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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded:
ProphetJeroboam:
Never left bro. TRP is family.
For those interested in a deviation from the uproar happening around the thread, this is a story I'd like to share in support of the short red pill nuggets Jeroboam shared.

Picks Mic

I have a good friend Christian, now Christian is in a bestie relationship with a lady, Jasmine. Now this relationship is purely platonic, I mean no romance in anyway. This is because, well Christian is a Christian grin . Jasmine is dating Gerard, one of Christian's best friend. So it's a friendship triangle more or less.

Jasmine is a devoted sister, she believes in no sex before marriage, blah blah, and the rest. Well, one of the good ones innit. Her "specs" are tall, handsome, big and strong,devoted to Him, musically inclined and some other specs. Gerrard my guy's guy (so automatically becomes my guy) is almost totally this, guy's totally popular and I must say gets girls calling him left and right (he's in a medical line saturated with girls) and he is a tutorial master.

Who am I, well I'm just the black sheep, not so religious , tells my guys the wildest of things, brush the scales off their eyes - Enlighten them. So, I became friends with Jasmine, it was almost unavoidable. I lived close to Christian, we three were in the same department. And I found out that my Gerrard was already on her beat, I didn't press further, it would've been too complicated.

I and Jasmine talked from time to time, she'd say I wasn't sweet, girl blatantly told me severally she couldn't trust me, lol nobody does - some say it's the eyes, some say it's the aura of mystery surrounding my being, some say it's the way I walk, some don't just know why. I opted to engage her friend, a story for another day though, though incomplete. Jasmine seemed like someone who could do no wrong, like some people would say "a saint" , well I'd tell her from time to time , I didn't trust that shjt, you can't hide the female nature from me.

Enter Richard, tall guy, not so handsome, but popular especially amongst the female folks in school. Guy's a talkative mhen, he can walk up to your girl beside you and start conversing, I'd call him a good player yea. Well he had different ways of catching his prey, lemme just say he is good at what he does. He is strongly known for his escapades, a lot of guys hate him, lol I don't, and the ladies, the heartbroken ones do, and some ones yet to be heartbroken do too.

Jasmine has always told Christian she hated Richard, I'd just scoff and laugh about it, reminding Christian that girls like the bad boys. Gerard always talked about how he hated Richard, lol he had every reason to. I'd see Richard around Jasmine with various attempts, it even happened when I was sitting with Jasmine, I just took my leave especially since I was already on my way. But let's not forget Jasmine "hates" Richard.

Gerrard left the school for some school duties in another town, about 40 minutes drive away.
I and Christian and my other guys would discuss about the female nature, and it looked like I was a prophet/professor/seer of the female nature. So one day during our discussions, Christian said suddenly, even the girls you don't expect do the wildest of things don't trust girls. Immediately I picked it up and asked him about it,
something had to be wrong. He declined telling us saying he couldn't tell us till it dies down. No matter the pressure he wouldn't say it.

Well I got him alone and used the art of manipulation on him. While he was running through his story and covering the actors, I just told him it's Jasmine and Richard, something's happening between them. At first he denied, but later he confessed. The not so shocking news was that Jasmine had a smooching fling with Richard, and according to her, there was no sex.

How did Christian get to know, Jasmine told Gerrard about it, so Gerrard told her bestie, Christian. How could you go visit a guy 11pm in the night under the guise of he's sick, I couldn't just stop laughing. grin grin grin
Well Gerrard told Christian that wasn't the first time she'd tell him about something like this happening, now that was the surprising aspect of it all. Why did you tell him?
I asked Christian what Gerrard did about it, and he said Gerrard wouldn't do anything in the long run, he'd get angry for a while and forgive her. Wow, just wow.

Redpill titbits from this story:
1. Don't trust girls blindly. Even better be guarded, trust no one.

2. I usually tell my guys "relationship wey pass #100 bike abeg no do am" . This is saying long distance relationships aren't worth it, the earlier you go your ways the better. You can disagree on this.

3. Women would rather share and f*ck a renowned play boy, than be with a good guy. It's how they feel at that moment, alpha fxcks beta bucks.

