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Ilamina:
I am never performed any sexual activity before

Ok congrats,
Am proud of you

Ilamina:
I am a virgin
But I have been trolling rubbish for years

If so you are not really a virgin.
It's not fully based on hymen
Some people claim virginity after committing to sexual method that doesn't involve penetration.

It's also about Chasity.

Ilamina:
Do you still think I will still able to get married

With the way I have lived my life

You can't expect to eat your cake and have it.
What of the virgins and chaste, who have lived a celibate life?

Nothing is impossible though, if u believe in God and are determined.

Dinho20:
SEX IS SWEET BUT........
Have you ever
wondered why God carefully
positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that
partially or completely covers the opening of
the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable
tissue full of blood at the very door of the
sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance,
like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new
house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away
when it is broken?
Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a
sign and a token of a covenant between the
bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a
casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant
struck and confirmed by the blood shed on
that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges
in to this woman shall only be able to do so by
making a blood covenant to be joined to her
for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was
designed by God to take place only and only
after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one
who made the body (the hormones, organs,
nerves, tissues, e.tc) God said it in clear terms
, “Now, the body is not for fornication”.
Anyone who chooses to use the body for
fornication must know that he/she is working
directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at
old age!
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural
process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the
first guy that enters in to her especially at that
particular time when the hymen breaks.
There
is no covenant without blood: this is why the
membrane contains enough of it.
As a matter of fact, what happens the first
time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
immersion and a bathing of the man with her
hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is
highly recognized in the spirit realm of both
light and darkness!
The first time this happens
just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to
further refresh or strengthen that covenant or
establish another version of it with another
person.
Many have washed useless boys with that
hymen-blood.
Many have struck irreversible covenants with
men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual
activity with demon-possessed men while some
others have struck such precious covenants
with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it.
If only they knew,many girls who carelessly
allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid
to be among the so called “big girls” would
never have done so.
The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not
know that he who is joined to a harlot
(through sexual activity) is one with her ?
This is why many girls are not yet married yet
their spiritual composition is already shattered
and imbalanced, because they have mingled
their souls with that of different men.
Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite
proportion of your virtue that leaves you each
time a man enters into you and when that man
leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how
much of yourself would be lost each time a
man enters into you without any properly
signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to
another. All of these things have strong and
terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of
the man that broke it, any other spirit
whatsoever that may have mingled with that
man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs
with him and the spirit of any other man that
enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What
happens between the lines could be deadly and
dangerous.
The very first day a lady, or a man does that
there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.

True talk, God bless you bro
Virginity was meant to be kept till marriage for those who want to get married.
And kept for life for those who don't want to get married.
Nowadays people explore premarital sex as if it's mere child's play not knowing the gravity of this sin.

Even if the world rots I know now that there are still some people keeping up the good work.

1StopRudeness:
That's probably not totally true.
We guys just like to say this DNA thing like it's Puff puff , telling a lady that doesn't sleep around that u will subject the unborn child to DNA is a big insult a huge slap on the woman. No woman will take it lightly even if she's cheating and trying to pin another man's baby...

It's not an easy test, it's painful becos they have to penetrate the vagina into the womb and the amniotic sac and could lead to miscarriage...
If I'm a lady and I'm sure I didn't cheat, u will not see me until delivery after saying u want pre birth DNA test

Ok,
What of if it's not his child.
I know of a person who got pinned with a child that was not his own, he ended up getting married to the girl.
After 2years into marriage he found out the child was not his.
Am not condenming women, but there is a chance.
If the procedure is harmful, then it's safer to wait till the baby is born

1StopRudeness:
Na traveling money dey that guy hand now oooo....U know how much them dey do DNA test of unborn child.
It's more expensive than when the child is already born oooo

He should tell her he has the money and is going to do the DNA test and see her reaction.
If it's really his child she would agree with hesitation.
If not she would be hesitant

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Wait for about a few weeks time and do a DNA test supervised by you make sure she does it.
Many ladies like to pin unwanted pregnancy these days.
Don't let her talk you out of it

This guy should be totured and put to a slow horrible death after he is castrated.

