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Na to employ am sharp sharp as him don catch me red handed

nonsoafm:
hmmmm what a world. let's help this man, Frank edoho abeg he deserves to be a millionaire.

And u don't deserve to be a millionaire And can u please tell me why he deserve to be a millionaire

ifeanyi83:
In a society that has structure and respect for hardwork and creativity, this icon should be receiving royalty....it's such a shame....

Wat are u saying he should be receiving a royalty for Wat?? Can you please tell me some of d things he has done for d society

Engrchuks2011:
Cheating wife can be stopped from her actions but nagging wife can not be stopped.

Cheating can only last for a short period of time but nagging is till death. Now let's see what the Bible said.


Proverbs 21:19
It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
Proverbs 25:24
It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife

Agreed d Bible advice dat a nagging wife is not good enough but d Bible didn't say it's better Dan an adulterous woman. Read ur Bible very well u will understand dat nothing can be compared with fornication/adultery..

timawoku:
abeg nau
Your post make sense dat na y!


Snake dey sweet gaan o.

Apia me for snake... Cow tail is OK for me.

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timawoku:
guy abeg
Collect 3 origin and 2 snake pepper soup!

Snake pepper soup no be me and u

I dey rub am wella. There's nothing wrong in it.. There are now male powder..

Nagging wife of course

He should Remember to do his will since he has signed his death warrant

Appleyard:
Brother, you should know that the ESV bible version is a direct opposite of the king james version, the actual english translation of the bible.

hmmm

Sarpino:
Wonders shall never cease.

Thanks bro

missbehave247:
Wonders shall never end

Wonders shall never seize

SYLVESTER777:
All the books of the bible are important.CHECK the title of this thread.DO YOU KNOW THE BIBLE BOOKS OF PROHECY?

Don't mind him. He Just opened d thread for nothing sake.

SYLVESTER777:
DID U NOTICE THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD?ALL THE BOOKS OF THE BIBLE ARE IMPORTANT OF COURSE.There are some PORTIONS that some people don"t read/study especially books of PROPHECY!

I looked at d topic of d thread, guess u don't understand d title. Every book of d Bible are important regardless of whether u read it or not.

Do u know wat d Bible is about at all, do u read it at all, do u know wat it stands for? Cos u asking abt d two most important book of d Bible is absurd

I just can read it all... I tried to but couldn't...

mytym:
If the man develops sexual urge towards his lover(who is sexually ripe and still 'untouched'), and he thinks he CAN'T control it or expend the energy in otherways but MUST satisfy that urge with HER, THEN he should do the needful and marry her before sleeping with her so that both will be free, not having to suppress the urge... and that he has NOT sinned by having urge towards her.

my interpretation.

Dats it bro. U are on point..

Appleyard:
At OP, fornication is a sin, and the bible made it clear. But it is good that we should first understand what that verse you quoted realy meant.

1 Corithians 7 vs 36;
But if anyman thinks that he behaveth himself uncomely towards his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, jhe sinneth not, let them marry.

Now let us break it down line by line to get the full meaning of the passage, down to vs 38.

Now, when verse 36 said,
''if anyman''--the term ''anyman'' here would appear to imply the lover or would-be husband to the woman, but that is not the case. The term ''anyman'' refers to the ''father'' of the bride to be. It is the father that gives out the woman in marriage, as at when he deems it fit and necessary; as would later be confirmed by verse 38.--

* --thinks he behave himself uncomely''---(the word ''uncomely'' means, not in keeping with accepted standards of what is right or proper in polite society.'' that is, if a man (father) thinks he is unduely preventing his daughter from getting married against her will, because he had so desired in his heart not to give her out, especially as a vow of service unto God (it was common in those days); meanwhile----
*''if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require''--- * the lady is of marriagable age and wanted to get married, but the man hath already purpose in his heart not to give her in marriage, but to reserve her for a particular purpose such as service unto God like Jethro and his daughter, Hannah and her son, Samuel,-----
*let him (the father) do what he will (he can change his mind concerning the vow, since he lack that will); he sinneth not: (christ liberty brought by His death): let them marry.--- he may now give her out for marriage.

