Bluna: That was probably the time of saburi as SUG president.
I recollect that name, I witnessed Diamond's tenure and that of one ugly guy, I can't remember his name (he was tall and very dark in complexion. Some said he looked like a gorilla with his deep voice. Eventually we had reasons to believe he was working for the school authorities.
Sensiblerealist: Bro, I saw many of these stuff live. Whenever we go to pick up these Oduduwa University cultist guys(forgot its former name), I will suggest we take them directly to the Police but many of our guys preferred SMS. They take these guys to Awo Café and smash them with humerus, scapula and femoral bones of cow. Sometimes, it really gets bad with blood everywhere. I used to tell them that if we really want to honour the memories of Afrika and others, we shouldn't also behave like cultists. I noor wan mention the guys' names
Our Maximum shishi didn't get to that level, blood wasn't spilled but most times the face was disfigured and some bruises on the body but not beyond that. Especially the swollen faces (special trademark for knowing a victim of maximum shishi)
renderme: Some Obidients contesting in the ADC coalition have already committed money and time building towards the upcoming 2027 elections.
They are complaining on twitter as they have been left in limbo.
People like GRV and Aisha Yesufu (who recently mentioned her interest in a house of rep seat) have not commented about Peter Obis recent move, and if they will be leaving the ADC to join him in the NDC.
They will come out in support of their APC lord's but it ends there... Did you see how many millions entered NDC after Obi moved? Those numbers must be killing your APC urchins.
If Obi moves to a new party tomorrow, those same millions will still move with him just like they did when he moved to ADC.
We move anywhere he moves, it's organic, you can't buy or pay for it, you can deceive some people sometimes but you canr deceive all the people all the time.
Tinubu keeps shaking in Aso rock even with all the over 30 governors he has, he has more than half the senate and house of reps but he still doesn't sleep well.
As soon as Obi enters a party, suddenly, lawsuits start flying up and down just to deter him from contesting, ask yourself, why is it that any party he enters starts to have court issues. When he isn't there, all will be well but as soon as he enters, they start creating lawsuits. That should tell you that Obi won the last election and they know it is easier now for him given the hardship around the country.
They don't want OBI to contest because they know APC will be booted out just like in the 2023 election.
Every government gives their best during the first tenure... This is the best Tinubu has to offer. Another 4 years will see your accounts being emptied, prices of things unbearable and everyone turned to slaves. We can't allow that to happen. The tax law is waiting to be implemented as soon as he enters office.
You will see the true definition of chaos all over Nigeria if the right results aren't pronounced. ENDSARS will likely be a joke. People are angry and dying. I don't know whey many of you are so selfish and wicked, supporting evil while your own family members are hungry. Damn!
Bluna: OAU school 2 back then in our days (early 2000s) were Motion Ground and SUB. Must have probably changed now.
The picture on my profile was snapped on motion ground not far from Hezekiah Oluwasanmi Library. There were numerous photographing stands around there.
