₦airaland Forum

saddabm:
Hey guys what all the noise about Maiduguri is not wat U are imagining, now we are in peace for quite few weeks and I think non of you is residing in Maiduguri, and what kobojunkie is trying to say is they came from a trouble and they entered another trouble I think matodman understood what she is trying to say. Guys no hard feelings is just misunderstanding

you are in peace for few weeks in your own country and you are not shy to voice this out.
i pity you

i see nothing wrong in kobojunkie view. she isn't mocking them but only stating the fact that there is no difference btw living in a war country like libya and nigeria with series of bombs in all parts of their country where they definitely wont walk around with free of mind cos of BH, mend, police brutalizing, kidnapping, armed robbery e.t.c.

nothing ever surprises me about Nigeria govt and her representatives both home and abroad.

in a lawless society there is no crime.
even if any of Nigeria dailies writes about this brouhaha, nothing will be done to checkmate it.

Nna men
see guyz dey provoke here oooo

swedish----  SUWE
Filipino  ------   FILI
gambian ---- GAMBO
spanish ----- PAYAN
russians --- RUSHI
polish ------- POLI

cold:
@Op,didn't have the patience to read thru the entire thread.But what i'd advise you to do is get her pregnant,as soon as she is delivered of the baby.Apply for ILR under the EU Bill of Human Rights,Article 8.Which deals with family & sundry matters.Get an attorney to pursue your case.Then & only then do you have a strong case to legalise your stay.My 2 cents

chei naija,  See wer u go comot from
Dis your 2 cent bad gan ooo

justwise:
Do you know how long it will take him to get out of the immigration mess if he goes ahead with your advice?

Why do we always encourage people to abuse the system?

though im not encouraging the poster to do illegal things but desperate situation calls for desperate actions.
Its obvious the poster dont wanna go home so he will have to do everything possible to beat the system and when he gets cought then he is a criminal.
most of us left naija for better life
I thought about it and I realized that no matter what we say here, as long as he still wanna be with the girl then he is going to do a crazy thing to be legal in europe

unipol:
you applied for visitors visa? if i am right. you have to wait till 5 moths, or you may track check it o their website.

na heaven he dey go?

Another lost sheep coming home and later promising never to visit naija again in her life

Another bad egg we are talkin about
chei naija

wanaj0:
There was the story of a Nigerian living on welfare who now organised a party and invited the officials giving her the welfare cheques. They came and saw how she was serving expensive drinks for the party and they left wondering how she qualified for welfare

yea a similar story happened when i was in cyprus. a Nigerian guy (aduro ) went to meet his social worker in her office and this social worker was forced to ask this guy that I DO BELIEVE THIS IS NOT UR PHONE COS EVEN ME CANT AFFORD IT when she realized this guy was using a blackberry phone then in 2008.

dalebutt1:
@ llbhuds, the resentment towards Nigerians is growing by the hour, especially in Ireland they seems to have a national hatred towards us, who can blame them ?

bro i have come to a conclusion that Nigerians comes in different shapes, size, forms and colors and thats why i never try to tame any nigerian i meet in europe about his/her negative ways of living. we nigerians are desperate

Just got the iphone 4s for like a month now nd I just cant stop loving it more and more

dalebutt1:
Trust me this is gona be a new arguements for Nigerians abroad to falsely claim asylum, making false application for asylum, wastes the country's tax payers money if at the end the applicant ended up not getting their claims approved. This continued attitude angrys the citizens of these countries and further contribute to their hatred towards black ( Nigerians) in particular. Our image has been seriously marred. I cant wait for Nigeria to get better so we can rebrand this once great nation

its cool to have a dream but even those that lives in nigeria hardly sleep, so how is this dream gonna be achieved?

The agent is just tryin to get more cash from u bro and I give u the permission to slap him whenever you see him
like justwise rightgly said, you will see all d charges on the web page b4 making any payment so no worries about that.

xxcarolxx:
Believe me i don't have anything against nigerians,

Who cares ?

Na today?

justwise:
One thing the poster did not tell us is why did the man went back to Pakistan? Could it be that immigration busted the sham marriage and he ran away? Could it be that he is married now in Pakistan even without ending the marriage with the Latvian woman ?

abi ooo
paki will never go back home voluntarily this is what I know, so its obvious that the first marriage was bursted.

kennybuda:
The problem is from the girl, asuming she get her marriage redisterd in her home country it could have been easy for her to devorce her pakistan husband in her home country. At poster if your future wife can get her mariage redisterd in latvia it could be easy for her to get her devorce in her home country cheers

Yes thats true cos this happened btw a cameroonian guy and a polish lady then when I was in cyprus, hnmmm wasnt a 9ice experience

Lol

GuluvaGG:
LOL. I suppose if he was legit he would make an effort to prove you wrong.

the fact that i didn't respond is not that i conceded to what he said but because i have come to realize that our thinking is affected by the things happening around us daily.
Vicjustice lives in Ireland and Ireland is full of Nigerians who solely depends on social benefits and finds it difficult to take up a job and not to talk about working hard.

