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Business / Re: Anonymous Warned Herbert Wigwe by LofP(m): 2:09pm On Feb 12
Very big rubbish. Aig can NEVER be behind this. How can you plot the death of your subordinate especially when he is a few weeks from his retirement as CEO?

Anonymous capping!

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Properties / Re: 1bedroom Sub-let Mabushi(Closed) by LofP(m): 9:14am On Jan 22
Offer ends by January 31st.
Properties / Re: 1bedroom Sub-let Mabushi(Closed) by LofP(m): 9:22am On Jan 08
It's still available.
Properties / 1bedroom Sub-let Mabushi(Closed) by LofP(m): 1:22pm On Jan 06
No longer available
Properties / Re: 2 Bedroom Apartment At Jahi, Abuja For Rent by LofP(m): 2:20pm On Jan 05
Flat-sharing opportunity in Mabushi.

1-room sub let from a 2-bedroom flat, N1.2 million annually.

Serene environment, gated estate and centre of town.
Business / Re: Bank Recapitalisation: Presidency Backs CBN, Investors Rush For Mega-Banks Stock by LofP(m): 10:01am On Nov 29, 2023
Before buying stocks, do some research.

Secondly, do not buy banking stocks as long-term investments if you are not aiming to own a significant percentage of the company.

Third point, get a legally licensed stock broker who can help you deal in shares when you make the decision to start investing in the Stock Market.

Fourth point, like the second point states, your job is to buy low and sell high.

There will always be losers and winners.

Knowing what to do and what is really happening helps you to position yourself.

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Music Business / Re: 1 Year Used Acoustic Guitar For Sale. 7.5k by LofP(m): 10:50am On Nov 28, 2023
Hi, is it still available?
Politics / Re: Naira: Tinubu Will Shock Currency Speculators – Tope Fasua by LofP(m): 6:36pm On Nov 07, 2023
grin grin grin I laugh in N1030 to a dollar on the parallel market.


Government that cannot secure the country, and improve productivity, are they qualified to be termed as a government?

Eliminate banditry and highway kidnapping so that business activities can thrive without fear on the Nigerian roads. Rather we have a barbarian government consolidating the mishap that befell Nigeria between 2015-2023.

Suffice to say, this mess will get messier.

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Travel / Re: My Japa Plan Has Been Destroyed by LofP(m): 7:54pm On Oct 26, 2023
Flights from Ghana are cheaper. If you really want to leave nothing will stop you.

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Romance / Re: I Need Good Man In Bed by LofP(m): 2:21pm On Oct 02, 2023
grin grin grin This version of content creation is a long game. grin grin grin
Travel / Re: Which Country Can I Migrate To With ₦2M? by LofP(m): 3:05pm On Sep 28, 2023
Cameroon!
Romance / Re: Deleted. by LofP(m): 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2023
eepeepook:
Am I being set up? This is a first instance. I’m used to other males passing their female friends or exes my way. This is the first time a female friend has done so.
Not strange, some girls consider themselves as matchmakers. Some even give their sisters not just friends.

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Politics / Re: Emefiele Tried To Sabotage 2023 Election With Naira Redesign Policy – Akpabio by LofP(m): 7:18am On Sep 27, 2023
This was the biggest mistake Emefiele made. Of course there was a section of the APC who kept flirting with GEJ as an alternative to Tinubu but they couldn't advance their scheme because of the mutual secret within APC.

So, the Naira Policy knocked all Emefiele's average management of the naira exchange regime into the gutters when he tried to implement the new note policy. People died because of lack of cash. Nigerians bought money because of this policy, and at the end of the day we still ended up with the most blatant rigging episode since the return of the 4th republic.

Personally, if I was in his shoes, I would have left Nigeria proceeding on terminal leave ahead of schedule in April 2023. Because his arrest was only a matter of time.

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Politics / Re: We Can Power 774 LGAs In Nigeria Within 24 Months – Prof. Emenike Ejiogu by LofP(m): 6:12pm On Sep 23, 2023
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Do you see why Nigeria is in a deep mess?

Look at all the naysayers saying power UNN first, power one LG first.... grin grin grin grin grin grin

How did China and Japan develop?

We are our own problem, and unless someone can forcefully unite everyone in this country, we will continue to be a laughing stock.

Why?

Because research is the foundation for development. That is why we need funding for education.

Research is meant to be implemented. Pilot projects ought to be commissioned, feasibility studies conducted and project commissioning on a sustainable scale, until all LGs are covered, but no, all you dimwits can utter is negative jeers.

Nigeria will never work with this attitude. When Education does not benefit society, the result is what we have now: a failed state.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi, Others Lose Abuja Lands, As Wike Revokes 167 Plots by LofP(m): 8:08am On Sep 22, 2023
Pakute:
After Supreme court judgement, Obi yansh go open, una go collect receipt tire. This is just the begining. Atiku and Obi messed with the wrong guy. Shebi Atiku fit go US court to ask for certificate, that same US, he go finally enter there to answer his case he been run away from since 2008 when Jagaban go remove hin cover give FBI.. Dem dey strike like Giroud but when Jagaban go strike, e go be like Ronaldo Delima.

grin grin grin How much you want bet am say na your yansh go open no be Atiku own?

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Romance / Re: Can One Tame A Lady Into Hook-up To Become A Wife Material? by LofP(m): 12:13pm On Sep 05, 2023
No.

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Family / Re: My Woman Wants A Blood Covenant by LofP(m): 12:09pm On Sep 05, 2023
grin grin grin Don't do it. It is not worth it.

Don't allow a woman to suggest something as stupid as this with possible negative implications. What do you stand to gain? Do you know the future? Why will you choose to put yourself in harm's way?

Don't be stupid.
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by LofP(m): 2:50pm On Aug 24, 2023
Like the advice above this post, you have to put yourself first. I don't want to mention tribal things but with what you have seen, leave before your life is endangered.
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by LofP(m): 10:22am On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
Marry a new wife. I don't know how you married this one despite all the red flags because this woman might be the weapon fashioned against you.

How can a person advising other people refuse to practise the same, Isn't that the definition of a hypocrite? What about her father? I only read the mention of her mother etc...

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Family / Re: When Your Wife Loves Sex And Always Craves For More by LofP(m): 4:54pm On Aug 21, 2023
Sukkyy2010:

I don't know the phenomenon you compiled this your hypothesis or theory from wherever you the source it's not valid and the basic fact is any above 40yrs woman V would have lose its tightness.

I hope you know this is false. People who have given birth to children still have good organs. Not everyone becomes slack, skin type and nurture contributes to the experience.

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Family / Re: When Your Wife Loves Sex And Always Craves For More by LofP(m): 9:50am On Aug 21, 2023
Tell her to ride you at all times. As long as she can sustain your erection and you are not tired, let her do the riding.

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Agriculture / Re: My Little Backyard Farm by LofP(m): 9:52pm On Aug 19, 2023
This backyard is actually not little. grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Sex Partner In Abuja by LofP(m): 12:54pm On Aug 09, 2023
grin grin grin

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Romance / Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by LofP(m): 12:52pm On Aug 09, 2023
You guys were not fair to him. YOUR father had plenty people coming to the wedding.

YOUR father demanded he must pay everything once.

Your father said they would provide this and that.... So he married your family and not you isn't it?

The problem is not the finances, it is the lack of understanding. No pity for the new marriage rather a very big focus on the wedding.

Do you know how stressful it is to be into or sell insurance in Nigeria?

You just made the guy realise he has added suffering to his life. "igbeya-wo" grin grin grin

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