1. Ogba Femi (Femi's Compound) — OAU Campus 2. Dobale — prostrate- a tradition that performing artiste must fulfil before performing 3. Risky burger / Risky — fried egg and bread 4. Academics — lecture areas 5. Men I trust — This refers to a supportive group or clique, inspired by the Peaky Blinders series, aiding each other during exams. 6. Scabbash — to pray in tongues 7. Prayo/spirikoko — a religious person 8. Anglomoz — love den between two freshmen hostels 9. Blocking — The sight of a boy and girl together 10. Risky burger — a bread and egg meal 11. Aiye o po (inadequate space) — time is necessary 12. Aro — An annoying tease 13. School2 — a particular area on campus 14. Aluta continua, Victoria asserts — end note of all announcement 15. No toasting — a strong disagreement 16. Omo Awo — guys who tease for fun 17. Faa aluta — to cause pandemonium 18. Town gboro — shortened term for commuter buses traveling from town to campus and back. 19. Iwe — an intelligent person 20. Broda sister wa o (and vice versa) — welcoming address for a male in a female hostel 21. Baba na u o — sarcastic/ ironic appraisal 22. Mr Moz — frequent male visitor in female hostels 23. Moz101 / Catch dem young — This involves seniors interacting with newly admitted female students, often associated with Mozambique, a female hostel for Part 1 students. 24. Maa goo — be smart 25. Won get mi — to fail a course 26. Pam — score 27. Igi iwe, ESO odo — one who reads excessively but fails always 28. cest pon kaye — nobody's business 29. Jacking — act of reading 30. Jacko/iwe-stramol/jacko-mycine — one who reads a lot 31. Department of bigbig books — health sciences 32. Oau choiresters — law students 33. FFO/Aj — glutton 34. Fresher — new student 35. Town — areas outside campus 36. Maximum shishi — punishment for offenders 37. Floor O — school's detention room 38. Porter — security men 39. Jo o — an excuse or a sarcastic plea 40. wooo Wooo — go straight to the point 41. Department of EFCC — faculty of science. Named after the grades the give most: E F and C 42. White house — faculty of science 43. Yellow house — department of mathematics 44. Omo mi (my child) — an acquaintance 45. ota lenu (peppery) — something accepted 46. shi (open) — to fail/ to ignore 47. Quarters — Staff areas 48. Omi Faborode — tap water 49. Road 1 — main entrance to campus/ can also be a figurative term used to mean expulsion or suspension from the university. It is used to instill fear and correct behavior. 50. Boss/egbon — a sophisticated person 51. spagewa — a meal of spaghetti and beans 52. Concursion/ conkoki — a hurriedly prepared meal or food lacking necessary ingredient 53. No animal/ without/ no protein — meal without fish or meat 54. Alaaro — one who does aro 55. singist — a singer 56. humbility — extreme humility 57. Docki — med student 58. Orijo — material for cheating 59. Baskeh bo kot — basketball court used for scabbashing 60. Omo ibo — non Yoruba 61. Hall — student hostels 62. Death center — school clinic 63. Maintenance — female student off campus hostel 64. Kooro — hidden places 65. Carpenter is a around — popular carpenter 66. Gp de shake — low Gp 67. Gp make sense — high Gp 68. moremi100,200,300level — floors in moremi hall 69. ekaro se ma foosho (good morning,wash your clothes) — dry cleaners / evolved into Sé sé wà? - All those mama and small boys washing clothes/doing odd jobs in the hostel area 70. e-problem — schools eportal 71. Omisore oke, eeyan wa n s (omisore upstairs.some one is downstairs) — usually said in Awo blocks to warn someone of pouring down water from tops. 72. Ajose parole — night time out 73. sport's popcorn — buttered popcorn 74. rishas car — airtime recharge card 75. indospag — meal of spaghetti and indomie 76. Alhaja/Hajia — female Muslim 77. afa — male Muslim 78. Oga — male fellowship executive 79. Mummy — female fellowship executive 80. Esko/Exco — executive 81. Parade — take an offender round the school 82. ko Funny — boring performance or hardship 83. Amarachi — any wayward female 84. As e de hot — intense circumstance, also a popular rugged buns at a joint near the hostel 85. La cram la pour, la pass la graduate — slang used after a frustrated effort of trying to understand a course. 86. efficiency — someone who is too unnecessarily involved in something 87. Corner — one's portion of hostel room 88. ise to ta (peppery work) — job well done 89. omo wa ni (our child) — popular person 90. Iwe factorial — brilliant student 91. kawe yo/kawe ju (over read) — hypes for an unserious person 92. omo la toro iwe labi (we begged for a child, but, but begot a book) — brilliant person 93. Ose igberaga (period of pride) — resumption period on campus 94. Ife gbeyin (end of ife) — exam period/ when provisions are finished 95. PDP, power, APC, change — a cheer for attention 96. Ogun malaria (malariadrugs) — any drug at all, givengiven by health center pharmacists 97. Laana — to fail a course 98. won get mi (I have been caught) — to fail a course/ get a grade