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bukatyne:
@OP:

If the places were reversed, the proverbial Jane would have still felt lonely and cheat if so inclined.

bukatyne:
Lots of couples both work full time & still manage to keep their marriages going.

bukatyne:
If Jane gets home by 8pm and cannot find time to relate with her husband then she needs to prioritize & go back to the drawing board.

bukatyne:
If Kunle was serious, he would have looked for solutions rather than cheat.

elektra:
So men did not cheat before the 21st century?
Before women started building careers were men faithful to their wives?

misspicy2:
isn't that the advice y'all give to married women


"stay and endure,keep praying" blah blah

cococandy:
It's actually very significant.
Those things aren't little. They mean a lot in the home. If you have a partner who works longer hours than you, it is most likely that they are more stressed at the end of the day than you are.

he should have left out some food for her.

mimzy:
Following.. OP is there still more to come or this is the end of the narrative?

cc: lezzlie



hmmmm , from your write up, this dude did not even make any attempt to have a meaningful conversation with his wife before jumping into the hands of his ex. Well... if you ask me, i will say even if his wife is a full time house wife, satisfies his desires, does monkey in the shadow style for him, cooks delicious meals everyday, he will still cheat on her if he wants to!!!

Abeg, it aint a matter of the lady being busy. Men are born CHEATS!!!

cococandy:
Imagine. He didn't even leave some food for her.
And who did he dump the dishes in the sink for?

What a selfish husband.

misspicy2:
When a man thinks the escape route to his loneliness is in the arms of another rather than his wife, he doesn't need no further probing,obviously Kunle does not need to say a word to his Ex Julia,he already anticipated and wanted her.


Nancy on the other hand,would have wanted to have a discuss with her Husband Le.zzlie who of course doesn't even have her time.

she needed someone to unbundle her heart to,and in comes Kay


trust me in real life situations,the story of Kunle and Jane is much more realistic than that of Nancy and Le.zzlie,because Nancy would have been doing what women are conditioned to do most -------------> Pray for Le.zzlie's of heart change

misspicy2:
[b]Nancy is happilly married to Le.zzlie or so she thought.

Nancy works as a teacher in one of this government primary schools close to the house,she goes to work from 8am till 2pm and is back home.

Her husband Le.zzlie,on the other hand is a site engineer who gets his big dough from big big contracts which requires him traveling around and when is he around town too busy to be home,the only time he gets to go home is weekends or late at nights around 10pm

Nancy always stays awake to welcome her husband,after preparing his meal and running a warm bath for him

Le.zzlie is usually too tired to even eat Nancy's meals most night,he just takes a shower and goes to bed.


One day Nancy met an ex of hers at the bank,and from her physically appearance,Kay her ex knew she wasn't alright,he volunteered to take her out on dinner and while at it,she told him how she felt neglected

Kay took her home,and they had a long night.

Kay eventually dropped Nancy home around 9:30pm,and Her husband Le.zzlie came home to see a glowing woman,he was too tired to comment about it of course,had his shower and went to bed[/b]

KnightX:
...And Jane, in her bid to sacrifice somethings like her man's sexual and emotional satisfaction to ascend the zenith of her career stratum which she thinks would secure everything and her future, begins to lose it all - the happiness, her man and a future with him.

mimzy:
Following.. OP is there still more to come or this is the end of the narrative?

cc: le.zzlie

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]hahaha, see where he stated "my wife is white(english)" what brought wife into this matter, a huge favour was done to him there, that why he brags with it. shame betide him [/color]

Strahovski1:
What? My post struck struck a nerve? Do you know how many nerves the topic struck?

Strahovski1:
Insulting names of human beings? Insulting other people race? "Whites are crazy" but when same is said to you, you cry S.eun.

Strahovski1:
My wife is white(English). So, I will never sit and join in the trash talk against her race. So if you don't want to be insulted don't insult other people race

Strahovski1:
Jesus condom is photoshoped.

What's with you black people? Gosh..

Strahovski1:
Jesus condom is photoshoped.

