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Bleaching and talkativeness .

2buffagain:
What is "Right"?
Throwing money away to satisfy frivolous "they must know" desires, or bundling up that same money and putting it into trust funds for each of our unborn children so they can start their life when they hit age 20 with a cool $500,000+ dollars....actually moving the family generation forward in a meaningful way? (Do you typical africans even know what investing is or all you know is cash?)

From experience, Poverty does not leave the mind even if money enters people's hands.
The average Nigerian does not ask "Why" and does not question things...preferring interest to give priority to "Ha, what would THEY think" or "Hmm, THEY must know today that I/we have arrived"?
Who is the THEY and why should you care?

As someone said, other cultures in Nigeria are more sensible and pragmatic as the world is no longer what it was during the times these customs of old prehistoric men were formed. Traditionists bore me, as they are incapable of independent thought past the dictates of prehistoric individuals like me and you who formd things according to their own understanding in their time.

Tried giving Igbo families a chance one last time but it seems they never fail to over-do the culture thing past what even makes sense. Done with 'em.

Please close down this thread... I'm sorry, you're not making point from the topic to your responses.

Everybody are created in the image of God...but op what is your intent of showing us your picture?

That is our perpetual pattern of marriage in igboland and it can never be bleached.

Traditional marriage must be hold in the bride's parental hometown notwithstanding the destination.

No selfish reasons shall defile this fathom orderliness.

oscarnoble:
More

How much is plot of land in owerri or Onitsha?....thank you.

Boy, leave someone girlfriend!..........Don't tell me she's the one pestering you because a two bird cannot flock without mutual consent.

Homeboiy:
I give you sex any day any time

This one has lost his tenacity

Very transparent, easy going and full of temperance.

lawrenzooo:
I guess so. she actually called to talk and i couldn't talk at that moment so she said if i can't talk i should unblock her lets chat. I guess over time i have become so vunerable

Man bulshit the girl and give yourself a peace of mind...Don't be too emotional.

agbonkamen:
palatble and yours

Not bad, just the pursuit is going slow..but we thank God for life. it is the paramount thing.

kmcutez:
Why always Akwa Ibom?

Still wondering my sister..........what kind primitive prehistorical lifestyle is that

agbonkamen:
Awon slain throat loading.....

You and smile are like 5%6

How is your day?

Your instinct is not serving you well..my observation.

By this time you would've draw a firmly conclusion to leave her or not..you blocked her whatsapp contact, she told you to unblocked it you obliged.. What kind children play is that?

You're just indecisive friend. How long will you continue in this immature gimmick.

Who does that

Is she possessed or what?

Goddyss:
If you are a journalist that wants to attract attention to your article, are you going to use controversial headline or straightforward headline?

Answer so that I know the quotient of your brain

You want to know the quotient of my brain?

Funny, So proving to you that your topic and message is parallel will do that right..no wonder they say journalists are deceptive.

Let stop derailing this solemn thread...thank you.

Goddyss:
If you had actually got the message, you would have known it goes beyond trust issues.

literally if you re-read your write up, you will know
the topic does not correlate with the message.

I read, I comment from my encephalon..thank you.

If you love somebody walk up her tell her you love her it does not matter at all.

If you do not have this assertion,then you still growing your liver friend.

The way you'll approach your fellow man is applicable to the ladies... Just tell her your mind simple.

Men are too constrained to be phobia.

DemonMonkey7:
My brother educate me more, cos I had to tighten ties cos I felt pity for her.. She sabi cry ehn.

A man ought not to move by lady emotion...it is your life. If you love her, distance will not be a barrier because you trust her..But if you're not comfortable with her prompt by her location make a manly decision and stop clouding your reasoning with feeble emotion..my advice.

Some guys will choose money...well is left for the ladies.

When a man have respect for a woman the other above option are concealed.

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Reason we don't have to take anyone serious even our beloved ones...they're all suspects.

Gaspardd:
YOLO
And btw u got me wrong

Then learn how to use this "YOLO" morally.