least expected 99. Won fun mi ni 40E (I was given 40E) — to score 40E 100. F and F — a popular restaurant in school called forks and fingers 101. Mi ole wa ku, Alaye longba bsc — i cant kill myself, only the living attains BSc 102. Dub Dub — involving malpractice or copying another person’s during exams 103. Jambito — newly admitted students 104. Let my people go — a score of most especially 40 that will prevent carry over 105. ọjọ — rain/ signal of rejection of someone's opinion at Congress 106. Road7 — Rustication 107. Koolu koolu, koolu temper — a slang for calm with the hand gesture during aluta 108. Sister, Stretch your brain — encouraging mental effort 109. Shana/Ige iwe/Prof — intellectually sound or exceptionally brilliant student 110. HP — Hot Plate 111. Ègin — Pounded Yam at the Buka 112. Ferefe shishi — beating meted out on offending student 113. Ojo pa (rain beat somebody) — To fail a course 114. Igbe yin ogba femi — lecture free week or period of food scarcity during exams 115. Ogba yi le — This campus tough/ frustration over failure 116. Na you ooo — someone who passes a course with a better grade than others 117. Awo Boys — energetic, non-conformist students 118. Aro — act of teasing or mocking 119. Maximum Shishi — It denotes a severe punishment administered by students, typically involving beating or public reprimand. 120. NFA — No Future Ambition 121. Won ti sha mi — A slang used to express that one has being marked down or graded low, closely related to a twerking GP, often a result of unfavorable assessment. 122. Off k — This is used to identify anything outside the university’s confines, often used in public transport to inquire about destinations beyond the campus gate. 123. Quarters — It is simply used for the area where OAU staff reside. 124. Mafo — a motivational phrase often used to encourage boldness, resilience, and an unbroken spirit in the face of difficulties or challenges 125. Market — OAU market 126. Kasamadupe — often said by students who pass by a small margin usually 40-45, also used to empathize with ones situation. 127. Sapá — represents financial struggle 128. OAU choristers — humorously referring to Law students, as a result of their formal attires of White on Black. 129. Just dey play — a teaser used by students when together 130. Hall Area — hostels
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Igi iwe, eso odo - refering to one that reads a lot but comes out with poor grades.
Ewo bo se dabi Ere Hezekiah -- when trying to insult someone that after all his reading he will still amount to nothing because the statue of Hezekiah is uncovered under the sun compared to that of Oduduwa that's covered under the pavillion.
Animasaun -- refering to a known wayward girl.
Omu to n shon -- a girl with a fallen breast
Elese osi meji - when insulting someone with bad legs.
Owo Jona - refering to having bad grades after spending money on school fees and feeding.
I'm glad the tradition of dobale still continues. P-square, Faze and many other artists had to do it before they were allowed to perform. They all did, no choice!
No lecture free week, no exam... I still remember when the school authorities were adamant about it. Eventually we all went home for some months and came back straight to exams. That semester wasn't funny.
iwaeda: No fewer than 56 people, mostly traders, are feared dead, while 14 others have been hospitalized following an airstrike on a weekly market along the Borno–Yobe border.
The incident occurred at Jilli Market, located between Gubio and Geidam Local Government Areas of Borno and Yobe states, on Saturday.
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The airstrike was suspected to have been carried out during a military operation targeting suspected Boko Haram insurgents.
The weekly market usually attracts traders and buyers from surrounding communities, including Gubio, Chiweram, and Benisheikh in Borno State, as well as Gurokayeya and Geidam in Yobe State.
Multiple sources said the fighter jet that carried out the operation was tracking a group of suspected insurgents believed to have visited the market to collect levies from traders and obtain supplies. However, the strike reportedly missed its intended target.
An eyewitness said at least 56 people have been confirmed dead, while 14 others are receiving treatment at the Specialist Hospital in Geidam, Yobe State.
“The incident happened around 2:46 p.m. while business activities were ongoing. Four fighter jets carried out the attack, though the fourth jet was not clearly visible. We only heard the sound of explosions.
“I counted 56 corpses myself and helped rescue two injured people, taking them to the hospital. I believe the number of casualties may be higher, as more bodies are still being recovered,” the source said.
When contacted, the councillor of Fichimaram Ward, Malam Lawan Zanna, confirmed the incident to Daily Trust, stating that about 20 people had been admitted to the Specialist Hospital in Geidam.