4. Don't make your girl know she's the sole lady in the relationship, better still let her know you have options.

5. Maintain frame and be ready to let go of bad investments. You're most likely to be shxt tested, maintain frame by all means.

6. Alpha doesn't mean you have the beards of Jason Momoa, the body of Dwayne Johnson, the looks of Chris Hemsworth and the ingenuity of Albert Einstein. Being Alpha is being good at what you do, who you are, passing shxt tests and maintaining frame.

7. Maximize your traits to get further, you're naturally handsome, maximize it, you're blessed with great genetics physically, maximize it, you're popular maximize it (Richard did), rich maximize it and so on. Use the talents you've been given to accrue more talents in the long run.

8. Introduce your simp friends to the redpill without introducing them. When they yearn for more, and ask personally you can introduce them to the page. You can't save everyone and not everyone seeks salvation. I've never mentioned TRP to anybody before but it's seen all over me. They just know I'm different.

9. Stay redpilled folks.

Questions/Discussions

1. Why did Jasmine tell Gerard about her trysts?
I feel it's because Gerard known to be a good guy , and due to his "love" will have to forgive her. Gerrard has shenked a lot of girls, hot ready because of Jasmine, not like he's a provider for Jasmine but he just "loves" her.

2. What's the appropriate course of action for Gerrard?
I think this is obvious.

Please I don't want any connection between this and the annoyingly lingering discussion up there. Thanks.

Drops mic.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:43am On Nov 23, 2021
ProphetJeroboam:
Just a friendly reminder:
Non-neediness is attractive. Even if you don’t have a life, create the illusion that you do. Stop languishing in her dms with pointless conversations. If you’re bored, don’t call her. Stop explaining yourself like a timid 9 year old boy. Women are all about “NOW” , they don’t give af about all the nice things you did yesterday. Don’t let any girl make you think they are innocent or naive, they are not!!! The moment you believe they are, you’ll almost never get what you want with them.
Been a while Bruv
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 1:40am On Nov 22, 2021
hazard7:
What's this argument on love about? Love is an emotion and emotions come and go. Like cave Adullum pointed out with the excerpts from researches and articles about both gender being capable of love.



Cc
Martinez39, Cave Addulum, skepticus, emmadoet, luminous and other members.
Pics mic

Good morning boss, how's the family? grin

This whole argument about love is self brewed. It all started when some particular people talked about marriage as a part of the redpill. The presented concepts were quite simple :

-Marry if you're willing to bear the brunt i.e the pros and cons of marriages, a lot of posts in the past dealt with those (the pros and cons). It's up to the person. This community is here to lay out the redpill system, it's not a cult. Do whatever you like with the information, we're not enforcing decisions on anyone.

- Women are hypergamous in nature, hate them or love them, it is what it is. A woman who's ready to marry will desert a relationship of several years to settle with someone who's ready without looking back. The recent story that was posted here acknowledges that.

This led to some other counter views, some leading to unnecessary breakdowns:

- Redpillers mustn't marry. As long as you're a redpiller, strike out marriage from your to do list.

Which led to another view, how I don't know.

- There's nothing like love, any relationship between both complementary gender is purely transactional. Attached to this are some lack of logic and civility on some people's part.

Well, Cave attached some excerpts to his opinions to buttress his points , Martinez dropped his opinions and other contributors did their best to analyze the topic.

There's no need for the fracas, if one is not contented, he can just lay his counter view without fight, or agree to disagree.

Thanks

Drops Mic.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 11:41pm On Nov 21, 2021
luminouz:
Don't mind IT. It thinks it can confuse us.
It can open another thread and argue on love like an eejIT!!! grin
grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 11:37pm On Nov 21, 2021
luminouz:
Will y'all stop quoting that melodramatic moniker up there?

It's changing the flow of the thread. She/he/it can create a damn new thread and argue about LOVE till eternity.

undecided undecided undecided undecided
Lol, ignoring the moniker is the best course of action. Even if you write something unrelated to love, he/she/it will find a way to deviate the path back to his/she/its line of thought.