Your fantasy is not flourishing but rather a deception that can retaliate with harmful repercussions.my advice.

So you're in this world to play fun, using and dumping someone sister and daughters the way you like?

So you'll end up in this pleasure without marrying?

You don't like distant relationship, why are you delaying your time with abuja girlfriend dear loyalist?

Anytime they call you preach to them the word of God. It ll chase them away....my experience.

lefulefu:
Op u dey talk of relationship...even if u dey ur own minding ur own business and wakaring ur own waka, some ppl go still dey vex with u. Yesterday evening as i be jus cross road dey waka go my pad...minding my own business na so person jus dey hala for my back. I turn my head come see one guy jus dey swear at me in anger. He say who da hell do i think i am. Dat he jus dey greet me and i no answer am.he jus come dey para at me dey ask me who da fuk i think i am. He say if to say he see empty bottle right now he for smash am for my head. I look d guy well.. Im hair was uncombed and bushy ..plus he was shirtless and im three quater shorts wey im wear na so d three quater jus sag over im waist dat his pubic hair was visible for everybody to see. As i jus see all these things na so i jus turn dey continue my waka and i no jus reply am. Since buhari has taken over, the number of angry ppl in nigeria has trippled with the number of mad ppl.even asking somebody whats d time in public is enuf to get the person mad and if care's not taken he might/she might even stab you. God help naija.

Many are mad some are roaming.. I like the way you reacted....Now between both of you, who is foolish?

Of course he's the foolish person but if you engage an unhealthy discussion with him the pedestrians won't differentiate you from him..they'll see you both as fools.

No time for unproductive discussion.

GutsOverFear:
OK let me rephrase it..

People should accept that an issue is always going to arise in a relationship. Even so the most perfect ones.

I didn't delete your notion....The question is how do we handle anger in our relationship.

Inadequacy can vent anger and bitterness, Barrenness can vent anger and bitterness, Infidelity can vent anger and bitterness..e.t.c

Looking at the story in frontpage a housewife stabbing her husband to death just because he came back late.
Do you think if the couple are temperate they won't avert this incidence subtly?

Men, women are emotional beings very easy to handle know when she is angry just attend to her softly don't piss her off by emasculating her..she'll defend herself by every means...........A angry woman react with her heart leaving her sense aside.

Women, men are superior and overpowering very easy to understand......They'll hit you like their fellow men when they're angry. ignore them at that moment or even leave the house for him.....A angry man react with his physical
strength leaving his sense aside.

No gender has monopoly in anger, is just that we don't have self control.

GutsOverFear:
People shouldn't be in a relationship at all.

Even if the both partners don't have issues; RELATIONSHIP HAS A WAY OF CREATING ONE

Don't say that friend.

if I find a partner with same nature of mine I don't think there is issue we can't handle amicably or shortcomings we can't accommodate.

It all depends on one understanding.

Why should I be angry with my fellow human being when I've many problems to think on.

Anger is a little madness...Even if you insult me or throw all sort of unprinted words on me...I don't mind or think on it for some minutes.

I apologize when I commit an offense whether right or wrong..I can even go to an extent of kneeing down whether you're big or small just for peace.

Experience makes you to be gentle to prevent dying from hypertension.

No time for keeping malice or altercation.

Princess4ng:
this is part of what u get when u dont get to know ur partner so well..................... trust issues everywhere!!!!!!!!!!! one thing ladies always fail to understand is that very very few men dont cheat....as far ur ur hubby respect u and dont show it to ur face why dont u play ur part of being a good wife, pray and leave every other thing to God................u cant stop a man from cheating..........my opinion tho........nobody should come for me mbok

You're making point girl....Your stances are combination of maturity.

Some ladies thinks cheating is significant in every men.

[quote author= post=70004279]Na your head make make you 6' 2.[/quote]Are you Sure you're an evangelist?

Her pride is all I see displaying.

No5 is invalidated.