unapapadeycraze:
click like if you know this op can't be a virgin. na only sex related stuff she sabi post.

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hylyne:


People can still learn from constructive criticism.

intelligent

feodan:
Owk, Thanks 4 D Insight

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moral24:
clapping....

keeping record

2kaybiel:
Na true?

you are welcome

When you know, you know, right? Well, maybe. While gut instincts are all well and good (and often scarily accurate), here are 25 other things to make sure you cover before either of you gets down on one knee. Because who wants to take chances with the rest of her life?

1. The difference between like, lust, and love. Only one is worthy of an engagement.

2. Each other’s career goals. What do you each want to accomplish in life — and how will it affect your relationship with each other? Knowing what you each want to achieve and supporting those dreams is a critical foundation for any couple.

3. How you each feel about faith. Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim, Mormon, Scientologist, Wiccan, agnostic, atheist — it’s not the belief system that matters but what it means to your life as a couple (and your future life as a family).

4. Each other’s spending habits. And debt situations. And savings plans. Get it all out on the table early. “Money secrets have no place in a marriage,” Kelley Long, a CPA and financial planner, writes in the Wall Street Journal. And even if you have different spending and saving styles, it doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed. “It is simply an acknowledgement of a fundamental difference in money attitudes,” Long says.

5. Whether you want children — and when. It is important to be on the same page regarding your general timeline for starting a family, if you want to start a family at all. But you don’t need to agree on how many kids just yet. “Once a couple has their first kid, they will have a better idea of how many children they really want,” Jaclyn Bronstein, a mental health counselor in New York, told The Knot.

6. … And if you do both want kids, how you plan on parenting them. At least, in theory.

7. Each other’s parents/siblings/immediate family. These might be your in-laws. Know what you are getting into.

8. Your significant other’s relationships with said family. Love, hate, love-hate — it’s important to understand the dynamics at play.

9. The past. Like it or not, it helped shape who you both are at this very moment. You don’t need to provide every exhaustive detail, but you should have a general roadmap for how you each got to the present.

10. Any previous spouses and/or children. This should come up in No. 9, but I’m not taking any chances. Nobody likes a surprise ex.

11. How you each respond to stress. One of my main theories (among others) for why the majority of Bachelor/Bachelorette engagements fail is because they do not face real-world, anxiety-inducing, pressure cooker situations. Stress can be the ultimate saboteur in a relationship, and studies show that even happy marriages can end up in divorce thanks to “stressful life events, low commitment and negative communication.” But if you know how you each handle life’s obstacles, big and small, you can tackle them successfully together. “If you perceive your partner is there for you and supportive of you, it buffers and reduces the impact of chronic stress,” psychologist Gian Gonzaga told USA Today.

12. How they take their coffee in the morning. Which section of the paper they read first. Whether they prefer crunchy or smooth peanut butter. It may seem like minutiae, but love sometimes comes in the tiniest details.

13. Each other’s worst qualities. Love involves elevating the best traits, and accepting the worst ones.

14. Their friends! I’m a believer that meeting the friends can be even more important than meeting the family, because friends are the people that your better half chooses to spend time around. If you haven't met your S.O.'s inner circle, then the relationship isn't that serious — and certainly not serious enough for an engagement.

15. Their stance on major political issues. How does your partner feel about gay marriage? Abortion? Voters’ rights? Gun control? You don’t necessarily have to agree, but their opinions (and the arguments they use to justify them) can be very telling.

16. How to fight and make up. You are going to disagree. It happens. And to an extent, it is healthy. “Conflict is inevitable,” relationship expert Ashley Davis Bush told YourTango. “But conflict has its benefits if you use it productively. Use respectful language with each other and be willing to listen to your partner.”

17. Each other's living habits. You don't have to live together yet, but it is a good idea to at least have an idea of what it will be like when you do. “It is not whether you live with your partner as much as how you live with your partner,” author Megan Jay told the Atlantic. “I am not against living together, but I am for young adults being more aware that it is an arrangement that has upsides and downsides.”

18. Your sexual chemistry. Yes, this is totally making me blush because I am a 12-year-old at heart, but knowing how you connect on that level is pretty critical to relationship — and marriage — success.

19. How to talk to each other. No phones. No emails. No texts. Just straight-up, face-to-face, brutally honest communication. This is vital, especially considering “communication problems” were cited as the most common factor (65 percent) that leads to divorce in a recent YourTango survey.

20. Their hobbies. Whether it's golf, running, reading, collecting, or live-action-role-playing, you want to know the things that your love loves to do. Like Jennifer Aniston says in The Break Up, "It's not about you loving the ballet, it's about the person that you love loving the ballet."

21. How you each feel about travel. Striking a balance between a homebody and someone with a case of wanderlust is one tricky seesaw act. Determine whether travel is a priority in your relationship before committing to marriage.