Vicjustice:
What manner of "luck, skills, intelligence, hardwork and proper management of money" that would enable a person (who does not have a residence permit) to make it rich (legitimately) within 3 months of inappropriate residency in a country like South Africa?
   But why is it so difficult for you guys to be honest and call a spade a spade?
   A Nigerian man would rob companies, cheat others, smuggle drugs, traffic humans, scam people, and yet give God the glory with no conscience, and others like you will approve the crimes and excuse the actions . . ., it's such a shame!

Lol

Vicjustice:
It is impossible for anyone to "make so much money legitimately within 'three' months of (illegal) stay" in any country in the whole world.

I disagree with this
How long u'v been living in a country does not determine if u are gonna be successful bro but I think its narrowed to luck,skills,intelligence,hardwork and proper management of money. And u dont have to do runs to make it big walahi talahi

the last time i sent something home, it got there in 12 days but it was to a pmb sha and it wasnt even registered self

dalebutt1:
@ OP, its possible, you can re-marry illegally. like the uk you its fairly easy to get the marriage done in the UK , say for example you want to marry in the UK in the church of england you do not need a certificate of no impediment or anything, the church just need to print notice i think for 28 days and see if anyone would come up with a reason why you should not be joined with your spouse.

But its a criminal offence so why try it? its bigamy on her part and you could go down aswel conspiring to bigamy. do not get involve until you are sure the previous marriage is legally dissolved, conspiring to comit a crime attracts greater penalty than the actual crime dude. From your post it seems your lady is not in contact with her ex, in Ireland the law require both party to have lived apart for four out of the last 5 years, if you can prove that then that's the 1st step ahead,

Secondly she has to serve a divorce paper on her ex and if he fails to respond to the notice it doesnt stop the divorce from proceeding in court.

COPIED: Regardless of their reponse the divorce can proceed through the stages to the final Court Hearing stage at which point the decision to grant or deny the divorce will be made by a family law judge.
If the respodent ignores the papers you will need to serve a 14 Day Warning Notice, Affidavit of Service of such notice and in some cases a Grounding Affidavit. If the repondent objects to the divorce on particular grounds, they then will be required to return the documentation within a particular time frame declaring the grounds under which they are contesting.

Not all foreign divorces are recognised under Irish law. A foreign divorce will only be recognised in Ireland if at least one spouse was domiciled in the state that granted the divorce when the proceedings started. You may have to provide good evidence that this was the case and, therefore, that the divorce is valid under Irish law.

Where the divorce comes within EU regulations, it is sufficient to confirm that both parties to the divorce were notified of the proceedings and had an opportunity to give evidence to the court which granted the divorce.

Me: In cases like this, it is best to always seek a legal advise at all times, you cannot rely on our opinions on a public forum. google and see if there are cheap or rather free consultation lawyers and you can discuss your case with an experienced family law specialist. if anything becareful with your final decision dont rush and dont be too sluggish with it. Goodluck to you.

well said bro

Davedavy:
@ Poster
it is impossible,you cant marry anybody that is already legally married within the EU.

marriage requirements in Spain for foreigners:

Civil Marriages

Applications and/or Documents Required: Bring along original copies of the following:

Application Form: This form can be obtained from the Civil Registry or District Court. It should be signed by both bride and groom and include their full names, occupations, places of residence, and the citizenship of the couple and their parents.

Birth Certificate: The original document is mandatory. If you were not born in Spain, you should submit the document with an "apostille," an official international seal verifying a document for use outside its country of origin. (If you live outside of Spain, you should also have a Spanish translation of the certificate made and authenticated by the Spanish Consulate or Embassy nearest your place of residence. If you are in Spain, the certificate must be translated into Spanish by an official translator.)

Proof Both Parties Are Free to Marry: (Fe de Solteria y Vida) Civil Registries have a document for this purpose that can be signed when presenting the rest of the documents.

If previously married, you must submit proof that the marriage has ended. Certified documents which originated outside Spain must be accompanied by an apostille and Spanish translations.

Certificate of Residence: Legal residents of Spain can obtain a certificate of residence at no charge from the Tenencia de Alcaldía in their district of residence. (First confirm that you are registered with the Censo). Foreigners who are temporary residents of Spain or have lived here less than two years may complete an affidavit regarding their place of residence before a consular officer.

Posting of Banns: After the judge has accepted all the documentation required, banns are posted for a period of fifteen days prior to the marriage ceremony. Banns are a public announcement that a couple plans to marry, giving any knowledgeable citizen (such as another wife) an opportunity to object.

After you have assembled these documents and the ceremony is performed, the marriage is then recorded in the Civil Registry and a Spanish marriage certificate is issued.

Religious Marriages

Couples will need to first obtain authorization from the Civil Authorities by presenting the documents listed under "Civil Marriages".

