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LockDown69:
Lair lair pants on fire.

lielbree:
Next time keep your pri.ck for one place and avoid temptation. Why were u ever even entertaining her in your house if u guys had broken up?

PrinceEvolution:
really?pls tell me more so he was shagging his daughter ?...everything is beginning to make sense now..l

manup:
Everyone here knows that Amaechi spent that much same reason Soyinka kept travelling to Rivers state then and even insulted the then First Lady Patience Jonathan.

johnson232:
All these are lies....
Which man like home chores se ef?
Home chores na better thing make person dey like?

If u as a woman don't like it, why screaming my husband like home chores....

I pressume he also likes going on errands as well...

Lies....

disloman:
Some people don't need to be in government.They just believed that government is for everyone.To ask Soyinka to refund if given a cash gift,is the most stup1d utterance I've ever heard.

GenBuhari:
I will advise against accepting anything from America, probably fitted with satellite tracking device, and other spying technology, that they would use to defeat our military.

US are behind Boko haram , why making donations now that we have practically defeated Boko haram?

Why didn't they make such donation when GEJ need help and Boko running wild?

andyanders:
Forget that level and about richness here.If we talk about richness, then get a place elsewhere for your husband. We are talking about reality.I am married too and very responsible.I will tell you that I am one of the best cooks you can think about as far as a man is concerned.I do it for the fun of it and not one of my responsibilities as a married man.I do help my wife do something but she cannot be sending me on an errand because she is responsible.
Yes, you can be sending your husband on errands because that is him and not me, but my wife cannot try that.The highest she can do is maybe give me a call if I am not home to help her get some things from the grocery store.Or maybe during winter, if she ask if I can help her get somethings as she feel not to drive. She runs a corporate organization as the CEO but has NEVER failed to know when it is right to do things as a married woman.

I can help bath my kids or check them out in the night and also help put somthings in the house in order if I need to but NOTE , not as my duty.

I know you ask your husband to equally make your bed when you wake up because that is you and that is him, but for me, nope because I am not him= your husband.

Personally, I am married to a wonderful woman who respects me but cannot be sending me on errands like you do to your husband.




From your write up here, you are just abusing your husband and he does not know himself.

You married your husband and not him that married you as such, you can boss him around.

OGGS2000:
my wife of fifteen years left me in Lagos to work for her ex boy friend in the east. It all started one evening she got a call that she should come to take a job at the state capital. She asked me if she can go I said if you want. She did not tell me the relationship she has with the caller she said its from someone she gave her CV. She asked me to book flight for her because she will go in the morning and I did. Two days later she called that I should book flight for her to come back and I did. A day later she called that they called that she should come and resume the next day, I made another flight booking for her. When I travelled for Christmas holiday I saw she was very happy but was surprised to hear that she was paid only forty thousand naira as her salary for the month. Last year when I moved to Lagos from where we were she left a job that pays her two hundred thousand naira plus car and driver on the reason that the family should stay tougher. This got me thinking that there must be other reason for the relocation. I got a call yesterday and I was asked why I left my wife to and work for her Politian ex boyfriend if am tired of the marriage. I called her to know the relationship she has with the man that gave her work she confirmed he is her ex boyfriend. I told her she can not marry two men at a time. she has chosen to be mistress to a politician she should pack out of my house.
She is begging that I should forgive her. my problem now is if she can do this when I can pay my bills comfortably, what will she do if situation changes tomorrow.

SIRTee15:
so you also send him on errands for your siblings abi..........
tying yams and going to the market for your sister........
and washing car for your brother...........
when your cousins come around, what errand does he perform for those ones.......
bloody hypocrites.
just imagine.......
comparing a family man caring for his own kids to another who's busy running errands for his junior ones.
nonsense.

bankot123:
Do you also send him around like a schoolboy in the presence of your in laws? I bet u don't.

Oyind17:
He may be washing plate now while his wife is here bragging.

Woman! if your husband is doing all that, what are you doing as a wife? I believe you are an African woman

Family / Re: If You're Happily Married, Please
Share Your Story by lielbree: 10:25pm On Jan 04
I've been married for 10years now. The first 4 were
hell!
My marriage is like a fine wine. It gets better with
time. I can say I'm very happy I endured and
stayed.
My spouse also did a lot of enduring.
We thank God each day for where we are and
knowing it will only get better

lilmax:
For her own money again?

andyanders:
My brother, what you stated herein is wrong no matter what anybody is saying. It is wrong for your brother's wife to be sending him to be doing such a thing by asking him to go get yam and tie it for her sister is usel---ess.

I do not care to say that if any man is doing this, he is under a spell.
Call a spade a spade. Your brother is under a spell.

Oyind17:
I went to my elder brother's house for a visit and I lost my peace due to what I saw there.
I didn't call him on phone before going, I knocked and their first son opened the gate for me, when I entered they were eating. Normally the woman was supposed to dish food if they needed more but to my greatest surprise she asked him to dish more, like an obedient servant he went to the kitchen to get more.

About 30 minutes later her younger sister arrived and the wife started sending him all manner of errands, she started with bring yam for Mercy( the name of the girl), he brought the yam and she sent him again to tie the yams together for the girl, I was pissed cos I couldn't believe my brother was doing that.

She later send him to their shop to bring some stuffs for the girl, I left immediately cos I couldn't bear it any longer. The girl is above 20

To the men,would you accept such from your wives and to the wives would you treat your husbands as errand boys.

drss2:
am not surprised. buari dullard is not a listening president.
Hypocricy is when u lament n cry over oil price selling at $36pb yet budget billions for personal enjoyment at d expence of workers december salaries.
Hypocrisy is when u claim u met an EMPTY TREASURY yet budget hundreds of billions on frivolities.
Hypocricy is when u claim u will diversify nigeria's economy yet budgeted N3.6 billion for German made 2016 BMW models.
Hypocrisy is when u claim nigeria is broke yet budget N145 million for tyres.
Hypocricy is when u claim nigeria is battered yet budget N320 million for zoo animals in aso rock.
Hypocrisy is when u claim Jonathan looted national treasury yet budget N39 billion for foriegn travels against GEJ's N24 billion.
Hypocrisy is when u accused GEJ of wastage yet budget N1.7 billion for food (gucci banquet), against GEJ's N500 billion
Hypocrisy is when u ban nigerians from buying goods abroad yet budgeted billions of naira for foriegn goods.
dis is not budget of change, it is budget of looting.