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bdchange:
Let me make it brief..I have a room mate who is married now. Before his marriage, he dated this lady for almost 9yrs. I met them and it was like love is really a beautiful thing. The girl stays with her brother. She comes around and cook, wash and do all sort just for the relationship to keep going fine. She is not the social type, don't have many friends and always glue to her work. In fact what a man wants as wife(atleast to my own understanding). Now the guy who is my friend is a regular good guy. I won't tag him a womanizer but can't keep his di**k to his pant in some instance. So he cheated on this girl and the girl finds out. She got angry and my friend pleaded and was forgiven. He repeated same while I knew. I called him and asked why he keeps cheating on a girl like this. He said not all guys can hold themselves like me, that it is not easy. I advised him to try to stop so it won't break the relationship since he wants to marry the girl. he couldn't, so he continued flirting codedly. The truth is if the girl happens to be my sis, I would have advice her to move on, but you know the guys code na(though I feel guilty till now). Let's I forget, she caught him again and again but she couldn't let go. The one that broke the camel's back is when he tries to date one of her colleague, then all hell was let loose that the whole family had to come in between them to try to settle the issues. By now she was staying with us because she had issues with the brother she was staying with. I watched as she cried her eyes out and I felt pity for her. The truth is both have invested alot into the relationship...yet it is coming to ruin in just a few minutes. The lady finally moved out to stay with her friend. At this period my friend met a lady in his church and before you know it , they started dating and whooop!!! they are married now within a year..She is out there now, not yet married after 9 years in the relationship....Yet a guy will see her tomorrow and call her all sort of names..never minding her story...what a society for the feminine..I still chat with her once in a while. Please ladies define your relationship and set time for him..if he is not ready, please find your way before it is too late .. Thanks

I kinda love that she suffered you know. But he shouldn't have married, marriage is disgusting.
Women are not worth having a man. And he is a big idiot for always sleeping with women, he was sleeping with poo. Why can't men just live their lives without women in it.

Durentt:
Hitherto a first year university student, I'm going to my 1st semester 200 level in the university.
I'm on a 4.11 CGPA after just a year on campus annd have 8 semesters left. I'm 20.
I ardently covet graduating with a 4.57 final cgpa, so I decided to be profusely prudent this semester and cut off superfluous distraction. Would a sexual relationship preclude me from my first class goal? Or not?

You know the answer, you came to school for books and nothing more.
Haven't you read stories about how miserable someboys life become after meeting women.
Nothing good comes out of a relationship.

Don't stoop so low bro, don't fall to grass level, your books have more worth than any woman, women are worthless, you can live your life without them. This isn't supposed to be a question talk to men who are at your level, not women who are grassroots.

Keep friends but don't keep lovers

Nobodyperson:
Hello people am of NL, I made this account because am very popular here but what I did last week as being hunting me for days.
I raped a girl anally, I was desperate, she was so beautiful and out of my league, I was never brave enough to talk to her.
So I was obsessed with her and watched her movements, I found a path she usually passes that's lowly populated.
So I took this as a chance and raped her anally so as to avoid any pregnancy, She screamed and bite me severally, I have wounds around my neck and arms, I had to beat her roughly to stop her.
The minute I had finally undressed her and was about to start , the look on her damaged face left me almost in tears but I went on with it.
I had already gone this far and there was no going back
The minute I started, she screamed so much that I had no choice than to continue beating her still she could barely move.
I knew I could get caught through DNA because my sperm, so I continued beating her till I finally knocked her out.
I took her body to a nearby stream which was populated and dumped her body there .
I honestly don't know she's still alive or she died from the injuries but I have being having sleepless nights.
I had to leave the state and lodge with a friend because of fear of police.
Am currently crying while typing this, I never intended to cause so much harm.
I just wanted to have sex.
That's it, Writing this has made me felt better but I still hurts my soul till now
The girl was 17 and an 27.
Pls am not a pedophile, I was just desperate

Why, why, why. Men why do you always act like this, this act you have done will always hunt you, you can't come and parade here for forgiveness, you are a monster and would always be.
I hate women normally but, what your did, you are a disgrace.
The law of karma will hold.

Worst of all you stooped so low and forced yourself on a woman.

I just wonder why people hate us(those who hate women) more than rapists like you.
You guys condenm us sexist, misogynists and women haters who were born like this more than this scum.

MrHandsome2013:
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The deed has been done....so this is what i have been missing...i never knew sex is so sweet..

Wow I didn't know you had already fallen.
Bro I am disappointed in you, Men nowadays are slaves to women and sex. Seriously I don't know what people see in women, I literally try to understand but I don't get it. They are just a bunch of wierd creatures. You have lost your pride as a man.

