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see as he dey defend terrorists

damn!

Clout chasing

apple's noise cancellation is top notch

Club whey want success.


Man U board are crazy!

EdoDefence:
Punch news wrongly spelt it, we call it ọkhọkhọ

it's okuko in igbo

so none of you foolish governors are capable?

HonestFriend:
As a nincon-poop wen u be.

hahahaha, e pain am.

vote buying oooo

another prison break loading!

why not hang the terrorist.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

you have a very low self esteem!
were the one that sponsored her when she was in school?
were u dating her when she was in school?
so u want to cheat because u heard how she lived back in school?
I see that u are only trying to justify cheating on your wife. Na u sabi.

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
.
.
.
........!

as long as you could Bleep, you can be a father!

HonestFriend:
A person that was buried 2 years ago will not look like that... 100% sure.

as per undertaker whey u be

Focusmind:
Youth this; youth that. That's what you normally here in Rivers State, where majority are idle and looking for youth's leadership positions that add no value. Just to find cheap money. Contest for youth's leadership positions are usually bloody and violent in Rivers. My client in Onne is constantly harassed for contracts by these youth leaders,yet they would not deliver on the agreed terms stated in the purchase order.

Tell them to supply something as little as nylon bags, they will just collect the mobilization fee and run.

rivers state has the most lazy n useless youths in the country. tueh!

useless youths. all those contesting should have been arrested

so what is he doing now?

anybody can also do yahoo codedly make it and post success story

jokerr:
abeg which online business you dey do ,am interested

Lol, forget you will not get a response for this question.
Africans no dey show dia brother way.

it will be looted!


so up till now, dem never still sack Ole?

Florenzo222:
babe am advising u like a sister, cancel that marriage to avoid had i known

she will not, she wan oppress her unmarried friends.

Acidosis:
I pity you. You can't stand the shame of calling off a wedding? I hope you will be able to stand the 'shame' and pain of divorce after 3 kids?

All your threads so far on Nairaland are about this same monster that wants to kill you, yet you decided to plan your future with him. What do we call this now? Zero/dead self-esteem? Desperation? Abi na strong d**k wan make you sign your death certificate?

no mind all these ladies that really don't know what they want. he beat u up twice and when he proposed you said yes, and she is saying she can't call of the wedding but is planning for a divorce. Ha!

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

who said 'yes' on your behalf?

is he rich?

post=107040089:
GOD save our world

God created the volcanoes.

PerfectlyPerfect:
I don't think he's supposed to reject a donation to the church though. Where I'll have a problem with Mbaka is if he stops speaking against the evils of this government

that money is bribe. He can reject it but he is a money lover so I know he won't.

Mbaka that money is purely bribe if you accept it. anyways your love for money is something else.

Tomahawk99:
I swear. Na the inferiority complex cause am.

yeah

DOTian:
Looks like a prelude to rigging...

Anybody don hear anything about Ole's sacking?

apc wants to do their magic again like they did in imo and 2019 presidential election.

Tomahawk99:
This guy with his coded inferiority complex. Chasing clout and people's wives.

with kissing & telling

Dem never still sack Ole?

Dem never still sack ole?

which kain tin be this,.

the inscription is supposed to be in aramaic na

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

you don marry na.

go and treat your wife and yourself

Blakpot:
Pls Christians isn't it unethical for a pastor to endorse any politician or political party for that matter. It just doesn't feel right.

Anyway the Roman Catholic church as an institute has always been a political entity. They corrupt Christianity.

how did they corrupt christanity?

give this one small money and he will say u are jesus christ. shame!