₦airaland Forum

drstranged:
This is not a gender war.
I am specifically referring to women, and I want honest discussion.

I find this behaviour hypocritical and two-faced, and I’ll explain why.

A woman accuses her boyfriend of “disturbing her for sex,” says he’s too sexually demanding, and uses that as a major reason to end the relationship.

Fine. She has every right to leave.

But after the breakup, she goes on to date other men and ends up having the same sex she complained about — sometimes even more. Those relationships don’t work out. Then she comes back to the original man.A lady broke up with my friend because she said he was disturbing her too much for sex. After leaving him, she entered two separate relationships at different times and had sex with both men. Both relationships ended badly. She later tried to return to my friend.

The issue is not that she dated other men — that is her choice.

The issue is this: How do you accuse a man and blame him for wanting sex, end a relationship because of it, and then turn around to willingly give even more sex to other men?

To my friend, this came across as dishonest justification for the breakup, a clear case of blaming him for something that was not really the problem, and an attempt to return only after discovering the grass was not greener elsewhere. Naturally, he no longer saw her the same way. Respect was lost, and attraction died.

So my questions are straightforward: First, Isn’t it hypocritical to condemn a man for wanting sex, only to offer the same or more sex to others? Second, Why expect a man to accept you back after treating him like the problem? Don’t actions like this damage how a man values and respects you?

This is not hatred. It is a real pattern I’ve observed, and it deserves honest conversation.

I have good news for you and your friend. While others are advising you, just know that BIAFRA IS HERE. Prepare to live a better life than the zoo ever had to offer

lecowas:
You see, she has a plan from the beginning and she has only succeeded in phase 1(sx) and phase 2(stop paying rent). She has started executing phase 3(scatter u and ur fiance) strategically. But the good news is the plan reach phase 6-7.

At the phase 7, he will be evicted from his house because by then she would be married to him with a kid. She will keep custody of the house.

Biodun556:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJKlsNXOusw?si=IamJJoaFS2P2n9Km

These heeidiots really take us for fools... No dead bodies, no bandits running or shooting back. No gun fire, just a stupid helicopter with bottled of water hovering around destroyed buildings (probably belonging to natives).

You people should be able to do better Na, the operation seems to be on going but there's no exchange of gun fire, no KIA, no one has caught. This federal government of terrorists should keep deceiving themselves. Only heeeediots will believe this.

Sonnobax15:

A Nigerian banny can go to any length just to secure a man to herself from the very first moment she senses the man in question is well-to-do .

She fell in love with the innocent man from the moment she saw the photos of the young man on IG . Just take a look at how she described how the man flew down with speed just to pay her dowry and I know she wouldn't waste a second to say YES to his proposal cuz she was already in a joyous gold digging mood

Thief

Hahaha! The end is very hilarious.

promami:
Do you know how much the so called working remotely is costing the state even though it's his personal residence?
Do you know how much he spends on foods even though it's his personal residence?

Some of una no just get sense at all... The question is, is the man performing at all??

Make una go rest, Nigeria fit una. Very backward thinking people. Out of everything, this is what you lot can come up with. In less than 3 years Otti has done what others haven't done in 24 years. Make una rest.

uwa002:
Anybody that wants to date me must also be ready to take care of my 3 children”

- Single mother of three says.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UJDUiGKL7w

She will learn the hard way... This one don enter street. Eni ba Fe Femi yoo do omore Mo.

You never see something.

Na to just pretend like say you dey serious dey buy gifts for the kids. Then you go fit enter her drum wey dey under. No be even cup o.

Abbeytoy:
In the last two years, things have not been going well with my brother and his wife. My brother will call me and lament about his wife's behaviour, he told me that anytime they have a misunderstanding, this lady changes the key and locks him out in the cold. Though he's the one who pays the rent and all the bills, the lady gets child support and spends lavishly on unnecessary things while the apartment is given to his wife by the government.

But the last one she did, my brother left the house and swore never to have anything to do with her again. Even my brother did it to the extent that he requested the DNA of the son; unfortunately, he's the owner.

This lady has been begging everyone, and both her parents and some family members have travelled down to our place to plead on her behalf, but my brother insisted he's not interested in the marriage again.

He was scouting with one of our cousins before, and we thought that when he got tired, he'd move back home as usual, but this man has gotten an apartment and does not let anyone know the location.

The worst of it all is that he did not talk to his 7-year-old son and didn't take on any responsibilities for him again.