It's looking for unnecessary argument, no matter what you write, he'll just reject, in the most uncivilized manner you can think of. I once told him off when he attacked for no reason, but it sounded like I wasn't accommodating enough, well seems like he comes for us all, lol. No hard feelings.

It's not a critical argument to that moniker, it's just a measurement of d1cks, and I suggest we show him the tape rule without any argument. Let's stop entertaining cheap nuisance, it's just wasting valuable space for those that are reading.

We get the message, love doesn't exist.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 10:09pm On Nov 18, 2021
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Someone please tell the overgrown baby up there to make a decision, you can't start asking questions up and down from each and every person who posts something just to test their stance.

It shows you haven't read anything on this thread, because if you did you'd know this is not a herd, you're just wasting our and your time. If you don't want to get married so be it, don't stress people. Stop constituting cheap nuisance.

Drops mic
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 8:31pm On Nov 18, 2021
Lightway:
Keep your mouth shut boy

I never had a heart for a woman to break... You're claiming that some things in the redpill are extreme

Woman sympathizer. If you want to get married go ahead

No one's forcing you.
grin
Awwwn...

Abeg whoever drop light way for thread abeg come carry am o. Man the behavior you are exhibiting is a joke.

No lady is specifically at war with you , she's living her life, life is life. Learn about life, the red pill and guard yourself and if possible the ones you love. You don't elevate, you get dropped.

If you believe I'm blue pilled by all means believe away.

People with the ability of comprehension got my points.

You're just hyperventilating for no reason. Be careful man, it leads to tachycardia, which in the "lung" run isn't good for your heart man (oh I forgot, you had agenesis of the heart, or in this case atrophy). grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:54pm On Nov 18, 2021
Lightway:
You're still a child who doesn't know about redpill

How can you say you come here to read things for fun... Do you think women are out there to joke.

Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation.

You can get married if you want.
Lol, Boss nobody is fighting with you. Calm down on the attempted shaming. You sound pained, like you've been hurt before. Are you just coming to terms with life or getting out of your rage stage. Or probably just confused.

Nevertheless, I'll lay something on you, you'll get to a stage in life ( or the redpill) where happenings becomes normal to you, your emotions won't cloud your speech. Your haphazard demeanor becomes calm and you've attained peace with life. You sound like someone who hasn't come to terms with the redpill, calm down. You'll still joke about things happening around you, you might joke about how your girl left you.

I don't know about you (you still sound surprised though) , but a lot of things about the female nature doesn't surprise me anymore. I'm sure it doesn't surprise a lot of people here, even the poster. So man, chill a bit with something chilled, preferably non alcoholic and attain peace.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:32pm On Nov 18, 2021
maak400:
You just gained a follower, thumbs up to you for this post!
It's an honor boss
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 5:46pm On Nov 18, 2021
Reminderz:
na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality..

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..
Lol, Boss, toxicity is over the top.

But then Martinez has his reasons for MGTOW and he hasn't forced anybody to follow that path so far I've noticed, he only declared himself one. Different people have their different reasons for their choices. He only stated his opinions on the pros and cons of being married, the choice is totally individual.

I for one don't know whether I'll marry or not, you can't see some things in the current society and be totally inclined towards marriage hoping yours will turn out different. People have different experiences and different reasons for their decisions. Tonny gave a suitable example, your parents can't have given you the perfect idea of marriage and a stranger who was raised up differently will change your mind. Never, you'll be totally structured to trust the process. Peradventure the marriage starts heading for the rocks, you won't abandon ship, because your mentor sailors never did.

I respect people's decisions and I've seen the good an the ugly, heck the worse in marriages. Even those that are dating, a lot of ladies are disguising or have done the worst in their past knowing marriage is the saving grace (the Knight in shining armor comes for the community bride lol).