“The incident occurred at Jilli village’s weekly market under Fichimaram Ward in Geidam LGA. From the information available to us, it was an airstrike.
“When the jets launched their attack, people panicked and began to run, but the strikes continued. As we speak, over 30 people have been killed.
“More than 20 people were hospitalized in Geidam. Two were referred to the Teaching Hospital in Damaturu. Out of those receiving treatment, nine have died, bringing the death toll to over 30,” he said.
The Special Adviser to the Yobe State Governor on Security Matters, Brigadier General Abdulsalam Dahiru (rtd), confirmed the incident, but said it occurred within Borno State.
“I have spoken with the chairman of Geidam Local Government, who informed me that Jilli village falls under Gubio LGA of Borno State. You may contact officials in Maiduguri for further details,” he said.
As of the time of filing this report, there has been no official statement from the Nigerian Air Force regarding the incident.
If you believe this accidental bombing, you're the biggest fo.ol to ever exist... They keep killing innocent people and leave the herdsmen. Later they come out with old pictures to tell us how they killed terr.orists which are lies. I pity those in the north because of the army of the government doesn't kill them, the terrorists will be sent by the government to kill them... Whichever way, na the government dey run am.
Marvieduke: At Iwofe, a husband caught an agent and his wife in a hotel room, Cecilia Guest House, located near Ignatius Ajuru University of Education, Port Harcourt.
The woman, identified as Mrs. Adaeze Wanodi, said to be a mother of two, explained that she accepted to engage in the act because the man proposed to rent a pop fitted two-bedroom flat for her family at a reduced cost of 400,000 Naira instead of the initial 1.2 million Naira.
She noted that her intention was to assist her husband in housing cost.
What would you do as a man if she's your wife?
House agent not even landlord... How can a house agent get a house that cheap? He deceived the woman and the woman fell for it.
Getting that amount for rent is not possible around her vicinity. Why is this woman this gullible? She for look for landlord instead of an agent that is hustling for his daily income.
Kalulu44: Exactly, but before the end of Easter I believe all of them would have been paid
What will they do with the 48k they are being paid?? The food they are given is even an eyesore. They are sent on missions to exact locations where they can be ambushed because Boko haram members are now amongst them and even leading them... People that joined less than 5 years ago ooo.
I pity any South easterner or South South person that will join this boyscout brigade called army... They will die painful and untimely deaths.
I'm glad the youths in southeast have woken up to see that there's no hope for anyone in the army.
I am happy our south east youths aren't enrolling in the Nigerian military . Let tinubu enrol his brothers and send them to the north .
This is what they want Southeast youths to go and suffer in the name of one Nigeria... Tueh! God forbid! It's better to do boiboi for 7 years then get settled and start your own business.
Haas! These people won't just allow Igbos to rest, this country will split in less than 2 years, after the split, I'll see how they will blame Igbos again. Maybe they will say because Igbos left Nigeria that's why Fulani has taken over their lands.
ogaemma: The evil wind of the mandate have started. Remember it was forecasted that more Nigerians will slide into poverty in 2027. For the first time Nigeria now have more poor people than India. Let them keep deceiving themselves that Nigeria is much better than 10 years ago. If you like keep singing on your mandate we shall collapse. Everyone will collect
We now have more people to join the real protest when it starts. This is a good development. The same thing that was done to the Hausas is being played on all of us unfortunately some heediots still don't understand.
They will impoverish you so that they can be in control. Nigeria has minerals in quantum but only a few are benefiting, yet they keep taking from the poor.
Okonsbecky: Yes Nigeria constitution allows it then, but when adaka borow said we the naija delta republic want to leave Nigeria, agonyi ronsi said no, he sent ojokur and his men to capture adaka boro and our ijaw and cros rivers brothers where unalive by ojokur (Nigeria army) after adaka boro was sent to jail, Imidiately namdi zik removed referendum from Nigeria constitution. So it was an igbo man that remove referendum from Nigeria constitution.
