₦airaland Forum

Dklef:
[color=#1960BC] Nice and beautiful!!!

Hypeman, what's up? [/color]

Smellymouth:
Chaiii! God bless u le.zz,Touching words. Finding the perfect words is not easy, but I haff seen the right words to make 'Amaka' blush tomorrow morning!

And may God help her if she doesn't cry like this tomorrow::

Jadekitana:
I nominated Refiner, creamish and mimzy! Creamish declined, refiner wasn't really sure, I checked mimzy's pic she was really cool and judging from her threads and responses, she's intelligent as well. So final candidate for me is Mimzy

Jadekitana:
Ok June still stands then

Ofcourse I do, but I really don't give a quarter fvck to side talks especially when I have a candidate to support. The essence of the contest is to have fun and produce a winner,i'm gonna stick to that.

Jadekitana:
Lol not yet, I hope something doesn't come up! By the way how often do you come to lagos?

Jadekitana:
Ok no probs

JoeBlocks:
Never knew I was now a messenger. Lol. But still, am all ears... Lemme hear your message.

JoeBlocks:
I believe your bro is incarcerated cos all he's been doing since today is view this thread, so unlike him to view and not comment.

So Mr kong fu le.zzlie, how you doing? yea I see, saw and know. Lol.

joseph1832:
Oh you're welcome. I'm glad you heed my mention, thought you was gonna ignore like before... Lol.

But skarlett, how come we're not friends?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You're a becoming a sweet and lovely girl these days.

I hope L.ezz/le.zzlie nor go vex if I begin reason your matter? [/color]

ireneony:
shouldn't you be supporting one of the Knights crew e.g mimzy

ireneony:
thanks. .
But I don't want in.

ireneony:
you re such a sweetie pie ur profound wisdom and benevolent really got my mind swaying.
Thanks dear.
I'm not contesting...
I will pass!..lol

joseph1832:
You don come now abi. Lol.

ireneony:
I think I'm popular enough and I don't wanna contest....i'm an oldie, we shud leave this for the newbies

firstEVA:


I will be expecting a 5 seconds Voice note, do me a song, I am in the mood for a long laugh .


Good morning

eyinjuege:
It takes nothing for a woman who is BORED and TIRED of her marriage to cheat!!!

eyinjuege:
Please, it's a complete fallacy to say women have to premeditate and do some high falloting strategic planning before they cheat.

eyinjuege:
Opportunities abound! There are fellow married men who's speciality is to chase after married women who they believe have more to lose and won't be as clingy as the single girls. Heck, even some single guys have no respect for marriage.

People meet randomly in trains, buses, supermarkets, on the road in traffic etc and exchange numbers and start dating from there.

bukatyne:
Big market women don't travel to look for goods?

Whatever bros.

bukatyne:
I see your intent is to justify Kunle cheating...

Good for him.

bukatyne:
1. Anybody (male/female) who prioritizes work over family will always meet an empty home at the end of the day

2. The amount of employees (male/female) who are 'fully career' driven at the expense of their families is a small percentage; infact, most employers have to deal with employees who are disengaged.

3. The time of commuting to work is a major problem especially in areas like Lagos that's why you have more cases of 'career over family' instances here. Banking jobs that have been so demonized in Lagos are embraced in other parts of Nigeria. A relative of mine leaves home past 7am and returns latest 7pm (and yes, she is a banker) etc. etc.

4. Except you are talking of maggi and supermarket business, entrepreneurship ain't beans. Infact, they work 24*7 to make their business run smoothly. Even market women in big markets go every early to the market and leave late abi they are not wives?

5. Anybody that will cheat will cheat. If Kunle respected his marriage, he would not have gone with his ex, it is simple mathematics. Until he has reported his wife to her parents, his parents, the church, her friends, his friends, threatened to separate etc. he has not exhausted all options.

cc: pcguru1

firstEVA:
without the pain of losing and the liquor, I doubt you can sing, I expect something cacophonous



That's why I don't like football, too much emotions.

elektra:
Kunle did not set out to cheat, this means that even if his wife had provided that 'loving atmosphere' he would have still cheated because it was not preconceived. So why the heck is his wife to blame for his indiscipline? You desperately what the wife to take 100% blame for kunle's actions but I do not understand why and no one on this thread does.

In fact if he had planned to cheat on his wife with the ex because he was tired of being neglected it would make your point stronger.

pcguru1:
i know right but seriously think about this, what happens should the husband die. you do know the woman has to be the man, that has been my case it's why i support women to take their career life serious, however a responsible woman knows not to put her house in negligence, there are Women MDs in bank who still take care of their family. It's a wrong message to say as a woman you can't be too successful just because are you want to keep your home happy. weird right

pcguru1:
Look Lezzlie I have no problem with Kunle cheating or finding comfort in an ex's arm, it's his personal life and marriage, he's free to destroy it as much as he wants, what i find silly is trying to blaming this on working nature of the wife without providing a solution or communicating with his wife.

The reason i asked "Are you married" .........never mind, it's actually irrelevant so am guessing Kunle is a victim here.

pcguru1:
I am endorsing for women to work harder and longer if they desire, and husbands should support their wives, I find it weird someone has to attempt career suicide to make another party happy. infact closing by 8:00pm is early she even has it good.

pcguru1:
I need to ask , are you married ?

pcguru1:
Still not a basis for cheating, there's always going to be a crack in Marriages doesnt mean taking the easiest route out.

pcguru1:
If roles were reversed won't it be the guys blaming the woman because the guy is working hard to provide and she jumps in an ex's arm.

pcguru1:
Clearly kunle and guys that fit this are natural cheats all they need is justification. Its clear alot of people don't know what Marriages entails, sadly family section has missed it too. I can never fault a woman for working too hard because I have benefited from such a woman. Women in Nigeria dey try o always having to sacrifice because of a grown baby. That's how I see it

nnamdibig:
Ex is Ex......If you want to while away time, call up your guys & go & take some bottles. If you don't drink then church is your best bet. But honoring the invitation of EX(who may have some thing in mind) is a no no. If the ex really want you to come, why not invite you & your partner so that your partner should be aware of where you are?

pcguru1:
Won't it be easy for kunle to communicate this than to start entertaining an ex, it just shows kunle has no respect for his marriage.

eyinjuege:
But how do you know if millions of women who stay at home cheat or not?

Most people cheat because they can, and they have the opportunity.

Nothing stops a woman who meets a nice stranger at the supermarket, exchanges nos with him, they start chatting since she's so bored at home when the kids are in school, and next thing is hooking up all in a day's work. The hubby might have been too busy with his work, coming home late at night, leaving early in the morning, doesn't pick calls when at work and more or less neglects the emotional and physical needs of his wife

bukatyne:
Lol! And we still have case of 'cheating wives?'

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I am obviously not getting the word here



I agree and both parties must work on making it big.



Kunle must be a mental baby not to know that 'hot ex" + "loneliness" = Disaster!