₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Do not lie to the @OP. There is nothing like Jazz in any of this. Jazz has nothing to do with his father's behavior and that woman being in the house with them.

2. These behaviors are observed in men in advanced countries where jazz is nonexistent. Human behavior has nothing to do with jazz as you will find it anywhere you have humans.

Kobo, please sit this out please? Thank you.

natedensel:
My mum died not long ago, and my dad has a hand in her demise because her marriage was a turbulent one and she died of HBP, now shortly after she died, my dad came along with one woman who is very bold and shameless, first off she already has children from another fling not marriage, and now she comes and sleeps over, infact she's not discreet about it she's bold, brazen and doesn't feel ashamed of what she's doing.

Recently she has gotten more relaxed , she used to mind her business, she comes and do her thing and leaves, now she overstays, and she's now meddling in our family affairs, trying to mom me and my siblings now, then turning our dad away from us, now my dad sponsors her and her child from another relationship but neglects us like he did our mom.

I could easily make life miserable for her but I am not interested because I'm moving out as soon as possible, but what about my siblings, she has taken over everything and now she's my father's voice.

In matters like this, you have to man up. Forget about the woman, concentrate on your dad. He may have been jazzed or he may be under a spell, or just under the influence of great sex. But that statement that he's treating you like he treated your mother raises some suspicion.

If they can try to lock a 20 year old with jazz, they can definitely do the same to an older man with cash.

Don't get confrontational with your dad, but investigate the matter. This is Africa!

This is a good Initiative but more can be done about increasing the number of centres. Ideally the minimum should be one institution per state.

Procashtips:
Do you know his new ID?

No, I don't know his new ID. I wonder if he's still on Nairaland.

Terrorists not bandits please. We should stop minimizing the dastardly acts of these killers.

From my perspective, while Akintola was the unifier, where has our unity with the North led us to? Isn't it the same one step forward two steps backward that we have been suffering since independence that we are still suffering now?

Think critically about it dear Yoruba people. The Yoruba Ronu that Herbert Ogunde clamored for years ago was for us to assess our stance in Nigeria.

In 2025, our Northern villages in Kwara are being decimated by Fulani militia. Alhaji Galadima publicly said that they purposely brought Buhari so that Yorubas won't reclaim Ilorin, and now look at the carnage being unleashed by the Fulani militia.

And I ask again, was Awolowo wrong for not wanting to align with the North? The Igbos who aren't aligned with power, they are prospering because they don't bother with politics and they focus on business.

Again I ask as a Yoruba man, a man of free birth, a man that is not a slave to the crooks called politicians, like Ken Saro Wiwa said at the point of his death "On trial also is the Nigerian nation, its present rulers and all those who assist them. Any nation which can do to the weak and disadvantaged what the Nigerian nation has done to the Ogoni, loses a claim to independence and to freedom from outside
influence."

Again I ask, what is the benefit of a nation that cannot protect the vulnerable?