Bloody liar! Zik was a ceremonial president and had no powers to change that from the constitution. It was never in the constitution so stop looking for Igbos to blame all the time.
orisa37: Boko Haram ISWAP (about 30 of them) attacked Orisa 37 Residence by 2am near Trikania Police Station by 2am on Saturday 14/3/26. They threatened my wife and I, about 89 each, and son, 28, from FUTA University. They carted away: 1)My son's phone and his computer containing his NIN, copy of his degree certificate and his int. passport. My Nokia phone android and my wife's phone. I have actually spent about N3m repairing the damage to my house, buying 3 Samsung phones for ₦700,000 and replacing the CCTV cameras they stole. I am appealing to IGP Tunji Disu, Governor Sani of Kaduna State and Trikania police station to please improve the security of life and properties of the Trikania area of Kaduna Town. God bless Nigeria, God bless Kaduna State.
Th y neither kidnapped nor harmed you? This must be the joke of the century.
Yea I'm mentally deranged as well, when the protest starts after elections, come out to the streets during the protests and shout that you support Tinubu, make I know whether you will go back home the same. There'll be fireworks 🎇 and the center wouldn't be able to hold again. It will happen before your eyes, the country will split and that will be the best decision ever made.
OlaleyeCast: Former presidential candidate, Peter Obi, erstwhile National Chairman of the All Progressives Congress, Chief John Odigie-Oyegun, and some chieftains of the African Democratic Congress were on Tuesday allegedly attacked by suspected thugs in Edo State.
Obi’s former campaign spokesman and National Coordinator of the Obidient Movement Worldwide, Dr Yunusa Tanko, disclosed this in a statement issued in Abuja.
The statement read, “Peter Obi and the leadership of the ADC are under siege and attack in Benin, Edo State. At the formal declaration of Olumide Akpata into the African Democratic Congress, armed individuals followed us from the ADC Secretariat to the residence of Chief John Odigie-Oyegun.
“They shot at the gate and destroyed several vehicles in what appears to be a survived assassination attempt on our lives. Democracy is in danger.”
Nnamdipapa: "Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments
A UK-based Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concern about how Zimbabwean women are increasingly attracting and entering serious relationships with Nigerian men in the UK.
According to her, almost every Zimbabwean woman she has met in the UK has openly confessed to being in a committed or serious relationship with a Nigerian man. This observation has deeply tr○vbled her and prompted her to question Nigerian men directly: Why are they choosing Zimbabwean women over their fellow Nigerian women?
She went on to praise Nigerian men, describing them as some of the best when it comes to fulfilling responsibilities, providing for their partners, and taking care of family duties. In her view, it feels unfair and dis4ppointing for them to "choose outsiders" instead of supporting and building with Nigerian women, who she believes possess all the desirable qualities, such as beauty, intelligence, resilience, cultural compatibility, and strong family values.
Her post has sparked discussions online, with some people debating cultural differences, attitudes in relationships abroad, and perceptions of loyalty or homemaking between the two groups of women. Others argue that love and compatibility are personal choices that transcend nationality, and that such trends simply reflect individual preferences in the diaspora rather than a deliberate rejection of anyone.
Ladies, gentlemen, I may have to urgently travel to Zimbabwe to verify something
How many Nigerian women abroad shower their men with gifts and genuinely show care without feeling entitled or setting very high standards and expecting the man to meet it.
Why won't a man go for a Zimbabwean that will give peace of mind, contributes to his life emotionally and financially without creating unnecessary standards? Men need peace and Zimbabwean ladies give it. These Nigerian ladies should try other men from other countries, then they will get to understand what they lost.
xtocom: We are seeing the results of everything we are talking for granted in this country. Don't drive drunk but take for granted, know the roads rules but taking for granted, employ the right person but taking for granted. If I should could, even this page will not be enough. Rip!
Why did only one LASTMA officer die? Have you thought of the possibility of the LASTMA officer dragging the steering wheel 🛞 🎡 with the driver before his demise?
When you read a news, think about the possible scenarios not just what is cooked for you because that which was cooked was done to douse your feelings.
Wise72: Breakup because no be your man win. But if Obi wins one Nigeria, bloody 419 just like your principal.
