₦airaland Forum

okochaik:
That is by the way

In the other news there will not be any election in Anambra in November. This will seal our struggle and our dreams will come true even before we wake up. On that day I urge every Anambrarians whether you believe or not to join to stay at home. Just stay at home on that day. Wonders will happen

gokuu:
Guy, you are a really bitter fellow.
Some Nigerians with backward mentality want to enforce their warped values on everyone else. Mikel has chosen who he wants to spend his life with, it is not for others to criticize and make baseless predictions.



FYI - If a man slaps his wife in Europe, it is treated as assault and when a woman slaps her husband, it is also treated as assault.
Anyone that is slapped can sue for assault. What you see as favoritism against men is actually fair treatment.

Try to mind your business and keep your primitive mindset to your self.

bigtt76:
....And why would he want to misbehave? If he's got true love for Olga and she reciprocates? Why are we like this for God's sake! It is his choice on who to spend his life with and not for you and me to decide or criticize

Tyche:
Ray!!! Christopher!!! Is that you?

GossipHeart:

Jay Z is the best to ever do it

His unreasonable doubt album he released 20 years ago still go hard

He's the smartest person alive, he's the first Rapper to have $1 billion to his name ($800 million net worth + a new $200 touring deal with Live Nation)

This current album is the best album

You will hear maturity in his voice

You're on Instagram holding money to your ear, there's a disconnect, we don't call that money over here

"Do you know what is greater than throwing money in the strip club " ?? Buying investments

I could’ve bought a place in Dumbo before it was Dumbo, for, like $2 million, that same building today is worth $25 million.” You know how i feel

Dumbo is a neighborhood in Brooklyn, he turned down an option to buy a house there for $25 million, today that same property is worth $25 million

This is for Huspuppi and people like him who keeps buying Gucci shoes and Ferragamo belts instead of investing in properties

NwaAmaikpe:


Nnamdi KANU should stop all these theatrics.
You are the leader of a movement and not a celebrity.


Nelson Mandela didn't do this,
Che Guevara didn't do this,
Patrice Lumumba didn't do this,
Kwame Nkrumah didn't do this,
Malcolm X didn't do this,
Dai Lama didn't do this,


This war against injustice can not be won through Nollywood antics,
It can not be won through unarmed gullible followers.
It can only be won by making the goal common and the means to attaining it readily handy.

This war against segregation, tribalism, nepotism, neglect and marginalization shall be won through intelligent covert strategies.

Cultists and The Niger Delta militants are tricked to surrender their arms and embrace amnesty when the Fulani militia are not disarmed.
Thereby weakening the arsenal of the South in the event of an uprising..

We need to think.
We've been deceived for so long.

Enough of this,
Nnamdi Kanu....
Enough,

OliviaYolanda:
This guy na fake celeb nemesis

goldedprince:
can we just make a rule that anything that contains that bastard name, we dont comment?
that way we put him where he belongs

megareal:
Your calculation is way off. As someone already said, pregnancy is calculated from the first day of the last menstrual period which gives it an extra two weeks really. Scan may not be too accurate. That's why it's good for husbands to be acquainted with some aspects of a woman's pregnancy.

Truly, your wife said the exact same thing I would say to my husband if he doubted my fidelity. It's a promise she will keep to make your life miserable when the test comes out positive. Trust is already broken ,so go ahead by carrying out a DNA test after the baby is born. For your sanity and the baby's sake, just do it.

myking95:
Unfortunately it doesn't work that way....its mostly the innocent guys that get burnt...its like the more u are good to them, the more u get burnt....I got cheated on, infected with and STD and found my picture inside a jazz pot for a woman I loved with my whole heart and was faithful to for 4 years!...was a teenager to my early twenties...didn't even kiss another girl ... Na God save me...im trying so hard not to give in to hate, so I won't slow down my progress...but I'm telling u at this point, a lady can be dying next to me...and I don't even move just because she is a woman... I just get laid and go, don't feel nothing....if they bleep up, I'm not the type to hit, but I can be very devious....and I believe from my soul that nothing good can come out of loving or keeping these people close...just tidy and go..(but then again most of them are possessed, I tire o).
I'm just worried cuz I'm a christian and I'll have to get married someday....I just feel I should just get a surrogate mother and keep on with my life...should do so in 4 years time..I know my family will kick against it..but what the hell.
most of them are just bad luck manifested in the flesh.....
But I'm still a nice guy tho

Dreamwaker:
The colour combination is too much and too loud.

PaperLace:
This is what happens when you try to do the job of a therapist.

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre for dysfunctional people _ don't go marrying people with the plans of changing them in marriage.

I pity the innocent kids you brought into all this, such emotional trauma from a mother that should be loving. I won't say you should divorce her, but I am very concerned about the well being of your kids. The way she lashes out at them with insults isn't good for their psyche. I am sure you know that. You owed them the duty of getting he best mum, something you've failed on. You might wanna consider removing them from that environment for the time being _till you fix the mess you created.

Encourage her to go for counselling, something you should have advised her to do 11yrs ago, instead you put a ring on it.
That woman needs to heal.

lisbonabdulahi:
Hello Nairalanders, please I need you advice before I finally end this marriage.
I know I was at fault at the beginning for not stamping my authority , I showed her so much love, because she is a product of a broken home, I wanted her to know there is much more to life, now she has turned my love to foolishness, I do not want my kids to grow up without a father. That is why I have been very patient, but now … please read on.