If you're ready to get married, vet properly and preferably let her be a virgin (just saying). Have the redpill as a guide. The redpill isn't against marriage, it just highlighted the obvious (or not so obvious).
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 5:28pm On Nov 18, 2021
ThomasShelby:
Exactly. If redpill is too harsh for some people, they can simply leave the thread.
I agree, at times I come here for the memes and stories, apart from the words of wisdoms wise men drop here. It's just for fun and awareness.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 4:55pm On Nov 18, 2021
Tonnyray:
I believe you know this sure ain't me. I understood and have accepted the peculiarities of the female nature a long time ago. I hardly ever bother myself about what I have absolutely no control whatsoever over. It's the wailers that should take a cue and take dressing.
This is far from being a rant. It's pristine words of wisdom.
Kudos brah.
Lol sure ain't for you, it's for our brothers who haven't come to terms with how life works. I'm just saying majorly posting about some things isn't complaining, I'd say awareness. Cheers boss
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 4:52pm On Nov 18, 2021
CaveAdullam:
Solid!
Even Rollo Tomassi has this to say:
We keep learning boss.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 4:50pm On Nov 18, 2021
Junnior:
I disagree with you.

People should get married if they want to. There are always pros and cons of any choice we make. It is left for each man to pick his own poison.

The thing with Tonnyray is he is open-minded and not just another redpill junky like many of us here.

Now, how exactly did he screw his friend over?



We all know these things, but some of us refuse to come to terms with them and be at peace.
Alike minds bro, you too sabi.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 2:32pm On Nov 18, 2021
Pics Mic
The Red pill is like a large tree with several branches yielding various fruits. However, I'd say it has a single root - The enlightenment of men .

Taking us back memory lane, we'd notice in the past, there was no redpill, no MGTOW, no this or that, why? There was no need to. Society was rock solid , it held the family together as the family reciprocated. Until things took a turn and voilà here we are.

Are we going back to the past? By the past I mean the fairy tale love we were sold in Titanic, Yemi my lover, and the 3 hours long Indian movies we watched when we were younger (those guys took romance over the top if you asked me) . NO WE ARE NOT, maybe it existed maybe it never did, I don't know. Just come to peace with it and lower your expectations mate.

Marriage has existed for centuries and may probably exist for centuries more, Cave, Martinez and other contributors have done more than enough justice to the pros and cons of marriages, why people sign the contracts and why they exit the building. But then life is a game, a game is an activity controlled by laid down rules and played using well thought out decisions by the players. Your immediate society you find yourself in and nature has laid down the rules , the decisions you take are in your hands.

You have society and the hypergamous nature of women to contend with (already tempered by other factors). Are you still willing to play the game?

I've said it before that the redpill can be compared to a guide book, some games come with guidebooks, but the redpill adds an extra, it makes it feel like the guidebook is a cheat book. You're not surprised by the new levels the game manifests, you've seen it before (or read it), it becomes expected. But can you shield yourself from the effects of the game, probably not, you can only dampen it, hence be wise.

Like I said the redpill has different branches and marriage is one of them, if you want to get married please do , we're all built or in this case our society and differing communities (including our families) have all built us differently. If you are willing to take your chances don't let people on a forum tell you otherwise (as much as they mean well) , even with a hundred failed marriages there's also a thousand functioning ( I didn't say perfect, some require some jump starting and spark plug replacement if you know what I mean ) unions. However don't expect a fairly tale bliss, be prepared to face reality. I'd recommend the redpill. Every ying has an accompanying yang, if you've decided to compare the good and bad sides of marriage it favours you, it's a personal choice.

Somebody recommend studying the Philosophy of morality as a hobby and I'd take that up. Cave and doing justice to topics, 5 and 6. Cave what did you study? I want to check something.

We might say redpill is amoral and all but then think about where the society stands without morality. We'd talk about women being hypergamous without remorse, more like them lacking conscience but then it's just being amoral, so why the fuss if they're indirectly doing what we're preaching, they put themselves first innit. You just happened to be on the other side of the 2 by 2 plank .
Society will crumble without morality, I'm not here to preach about morality, but not everybody will be moral and not everyone will be "amoral" or "immoral".

Machiavellianism will introduce you to the perks of morality and amorality and the ways of using them, don't shoot yourself in the leg by screaming redpill is amoral everywhere you go. Know control.

