Updates!!!!

It's a year since I made this post about how i feel cheated by girl friend because she doesn't want me to travel with her to the US after she got a fully funded offer .
Well, after a year my girlfriend helped me secured an admission to a school in the USA even with my low grade. She tried her best with securing admission, searching for dates and even paying someone to help me with mock sessions.I didn't do anything, even mailing the school for i20 , paying my sevis fee and all that is needed she did everything including getting my transcripts from my undergraduate.
However, my visa was denied because I was nervous and couldn't defend my case very well.
I know i really messed up during the mock sessions, because whenever she corrects me i will just feel someone and tell her not to worry that i will handle it . When I came back from the interview, she was really angry when she asked me what transpired between me and the VO . Later she asked me to reapply but I have been adamant and I told her that her that I don't want to look desperate. The current problem now is that my girlfriend said she is no longer interested in the relationship and I feel that she is not breaking up with me because of the interview but I think she has gotten a new guy over there. This break up has been affecting me mentally and I have been unable to concentrate on my work.
Please what should I do ?

Life has been really hard for me and I have been hearing a lot of people saying that I can't relocate because of my age that it's too late for me .I am hating my girlfriend now so much because I felt that we should have gone together. I am ready to put the required documents
Please what are my chances to get a US Visa

Thank you, I sent you a mail

yusufmurry:
@OP

I am not going to charge you or ask you for money I will help, prepare and get schools that will give admission in the US.

If that sounds good to you, let me know

COPIED
F1
3rd Attempt
Status: Denied
Interview Date: 16th May
Location: Abuja
School: Bowling Green State University
Program: Masters of Technology Management with Specialization in Engineering Technology
COA: $33500
Scholarship:12250
Personal Fund: $12500
Family Savings (Dad): $9250

VO: Have you travelled to the US before?
Me: No, I haven't

VO: Do you have anyone in the US?
Me: Yes, my wife is currently pursuing her MBA in the US. We attended the same school for our undergraduate and one of our goals is to grow together as a couple career wise. Hence, we plan to go for our masters degree together but then her company approved her study leave while my company did not approve mine hence she had to go for her program.
But my company just approved my study leave now with a 50% pay. Hence, my reason for my masters program now.

VO: She in Bowling Green right?
Me: Yes

VO: How long av been married.
Me: We been married for 10 months now.

VO: Do you have any kid with your wife.
Me: No, we plan attaining a certain height in our careers before raising kids.

VO: What will this degree in Engineering do for you.
Me: Pardon?
VO: What will this degree in Engineering do for you.
Me: I can't hear you please?
VO: What will this degree in Engineering do for you.
Me: This program will not only improve my knowledge in the field of Engineering but will as well improve my managerial skill which is the most important skill I need to excel as a service unit manager at Benin Electricity Distribution Company where I currently work as a feeder leader.

VO: Whats your wife's program?
Me: an MBA

VO: Who's sponsoring your education?
Me: Aside my $12250 scholarship, av been able to save up the sum of #10,000,000 for my education. Hence, I'll personally be paying $12,000. My dad, Olaleye Kehinde Lawrence will be supporting me with $9,250. My dad is a coaco farmer and a coaco merchant. He makes about #75,000,000 annually with a staff strength of 63. He grows coaco on about 30 acres of land. He has about 17 coaco bean warehouses around south west, Nigeria and Partners with Coaco Products limited Ile-Oluji for the sales of coaco beans. Over the years he's been investing in real estate so he currently has landed properties and houses for rent around South West Nigeria.

VO: So your wife's uncle is sponsoring her?
Me: Yes, her uncle Kehinde Oluyedun is sponsoring her Education. She lost her dad at a tender age, and he's been the one catering for her education.

VO: So your plan for your F2 application is to transition to an F1 on arriving the US?
Me: No, I only planned to Visit her during my 4 weeks compulsory annual leave since my study leave wasn't yet approved.

VO: I'm sorry, ure ineligible for this visa at this time. Gimme blue paper.
Me: can u please tell my the reason for denial.
VO: section 214B........................................................... next applicant please

She's just assuring me with words of mouth and she's suggesting i apply to schools and come in as f1 too but most people have been talking to said i can go with her on f2 and later change to f1 in the United States. I find it difficult to believe all the things my girlfriend is saying because i feel she just don't want me to come with her because of her selfish interest on how she wants to get pr

Thortp:
Please don't mind these people dishing out advice on this.
The truth is you can only go with her to US for studies, you can't work and will depend on her all through. Then you will both come back with almost nothing after the study.
She said she will have to marry another person(US CITIZEN) when she gets to US is absolutely true. That's how it works for her to stay after studies. However, the marriage will only be on paper for 5 years even if not more than that. She can leave wherever she likes though without even seeing her married partner.
That's the bitter truth. Its the main reason people choose UK over US, the US migration route is hard compare to UK.
Please let me know if you need more clarification on this

Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

New Update :
My babe visa has been approved and I feel that I have been cheated. I want to tear her passport so that the bought of us can be even. She won't go and we will both be in Nigeria since she doesn't want to go to the registry with me.

why please

ednut1:
bros shame dey catch me on your behalf lol.

UPDATE

My girlfriend has advised that i should renew my passport which i have but I am yet to collect it. So, most people are advising that we should a fake marriage so that she can submit it in order for me to get the needed documents. I informed my babe and she agreed to it , initially but after a long thought,I felt I don't like the idea that instead, we should do a small court marriage but it seems my babe does not want a small wedding, she wants an elaborate wedding and she will wait to get a good job before getting married to anyone. Gurus in the house, what do you suggest I should do?

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

UPDATE

My girlfriend has advised that i should renew my passport which i have but I am yet to collect it. So, most people are advising that we should a fake marriage so that she can submit it in order for me to get the needed documents. I informed my babe and she agreed to it , initially but after a long thought,I felt I don't like the idea that instead, we should do a small court marriage but it seems my babe does not want a small wedding, she wants an elaborate wedding and she will wait to get a good job before getting married to anyone. Gurus in the house, what do you suggest I should do?

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years and she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought up the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Lagos has been releasing a lot of early appointments lately .

VincentTobe:
No it wasn't through emergency, the lagos consulate sent email to check out for dates.

hi

Thank you so much, she said all these things you listed and she even encouraged that we should gather our money together and I should go through the Canada route first

Standardcosting:

Why bother yourself. You would even regret coming to the US on an F2 visa. You won’t be able to do anything legally. Dependents are miserable. Besides she hasn’t even gotten visa, yet she has changed. I have always advised that people should put themselves first in anything.

For those of you thinking I am young, I am a 40 years old man while my girlfriend is 28 years old. We had some conversation this morning and it's so glaring that she wants me to go through the study route or try another country then she can come and join me. She said that going as a dependent means I want to settle for crumbs while i can also get the big bones. And I am insisting to her that it's doesn't matter even if F2 does not work, I can always do under the table job.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

I have started researching on it. She's so keen on my going through the study route

Davegeo2007:
You can start your own travel process if you are keen in doing so. Don't render further assistance to her, just count your losses and move on. It will not be easy but just move on. Allow her to go on with her plan. It is even better you know about it now.

For those of you thinking I am young, I am a 40 years old man while my girlfriend is 28 years old. We had some conversation this morning and it's so glaring that she wants me to go through the study route or try another country then she can come and join me. She said that going as a dependent means I want to settle for crumbs while i can also get the big bones. And I am insisting to her that it's doesn't matter even if F2 does not work, I can always do under the table job.

Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.