₦airaland Forum

The last pic is so touching.

Rip pretty girl. God console your family. This is painful

ComrTonwa:
wailing thread activated..... APC will win Etche Tomorrow... bookmark this space and ask me how market on Sunday

Your market go good only by rigging.

Rivers people no like apc

Na wa o

needful:
Let us call a spade, a spade. Naija women are in a very big mess when it comes to marriage because our men sees a woman as a slave. This is the reason why many of them are always afraid of moving abroad finally with their wives, it's also the reason why the ones that moved abroad and brought naija men mentality eventually got divorced by their wives abroad. I have many of them around me here, boxing a woman up and down, simply because u are married to her. The economy of Naija made it so, because if women are generally independent to carter for themselves, cheating in Nigeria will reduce drastically. Men who cheat on their wives and get away with it are those who felt their women can't do anything because at the end, the woman will still come and ask for money for Maggi and pepper from him. I encourage women in our society to be up and doing, learn to care for ur selves, buy properties with your names, be independent. When a man tries shit, over look him and let him realize that with or without him, you are already made and nothing can stop that. When he notice that he worth nothing in your dictionary, his head will come down.

You are not a bustard. It is your father that born you! Well said.

needful:
Let us call a spade, a spade. Naija women are in a very big mess when it comes to marriage because our men sees a woman as a slave. This is the reason why many of them are always afraid of moving abroad finally with their wives, it's also the reason why the ones that moved abroad and brought naija men mentality eventually got divorced by their wives abroad. I have many of them around me here, boxing a woman up and down, simply because u are married to her. The economy of Naija made it so, because if women are generally independent to carter for themselves, cheating in Nigeria will reduce drastically. Men who cheat on their wives and get away with it are those who felt their women can't do anything because at the end, the woman will still come and ask for money for Maggi and pepper from him. I encourage women in our society to be up and doing, learn to care for ur selves, buy properties with your names, be independent. When a man tries shit, over look him and let him realize that with or without him, you are already made and nothing can stop that. When he notice that he worth nothing in your dictionary, his head will come down.

You are not a bustard. It is your father that born you! Well said

LadiGama:
U nailed it!
Its not a do or die affair!
Faithfulness in all sh*t keeps me stick to U!
But if u fall short and I get satisfaction out there, to heck with faithfulness!

So what of the areas where you fall short? Hope you won't mind when your wife gets her own satisfaction out there too.

RuggedArab:
You wan carry the faithfulness go build house?

No one plans his funeral! No right thinking man will plan to be unfaithful to his spouse. These things just happen and if you fall once Or twice and bounce back without doing it again does it make you an unfaithful man?

My deduction from experience married men is this: " I can be faithful if my wife is faithful all round (faithful in bed, faithful with chores, faithful in her finance, faithful in God, faithful in telling truth, faithful to my family, faithful in loyalty and all other faithful stuffs)."

Is a Yes or No answer!

If your wife decides to fùck the gate man once when you were away. Then regrets it and never does it again, does that make her unfaithful?

Just asking

Please tell me her account was hacked cos it's hard to believe this girl could be so dumb.

Can't she keep her mouth shut for a while?

Muzanga:
And nobody is talking about that space between a man's dick and his balls. Smells like damp clothes. Some guys wear one pair of boxers for 3months. See them dirty guilty guys quoting me. e pain them.

*yak*

initialize:
I don't know why I find it difficult to reason why I should travel to another country. My first international passport expired without any stamp. The second one is already a year old and still not taken it to any embassy. I'm among those that believe I will grow my hundreds to billions in Nigeria. I didn't say millions because that's already achieved within 4yrs of trying.


Believe in Nigeria and Nigeria will reason ur situation.

800k is even much money to start a business. If you got the 800k legitimately I'm surprised you asking this question. Do you want to tell me there's no more money where the 800k came from?

Don't be rude. He might have received it from his parents. If you have good business ideas spell it out! Stop acting like you know everything.

Who knows whether you are not lying sef

I heard this as a rumour, that all the things tonto claimed her husband bought for her are things she actually bought for herself.

Na wa o

GodsLastBorn:
No you're the one that really needs overhaul dear, you got it twisted and for you to say you've been in marriage for 11years?! 11!? and you emit this mentality? Read your line again " If you want a woman to treat you well , treat her well first!" FIRST! before you treat your husband well he must treat you well FIRST hahahahahaa well it takes more than age, beard and a d**k to be a MAN.
You are trying to justify why another person should be in charge of my happiness because she's my wife and the two of us are one right? some people have had appendix did they leave it to burst in their stomach because its part of their body?! hell no, if any part of your body will negatively impact on you or affect your health, physically, mentally or emotionally you need to treat the sickness or get rid of it. If a doctor tells you that you have to leave the appendix in your stomach because its part of you and you need to be happy only when the appendix ceases to pain you won't you tell the doctor that he is stark raving mad?! won't that be a very foolish idea?
My happiness in the hands of another human being?! hahahahahaa

You are divorced before you're even married... image comparing you spouse to an appendix, that's sad.

I wonder what has made you have such a bitter and grim look at marriage.

Marriage can be great you know... my husband takes words out of my mouth like he knows what I'm thinking. Most times I don't ask what he what's to eat , I just prepare something and it happens to be what he had been craving.
Through our 11years we have had ups and downs.
We lost our last child, it was the hardest time. My husband was at work and came home in the afternoon which is very unusual, at the time I was suicidal.... he said something told him I was not ok! Wow!