But I suggest everyone should know that you being moral doesn't sideline you from the consequences of the actions of the amoral or immoral. Just like saying because you're good means you won't be duped. Life doesn't work that way.

One of my friends was bullied as a kid and it did quite a score on him till today, he asked me why "nemesis" doesn't catch up with bad people (this case his bullies), despite him being a good person. His bullies are still doing good according to him, but he was expecting some fvxked up shvt to have happened, well life happens and I didn't make the law of karma and nemesis.

There's this intersection between what's right, morality (moral, amoral, immoral), what favours one (selfishness). Not everyone will get the intersection and make the best decision. It's dicey but let's think about it.

Sharing memes and stories is a major way of keeping the thread alive and continuous reminder that we shouldn't lower frame and not exactly complaining, I think Tonny might have misconstrued it. However, if you're still complaining about the female nature, just go back to page 1 of this thread and start all over, you should be beyond that by this time.
My hands in the the air for those that keep posting , heartofcity you too much.

Why are women women? Think about this.

"A lion in the wild is primed for preying, it's jaws, claws, muscles, athletism all incorporated into every nucleotide in its DNA.
However a lion cub, unexposed to the wild, groomed and trained in the house, behaves as a house cat, until its very basic nature is triggered knowingly or unknowingly and from there there's no going back."

This might be a rant, but it's just my thoughts.
Drops mic.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:51am On Nov 15, 2021
CaveAdullam:
DAY 319, REDPILL 2021

1. The amount of time you spend with people should be dependent on the amount of value they provide you. But no matter what, women should always be at the penultimate or last in position.


Authority: Be smart.
Know this and know peace. This needs to be inscribed onto the brains of young men.

Thanks for continuously taking your time to drop these words of wisdom, nothing compares to your diligence.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 10:15am On Sep 28, 2021
palmshots:
You guys should tone down on your hypocrisy and hatred on this LGBT people na. I thought we're Logical males here.
I'm not gay myself but I know this people are just that way, this is totally beyond social idea or identity
Unfortunately, I know some of you are so irrational you can lynch a gay/Lesbian or deny one a Job opportunity if you're if given the opportunity.So how are you different from the simp you keep writing epistle about?


Nobody can make you a gay although there's a Lesbianism tendency in most female psyche.
I'll speak for myself and not everyone, I'm neutral about homosexuality, hormones play a major role in determining one's sexuality, but the society is the other half of that factor. Will you agree with me that the way the western world is pushing it through their media and groups is on another level? I believe that females have the lesbianism tendencies, also being gay isn't an overnight shift. It's from years of exposure if you get me, the reason why the media is getting dangerous for children, especially for children without a father figure or proper parental guidance. It's like they want more of them (because they are the minority yea) hence the strong publicity.

On your second and third posts, I agree with you and Ichi. I've always said it that one can't be 100% redpilled in this society to get what he wants and this society isn't turning back anytime soon, it'll keep going down. There's nothing you nor I nor anybody can do to change that, we are not at the helm of affairs. I can just enjoy what it there to enjoy, sip some cold beer and watch the world go to sh*te in 4D. Adapt so it favours me, try my best to teach my future kids, any of my friends or family member that can get one or two lessons from me fine, if not no qualms.

These girls want to hoe and I agree they should be left to hoe, a major reason why I don't get angry if a girl cheats or go on a f*cking spree, I'm no one's messiah. Anybody that wants to simp should be allowed to simp, anybody that wants to be an olosho should be.

My question is that don't you think this will affect society in the long run, and how do you think it'll affect society? This question isn't exclusive to palmshot anybody can enlighten us.
I'm asking this question without malice and with all seriousness, I'd really want to know your take.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 4:48pm On Sep 27, 2021
SkyFlint:
That scene was to make the King seem immature and insecure. It's a jab at the Patriarchy. One of many, really.


Then, there's the "fairy godmother" who was actually a gay black man. That part was just plain disgusting.
grin All these happened in one movie, thank goodness I didn't waste my time watching past that scene. I had my suspicions about the fairy godbobrisky but I didn't confirm. You must have been so patient to watch through each scene, I for don vex. grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 1:47pm On Sep 27, 2021
SkyFlint:
This is very valid.