I have been married for 11 years, with 4 kids. The truth is that we have never had really peace in the home for these years, everything is trouble, from the way I talk, eat, dress, use the toilet and sleep, just name them. The situation has been bad from the beginning, but the last three years has been hell for me and the kids, my wife shouts and complain over everything, she cannot go one full day with Joy, there is always one thing that annoys her, she has to be right on all issues, The very sad part is that whenever she does anything wrong and I ask her, there will be trouble, she will refuse to speak with me for as long as she like. We can go for weeks without really speaking with each other she enjoys it, she does not just bother at all. Each time these things happen, I am always the one that try to initiate peace.

I will like to give only one example to summarise everything going on in my home: two years ago, she will just leave the home without telling me, I called her and told her it is not right, she replied me promptly that it is her life, I can’t control her, and it is my life as well, I should do whatever I like with it. well I thought it was anger, however, I never mind, anytime I want to leave, I make sure I tell her till one day she called me and tell me that even if I keep informing her about my movements, that she is not going to change, she is not under any obligation to tell me where she is going to. My people, for two years counting now, that is how we have been doing it, we just leave without telling each other. BUT OCCASSIONALLY FOR SOME REASONS I DON’T KNOW, SHE WILL JUST TELL ME SHE IS GOING OUT TO XYZ.

She always insults me and even the kids, for any mistake they make and she never fails to tell them that they did not inherit their bad character from her, that they inherited their character from me, she says this consistently even when I am there. There is no insult she has not poured on me, I have had to explain to her mother severally but the woman is simply helpless, her mother is dead scared of her. She exhibited some of these characters during our two years of courtship, but her mother and some brethren advised that she will change after marriage. She is always complaining of being tired, meanwhile, I do the dishes, do the vacuuming (sweeping), cleaning and other domestic duties, even when she cooks, I have to cut the ingredients and all that, in short she rarely cooks. We sleep in different rooms for 4 years counting now, occasionally I try to go to her room to initiate sex, but 99% of cases she chase me away, sometime she locks her door. She stopped me from sleeping in same room with her, when I asked why, shy did not say anything but after 4 months she said it was because I was snoring at night. Trust me anytime I am opportune to make love to her I make sure she climaxes…

It is so bad that even her sisters sometimes rebuke her in my presence, presently, she is not in talking terms with any of her siblings, and this has been on for the past three years. I am stuck with this lady, her mother cannot talk to her, no family member she respects. She is a loner.
To the extent that she makes friends and they always break up, she has no real close friends, even if they are close, trust me, before 6 months the relationship has gone sour.

austinosita:
Do not generalize bros.

I am a man, and I am not wicked! I can never and will never throw my wife out or abandon her cos she couldn't conceive.

pazienza:
Mumu.

Yoruba and Arewa youths and adults said that Igbos were the problem of Nigeria in 1967.
You nearly eliminated Igbos just to inherit the country.

In 1970, you inherited a country where Igbos had no say whatsoever, but through incompetence, you ran the country down into failed state status, and you now want to blame Ndiigbo for your incompetence?

Pidgin2:
This your anger ehn, pray you don't ruin your marriage with it o. These days once a woman has kids and you start displaying all this anger I sorry for you.

That said, it's true what the lady said, mama must be doing wicked things to that woman, I'm sure she didn't even mean to do this but just like you with hot temper, she lost it

madapcmod:
That was before quota system became the norm. North has killed Nigeria. Lets keep voting them till they bury Nigeria.

Restructure they say NO, Lets do away with Quota system and allow the best brains run the system, FOR WHERE? I wish i was never born in this CAGE called Nigeria.

Papiikush:
Your mama no get her own house?

Rukkydelta:
Only a woman that can bear her mother will raise hand against her MIL. No matter what the MIL did it isn't justifiable for a DIL to hit her
Op what's your brother doing about this issue?

9jakohai:
Don't do it.

On another note...I am unmarried, and my parents are telling me '9jakohai our son, bring wife for us now'....and I tell them 'God go provide'

Then I see stories like this...and I knows I have to be very careful in choosing wife.....

My mom tried to have a good relationship with the inlaws. It wasn't always easy to begin with...but as time went on, things improved. And no fighting at all.

Modsenemy:
Although it is very wrong for sm1 to lay hands on a mother

But we need to know ::

What did your mum do?
What type of person is she?

JakeII:
Lol.....E pain you? Typical Oyemekun guy, always aggressive. Abeg, this no reach to start fight

JakeII:
Proudly ACA, Integritas! St. Thomas Aquinas College, my great Alma Mater

But OP, are you sure about Oyemekun Grammar school? I think the founding year was 1960.

Naijaguy12345:
The Twitter guy was right, Dbanj is trashy of recent music wise. At times his rap / hiphop sounds like juju music. I honestly can't pay my hard earned money to watch him perform, he's got to step up his game if he doesn't want to end up like Eedris, Tetuila, styl plus, olu maintain, tony Montana , rugged man , Jjc & 419 squard, sound sultan etc

KVN1:
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I guess you've also seen Igbos in the 'over developed Northeastern part of the country'