The truth to be told,most people here hav been condemning the girl because she said her mind.u people don't knw her reasons.marriage nd relationship re two different things.nd one of the keys to a great marriage is sex.weather u like it. Or not.if the sex is nt great or the man is nt man enough,then u hear cases of failed marriages.cheating comes in,somebody adopting babe because he or she can't father or mother a child.nd in some families like mine,divorce is nt an option because u can't. Jsst do it.so it's proper for the girl to request for it.thank God the OP said it himself that the girl is a good girl.some girls can play along with no sex till marriage nd be fvking every dick nd harry she met.but yet she didn't do it,nd now it's a. Crime because she opened up to u.nd some holier dan thou re condemning her when if they were in her position,will do worse.i rest my case

Or else she will get somewhere take note she isnt a virgin , there is no limit to what people can do sex in demonic realm , ur glory maybe at stake be warned if she insist and u are sure stand ur ground or free her u meet better ones with patience.

guy, u beta save ur relationship

Op, Flee every appearance of sin! Meanwhile with the recent sack etc, my signature is the only solution and plan B for those still "working".

Ignore her. That is a trap just be careful and live by your principle.

Sit her down and talk to her

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Nubian113:

I'm sorry pickle dick

Don't be sorry ho.e ..

jst live by ur rule & plan someone else, if ur intention is clear u will find someone better dan her.

Bleep herrrr oooooo

I read a story on Nairaland of a guy that married a HIV+ bride, she hid it from him and falsified test results......Days are evil and people are devicing more cunning ways to con people.

Put yourself in your girls shoes.......would you marry a man only to realise after wedding that his pen!s is the size of a cigerette on erection or worst case...impotent ??

Be honest to yourself.......would you be happy if you marry her only to realise she doesn't have a womb??

Find out the reason behind her panic.....allay her fears.

I'm sorry Bro but that girl is a karashika!!! A dilila!
Save yourself now that u still can.
Tell her to keep off your joystick!

By the look of it she's not ur type and have been doin dt way in her previous relationshp. So u decide if u can stil kp d relatnshp by convincing her, if she's worth it or u try other option. #peceOUT

Simple give her what she wants...you are lucky she tell you..the women i know since 100BC loves sex a lot and if you jones she will get it else where

Forget abstaining from sex before marriage. Use condom. Good for you to know the "ocean you will swim" or someone will do it outside for you. Is it a sin? We all have come short of the glory of God.

Everyone is wary now. Principles or religion will not save the marriage when she finally finds out you cannot perform in bed. Her reason is not endurance. She wants to know the man in you before she regrets it in future.

Sincerely, whats this post doing in fp?
You are a man, you should be able to handle this mere problem urself.
Will u come here and start telling us ur life story wen u get married?

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

I just want to emphasize on the part where she said "she'll get it elsewhere"

Dude, just man up and tell her to go get it. You two are in a mutual relationship... not...

Maybe shes pregnant and she wants to hang it on you............... do pregnancy test before having sex with her o when you might have decided to have sex with her

If you are not ready for sex, why did you go into a relationship. Abeg clear for road make we see.

Wow this is serious issue oooo but if I'm the one lucky to be in that position I will give her a chance to feel my konji if she can hold it

hehe.. this guy na freemanan type , omo chop that stuff.. but do you know her STD status ?

Michellla:
Op dont mind these guys above me.you should never give in to sex if you're not ready for it.t's got to happen when it's something
you strongly want, something that feels right,
and something you feel ready for at the time. It also has to be freely chosen, not something you do because you cave into what someone else needs or wants.
i'll advice you have a talk with her first..tell her your reasons for not wanting it yet.then if she insists,you have to move on bro.find someone else that shares the same beliefs as you.

pretender, we leave your trash for lawma

Biblically, it's very wrong. Since it's a principle like you said, stick to it and make her see reasons with you.

There was a thread here on Nairaland about a divorced virgin. She got married to an impotent man and kept quiet even when her younger ones were having kids till she was too old. I know this is not your case.

For the lady to openly tell you, I guess she is really into you and wants you too. Cause she can easily get it from anywhere.

So, do whatever sooths you.

obiorathesubtle:
Give her what she wants you idiot!

Op has a problem below the belt... and girl suapects... receive the grace to be completely honest!

Are u sure that ur engine stil working?

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

Then get married in the court. So she becomes your legal wife. You can do a low key marriage and get your certificate. After which you can give her what she craves for.

kesikeller:
he was stucked on the booty Like a car sticker
These girls mehn I no dey trust dem
Once u are posh, Den
Dey go form crush, Den
Dey go con rush men Into endorsement
Now she don brand you
She need reimbursement
To god b the glory For ma story

LOl.. You know the wave bro...