet but you have to be real and know that you can't eat your cake and have it.

Elli-dude:
Hey!! You mis-understand me..
Destroying girls' life..I've seen a lot of 'em..

Sunshine lady: . Den u r probably one of d few xceptions (dats if u r sure u r wholly okay )

Sunshine lady: . Chai! Uncle Aboki u can lie o, dat men are not excited by sex, is d fattest lie ever! Unless u knw, mayb u v got som problems as a man.

thymedcurry: Lol thanks girl but I have found it. And just a tip happiness and sex in marriage are like 5 and 6. Don't believe me ask other married people that are happy with their union.

Chomzy19: hahahaha maybe you guys should learn how to pretend too... U know act like its not all dt imp to u; in Biz d party dt shows d commodity is more imp to him loses his bargaining power...n yes we are dealing wit menstruation n childbirth u guys shld enjoy d cross nature gave to u

Chomzy19: huh?? Dts how u guys feel like you want to pass Urine..lol even at dt urine can be held... If some guys can hold d fluid dt means others can bsyds unlike urine it musnt be passed its not harmful to d body... Anyways wareva it feels like u guys shld deal wit it we deal wit our own

Chomzy19: DT is very true hence y some can be careless Enuff to get pregnant, they usually forget demselves n d condoms wit it Oh I know men can do without sex, they act like they can't do without it just to conquer some unsuspecting naïve girl... Dt Erection wil not break any wall girl if you say NO, it can only point stubbornly at you for some mins and then go Limp.

Chomzy19: Don't know y u had to rewrite her post u'd hv simply replied... Buh to d topic even a 2 Min man has a cure d reason is mostly psychological or health related and d remedy is quite easy besides stamina drugs even traditional/herbal ones are everywhere now.. N quite affordable besides a ten minute man durin courtship can turn to a 1 min Man after marriage what do you do then RUN?? Like I said d reasons are usually psychological or health related so anybody can become dt anytime in life or even loose interest in sex totaly... So only d 'UN-EDUCATED' will fall for dt crap

As for performing to d best of your satisfaction... D only person who can perform to d best of your satisfaction is someone who you teach to do just that... No 2 pple are d same n a sex machine wit Woman A might really nt be hitting it right wit me.. So u guys will explore and learn yhur bodies together as it should be.

Chomzy19: lol only IDIOTS needs to actually go thru with sex to know wether d pe.nis of their to be is small or Big, long or short, wether d tip is pink or black, how many inches it is when it is Erect... If yhu were talking about how long d guy can last in bed u'll be making more sensem

thymedcurry: ... sample that tool and make sure it works perfectly fine to your satisfaction before your wedding night. No one wants to pull down those pants and see her pinky finger dangling in front of her or have a 2min man as a husband.

thymedcurry: Oh pulllzzzz! Ladies have sex as much as you want anytime you want. Never be scared of your sexual prowess! If a guy thinks he is using you well too bad for him cause you are using him too!
But beware. Be smart and safe with it. Protection is key. And at all times use ur head and not ur heart.
Btw ladies, if you are about to get married, don't listen to this talk of abstinence... sample that tool and make sure it works perfectly fine to your satisfaction before your wedding night. No one wants to pull down those pants and see her pinky finger dangling in front of her or have a 2min man as a husband.
A lot of guys are all talk with Lil peens. Since marriage is a lifetime institution you shouldn't be burdened with a lifetime of a small peen that is too Lil to work.
Only the smart ones would understand me and the stupid ones wld be found checking out other guys packages and wishing the one they had at home was as big...

idakwojimathias: Girls beware of pre- marital sex. It is a journey that one will embark
without going back because of the pleasure in it. always be in prayer
with your partner. May God help us

vickyO: Nice post @ op


Abstinence is still the best form of playing safe.
Jeez, I rather abstain than bother myself with all these control methods, what if I forget to use it? what if the mood gets so intense and we lose control?
Any thing can happen when you're having sex. And the fact that it is done premaritally makes it a more delicate situation.


And as for the gullible 15 year olds, theirs is more like a sorry case.
How can a 30 year old man ask you for sex and you go ahead?

Any ways, I believe upbringing differs and exposure matters.

Just abstain from sex and you'll have no cause to worry about STDs.

trolley: Yeah, the 'weaker sex'. l love how they scream this when they are at a disadvantage.

trolley: Isn't it intriguing how you expressly attribute the 'use and dump' characteristic to the male gender?

Isn't it ironic how you relate ridicule specifically to the male gender but you conveniently forget the 'class warfare' in females?

You ultimately determine the denial of pregnancies as a male factor but you intentionally overlook the intrigues ladies play to rope in unsuspectong male victims. The mortal pain and sorrow many men have and will experience down the years over the realisation that the child they have nurtured is not theirs.

Relationships are not drama free and looking at them through a 'feminist's' screen won't paint a perfect picture. Correlation does not imply causation.

trolley: See, nature and if you will, extrapolate that to the society, does not confer equality on both genders. There are so many things guys get off with that makes evolutionary equality a farce. It is an immutable law of nature.

The bolded is what really matters.