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God's sent:
Barreness,
A situation that makes the woman not to understand her husband and begin to suspect the husband unnecessarily.
That when the man keeps late, outside, the woman begin to say "Oh this man is coming home late cos i have no child for him, if i have gotten children for him he would have bn coming home earlier.

A situation that:when the man come back home and frown or hiss, due to stress from his job, or for another reason,
the woman will say: Oh he came home frowning cos i have no child for him, may be he has been smiling and enjoying himself with another lady outside.
A situation that makes the woman to think the husband is cheating on her, cos he could not have erection, may be due to stress at work or due to other emotional stress that does not concern his wife ttc, but the woman will always conclude that he has already had sex outside that is why he could not have erection when she was with him. My dear sister it is not true
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A situation that makes the woman not to know how and what to wear as in clothing, because, you are of age and have no child so you do not know whether you should dress like a young married lady or an old married woman, or a single young lady, because, if you dress gorgeous, to encourage yourself no matter the situation at hand, people that knows that you are ttc, will say, you are not thinking about your condition instead you are busy dressing and wearing all the beautiful cloths and being fashion conscious.
Because they expected you to wear mourning clothes cos you have not given birth. my dear reader God forbid that you should look tattered cos of barrenness that has not come to stay forever, remember that every problem has an expiring date, so please do not expire before your problems expires.

Barreness is so frustrating that it takes a woman that has given birht few minutes to dress up but it takes a married woman that has not given birth hours to dress up, cos sometimes you do not know who to dress like, Should i dress like a young girl? or like a mother? or like a mourner so that my inlaws will not think am enjoying beign barren? you spend hours wearing one clothe pulling it off and testing another one, standing in front of your mirror for hours testing and learning a new step to subdue this bad condition.


I God's sent, there was a day i dressed one funny dress that i can never forget in my life, cos i was thinking too much due to the continuous medical report of missing fallopian tubes in all my hsg test.

That very faithful sunday, i wore a very fine fish tail style skirt & blouse made with gorge material, but my foot wear was canvass that i normally wear to beach, as i was about to enter my car my leg hit the door and at the same time my car key fell off my hand as i was about to pick the car key, that was when i looked at my legs and saw that i was wearing canvas shoes instead of the normal shoes that was meant for the dress. imaging canvas and skirt , hmm thank God i realized on time before going to church with such dressing. this is due to over thinking and emotional stress that i was going thru then, but thank God for today.


Dear Reader, After reading the above text,i want you to know that, that bad condition has not come to stay, it came that it will go, so that the name of God will be glorified in your life.

So keep trying, keep moving you are almost there, eheeeeee! now you are already there take your BFPS and let your mockers come and congratulate you.


You seee! those character you are seeing in your husband is not because you have not gotten a child for him, or he has another secret woman outside, the devil manipulates him unknowingly to put on those characters to make you pannic, so that you will loose focus, on what God has for you, the devil does that so that you will beging to pannic and die before your blessing comes.SO PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE! BE VIGILANT TO KNOW WHEN THE DEVIL WANT TO MANIPULATE YOUR DH TO GET YOU THINKING.

his coming home late is one of his natural character but you did not notice it on time until you begin to ttc,

MY EXPERIENCE:
my husband used to buy some snacks and keep them in his care eat them until he is satisfied then he will bring the remnant home, when i have not given birth, then i was thinking it is cos i have not given birth was the reason he does that to me. NOW THAT I HAVE GIVEN BIRHT HE NO LONGER BRING ANY SNACKS HOME HE BUYS THEM AND EAT UP THE WHOLE THING THEN I WILL SEE THE WRAPS OR FOIL INSIDE HIS CAR. Now i know he was not doing it cos i had no child for him, but it is his real character which i did not notice when we were courting.

This is the reason i am against long coutship, i always tell the singles, "look if you want to marry him or her go ahead and get married stop that long courtship, cos another courtship will start after you get married then courtship number three will star after you give birth, if you like court him or her for donkey years bf marriage you will never know everything you wish to know about him or her until the above takes place. so why waste time courting.
my husband used to come home earlier than now that i have a child for him, sincerely,he is not cheating with another lady i know, but it is his real character that he just unveil.

he could not eat his dinner alone before i put to bed: now he eat without me eating with him. etc
he was demonstrating how he will be carrying and caring for our baby when i was ttc, now he hardly carry the baby, his excuse is that he does not want the baby to fall from his hand,
so all he does is, stand near the baby bed, saying helloooo little one how are you doing? like mr. Bean the white comedian.

SO PLEASE IN THIS JOURNEY OF TTC WHICH I KNOW YOU ALL WILL CONQUER, DO NOT READ NEGATIVE MEANING INTO ANY STRANGE CHARACTER YOUR SPOUSE IS SHOWING NOW, COS YOU THINK YOU KNOW HIM BUT I TELL YOU, YOU WILL NOT KNOW HIM UNTIL YOU GET PREGNANT AND PUT TO BED.

May God shower multiple Bfp into your homes and your life

THANKS FOR READING.

pikinmama: Happy Sunday all, sorry for my delayed reply i could not even post of ivf tread again there is no chance at all
. una nor vex.
A hysterosalpingogram or HSG is an x-ray procedure performed to make sure that the fallopian tubes are open and that the shape of the uterine cavity is normal during the hsg test the doctor performing the procedure would be able to know the if you have long or short fallopian tubes, but Laparoscopic test is more accurate in checking the condition of the fallopian tubes, cos there have been a report of misdiagnoses and wrong result about hsg test. HSG is an outpatient procedure that can be performed in less than 5 minutes. It is done after menses have ended, but before ovulation (between days 5-9 of the menstrual cycle.
Be encourage and go for your own hsg now, though it is painful but it is worth doing when Trying To Conceive.









The size of the fallopian tubes can vary by woman, even after she's reached sexual maturity. They can be anywhere from 3 to 6 inches (about 7 to 15 cm) in length.
But when the fallopian tubes are affected or deformed by disease and swell up, the sizes may change,
my own fallopian tubes were measuring 20cm, and both were swollen cus of the accumulated toxic fluid caused by an infection which caused my fallopian tubes to block but not just partial blockage but Hydroxalpinx level

something like this:




No dye is flowing out of the end of either tube indicating that they are closed off at their ends. As contrast liquid flows into the tubes, it is unable to exit the tubes, causing them to distend with dye and become dilated. This type of tubal blockage is called distal tubal occlusion or “hydrosalpinx”.

Alwaystrue: @Lore&Temi, that word spoke to me. Thank you soooo much. We will rejoice and testify continually. The world will continually see what God has done in our lives and glorify Him. There is a peace you get when you have waited and God has answered. God bless you.