What's with you black people? Gosh..

joseph1832:
That's why I advocate this social media bill. I believe it might be a way to curb most of these negative influences coming from the west.

Let's know who and who is using social media, let's know if these persons are really nigerians, let's know what their problems are, and better still, let's know how they think and what they think.

joseph1832:
That's the irony of it all. Once upon a time such talk of feminism and homosexuality would have attracted one the branding of heretic and sent to the stakes. Now, its a whole new different game.

Indeed, the liberal minded folks are so influenced by the west, they now live in self delusion thus branding themselves the west, believing thinking like the west, makes them the west.

I advice you to take a trip down Nairaland's diaryland, the things you read there will even make you wonder aloud: "do these people really believe they live in the west". That's what watching useless western shows do to one.

I tell you, most of them have lost the delighting deal of reading a hard copy book. Google, sorry wikipedia is now their new found knowledge. Lol.

You'll be amazed many of them live their lives online. Even the ones branding themselves homos here, are afraid to fancy a meet with one outside here, they seem to have inherited the western ideals of being covertly suspicious thus believing everybody is a spy.

I now believe the influence being wielded by the west is very enormous. The speed at which this homosexuality is spreading is very amazing and alarming, even kids in primary 4 now know who lesbians are. I remember vividly that when I was in primary school come secondary school, such a thing is as scarce as petrol.

joseph1832:
WhAt!!! such desperate attempt to brainwash innocent kids.

How can I forget Cecil Jones and Tubman Goldie, the first imperialist to grace the niger. But we must be weary, such grand attempt at invading our culture and moral code must be met with harsh revolt.

They did it with christianity, now look at the mess we're in. A total sham that has resulted into a scam where the lives of people are being made a mockery of, and the worst thing is the people still don't know they're being mocked.

Christianity is almost everywhere, and homosexuality is following the footstep of christianity, giving people a place to belong and the falsehood of acceptance. I wonder what would have happened if they had invaded the Catholic church. I hear papa (pope) is under serious pressure to accept them.

I'm patiently waiting for this to unfold because when it does, if it ever did, then another re branding of christianity will follow suit that will make the one done by Emperor Constantine a mere joke.

joseph1832:
This has always been my grouse with the white man. Always shoving his beliefs in other peoples throat like he did with religion.

It amazes why these same people like you said celebrate and condone homosexuality, and yet the criminalize polygamy. I mean, since it all has to do with consent. That is two adults consenting to an act.

To me, I believe the homos have a hidden agenda because the way they go about advocating their sexuality and shoving it down our throats is becoming alarming. I mean, its everywhere, you see it everywhere, movies, tv shows, even anime and cartoons too.

I was slightly bemused when I watched Batman: Bad Blood, and saw a display of lesbianism there, I mean this is a cartoon meant for kids!

These homos are now targeting kids with their sexuality. Hark! Such show of brazen arrogance is very daring.

auntysimbiat:
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11 people (9 males, 2 females) died and 6 others (4 males, 2 females) in a road crash that occurred after Owena bridge, about 18km from Ore on the Benin-Ore road.

The accident that occured in the early hours of today, April 10 involved a truck and a Toyota Hiace bus.

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According to FRSC, "the crash was an head on collision resulted as a result of driving against traffic on the dual carriageway by the driver of the truck. Two vehicles, a blue Daf truck crane with registration number BEN 371 XY and a white Toyota Hiace bus with registration number FKJ 62XH were involved . The injured and the corpses were taken to the General Hospital, Ore. Personal effects such as clothes, bags, phones and a sum of N32,490:00 were recovered at the scene"

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Source: http://www.nairanaijanews.com/2016/04/photos-eleven-persons-perish-in-road.html

Eddygourdo:
i truly wonder when that boy was born , but at least we all should remember the nineties and 2000s. am sure there where gays in nigeria, yet it wasnt in the mainstream as a subject of any meaningful discourse. the advent of the social media boom and its easy access and spread for distribution of fallacious propaganda made it easy for issues that according to you were discussed in hush tones to start sounding mainstream.