Spanish law recognizes Catholic, Protestant, Islamic and Jewish marriages as valid in Spain without the need of a second civil marriage. Regulations may vary depending on the religious denomination.
For Catholic marriages, the arrangements generally take from one to three weeks. The following documents must be presented to the priest performing the ceremony:

Birth certificate: Spanish translation is required.

Baptismal certificate: This must be issued within the six month period prior to your wedding, and authenticated by the issuing Bishop. A Spanish translation must be attached.
Proof Both Parties Are Free to Marry (Fe de Solteria y Vida).

After a religious ceremony, you have one week to present the church-issued certificate to the nearest civil registry. The marriage is NOT recognized in Spain if you fail to register.


The requirements in most of the Eu countries are the same,to get married in most of the EU countries,you need a certificate of no impediment.

as for you, i met a nigerian guy then in 2008 when i was in cyprus and the guy plays football in portugal now,this guy met a slovakian lady in spain and they wanted to get married but she had once had a conti marriage with a morrocan, they both left spain to lisbon and they got married there and thats where they live now and the lady is not divorced uptill now and the guy didnt worried registering their marriage in spain nor in slovakia cos the lady registered her first marriage in these countries.
ideas begins from impossibilities and im not forcing anyone to believe me

@poster, i said it in my first post here that go get another lady, its possible to marry her but when yawa gassss, nna na point zero to you oo

Vicjustice:
   Man, please, please! You are not making any sense here, Are you talking about Europe and yet coming with these ridiculous ideas?
   When an EU citizen is getting married in any European country, the person is made to declare (by official documents in most countries) that s/he does not have any impediments that would make it illegal to marry; and if however the person managed to get away with it by making false declarations, the chance that s/he will be caught in the future is 99.9%, and you know what that means: the marriage is doomed.
   It is a different thing if a person is married before in Nigeria (like many Nigerians are), and then remarries as though s/he is single: this is because, Nigeria does not have such authentic database, thus making it easy for anyone to fake any thing with any desired status. But in Europe, it is different, absolutely and strictly different.
   And, regarding your point that thousands of people have same names around the world, now, do these people also have same Date Of Birth and Personal/National Security Numbers? Absolutely NO. If you live in Europe, you would know that European authorities do not really identify people by their given names, they identify individuals by their Date Of Births and ultimately by their Personal Identification Numbers/Codes.
   You also suggested that he moves to Spain and get legally married there, how can he do that, by hiding on the back of a Lorry, and besides, is Spain not in the EU?
   Please, don't be too funny.

if you read my first comment on this topic, i said it at the end of my opinion that the poster should look for a new girl cos the end case might not be good. also, you at talkin about europe as if its a perfect world where imperfection cant be achieved. take for instance the uk permamnent residence saga that happened in november, will anybody ever imagine that this could even happen in a country like UK?
read my first comment on this topic and you will understand that i said its possible but the donts are more than the dos.'
I AM SAYING IT NOW AND I WILL SAY IT AGAIN, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DATA BASE ABOUT MARRIAGES IN THE EU, NOTHING LIKE THIS AT ALL because i have over 5 guys that got married to ladies whose either her divorce paper is not ready or the man she got married to absconded like the case of the poster and they are still living here in europe without been dictected.

dont make europe look too perfect i beg cos na here we all dey jaree

daniela86:
So, you mean since she don marry in Ireland with paki man in 2006, we can move to UK and got married there. And u think it will not show for UK that she don marry another person before??

When u get married u are given a certificate and u later go nd register dis marriage in d imiga of that country. Ur finger print is not taken cos no b aduro u dey chop nd der are thousands of peeps who answer dsame name like u in this world,provided d country u get married wont contact ur parrtner's country to confirm if she is single or not (germany nd denmark does this) then no country is gonna be aware.
its hard to blive but im tellin u from what I know and had seen more than 5 different peeps doing it:
For the fact that no one know who writes what is not an avenue for us to say rubbish here.
im damn serious guys.
@poster u can go to spain nd get married to her. (expo)

europe76:
@ Vckjustice, maybe he is refering to Mali and Bangladesh

for the fact that u dont know what im sayin is not a yardstick to be making fun of my opinion cos im 100% sure of what im sayin only that peeps who are involve in stuffs like this wont voice out cos of fear of the unknown

Guys I was also having this kinda thinkin about data base in eu and stuff until I got to know thats some things are possible I swear.
like I said, only if he takes the lady out of ireland and provided she didnt register d marriage in ireland or latvia cos I know d lady might have registered d previous marriage in these countries I still mentain my statement.

IF I DONT KNOW I WOUNT SAY IT because
THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY OF DOING A WRONG THING

Its possible to get married to her provided you take her out of ireland and take her to another eu country . I am saying this cos I know a friend that did this with a british lady. But if you remain in ireland, gettin married to her might land u guys in wahala cos I believe her 1st marriage would had been registered in ireland. Also, if she had registerd her 1st married in her country,it will be impossible for her to get her single certificate in her country, so if eventually u get married with her,u cant go nd register ur marriage in latvia.
look for a new girl cos she will later land u in big wahala, Bliv me.