Well, you'll remember what I typed here when the time comes. Then you'll know that someone saw it when all others didn't. Today is February 23rd, 2026.
Your forced union will breakup. Biafrans will go and so will the ODU'A Republic. At least no one will be able to complain about Igbos being their problems again. They will be able to see their true problems in their respective countries.
KnowAll: This flogging no Dey tire Obi. He campaigned mercilessly for one guy in Anambra “ he fall for ground” again he campaigned mercilessly for this PHD guy in Abuja “ he fall for ground again “ Obi Abeg dash me that money wey u want use run oh. Abi I lie😳🤔😳
It's been written that he will run, he will be rigged out as usual and then the country will breakup. It will be obvious to the world that Igbos aren't needed in Nigeria and this will trigger a violent breakaway or at least the start of it. Then every other breaking up process will continue from there.
The end of this forced union is around the corner.
Makavelli001: Apparently, here is a systematic analysis of how the FCT election was rigged:
1) After voting at the various polling units, even if APC loses and your candidate wins, the APC cabals are not worried or threatened.
2) NYSC agents sign the results and announce your candidate the winner of that polling unit.
3) The NYSC agent then hands the results to the returning officers.
4) The returning officers take the results to the collation centres, which are dominated by APC loyalists and INEC riggers who have the final say.
This is where the losers (APC) are announced as winners. This is usually done at night because, psychologically, voters are deceived and made to believe that since their candidate won at the polling units, they can now go home and rest.
5) At the collation centres, results are rewritten in favour of APC, a new signature is added, and the result forms are handed to the INEC chairman for declaration.
6) In these collation centres, no questions are entertained regarding any mutilation of figures done at the backend (which was not done at the polling units). Any candidate announced from this centre remains the declared winner.
7) Any question or dissatisfaction must go through the courts.
The courts will uphold the forged results declared by INEC because the National Assembly and the Senate passed an electoral law stating that any result written on Form EC8A must be accepted without question or disqualification.
If you still don’t see anything wrong with the system, you’re the problem and an enemy of the country.
It's good that people are seeing this, 2027 will be very interesting. The country won't live beyond it. Since the votes and voices of the people don't count again.
How exactly has the economy profited the citizens? It's only the politicians that gain from it.
Only one day of relaxation is what's killing the economy? They should let people be. These people provided jobs for themselves even when the government refused to give them jobs, of they insist on sitting at home on Mondays then allow them be. After all the government still collects it's tax and rent. If that place was so important they should build better roads around there. They are only after profits but have nothing to offer the citizens. Each time there's a fire, people in Anambra will be calling fire service in Delta state for help, doesn't that sound absurd?
sweerychick: unfortunately, when US military enter your country, there's something serious they want to do. All other African countries oppose them but they're here in your country, forget all these talks about assistance, US military don't assist without a price.. although I love their presence here in Nigeria
If their price would be to have almost all the minerals in the north, no problem. Nigeria as a whole has never benefited from any mineral from the North. The only thing that enters the coffers
ObaKlaz: You're right. But, that doesn't mean all those who broke through, to catch the attention of the powers-that-be did 'baby oil' stuff.
As for that 'skinny one'... Some big powers have made her a pet project, but I don't think she really has what they need. When they are done with her, they'd drop her like hot potato - it's a matter of time.
I know not all of them will allow the baby oil stuff but majority do allow that before they are given Grammys.
ObaKlaz: There was literally the Big 3 back then, and P Square was in that bracket: 2Face P Sqaure D'banj. (In no particular order)
They focused on music, their craft, winning, and not beefing. They dominated the scene for over a decade. Plus, they were always thinking of how to make Afrobeats international (this showed in their strategic collaborations and who they rolled with. This paved the way for the 'New Cats'). They had the consistency and stronger work rate, which are ingredients these other 'could-have-beens' didn't have.
Even Davido had to acknowledge the Big 3 that was there before the New Generation Big 3, in one of his songs - ''All of You"
"2baba you be baba nau! P Square you be baba nau!! Koko Master, you be baba nau!!!"