22. Your views on household duties. Does your significant other expect a partner who will take care of all the chores? Or will it be a shared responsibility (ahem)? “People are going to disagree about how to run the house, chores, who cleans the bathroom,” marriage and family therapist Rebecca Hendrix told The Knot. “But those are the kinds of things that people can, if they work on their communication style, work through.”

23. The difference between a wedding and a marriage. A wedding is one day. A marriage is (or at least, should be) a lifetime. If you want to throw a party, there are plenty of other things you can celebrate if you aren't ready for matrimony.

24. That being said, you should talk about your vision for a wedding. Because eloping at City Hall and 500 people at the Plaza in June are two very different scenarios. Plus, planning a wedding can be extremely stressful — you and your fiancé need to be on the same team.

25. What you want out of the future. No one has a crystal ball, and life loves to throw curveballs. But since one of the top reasons for divorce, according to family law firm Slater & Gordon, is that the couple “wanted different things,” you should share your thoughts, hopes and dreams for what the future might look like — together.

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Baby... nice work u are doing here

Lolzz.... OP did u meant "Having Sex" ohh.... "Making Love" is the religious way to say having sex?..... Good boy....

Am preparing an article.... so I need this for a survey.... The question is Ladies which one do you prefer?

6 Packs or 6 Cars?

Guys..... off

illmatic101:
Op l have a problem with No:3

Funny.... what problem..... they are off limit

holocron:
Wow

Lolzz..... am sure u are a bro

samincredible44:
A bro should always focus more on money and family

cool

What separates a normal guy friend from a bro is a set of unspoken rules that every bro needs to live by. And this is what is called the bro code rules.

Pay serious attention to Number 3


Some call it “bromance” or “bro-hood,” but only men understand the bond they share with their other Y-chromosomed brethren. It’s not the kind of relationship they have with girls or even with their own biological brother, but that unspoken and “no homo” kind of love between “bros.” Is it really a surprise there are bro code rules only guys know?

Brohood is a kind of bond that explains how bros get away with trading insults as a form of a greeting, get along despite all the dangerous and embarrassing pranks they pull on each other, and how they still share a beer and laugh immediately after a fist fight.

What is a bro and what is the bro code?
A bro is many things, but a bro is not an ordinary guy friend. Bros do a lot of things for and with their bros: good, bad, funny, or stupid.
The bro code is an unspoken set of rules that define what it is to be a bro and how a bro must act in the presence of other bros.

Bromandments – The 60 bro code rules all bros must follow

*Regarding bros and girls – these set of rules define the code of conduct between bros and their interactions with the opposite sex.

#1 Bros before Hoes girls. This rule is the founding principle of being a bro and is said to have preceded even the concept of the bro code. This rule states that guys should put his bros in priority over the pursuit of the opposite sex.

#2 A bro must have another bro’s back no matter what the circumstances are. A bro must be there for his bro in times of need be it financial difficulty, the pursuit of girls, fistfights, and drunken shenanigans.

#3 A bro’s immediate female family members are off-limits. This means a bro shall never lay hands on another bro’s sister or hot mother. However, he can comment on their level of attractiveness. Stepmoms and stepsisters are an exception.

#4 A bro’s girlfriend or ex-girlfriend is off-limits as well. Meaning no bro can sleep, flirt, or make lewd comments about their bro’s current girlfriend or exes.

#5 A bro shall not cock block another bro. Also the rule of “dibs.” If a bro liked a girl first, you serve as his wingman and not ruin his chances.

#6 Girls can be bros too. Bros must acknowledge girls with bro-like qualities. When a girl acts like a bro and follows the code, she is accorded equal protection and respect. Which means …

#7 Girl bros are off-limits too. A bro is not to make sexual and romantic advances to a girl bro unless to tease her.

#8 If you catch a bro’s wife or girlfriend cheating on him, you inform him regardless of the consequences. Because rule number one.

#9 When a bro finds another bro’s girlfriend annoying or repulsive, he shall stay silent until the time they break up. Always respect your bro’s choices. Even if it doesn’t suit your preferences.

#10 When a bro’s girlfriend or wife calls you to ask for his whereabouts, you have no idea. Because rule number two.

**Rules Regarding Daily bro-to-bro activities:


...This is just the beginning........ Any Bro reading this should read on.... but any boy or teenager should ignore.....

If you are a real, Mature Bro and not a boy.... you need to know these codes...... so as I said.... Mature, real and sure Men, lets read on below... while boys should go to the next thread...

The 60 Bromandments: Bro Code Rules Every Guy Should Live By Continuation



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sapiosexual1:

Weldone ma, and I would remove my post too. .........done!