I don't subscribe much to conspiracy theories, but it is very evident that someone, or a group is someones, is using movies/shows to brainwash the public.

It became obvious with the homosexuality trope. It was weird the first time we saw it on TV. But now, it is expected.

The desensitisation of homesexuality through the use of movies and TV shows has been quite successful. Few people, if any at all, think it's weird anymore.
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Very valid. The rate at which Hollywood is feeding the audience that particular scenario you painted is bewildering. So bewildering I could predict the outcome of the "Cinderella" movie just from seeing the princess. One particular scene got me : when the queen complained about the king's throne a bit taller than hers, Omo I just left my friend to continue watching his movie, God forbid I watch trash.

They are pushing these ideologies into the media intentionally, it's so glaring. If anyone still can't see it, I'm not sorry to say that person's blind. They've emasculated the men totally. About every Hollywood Netflix movie or series will have a gay character, what does that mean? They are already portraying been queer as normal and we must accept it whether we like it or not.

The genre of feminism is been pushed albeit not subtly. I can't even start with the number of movies with hidden or obvious "go girl power" messages. A scene in "Free guy" where "guy" tells a lady she can do better she can get a better dude and the same "guy" says most guys are the worst - using men to shame men as the villians, she concluded to saying she can just be alone, do fine without any guy - a nod at Strong independent woman.

Hollywood movies are trash, one can hardly find a "normal" -not even redpilled- movie anymore. Simping, homosexuality, go girl power, attack on men, feminism, the list goes on. I fast forward all of the movies I watch nowadays. It's tiring I must confess, I'm watching movies now for the action.

The messages passed by the media is strong, really strong. I'm sorry for the upcoming generation and those who watch about anything and believe anything. The brain can pick up subtle things and develop it. As much as we think feminism doesn't affect this country, it's a cumulative effect, we'd be surprised (or not) when it starts showing much later if we continue to go the western way. Reason I like China for their laws on guys acting like girls.

A part of us is a result of what we see (ingest), if you examine the average modern simp you'd realize that he's watched a lot of romantic movies and heard too many romantic songs for his good. Let's watch what we watch.

Drops mic.
RomanceRe: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 11:14pm On Sep 26, 2021
TheUndercover:
Why do you think most music artists use women to promote their music especially in their videos? Because they know people would be more willing to watch them, they make them shake their ass, boobs, and dress seductively to attract potential consumers. Business organizations keep hiring physically attractive female HR or secretary in order to attract potential customers. It is a business strategy.
Thanks boss, I appreciate this. It explains a lot.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 8:37am On Sep 23, 2021
sajmark:
Good Day Kings...
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This is Gold man.

Short story of when I went to visit two female colleagues (they're room mates). So I took the a guitar of one of 'em (she was learning) and was fiddling around with it. I mentioned how I couldn't play an instrument and how I'd learn one sooner or later.

Then she (the owner of the guitar) says "won't you learn it to win the heart of my roommate (the second girl). "
D; D; I no even make her land, told her in front of the other lady sharp sharp, "I'll never learn an instrument because of a lady, I'll never do things just because I want to impress a lady. I do things for my own sake and because I enjoy it"

She said something , " that's good o, it shows you have purpose"

Lesson:
"PURPOSE" , do you have purpose? Are you living for other people, or at the dictate of the other gender? At every slight word you try to please your babe without thinking about yourself first? Happy woman happy relationship eh! Is she the reason for your existence?

That moment you decide you can live without trying to please anyone, you relieve yourself of a big burden.

We can talk about females till eternity, but the moment you realize you need to focus on yourself first, you'll bother less on whether or why ladies do whatever they do.

You'll give no Fs about hypergamy because you won't feel it when the focus is on you.

Let's elevate by focusing on ourselves. Have purpose. Improve your life.

We've talked about this a lot of times, let's keep reminding ourselves.

Good morning Kings.