Now, watch vs 37:

Nevertheless, he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity (no pressure from within or without), but hath power over his own will,-(stedfast in his resolve like Jethro did),- and has so decreed in his heart that he would keep his VIRGIN,- ( virgin, not virginity; thus implying the daughter, not the man's own untouched sexual body: otherwise, it would have been 'his Virginity),--- doeth well.-(exactly what Jethro did, holding to his vow despite loving the daughter so much.)

Finally, verse 38 summed it up and confirmed vs 36 and 37 refers to the power of the virgin's owner-the father.

Vs 38:

So then he (that anyman in vs 36) that giveth her (the virgin, his virgin) in marriage (who is giving her out in marriage now? The father. See?)- doeth well..(why is he been adjudged to have done well for giving her out in marriage, despite first making a vow not to? Simple: because it is better to be married than to burn. That is, fall into sin and be in danger of hell.1Cor.7vs9)---
---*; but he that giveth not her in marriage doeth better.-( that is, he that held unto his promise or vow like Jethrol did with his daughter, doeth the better.).

So, @OP, from the above, we can see that vs 36, and as confirmed by vs38 of the same chapter you quoted, does not have anything to do with you; and no one should misquote it to support his or her sinful act.



For the bible can not decieve.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 & 1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."

The dictionary meaning of the word "fornication" means any unlawful sexual intercourse including adultery. In the Bible the Greek definition of the word "fornication" means to commit illicit sexual intercourse.What con our society but is actually being encouraged. The sin of fornication is being committed even among Christians, as many couples "live together" and have sex before marriage. The Bible tells us to flee this sin. We have counseled Christians of the opposite sex who share an apartment and they told us they were not having sex so this surely wasn't wrong. But the Bible declares these words in
1 Thessalonians 5:22-23:

"Abstain from all appearance of evil. And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."

Our lives as Christians are a living witness to others and we cannot break the laws of God without hindering others from coming to Christ. We must live our lives in line with the dictates of His word.

Thanks

Bros d verse is not actually referring to the Father of d girl but the man(fiancee). Look at this translation=
1 Corp 7:36 If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry-it is no sin.
37: But whoever is firmly established in his heart, being under no necessity but having his desire under control, and has determined this in his heart, to keep her as his betrothed, he will do well.
38: So then he who marries his betrothed does well, and he who refrains from marriage will do even better. English Standard Version(ESV)

Posters above me av already clear u on d verse u misinterpreted. To answer your question D Bible clearly says flee from fornication. There's a reason for saying flee. Mind u Romans 12:1 says present urself as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable unto God, this is ur reasonable sacrifice.

olafisoyeibukun:
That is the problem with our girls. Responsible guy like me will be begging for a chance to show you how caring i am. And they will be giving a tout the chance.

Y will they give you a chance when u are begging cos u don't know ur worth. She will rather go with a tout with a healthy self esteem Dan to go with u who available no idea of his worth

kuyola:
AT LONG LAST SHE CAME BACK AND BEGGING...(lastweek).

U mean she came to beg after a year And u too haven't moved on... And u accepted her back just like Dat without trying to find out what or why she's back after a year

I can't see any assets dat can make her man not to cheat on her

Youngpo413:
you can never find such girl...
In naija.

Dats y it will be hard for them to find us guys with such quality

I hear u ma

No1 shows she no send u but d rest

Does Dat means she can't wear matched undies

kinda nice but childish.

Rhozabeth:
Good, let me take a seat so that when my staff give me such excuse(s) then I know they ve gone to attend an interview somewia!

lol...u can't be serious

Youngpo413:
you can never find such girl...

In naija.

Dats y it will be hard for them to find we guys

its still exist as long as d girl is 200 billion stars, 7continents ,196 countries, 9planets, 9 Provinces, 3 Capital cities and sophisticated,intelligent, motivated, inspirational loving woman