Useless paedophile.

After killing innocent people and raping innocent women, they still expect seven virgins in heaven.

Lol, I think it was seven demons

savage76:
fake news ,no pictures.

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So you expect someone to go into the heat of the captured villages and take pics.

All these items lol.
My brothers friend wanted to marry one igbo girl, but the list they gave him was up to 3million naira for bride price.
He backed down, not because he couldn't pay( cause this guy is soaked with money) but because he taught they were defrauding him.

Parents these days it's as if their children are items which they sell for money.

Jamezafolabi40:
Yes she's calm, she's a good friend, but when our discussions tilt towards relationship, she usually laugh at me, and make statements like "who wan suffer, no be your type we dey talk jare".

I felt very sad, and it's not I was that broke, at least I have my business it's not just paying as it supposed to. I'm not always on the reigning designer shoes, sure I can't afford them then. But I loved her and will be willing to sacrifice anything for her. She no gree o..

Meanwhile, I have a girl dying for me even in my ugliest state, but don't just want to attend to her yearnings. Chichi was the one I loved but she said I'm too broke and that means we can't cope. Eiyah, look at me the poor boy.. Omo Yoruba ehn..

This really got me, that I fell ill at some point but just had to summon courage to move on and strived hard to a great extent, despite all these Chichi never showed concern, not even a call from her to say "epele" meaning sorry.

When it got to a level, I spoke to myself and went back to Marian who was willing to do anything for the broke guy, her love was genuine, prayed with me, fasted with me even loaned me some money I never even returned.

What a woman, I feel it's an individual things, that's just her. She's a good woman. You can't believe I still try Chichi's number sometimes just to know whether she's changed her mind. Oti o,

It was on a day like this God paved the way for me, changed my story to glory, won a big contract which turned my life around. I'm now fully balanced with Marian. I now have my apartment, presently working on my own building. Planing on my wedding.

Omo Igbo tigbo, she has heard the gist from her friends about me, cos I bought a Toyota Camry 2016... Unlike her, she called me, ewo... What's up Chi girl? nothing much just checking you... She never allow me breath... It's her call day in day out... And I don't want to have anything to with her in my life anymore.

Some friends even advised me to have sex with her and dump which to me not good enough, better just to let her go and meet her type...

Just using this medium to tell all young guys out there, not to seek just after the physical possessions she's got, also check if she's genuine, whether it's not just your money... Some ladies, if not all are dangerous, you just have to be careful..

I don learn

Credit: https://www.gistmattaz.com/2019/02/she-never-gave-me-her-attention-when-i.html

Forget about chichi, she is a gold digger and would never love you.

Go with Mariam. Its hard to see girls these days who would genuinely love someone.

AryEmber:
I totally love this. After I have endured and make sure my past is close to clean, I certainly can't settle for less just for the sake of it.

You are 100% right bro.
Don't settle for less, there are better persons out there

2sexy:
Up till now , if I ask the babe if we can date she will only say that we can be friends. but each time she is at her cousin's house which is not far from mine, she would flash me and expecting me to call her and then tell she is at her cousin's place.

Just yesterday, she said that she does not love me but she likes me in the presence of her cousin( my friend) and then she quickly held my hands in hers with a smile.

But as she was going back home she turn to look at me and said that I should call her.

I am still confused about all this, but her cousin said that he knows that she hers even accepted to date me but that I am not seeing it. Maybe its because I am got into this dating things late in my years because I started dating at 23 and at present I have only dated 2 girl( both were just after money that they got from me ,even though I was doing it because I knew that they needed help)

Guys what do you say that I do?

The bitter fact is that she does not love you, she is just using you.

