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nihilistjnr:
Well maybe it depends on shared principles sha.

I cannot have a guy that is not like me. I can have acquaintances, but anybody who I will discuss something I don't want to share with my wife must be guyman like myself.

And I'm taking some of my boys secrets to the grave as well.

Fair enough.
I'll only say this.. You can mostly only vouch for yourself in cases like this bro

seankafor:
bro there is nothing to hide nor sugarcoat..

This Nigeria, this Africa and this climate we re now, men get away with cheating because they re largely the breadwinner and the provider and they re the one that married the woman and paid her bride price.. they built the home 🏠 and brought the woman in, they chest the bulk financial responsibility.. so the playing ground is not level when it comes to infidelity..

But any man that a woman shoulders his responsibility, the last thing that is supposed to be in the man's brain is cheating.. infact that man supposed to be called a woman..

So men cheat and get away with it because it's how it's programmed to be in this part of the climate and anyone who has a contrary view should take the next flight ✈️ to his preffered destination where he and his wife would be dragging the home 🏠..

But this doesn't mean you should cheat recklessly, at least if you love your woman, you wouldn't let her know or discover you re cheating..

Men are polygamous and promiscuous in nature and I fully support men who have sex outside marriage with sense.. so far as you re the provider.. man you gats to have the sex filled bonuses that comes with the privilege.. but like I said, thou shalt not be caught

Lmao.. And yet nobody has monopoly to cheating.
You wey dey cheat on your fellow guy babe😁.
So you sef na Bleep up nigga because you nor dey help your fellow man maintain their household😁

nihilistjnr:
It's not everything you discuss with guys that you share with your wife sha.
I agree with you that pillow talk is a thing, and there is no real way to keep secrets.
But there's definitely stuff I discuss with my guys that I can never tell my wife - and they do likewise.
As a matter of fact, for my friendship group, if we don't trust you to keep secrets, and your mouth runs anyhow, you won't be in the other group chat.
All of us may be chatting about football and BS on the main chat, but you'll only see the hangout pics on social media. If you're smart you'll get the hint that we don't really eff with you like that.

I understand this but I like saving myself the disappointment so I already accept that the wife knows especially for guys I know that their marriages are in a great place and they are like best friends.

Hmmmmmm

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Driver go tell you say him no well, and him park for Ore.

Meanwhile Baba dey inside bush dey load pako or yam to Lagos.

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God come punish you, imagine you get enough funds to get department for road observation and these guys start to feed driver information.

E Don be for you

izzou:


[color=royalblue]Na only truck driving no dey get suspension and queries

Instant termination/Sack[/color]

Sometimes arrest sef.
Lmao.
Logistics managers dey try shege.
Their voice nor fit low for this life again😂

izzou:
[color=royalblue]If you see the racket inside Diesel, ehn...

Even as Diesel is high, companies are not converting to CNG much. Because people wey they siphon from Diesel plenty.

You really have to be heartless to deal with them.[/color]

My company just came up with a new process for them to get diesel and track the consumption.
If you have two head, thief pass wetin them budget for you.
Nor just come back to yard

izzou:
[color=royalblue]When i see managers drilling drivers, i no dey get pity oh.

The owner of the truck will be thinking of loans while the driver is building a 3 bedroom house in his village.
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Lmao

MEDLOG, lafarge, Dangote, BHN.. If you see the hand they handle drivers. Initially you'll think it's wickedness.
The day driver follow me argue say e nor move truck meanwhile tracker don pullout information about the time he moved, the distance travelled, speed etc.
Na that time baba come calm down say nor be him move the truck. 😂😂

Trevor012:
Dey play.

Again.
Set your expectation to accept that spouses usually talk.
Pillow talk nor be beans.
Best to just not surprise yourself

iamoyindamola:
Not everything like the one i said here, it was a sensitive talk i saw by mistake

Bros I promise you, it's best to have it as part of your expectation that they will share with their spouse especially if the spouse is someone that is wise.
Some advice we receive from married friends na from spouse e dey come from😁

Trevor012:
I wonder why many only think the sensitive information you have on your phone is when you cheat. If you have friends who confide in you and you share messages, you are exposing them.

Lmaooo imagine confiding in a married person and thinking he/she won't tell their partner.
That's unrealistic.

GrammarNazi1:
Alright.

I have heard you.

Case settled.

Yeah e touch my guy.

Lol.

Amoto94:
We do this

But what happens when the real father comes?

Amoto94:
We do this

Izzou some traditions for igbo land dey do this thing ba?

Amoto94:
Any child born in a house belongs to the husband of the wife, there's no need for DNA.

Some traditions I believe do this.

Amigoss:
📌

This was black market.
Our naira cards were still working.
You had access to fx well this period from the bank.

Emaprince:
I went to sleep sef. What's been happening, bro?

Anyway, from.the little I've seen so far. I strongly believe that oche familly might not have anything to do with Don jazzy...which is also why he is so relaxed about Nihilist digging and posting whatever he wish..and also every one here snooping through. Plus the fluid and merchant of vocabs we have on this section doesn't type anyway like the one on facebook.