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sapiosexual1:

Kindly work on your grammar and title. Nothing like 'Most Strangest ' in qualifying a noun

Thanks Prof....... This is media world...... I really needed that sir..... anyways... when an elderly person correct you.... you should obey... I will remove Most....

Thanks

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
I like all

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Softorgasm:
I will buy none...

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These wedding cloths are really something else.....

Guys which one of these can you buy for her....




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hylyne:


People can still learn from constructive criticism.

really

oladipo322:
the world is coming to full stop very soon

why

u betrayed everybody

cute cloths.... it was just a bad day

AnodaIT:
After everything, the only text that matters is "Have you seen the alert?"

that's not funny

We often wonder what to respond in a particular message. But there are certain texts that aren’t worthy of a reply at all. There are texts you shouldn’t have sent, or else it may hurt your chances. Here are tips from experts on which messages you should respond to—and which you should ignore for your own good.

If he texts “sup” or “Hey”

If he randomly sent this text sup or hey or even sometimes as short as yo or any similar messages, this could only mean a “weak attempt” on starting a conversation with you. Don’t even try to dig deep into it. It just means that yes, the guy’s thinking about you, but he’s not thinking hard enough. But on the good note it’s the most common conversation starter, meaning he wants to get to know you more but isn’t sure what to say. Text back or reply if you like him, but don’t bother if you’re not sure about him (spare his feelings, guys has feelings too, you know)

What to reply when he sent you “Where you at?"

It’s weird for a guy to start a conversation with this text especially If you get this message on a Friday or Saturday night, it’s likely that the guy is hitting you up as a last resort. But if you two are really close and had had a good conversation before, it means that he just want to check where you are or possibly want to meet you up.

The "Can I come over?” Text

Girl you know what this text means. This is a hormonal text sent buy a guy who is drunk and Hot and is typically sent after midnight on a weekend night. Don’t respond unless you’re equally down for a booty call.

If He Asked You “Want to meet up later?”

If a guy sends you this message before night time, say 8 p.m., it shows he’s being serious and is eager to see you. It means he is looking forward and plans his every move on you. But if he doesn’t do anything but to text you, and you want to see some more effort, tell him you prefer to talk on the phone. If he calls, you can tell that he’s interested into something more than just playing. This will separate the boys who likes games and the men who wants relationship.

When he sent you “How are you?”

This might mean he really likes you and he just can’t put what he wants to say into words thus he sent you a simple how are. When guys like a girl, their minds can get jumbled. He’s probably not intentionally being boring, he just doesn’t know what to say. If you really like the guy, ask him to give you a call later—he might just be a bad texter.

When he asked you “What are you doing?”

When a guy calls and you are unable to answer, then he leaves a voicemail, but the again sent you a text message to check what you are doing, he might think that you are checking your phone every now and then or he is being too clingy. Either way, wait to get back to him. And if he keeps up doing this, you might want to rethink the budding relationship. You don’t want to be suffocated in the end and it is unhealthy. If he is not doing this excessively, just ask you once or twice a day, it just simply means that he cares about you.

When he texts you “Had a great time last night ”

The perks of first meeting. He just want to ask you how was your date with him but doesn’t to say it directly. If you want to see him again and you really enjoyed his company then reply back and let him know. If you don’t, then don’t bother and don’t lead him on ( girls can do that too! )

The “I’m thinking of you” Text

The sweetest thing besides I love you. If you have feelings for this guy then go ahead and reply back. If he is a random guy that happens to have your number then he is a creep. Ask him to delete your number.

When he tells you “Good morning”

It’s a nice thing to wake up with a good morning text especially if he means a lot to you. `When guy sends you this message, even at random, it means he really likes you. A good way to start the morning that can even signal a start of a relationship. Flirt back if you are into him as well ( insert coffee emoji here )

If he texts you “Great meeting you!”

If he texts you this almost instantly right after meeting you, he’s definitely interested!

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TrapQueen77:



From my own experience eeehnn..Going back with yo ex after break up it's like u picked the biggest stone and starts smashing your own head.. It's nothing but horror..


This is why we shud never lick what we spat out..

hmmmm

Divay22:
Take front seat...bring it on guys
Should i share mine....we reconciled though,but i messed up again,thought he was gonna come back,but he never did

share it all

PabloOmoEscobar:
One thing I'm 100% sure never to do is clicking your moral24 link

Well, maybe when Naira equals Dollar

lolzzz.......supporting failure is a bad attitude.....

Decided to ask Nairalanders here about YOUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCES. I'm curious to hear stories of those who may have called it quits but ended up coming back together. Just curious to hear some inspirational stories of those couples (married, dating, boyfriend/girlfriend)that were once separated but reconciled and what event(s) brought you two back together, and what have you learned from it?

Looking to hear from people who are still currently with the people they got back together with.

Can't wait to hear!