Pheals:
Why should I get married?
Paying huge amount of dough as bride price!
Am not marrying a virgin then what's the purpose just because her parent raise her up? It's there right or is it culture/traditions when my grand pa only give out schnapps and few tubbers of yams or am I paying for her years of experience?
Why should I Marry when I can adopt a child? I didn't trust women I will still spend a lot on DNA to avoid heart attack in future oh lame devil woo Eve in garden of eden
Spend money to do STD tests?To be sure I won't regret the marriage! Not to forget fertility test for both gender!
Do you know how much it costs to make your marriage looks nice! Who want to marry a poor man! Am not even getting married if she's not a career woman.I didn't want a liability .I can't put the whole in-law burden on mine that's already heavy.
Why should I marry? Who knows she make end up throwing the ring I bought with a valuable amount of money on my chest! The ring I bend the knee to gave her! Oh no not to marry a devil is something to worry about!She will butcher me alive,I can't marry a bad cook,lazy woman with no proper home training

Some will say my parents are married too why should I be different! Oh no not this century women who said I must last 2hrs in bed or else the infant am about to raise will be that of an able man who can go a day on top women! Or better still use harmful drugs to man be a man that I am already.. It doesn't cost me a lot to produce what will make you pregnant Am not a sex addict!..not even women u can't satisfy with anything you have

So I should marry a woman with heavy make up just to look nice.. Covering up her ugliness.Who knows if she is a former harlot.. Oh I fear for my future kids.. No dignity... And I will end up feeding her and paying for her expenses why?Take her to court to make the marriage in a lawful way! Who knows the future she make come up with divorce to share my hard earn property! Pretend to be good and end up being a termagant in my house!

Tell her u didn't want that dress for her and she will complaint about the latest fashions! Imagine my wife ,if I stop taking her food she will end up squeezing my iron cloth in the morning accusing me of seeing other women outside that's if am a gentle guy if am not she will said I am an authoritarian! End up landing on my female sectary... Hmmmm am so worried what if am broke for sometimes, problems could start and she will look for other means calling me a lazy man or a woman will call my mother a witch... She raise your husband with that witchcraft

Insult and corrections are welcome (I didn't throw stones on every dogs that barks on my way) on any grammatical or typographical errors! I am not that good in English and also a lazy writer! English is language not a measure of intelligency thanks ...hope this touch someone heart! We women just can't be perfect.. Just a change is enough

It's not compulsory to get married, its not compulsory to get married, for me I see it as bondage, I think I'll rather adopt children.

But, not getting married does not mean you should flet,. Be celibate for life (ps you can keep your virginity till the nextlife, if u are still one)

Barayeks:
Dont be decieved by their pretence and denial...their guilt tripping to make you feel stupid for suspecting. Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world, statistically speaking based on a research carried out by durex.
Nigerian women are also number one on the most recent world index for paternity fraud...paternity fraud means birthing bastards to unsuspecting partners after going around sleeping with other men until they take in.
Nigerian women alone account for 30% out of hundred while the rest of the world shares 70%.
.
Open your eyes to the reality

You guys should stop acting childish.
Answer this question
Are you perfect?
Do all men cheat?

No, so why do you think all women cheat.
Biologically men are more prone to cheating.

You guys are suffering from pride and looking for someone to blame for all your heartbreaks.

I know some women cheat, but men actually cheat more than they do.

Research? Who conducted it, stop fabricating false claims against women.

You guys should grow up

millionboi2:
without sexual intention



Scam

I won't exist for people like yourselves.
Hearts clouded by lust.

pussyphilia:
A girl that loves sex like kilode. She must be healthy oo, no HIV abeg! Just a naughty girl who likes exploring different kinds of sexual acts like violent sex, make up sex, sex in the kitchen, sex in public place at night (not a must though), bdsm, rimming (receiving), receiving head etc. all kinds of sex she likes.