Then about the beef : Even though Nihilistjnr seems like the most brutal and below belt puncher, I think Don j is the one that really invested much time and energy on it, because how can Don J have quotes from Nihilists old accounts even before he ever thought of becoming Nihilistjnr, just so he can use them in banter? There was a time Don j posted something from maybe 2011 about Nihilistjnr old account, I made a funny comment, cos I didn't want to appear like I was taking sides. I was shocked that he had such saved even when them never start beef already.

I feel that Nihilist was just reactive in all of this...cos I'm talking based on how we got here.

I have tried to beg for peace cos both na my guys..but the damage is deep. They have settled one time, then relapsed.

Why every one will have Don j as the problem is the fact that dude is always quick to shout and insult when you disagree with his opinions.

Nihilistjnr is an alt of Donjazet.
That's the endgame.
Oya let us say grace

Theflint1:
Jossy doesn't write as fluidly as Donjazet does though.

Like.
Unless there was an upgrade. But make we dey watch

donjazzet:
3 reasons for not doing so yet.
1. I believe I still have the upper hand and don't yet see a very solid reason as of yet to deploy them.
2. I now have to be a 100 percent certain as to what I have as some are actually a bit inconsistent so I have to look at more social handles of people I close to him got. I've dedicated almost a year to this so I don't want to mess it up with wrong info and doing this would take time and small resources.
3. Actual fear of legal consequence and the way forward.

I'm trying to hope that this doesn't spiral into what will actually lead both of us to harm ourselves and people around us.
If I post pictures of his home through Google and then his son's mum and children, that is basically it.

It may be fun for you guys but I'm genuinely trying to guide this whole process. Let the banter not genuinely become something else. While I was getting all these, I was constantly being warned as to how to use these things and uncertainty of blowback.
That's truly where I am.

Yunno what.
Do a name drop. Something to show just how much you have on him

nihilistjnr:
That very one.

Oya nau

hopefulLandlord:
Lover of Vawulence

Lmao abi nau.

nihilistjnr:
Someone posted my phone number and you think if he had pictures of my family he won't post them?

Lmaooo. Destroy him 😁

nihilistjnr:
Ns why I quickly bust that birthday lie with my drivers license.

Prosper na nice guy and he's sort of friends with Donjazet so he's been trying to put soft landing for him.

The original poster sought to prove that the person that Donjaet claimed to be was Anti-Obi on Facebook.

There's a reason dem no born donjazzet well to own up or deny the picture cos he either loses standing as a righteous obidient, or endures the personal Shame of having a baboon (his words not mine) for a mother.

Lmao.. I do actually have a soft spot for the idiot.
But funny enough I do have a soft spot for you too.

Anyways make una finish una selves.
I nor do again. This time I mean it

nihilistjnr:
I literally posted my pics myself and admitted yo my WhatsApp photo.

I'm not hiding anything out of shame.

Like what's the worst he's going to do? Post s picture of me?

You sef😂

sod09:
That’s one thing about lie
Once you admit to one, nobody will give a damn about whatever you say later
If he post more of nihilist apart from the one here no one will believe

Lmao.. Well till then.
Plus let's see how he frames his post.
For example he can post nihilistjnr's family and I would hope nihilistjnr denies them.
That kills everything and we all go our way.

sod09:
Na 2 way thing
He either admit he stole another person picture which is a sick thing to do
Or
He accepts the picture is his which is also sick because he claimed his sister died from an accident with her daughter
I mean who wish his family member death, only a mad person

That's the point.
If he admits the first one then while Donjazet is sick, he still is unknown and that destroys all of this.
Now nihilistjnr on the other hand has to wonder what Donjazet has on him.
So nihilistjnr has to really ensure that his information on Donjazet is right.

donjazzet:
Do you really wish we keep going on. There is why I'm asking now.

His actions should tell you his answer

donjazzet:
You do know that igbo states do have some non-classical igbo groups rights?

Lmaoo sod09 you Don see where them dey carry you go where you nor know.

It's looking like we are looking at it.

Make una hurry up with una verification nau😩

It will be funny sha if that turns out to not be Donjazet and nihilistjnr go unearth totally innocent family.
Lmaooo.

But then again imagine nihilistjnr actually unearths Donjazet 😅

nihilistjnr:
Donjazzet didn't post a picture of himself quietly to his Nairalan profile. If that was the case, there's maybe a very tenuous argument that DPs are not necessarily to be pictures of you.

He literally announced that he had posted his picture as part of his campaign for House of Assembly on the labour party platform.

Sod09.
Nihilistjnr is on the path of nailing him.
😁😁

sod09:
Because he’s trying to make you create different scenarios in your head
Which is what you are doing

Lmao.. I don't believe anything.
It could be one of two things.
He lied alot here to confuse his opps and that fb page is who he is or even that fb page is a lie.

It's left to nihilistjnr to nail him.
I trust nihilistjnr to do that😁

nihilistjnr:
I'm also making some inquiries into a badge number with the FRSC. As soon as my stuff is ultra verified, there should be a here we go.

Just calma.

Badge number..
Incase you want to enquire about plate number, you can use their website to do that. 😁