The boy keeps crying to see his dad, but my brother keeps saying her mother is only using him to get his attention, saying the boy will see him when it's the right time.

This lady called me last week and said he wanted to pack from the house and my brother should come move all his belongings, but my brother sent me back to her that she should throw everything away, he mentioned that the lady can frame him up or call the police for him and turn to legal battles.

I believe whatever happened between them, the boy did not cause it, and cutting off his only child emotionally and financially is not self-protection but abandonment.

I know marriage can end, but fatherhood should not. You can abandon marriage and still fully show up as a father. The two are not the same contract

All the family are tired, and even I, his closest brother, am tired. I only want him to be a responsible dad to his only child.

Please, what can I do? I really love my brother and want peace for him, however I pity his child.

Are you sure you're not the lady that chased him out of his own house?

Let him be... He knows what he has seen and how wicked the woman can be. When the boy grows up, he will get to see his dad, period!

tophumble:
Temu will fade out soon with all these nonsense

Unfortunately, they won't. Many Nigerians have refused to read the details of what they are buying that's why they keep falling victim to outrageous prices for miniature products.

I've bought many stuffs from Temu and I'm expecting more packages.

Read description and dimensions, then never forget to read reviews. If there are no reviews showing pictures of that product which others have bought, just leave the product.

Read reviews always irrespective of what you see. Good luck!

Akwamkpuruamu:
No be only! Na so Ramotu and Olaniyi dey deep rooted too

Olalaniyi

Rama ya rama... Rama out ahu

babydioku:
BREAKING NEWS: Sultan of Sokoto, Sa'adu Abubakar, has reportedly left his palace for an unknown location, sparking concerns and speculations. The Sultan is the spiritual leader of Nigeria's Muslim community and head of the Sokoto Caliphate, a position he has held since 2006.

The palace, a symbol of Islamic heritage and governance in northern Nigeria, is usually bustling with activities, but the sudden departure has left many wondering about the circumstances surrounding his exit.

If he has nothing to hide, why is he going into hiding? I hope it has nothing to do with the US bombings. Abi this guy hand no clean??

helinues:
Juniors don't talk where the seniors dey

Pheem

The country will soon be divided and everyone will go their separate ways. Then we all can be first class citizens anywhere we find ourselves.

budaatum:
Yes you were very wrong indeed!

If chicken feet and head was as fleshy as you claim, why did she not serve it to herself or to her husband and children?

And I bet he slapped you because you were playing voltron arguing that you were right, and therefore literally asked to be slapped in front of your maid.

But I really don't know how you intend to survive this, I dare say, because he really humiliated you, and a flip side is if your husband is making the maid his second wife, and whom he might prefer to you. I sure wouldn't be surprised if he's thinking he mismarried.

You are fortunate if you are uneducated and have no means of earning, or you'd most definitely need to consider dumping that man and going to seek a man who aligns with your ideology of feeding dog food to the maid on Christmas day! But as it is, change your ways and grovel and hope you get him to love you more.

Oh! And get rid of that maid!

You spoke very well until you mentioned sending the maid away. The maid was summoned, the maid didn't complain. The head of the house noticed an abnormally and decided to address it (though wrongly).

The maid might be related to the family of the man (assumption). The man might have come from a humble beginning and this act only reminded him of his past. He is definitely not having an affair with the maid else she would've chipped it in.

The woman is evil and doesn't believe in fair treatment.

DomPerignon:
Yeah right.

Just as Trump sent Troops to Syria to protect Christians only to end up having US troops and air force provide cover for same ISIS terrorists and just this year, Trump invited and hosted same ISIS most wanted leader to the WH.

Next year is the year of the Fire Horse.

Last time the year of the Fire Horse occurred was in 1966.

You will understand that 1966 is on repeat mode.

Northern elite are going to be targeted and eliminated by Trump's bombing but this will lead to a very violent response in the north and guess who will be their targets? Those who lobbied and cheered on the US bombings.

History repeats itself because people are stupid.

I'm sure by now you're aware that the eastern boys in the bush have the ammunition to stage a good fight. 1966 happened because everyone was against us and we had to create our own guns, bombs, combat cars that use red oil as fuel, we even created 2 replicas of a captured aircraft. That has never been done by anyone.
We did all these without raw materials or help from any foreign country. Now imagine what would happen if we were to be supported. A point will come when we stop obeying orders and keep decimating the foolaniss till they start begging us.

In less than 10 years, Oodua Republic, Biafra Republic and 1 or two more will be thriving independently.

The time to be free of the shackles is at hand. Trump will make it happen.