Drops mic
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 11:19pm On Sep 22, 2021
Skepticus:
I don't know if you are poor/bad at "holding your liquor" but with your red pill awareness on this comment, you might not be "lightheaded" afterall.
Just moving the ministry boss. Thanks
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded:
heartofcity12:
Wow shocked ... Simps always learn the hard way cheesy
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Well I just asked my guys if they'd place their girlfriends on salaries when they get rich. Don't be surprised their answers were a resounding "Yes".

Guy 1: It's something I've always planned on doing when I get rich, it's normal.
Guy 2: Yes, but wait o girlfriend not wife. No o, I can but that means for every 20k my gf gets, my mum gets 200k while my guys get 100k

Guy 1: Alters mind slightly, yes I will if the girl is a good girl.

Me: How many good girls do you think are left?

Lessons:

1. The current society has conditioned the average young man to believe that you must have money to get into relationships hence the high fraud rate by young men (if you know what I mean).

2. Young ladies have learnt to weaponise sex, attention and their feminity. Now you have to pay in one way or another to get any of the above. No money no honey.

3. Will this end any time soon? Lol, looking at the direction of things, it'll only get worse. The rate boys are dropping money will make you wonder, the simps outnumber the men as the wights outnumbered the living in game of thrones. Honestly the knowledge of the redpill is so rare you shouldn't speak about it to anyone. Let people learn about it without coercion.
The best we can do is arm ourselves against the oncoming onslaught.

4. A significant lot of people are just ₦10 000 away from being a simp. With great amount of money comes a great amount of stupidity. A lot of people will deny TRP when money comes, Peter will be like "omo thank God sey my own na only 3 times, see this guy o". Ask yourself: Am I redpilled just because I don't have enough money?

5. Learn game and TRP. It'll help you navigate life when you get the money.

Assignment: Ask your friends if they can put their girlfriends on salaries, you'll know how majority of our guys will still be served.

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RomanceRe: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 1:42pm On Sep 18, 2021
Itzlinda:
Nurses are ho.es tho. Na doctors de Bleep them steady.
Gbayii... Right from medical school to the hospital. A large percentage of nurses are professional ho.es and you know you don't wife a ho.e , so doctors avoid LTR with them.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:03am On Sep 14, 2021
SOZINN:
Well said


I was patiently waiting for one "woke" individual to let us on the secret about the corona virus vaccine. grin I don't know if you have heard those stories about the vaccine turning people into walking zombies. grin
grin grin I've heard the hogwash people say about the covid vaccines, from Bill Gates propaganda to big pharmas theories to zombies.
RomanceRe: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 10:43pm On Sep 13, 2021
@TheUndercover Boss you've not dropped something on keeping female friends as a guy, the pros and cons and how to go about handling friendship with them. Associating with them is inevitable, while I have one or two experiences in such affairs, I'd like to know your take on it. Please make it explicit and by all means take your time. Thanks
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 9:36pm On Sep 13, 2021
Lordcassy:
Okay I saw your post about the semen whatever, I did not want go into an echo chamber of argument even if I only agree with your point 8..



Do not spue ignorance....this has nothing to do with redpill... It is common sense... Gosh
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Like I said boss, "don't bother reading if you believe everything you read".
It's easy for a lot of us to sit down and read in the comfort of our rooms on our gadgets and believe ALL conspiracy theories, Paranoia in situ.

I would have understood if he talked about the detriment of high toxicity present in the today's world due to synthetic products.

The vast world of medicine isn't something anyone can just delve into, if one has limited knowledge about it, it's best you don't jump into it because you'll be lost and speak a lot of jargons.
Only he who wears the shoes know where it hurts, you don't know anything about pharmacology but you're shouting "drugs are dangerous, herbs are the best", whoever that bros is I suggest you live in the untouched amazons and start boiling roots and barks as a means of curing ailments since drugs are a way of killing people.

grin grin Some people's ignorance are just so alarming it becomes pitiful. Do you even know why side effects occur in drugs and how these drugs are effective?
What do you have to say about sickle cell patients? It's another conspiracy and the whites are lying to us? Let's use herbs to treat them right?

