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Mojanity:
once it's gone... Its gone sorry

skyfullofstars:
Yes, we can be all that, as long as the man by our side complies with his own role...

skyfullofstars:
I don't need anything...

Mojanity:
Will the men also keep their own?

skyfullofstars:
Yes, we can be all that, as long as the man by our side complies with his own role...

pinkhill:
go and beg her and that your friend will end up sleeping with your wife in future

Teespice:
Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

Velocitron:
Honestly, I used to be so hot-headed about these issues when I was younger, like when my aunt would berate me for not enjoying staying in the kitchen 'because I'm a girl' until I stopped to think..so what? Who cares about the few ignorant statements some people make?

If you live in modern educated society, women have the same rights as men. You can hold public office, vote, drive, get married, divorce etc. Of course, male and female privilege and other double standards will continue to exist, millions of years of evolution and societal conditioning make sure of that.

Fewer women than men are interested in STEM courses, starting their own companies or running for higher political posts, it's a self-imposed handicap. You can't sit on your butt demanding 'change' when it's well within your power and rights to do anything you want.

Omotayor123:
So u mean you don't know Nursing mother's works

oseod:
Pressure heaped on them by who?
By who na?!!!!!!

A woman who just got got engaged will be flaunting the engagement ring to her fellow ladies to make them jealous and starts a rivalry

The girls who has seen the engagement ring will begin to mount pressure on her boyfriend to propose to her now!!!!!!

A woman does a wedding that accomodates 500 guests
Her friend will do a wedding to accomodate 5,500 even when its above her finances
In the end the most husband suffer the pain of debt after the "show off" wedding

Women are the ones who mount pressure on themselves
#shikena

Omotayor123:
It should be equal 50/50. instead of seeing women as lesser being.

Omotayor123:
Woman no get Ambition abi...

we be natural care taker huh...

Beingafemaleinnigeria#

Truckpusher:
I can see all the NL resident feminists rushing into this thread to vent their anger.

When una finish the lamentation make una come face realty abeg.

Omotayor123:
leave your job & take care of your kids..

dangotesmummy:
the programme of this thread na



please kindly be gracious enough to call the mods to ban dangotesmummy.them go ban taya ke



moreover I'm tired of all this your empty threats that don't hold water of banning me. It's beginning to bore me so be a man and quit being a sulking weakling

since all these while I have been expecting a ban they've not banned me yet ke



meanwhile you're still doing shakara for food. You better eat it in shame. Don't worry i won't collect money from you and if you need water, well water is available

dangotesmummy:
you better don't quench of talk and die. Sha eat this one before the programme starts

Haywhymido:
Na so so fight up n down, bashing,bragging,nagging,swearing na wa o. At d end una go say na una grandmother wey be witch no let una last 4 una husband's house. Words like overlook,condone,patience doesnt exist 4 una dictionary.