Racoon:
Nostalgia! I remember this ST soap vividly. It was even contesting with this long green bar soap back then. Sad the Nigerian entitlement mentality wrecked the company.

Very true but his soaps were larger in size but not as long as the bar soaps.

fregeneh:
wetin concern sultan for this matter.

Sokoto is the seat of Fulani power and that's where the sultanate lives. He never condemns their attacks but quickly condemns an attack against fulanis just like in Edo. He definitely has questions to answer but what do I know? I'm sure he is one of the untouchables.

Georgry:
You don't have sense, I'm in Auchi, the explosion was caught on video, a 75,000 litre fuel tanker exploded after spilling fuel for hours, also considering the fact that there is pipeline in those area, what else do you expect?

The tanker that spilled fuel exploded in different locations? Are you this daffft? When a tanker spills fuel, the fuel moves and doesn't jump from place to place.

When fuel spills, it most move, it creates a channel. There's no way the liquid substance that has crawled all the way to different locations will suddenly explode in those different locations without a fire joining all those locations together. Make una dey use una sense. Use your brain to analyze stuffs don't just read. You have a brain, think ffks sake. Fuel at different locations will not just explode without something triggering it. If it truly was the fuel that caught fire, then the fire would have linked every route the fuel took together. Have sense please and stop lying about your location.

olaiya2007:
See how you're disgracing yourself when you won't read to understand

You that read can't you see how illogical the write-up is? Spilled fuel explodes at different junctions. Is that how fuel operates? Instead of fuel burning everything at at its path, it just picks locations and then explodes instead of just burning.

Make una try dey get sense for this app, stop following things blindly, scrutinize all you read with a filter of truth and discernment.

Validated:
Nothing in South-South, it was petrol tanker spilt fuel into the drainage that exploded at different locations.

Have you seen a petrol tanker spill fuel before? Let me give you two instances... It happened at Otedola bridge in LAGOS. It also happened at Eleme in Rivers State. On both occasions, spilled fuel runs down and burns cars along its path. It doesn't explode at different places without having a chain trail of destruction along its path.

If you lack wisdom seek it and stop displaying ignorance.

Willy2025:
In the north, it is very difficult to distinguish between boko haram/terrorists and bandits from ordinary villagers. At times, the villagers collude, collaborate and provide information and cover to them. Don't blame the airforce when they are bombed together as they are left with no choice. At times, the terrorists do blend in and hide among the villagers, using them as cover or human shields.

So all the terrorists living in the bushes and moving around with bikes have all been killed to the extent that those left are the ones amongst villages driving public vehicles and selling fish.

Make una dey type with sense. Since Buhari and Tinubu came in to office, the only people that have been bombed with evidences are innocent civilians. They claim to bomb iswap and Boko haram but what we see are pictures of old attacks dating as far back as 10 years ago (verified by Grok)

USA is watching as they keep killing innocent civilians instead of the jihadists.

Ironfaceman:
ANALYSTS IN THE HOUSE

APC vs BANDITS

WHO DIES FIRST.

Nigerian Christians as always... Look beyond the picture.

BAILMONEY:
LEVITICUS 24:16

"Anyone who blasphemes the name of the lord is to be put to death. The entire assembly must stone them. Whether foreigner or native-born, when they blaspheme the name, they are to be put to death"

When did you become an Israelite? I thought you guys are Arabs or something like that? If you're quoting the Bible then you must quote the New testament as well.

It's better you quite your Quran because Christians don't follow this aspect of the Bible. They follow the new testament which taklkes about forgiveness.

ErebeOcoco:
It would be great if she has turn a new leaf. They make good wives.

You're truly an ococo

CyynthiaKiss:
Heated exchange between Trump’s loyalist, Elias Gerasoulis and fmr. Pres. Buhari’s aide raises debate



Nlfpmod Nlfpmod

When Nnamdi Kanu was talking about this Jibrin of Sudan masquerading as a Buhari. He said if Jibrin can speak fulfude which is Buhari's mther tongue that He (Nnamdi) will leave the struggle for BIAFRA. I'm still wondering why they didn't add this to their charges against him.

Some hediotas would be thinking the USA spokesperson is just copying Nnamdi Kanu not knowing that an imposter has been on the seat of Power in Nigeria just so that Osibanjo (the spineless) won't seat on the throne.

BAILMONEY:
Obeying the law of God is what you call evil? Wow just wow!

The word of God tells you to kill your fellow humans? Abi na the word of allah because they aren't the same.