Please let's filter what we assimilate or say in public space or better still give valuable examples and attach evidences. Not just what some people said on a site. It's my prayer no one gets down with an idiopathic ailment, then you'll know the importance of years of research put in place by medical practitioners and commend those that have toiled to provide solutions to ailments and diseases.

Na Nigeria dey make medical practitioners be like small play sha. Meanwhile Africans are not as wise as the current age demands, maybe if we could make more research on the "herbal medicine" we'll be better off than our present condition.

As much as a lot of people are trying to sound woke because it's a redpill thread, let's endeavor to be thoughtful.

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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2021
emmanuel1277:
Okay u just want to clarify the fact that testosterone is responsible for muscle development even after adolescence
Yes. But not just after, during. It's responsible for building muscles. What makes a man manly? Muscles.
That's why bodybuilders take "steroids". Testosterone is a steroid hormone.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 8:23pm On Sep 13, 2021
emmanuel1277:
Bross are you saying testosterone has nothing to do with muscle development ?
Have you ever wondered why an averagely active 16 year old girl will still have more fat and less muscle than her complementary gender of the same age?
Boss, no vex just go through it again the answer lies there.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded:
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A Japanese adage says (I'm not quoting) don't bother reading if you believe everything you read. This means filter the information you read.

Someone said keeping your semen in your epididymis increases your muscle mass, bone density, glows your skin, increases your power of attraction and .... I didn't even bother reading the rest.

Whether you release or not has no effect or your physical health.(Excessive sex or masturbation is another ballgame entirely). Don't mistake semen for testosterone.

Low testosterone levels, malnutrition ( and sometimes other underlying conditions) lead to all the aforementioned side effects stated above.

WHAT'S TESTOSTERONE?
Testosterone is an androgen (male sexual hormone) responsible for sexual differentiation and expression of secondary male sexual features (the characteristics that differ a yong boy from a man- talk adolescence and puberty, talk testosterone). Not limited to increase in muscle mass and increased bone density, testosterone is what makes men look like men. You'll find out some ladies have higher than normal testosterone (the facial hair, voice, body hair e.t.c), also noticable in aging women. I apologise if I might have digressed a bit grin , I was getting into sturvs mode).

WHAT'S THE LINK THEN? Testosterone stimulates the production of mature sperm cells by stimulating Sertoli cells. Every other fluid in the semen is produced by accessory reproductive organs. The AVERAGE volume of semen produced per ejaculation is 3.5ml. You know that big syringe (5ml) yea, it doesn't even fill it up.( I said average, I'm not talking to you FOUNTAIN). This is insignificant compared to the 42L of fluid a 70kg human being contains. But every synthesis in the body requires ATP (energy) and where do you get ATP from, food.

If releasing semen was deleterious to the body in any way, a lot of married men wouldn't be alive, a lot of brothers would have turned hospitals to their second home, heck I'd give Dembele and Carzola a run for their money. The major reason for the weight loss, bone density brouhaha is because you don't consume enough nutrients by consuming enough food. Your night food na garri but you won use tramadol kill person pikin from 11pm to 4am, HELLO!! who you won impress??. Sex itself is an exercise, the twisting the turning, the hanging the lying. Our brothers that put them in 70 positions in 7 minutes I hail. For energy used you need nutrients replenishment.

Eat good food, fruits, vegetable, get enough rest.

I had to write this because someone might bite into his words hook, line and sinker, even swallow and digest it. I'm sure the MGTOW path is not because sex will depreciate the quality of one's health. Don't attribute ejaculation to it.

If you like avoid sex like a plague, if you don't nourish your body Johnny Sins will live longer than you.

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RomanceRe: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Lightheaded: 10:29pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.
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At age 29, she'll definitely marry you Sir, but the caveat is if she hasn't been engaged or married before then.

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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 9:28am On Sep 08, 2021
CaveAdullam:
1. If you play the game, you have chances of winning. If you don't win, you lose. The lessons learnt can help in revamping you to win next time.



Thanks.
A Japanese adage says, "Life without endeavours is like entering a jewel-mine and coming out with empty hands."

Just being in life means you're already in the game. There's no opting out.

I'd say it's best to get the best out of the game. Don't be shy.

Big ups Cave.

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