Holla at me by sending a pm. I got you covered by insurance

You need God in your life

gldayslover:
Hi, im confused about love. i have always been the type of young lady (im 20) to believe that [url="http://sugarmummieskenya.com/online-dating-tips-3-facts-about-women-dating-online/"]love is beautiful[/url] and passionate and that you can love someone so much it hurts to picture yourself without them. i am confused i have a boyfriend that ive been with for 2 years. hes an amazing guy, i can tell he loves me unconditionally. he does so much for me and has always been there for me. and i love him alot for the person he is and for never being judgmental and always trying to help me. his name is Nathan. but i don't feel that burning in my heart. i dont look at him and feel like i cant breathe. i felt that when we first started dating but it quickly vanished. sometimes i llok at him and cry to myself because i think how can i hurt him how can i not love him? i feel so horrible and i feel like im being ungrateful that i cant have the same feeling for him. ive tired i really have. but my heart longs for something more. i want to feel that passionate love. my family loves my boyfriend, so do my friends. sometimes i think im in this relationship for my family for the most part. i did want to be with him but now im just so confused. i dont want to lose him if the "love" i believed in isnt real. i dont want to hurt him he doesnt deserve it. i dont want to break his heart after what he has been threw he says im everything to him and he has proven it for all of our relationship. i cry as i write this. my heart hurts just thinking about the pain i can cause him. but what about my happiness and the love i crave for soo much. im just so confused and im searching for some kind of advice! i see romanitc movies and i cry because i wish to feel that. i know that movies are not reality but for the most part i should be able to feel some sort of that love...right? then why cant i feel it if my boyfriend is everything a girl can wish for. i dont want to lose him as a friend. i love him a lot i just never felt that love people descried. someone please help me. has anyone ever had that love i wish for if so please let me know it does exist! thanks

Know how you feel
You don't love for family, you love for you
If u don't love him, tell him.
You don't want to regret spending a life with someone you don't love.


NB: if a man truly loves you
1) he won't have any sexual intention
2) he won't be clingy, he will let go if you don't love him back and won't hate you for it.
3) he doesn't think of his own interests. Or have a secret agenda
4) he doesn't try to get familiar with your friends and family at all costs, to try and pin you to him.
5)he is always there for you.
6)he will do anything to see you happy.
7) Lastly not being judgemental is not love just being nice, if I love someone I will try my best to correct them if they are wrong

Real love is rare because of the world we find ourselves in, most men are devious and not trustworthy.
I can't promise you that you will find that person.
But if you find that person don't push him away.

If he truly loves you he will let go.

This might not be able to satisfy the agony you feel in your heart, but just know and believe you will find love.
And ask God too, that you find the right person.
I believe you will.

Leave her she doesn't deserve you.

You should have posted the full story from the start

Amakavula:
This kind love and true communism has one thing in common, they don't exist..

If u haven't found it, don't say it doesn't exist or you might never find it.

I know it is very rare because of the world we find ourselves in.

chenzen:
whats agape love

God's love for you

chenzen:
very good.

what is agape love

what is romantic love


what is friendship love


what is sexual love

Sexual love is LUST
You get it now

Your soul mate loves you as much as you love them,

But true love may be unrequited (not returned(

Octane32:
Aunty why’re you angry? Do you cheat?

Check my signature to migrate to Canada

You are a real jerk, you Know that

chenzen:
define love

To me love is wanting to be with someone without any sexual intent. Love doesn't come like boy/girlfriends you might end up loving only one person. You act at what is best for that person even if it means letting go.

When I love someone, I can't think of any sexual intention, just wanting to be with that person.

Most relationships today are based on looks. Love is not based on looks, it is connection.

Love is selfless, you don't think about your own benefits.
You don't want to get into his/her pants.

For ladies to know if a man truly loves you
He loves you without sexual intentions.

Love overcomes any situation
Sickness
Finicial instability
Family problem
Even death.



Love cannot be lost, it can stand the test of time
Love changes anyone,

I hope you find what you are looking for