He is the ying to my yang. We have no secrets. Everything I own belongs to him and everything he owns belongs to me.
Sometimes we have misunderstandings but never malice or knowingly want to hurt each other. When he is happy, I'm happy and vice versa

Like I said I don't know why your out look on marriage is so grim but I can tell this, YOU CAN'T PUT A PRICE TAG ON A GOOD MARRIAGE.
EVERY MARRIAGE CAN WORK PROVIDED BOTH PARTIES PLAY THEIR PART.

good night.

GodsLastBorn:
That last line about "happy wife happy life" is why I find marriage funny, I don't and won't let my happiness be in someone's control. Someone can be an extra but being in charge of my happiness? hahahaha hell no!

You need to have a rethink about marriage.

That some is part of u! The two of us are one

Happy wife happy life. Happy husband happy life.it works both ways

GodsLastBorn:
Here we go again, pls spare me your emotional rants. The Op never typed anything about the man maltreating his wife rather negligence is what she's talking about. Let me tell you something when it comes to relationships there is no balance rather compromise, support and other things makes it work not balance. The other person supports his or her partner where they are incompetent or lack something. A man that can't cook for shitt his wife helps him out and ensure he has prepared meal to eat and for a wife that is not educated or tech savvy, the husband helps her out. Its all about loving, complimenting, supporting and more good stuff OUT OF LOVE. Its not a biz of if I give you A and you don't give me B I'm going to disrespect you because the reason I'm giving you An is because I want B, WTF?! if a lady can't do shitt for me out of love and vice versa then you better tell me how much your pussi is so that we don't fool each other. Give out of love and not out of expectations.

This is the hypocrisy about men that drives me crazy. When you marry and give your wife money , don't u expect to come back home to a nicely cooked meal?
Why should a woman not expect to be treated well by her husband if she keeps up with her own side?
So u want to live like the devil and expect to come back to mother Theresa

Good luck with that!

I've been married for 11year
What u give is what u get!

Yes compromise may come in for the sake of forgiveness but a mistake CANNOT be perpetual and expect the other party to remain the same.

Walk away from both of them

cobadit:
Hmmmmmm......... I wish he comes back but not to the throne of power but as a man who loves Nigeria by stepping down for prof. to continue as president and he(Buhari) enjoys the rest of his life resting

Story for the gods...
You think buhari loves Nigeria? ? Lol. Comedy of the day.

Buhari only loves fulani.thats all!

GodsLastBorn:
so basically I'm paying for services rendered instead it being she's doing stuff out of care huh? well I hope most girls don't have this mentality.

You must strike a balance in everything in life.

If you want a woman to treat you well , treat her well first!

Would you continue to take good care of a wife who maltreats u??

Short and simple. Anything u give a woman she multiples.

You give her house it multiples into a home

Give her sperm it multiples into a human

So if u give her crap be ready for a whole lot of shìt!

Happy wife, happy life!

Any update about 3year old Sarah from yesterday?

The child who's patients called a witch??

miketayo:
And d girls father was in charge of the dog

OMG....

eezeribe:
I dedicate this FTC to All Buhari's children from his first wife,who have been thrown into obscurity.

SAY NO TO POLYGAMY.

LOL wetin dey worry u?

miketayo:
u didnt read the article did u?

I read that the man was based in the UK

This recession hit dangote plc hard

saintdennis:
Are you a father? If so I suggest u go and do paternity test cos it's obvious you're a learner who can Easily be fooled.

I have parents(chocolate skinned), extended family, neighbour's etc who are light skinned.

I have seen women carry from the moment the baby bump became obvious to when they put to bed.

I'm not as IGNORANT as you are... the skin colour in that background pic CANNOT Change to what I'm seeing solely unto pregnancy...she stopped rubbing the cream(s)

Doesn't the SUN also make people dark? I've seen a fair skinned akara/yam/potato seller at my junction carry n deliver (all through she still opened for biz).


Her skin didn't turn to charcoal ... so Mr 'big man' continue

Anyway I cheerfully accept your 'small boy' tag.

I'm a light skinned woman. Very light skinned. I've have 6 kids. I can tell you that pregnancy can change a woman like that! I once got so dark I was almost unrecognisedable. I didn't notice it that much nor did my husband because it happens slowly. It's only when I compared pics or when people who had not seen me for a long time reacted to my colour change that I knew it was really serious...

It happened to me with some of my pregnancies. Some not all, no 2 pregnancies are the same!

You're young and naive.

Appreciate the lesson from someone who has experience.

saintdennis:
Who else noticed the couples pic in the background?

Women and their bleaching creams sha

All these small boys that know nothing are so quick to spew trash

Dot you know pregnancy make a woman dark?

suyamasta:
This info should be pasted at all visa processing centres!

It is pasted there already.

Pay 15k at your own peril!

Bbn is just rubbish. It should be banned

That landlord needs to be extradited back to Nigeria and face charges!

What nonsense

Rip young angel. You were not given a chance

You're in a better place now

Apple1992:
The only thing Obama can give his country is same sex marriage. And the people stupidly accept and legalized it. President Kenyatta is a bomboclaat fool.

Obama was the worst thing to happen to the 21st century.

I hope trump can get enough conservatives in their SC to reverse this nonsense

Biggcake:
See as you resemble something where them embalm.

Have you taken your drugs today

So this is what Nigeria has been reduced to...

What a shame