to make matters worse they sort to legalize it with arguments of the "modern family" . they claimed its based strictly on the expression of love between two individuals , yet these same individuals crave the attention and acceptance of the general population more than their love for themselves.

they tried the church as a means of spreading the gay gospel and unfortunately the church of england fell prey, they spread forth their minions on the internet to accuse op posers of their lack of liberality nor higher intellect. thus the liberal man according to them is a man that embraces homosexuals, yet he abhors polygamists , paedophiles and other freaks of nature.

they carried out subjective research that proved that children were unaffected when raised by homosexual parents and yet i remember finding it difficult to understand how a woman and a man produced children much less two men.

yet their subjective research told them that , thus the spread to africa. its lovely though the responses African governments gave to mr obama, thus that issue is left for now.

too bad the next issue they have succeeded in promoting underground to see if it passes the house , was the gender equality bill and most unfortunately our single deluded ladies are swallowing it line hook and sinker without looking at he long term effects of such idiocy.

Eddygourdo:
thank you for the above, i doubt that nitwit darken.rebel knows about that. we did it in igbo land and yet we know what that was all about . its was a cultural practise and never meant gay marriage between the two women. but these people piont at that as part of their evidences of historical african homosexual practise.

if you read some of the rubbish on the internet you could see a representation of the above highlight as evidence of homosexual relation without any mention of cultural context or belief.

then one fellow with limited education and reasoning will come paste it here with huge grammar to boot , in proof of african historical homosexuality.

oh daymmmmm

Eddygourdo:
please tell that to darken.rebel and the other wannabe. by their understanding you are ignorant and uneducated because you are saying such and not agreeing to the western propaganda.

every thing said there is on point and yet its these same people we are listening to and following their beliefs when its clearly destroying them. what you said in one post pleases my heart the most because it appears they dont realize this yet , that the same ideals they peddle in the media to africans are in minority opinion and acceptance in their lands .

their media never truly reflect the truth of situations.

My brother the message is simple. Africa is enslaved!!!

Our own history was bequeathed to us by the penning and dictates of the West. And we threw our oral history of unblemished account devoid of all political motives out the door!

Any African who doesn't know that the "truth" is the first casuality of war doesn't deserve to be alive!!!

After the defeat of colonialism, African history was written in jornals and memoirs like a movie script soothing the theme of the white man.

We read in their language, study in their language, that is the subtle subjugation of our mind, intellect and spirit.

Homosexuality being African is a farce!!! It was seen as a taboo and an abhorrence!!!

Of course the practice of a widowed Igbo woman who married another woman to bear her male children can be cited as the practice giving acquiescence to homosexuality

joseph1832:
Well that's still a mystery as everything most of these feminist bring forward is shrouded in falsehood and also a means to propel their individual aims to the world.

Feminism and homosexuality, as far as I'm concerned is still very alien to the African man and even more alien to the nigerian man, who is very traditional and also very religious, and both are oppose the homosexuality and feminism.

I always tell the homos here to come out from social media and stage a protest, let's see if their own neighbors will not stone them to death. Nairaland has provided a safe haven for them to litter this place with their sexuality, due to its policy of anonymity. Have you asked yourself why these so called gay advocates don't go to their own facebook and instagram pages to declare their support for homosexuality? Or even come out as homosexuals?

pinceprinz:
Basically on point mate, but the fact is most of these sick psychos are just clowns forcing social lobotomies , most would rather hide under the safety and pleasures of their homes only to come online to advertise their plight...

However, my worry is not on the demented souls, they won't change anyway; they're damned! Let's talk rather about vitalising the young , fresh naive minds instead. Inoculate and vaccinate em so they won't get attracted to this vampire paradigm, absorb it as a credible social norm in our black Nigeria, while being given the pseudo impression such allowance is a right step towards accrediting the global village campaign the West are giving the hottest campaign not knowing its a trap to continue milking us dry while believing we are one and united in every possible facet; we've been fooled enough - We won't be here forever!

joseph1832:
Hmm. Now I didn't think of that