If there's any new generation artiste who could have joined the New Generation Big 3, and made it Big 4' based on consistency and work rate, it's Kizz Daniel, but looks he isn't really thinking about dominating, or breaking forth beyond Nigeria/Africa (name 3 big name global stars - asides Angelique Kidjoe, that he has collaborated with, if you want to argue!) and obviously, some other powers in the industry don't really like him, or he pissed them off behind the scenes.
The O.P doesn't know what he even posted.
Please kizz daniel loves where he is, he doesn't need illuminati and baby oil shenanigans around him biko. He knows exactly how those folks work before they bring you to the big show... See that small skinny girl of yesterday, now she dresses virtually naked... I'm trying to remember her name (ayra Starr). She's been brought to the big stage, you can all see the changes in her dressing.
PrimeJaga: I'm 23 years old... There's this girl I've been talking to for a month now and we've shown interest in each other but I'm hesitant for some reasons.
1. I feel that it's a waste of time cause I'm not financially stable yet. And I feel going into a relationship might make me not to be focused (I've told her this and she says that it's not my responsibility to take care of her)
2. After a month and 1 week she started sharing naughty pictures with me, while I enjoy it, I have a feeling that I don't love her but only lusting after her. I feel that we might end up wasting each others time .(I've also told her this and she says she understands my point but we can also know more about each other)
3. In the first one month we started talking, it was all about knowing about each others day and all that, and she started giving me hints that she likes me, we only started the naughty side like 5 days ago,
We've also talked about the things that will qualify us to be in a real relationship, not vibes or the one that relies on sex. We've talked about finance, health, life goals, and even morals from both our point of view.
And she's very open to deep conversations too and has shared her sex life and previous relationship.
But the fact that she started sharing her nudes with me scares me because I feel she's loose and does that to other guys.
Sometimes , she asks for my opinion when posting something's on her WhatsApp, if she finds out that I don't like it she deletes it and apologizes.
Sometimes before she shares something's on WhatsApp she asks me if it's ok even when we've agreed that we're not in a formal relationship yet, just trying to know more about each other.
4. We've shared that we are both looking for a stable relationship that won't stop us from chasing life goals or giving unwanted attention while neglecting our personal work or tasks. A relationship that may lead to marriage.
N.B Yes I know it's way too early to discuss anything about marriage but we agreed to date LIKE we're to get married so we take it more serious. We've agreed to ask the uncomfortable questions to know more about each other so the relationship can be based on real feelings.
Marriage is still very far off for any of us(I'm 23 and she's 21) But as I said we agreed on a stable relationship that's based on real feelings and not just sex or pleasure.
5. As I said, the fact that she shared her intimate pictures with me makes me think of her as cheap or unserious and I've talked to her about it.
What I'm saying is I need advice Not from BROSTITUTES whose only life ambition is to sex any woman they see
Not from immature or inexperienced people But from responsible men and women, who have something tangible to say.
I know I'm young and I know there's time for relationships but she's different in a way.
The others I've seen have nothing in their head and expect me to take care of their needs like am a philanthropist.
And besides she's the first girl I've ever gone this deep with, I've never touched her, we met online and she's willing to come visit. And she has a side hustle (she's into catering and sometimes she asks me for advice on how to scale and make money from it)
She also has similar views as me when it comes to managing money and creating something tangible for ourselves.
I am NOT a womaniser, I have never placed importance on women and I have always prioritised my self development, health,finance and morals.
But they say you can't cheat nature, a man will always find companionship and I am here so the OG's and help me out (or talk me out of it)
Please help
Just start dating her already, she's not a virgin and if she can be this open to you then she really really wants to date you. Sending nudes to you is a sign that if she comes around she needs something from you. If you don't give it to her, she will get it from somewhere else.
When you date her, you'll get to learn a lot over time and like you said, her type are actually few. This current GenX generation will be catastrophic. Keep her till (hopefully not) she messes up big time.
Education › Re: 130 OAU Slangs And Meanings (2026 Update) by lionphil(m): 9:21am On May 06
The courts will uphold the forged results declared by INEC because the National Assembly and the Senate passed an electoral law stating that any result written on Form EC8A must be accepted without question or disqualification.