MrHandsome2013:
i promise that i wont have sex till marriage but right now i want to break it.
I cant cope with it any more.
The urge is too much for me and is making my life going insane..
I will update you after breaking my virginity..
I cant take it any more.

Please don't do it.
You started this godsent mission, don't fail now,
Being a virgin is great and gives us pride.

But seriously bro, you want to loose it cause of a girl that's weak. Sex is meant for copules only. I think it's kinda gross too, don't waste all you have built just for one night.
Women are not good enough for men.
You may not be twisted like me or think like anyone else but you are YOU. That's what matters and you Morales guide you don't throw it away.

Oyindidi:
You are not ok

I am

Chi59:
You are a potential gay, not a practicing gay.

I'll rather die

Chi59:
Why you so defensive? Straight guys don't catch feelings for their male friends, no matter how close they are.

It was just friendship. And at 13 one is not really matured

Chi59:
He's gay and sexist and very religious, all at once.
Coupled with personality disorders.
Guy, you have a full plate.

I am not gay but maybe a sexist

Admin401:
You hate women with passion, you were once in love with a guy but you're not gay.

That's great. You'll fit right in with the atheist in Religion section.

I was 13 that was just friendship

finalboss:
X


Schizophrenia

Schizophrenia means the person is not mentally ok.
I am ok and aware of what I am doing

finalboss:
X


Schizophrenia

You are a man, I won't say anything.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You are gay but suppressing it with religion. I can picture you throwing caution to the wind and going at it when d opportunity presents itself. You feel hate cos you not allowed to love that which you truly love. You can visit a therapist

Being a gay is disgusting, I can never be one.
With or without religion

I have been wondering for a while now. The buddists believe reincarnation exists.
What's your take on this

Chi59:
You have a personality disorder.
Don't know what exactly.

I see potential hostility towards women, sadism,,, Arrgghh... You should see a psychologist

It's not a disorder, I like what I am

Joromi12:
I don't really understand.
Ever since growing up, I have always disliked women( same here i hate them and see them as only sex objects). I just feel that they are not supposed to exist. Literally I am not even happy they exist.( you are on ur own)

I hate guys that love(never loved), spend money(rarely spend), have sex with women( a womans wet pussy is bae). I see married couples as crazy people( yes they are)

People I meet tell me I am crazy, even my mom does, but the fact is I am happy with the way I think.
But as a Christian I think it's wrong( christianity is a scam), but I can't seem to change or I don't want to change.( u cant change)
I feel happy seeing women in pain( u are mad)


Does any other guy feel this way too. All gays and girls should not comment.( u need help take drugs)

I asked for your opinion, not insults. It's ok though you are a guy

anochuko01:
she was? what happened to her?
and do you have sisters? are they older or younger?

Nothing happened to her. I have only one older sis

anochuko01:
probably your mom didnt treat you well....
its not normal hey

She was the best mom ever

SaucyBenks:
you're just gay bro... Embrace that and come out of your hiding for jungle justice...

Am not a gay, but I have had feelings for a boy when I was younger. Being a gay is satanic I am a Christian , and you can't be a virgin as a gay.

Mcy56:
How will you know the good side of women when you already closed your mind against them and hate them? You mean you don't even have a friend among them?
Well, you need to change your mindset and have an open mind.
Also, stop geralising and relating any bad issue to women, doesn't mean there are no good side to them.

I can't that's it, can you come to like something you hate so much, no.

Mcy56:
You sounded pained! Guess you aren't lucky with the ones you came across. Just know that, as it is in male so it is in female.
Your comment shows you're one of the reasons women shy away from expressing their feelings to a man and you'll still be the same set of people to call them names.
Anyway, there are still good ones. Have a positive mind about them and hope in God to come across one of the good ones.

I am not pained, seriously I have never even thought of dating a woman before, I don't even talk to women, they are gross and I can't stoop so low.
I just remember hating women since I was very young.
I wish only men existed, women are just I rib out of many. They are horse shit.
Adam would have been better off

I don't know why you women feel you are something special.
To me you guys are a false existence, if I was God I would have wiped out women.
But I am not God

Mcy56:
@Op, in as much as it's very difficult for women to handle rejection by a man, I think it's still very necessary you let her know the truth on time.
Appreciate her for her interest in you and for letting you know .....but let her know you don't feel the same way and you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings by leading her on.
Then, start limiting conversation with her little by little but if she's matured, there wouldn't be much hard feelings from her and you two can be good friends thereafter. If she's not mature about it, cut her off completely. My opinion.

Really?
Why not tell her she is an over possessive, disgusting bitch, and that she was lucky you even talked to her.
Fling off that bitch and her problems. Women are a vessel of badluck, they are dirt. Do you want to stop low to mingle with dirt

Wapizy:
I met these lady last year November on a social media site(spicey.com.ng).shes a single mother two years older than me..everything started well,she started coming weekend too me but meanwhile I had a girlfriend who's in school in kogi and am in Lagos we started issues communicating and I didnt trust her coz of distance that was why I was looking for another relationship close by that will make me happy.
Temitope also told me she accepted too me coz her recent relationship then before I called her was having issues due too that they were asked too go pray about the relationship too get married bt was confirmed that they shouldn't get married so when I came along she used that as an opportunity too move on....i was given an accommodation at my work were Temitope(single mother) do come see....so I don't really hv a place of my own but she has a place at sagamu...now I had an issue with my job and left January these year and got a better offer at my new place of work now....but the problem was that there was no place too stay for the job if not I would be spending more from my parents house....so she decided too let me come stay with her,from her place too opic after Berger was close and more cheaper for me....middle of January I started staying with her I took all the responsibility....she even started given me money for transportation when got broke...she a teacher receive very low but her principal do give her money too keep and also she collects money for the school in different ways so she keeps money with her so it's out of these money she do give me if I need money....later I begin too notice she was chatting with that guy she met on FB....wen I asked she said the guy has been begging for her too come back...later on also she stopped making love too me giving excuses that it's not good too be making love everyday...most wen I come from work and hv urge she would deny me and sometimes I beg for it seriously....all these happened one month and half now hv paid all the money she borrowed me including the one she added....have been telling her that I will leave...she stopped if giving me sex and that made me started thinking otherwise she started behaving strange but she is a good and caring lady now hv moved my things out on Saturday..but I regretted coz she didnt ask me too go...now hv begged her seriously but she said I should let her...my instincts pushed me out of that house...am so broken down...the watch I bought for her I collected it before leaving...i just regret all my actions Cox no matter what she has really been of help too me but I feel deep down that she doesn't want me....i don't know if am right or wrong but in pains I cried on the phone talking too her but she's not even replying all my Whatsapp messages....had deleted all her numbers so I won't be able too call and she hasn't called in two days now I feel so bleeped...i don't how too get out of these emotions..hv not eaten in three days now just too forget about the experiences but still my heart longs for her....someone should help me...i have crying like a baby...

You are very very weak, you are pathetic.
To believe a man could fall for a lady(dirt).
I still can't believe it.

Cheer up bro women are dogshit, don't demean yourself by mingling with them. You are better them.
Don't make that mistake again, men and rats don't mix

Nice, you are not meant to feel anything for women (lowlifes). They are meant to be foot mats.
You would be better off alone

Lol, this guy is Savage and she is stupid for even considering forgiving him. I like seeing women in pain but this man is stupid and this is extreme

I prefer dumping her on wedding day fo no reason at all.
Or making her love you then dump her in a very horific way that she can't recover.
This is nice right.
Or blackmaling them to lick your foot, then when they are about to do it you say "carry your disgusting mouth away from my feets" and kick her face.
No sex though cause girls are gross.
Ignore the above.

That man is crazy

AngryMisogynist:
[b]Hello Romancelanders



I want to share this with you cause I think I have a psychological problem
Okay first of all I'm a graduate of Igbinedion University I graduated with a 2 1 degree in computer science.. I had a girlfriend during my fresher year at school but all of a sudden I started loosing interest in her cause of the way she makes demands from me but I didnt hesitate to lend her money and give her things she needed from me but she stabbed me at my back.. I ended the relationship.. I met another girl at first she was calm and quiet with me but ever since I took her to my house she started making a lot of demands from me when I got fed up I called it quit.. After having so many girlfriends and dumping them I got tired cause I felt that girls only date you for money even though they pretend to not like money at first.. I made up my mind to not keep girlfriends until I am ready for marriage the only benefit of a relationship to me was sex and I just got fed up
So I seeked another alternative whenever the urge comes I patronise runs girls.. Because all those type of girls are straight to the point no long talk.. I still got fed up.. Sex was now boring to me.. Okay I thought of masturbating but after two months I got tired of it.. It made me feel worthless and weak
Now the problem is I have reached the point where my Dick doesn't rise even at the sight of a naked girl.. It has embarrassed me so many times I don't even have feelings for any girl.. No konji.. I always feel depressed .. I have no urge to have sex with a girl and I don't see attractive thing in a girl unless I smoke weed... Arizona skunk or Indica weed to be precise.. If I don't smoke girls will look unattractive to me
Mind you I am not a homosexual
I need your advice cause I don't think I can get married like this[/b]

It's ok you have transdensed into a higher lifeform. Cheer up bro
It's normal don't bother yourself, girls are overrated trash. Marriage is not compulsory you can adopt children (there are many homeless children).
I wish you could have realised sooner.
I have always seen women as dog poo since I was born.
Don't smoke weed again.
You are psychologically ok. You just evolved.

I am glad you are not gay