Dear nairalanders,pls I am seriously considering getting the mtn dobox coz of light issues and the cost of maintaining generator overnight everyday. I need people who have gotten it to share their experiences pls.

KanwuliaExtra:
Dealing with marital challenges means:

1. You have CHOICES in a marriage and you are COMFORTABLE with the CHOICES you make or MADE.

Do you choose to be a FIRST WIFE, or a FOURTH WIFE?

Do you choose a ROMANTIC, LOVING FAITHFUL BUT BROKE SPOUSE vs an UNAFFECTIONATE, hard-working, NEVER-AT-HOME provider that is dedicated to taking care of family needs as a SPOUSE?

No one can have it all, you must CHOOSE.

Now, these are the REAL CHALLANGES in marriage.

As I MARRIED WOMAN, I have learned MANY THINGS to cope with a very SOUR marriage.

We all know what can “sour” a marriage ke! MARRYING A NIGERIAN MAN is one of them. The way MOST NIGERIAN MEN are “wired” is extremely faulty. Blame our male-dominant society that makes women inferior to men.

1. I WILL NEVER ASK A MAN TO PAY MY BILLS, so I am always SUPER-EMPLOYED and prepare for myself and family like HE DOES NOT EXIST.
What ever he can do, FINE. I will NEVER depend on any man. If you provide for YOUR own needs, less headache and arguement for you.

2. Never expect romance even where the sex is SUPER HOT. All na “shuku-shuku” and “snore” tins. Don’t be too sensitive or “needy”. NEVER GIVE MORE THAN YOU RECEIVE financially or emotionally, or you will feel “bitterly used”. Any spouse that does not make you a priority IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM, PLEASE, return the favor.

this is sooooo true. the more u r less dependent on a man,the happier the marriage. financial frustration is one of d problems of most problematic marriages.and most Nigerian men are wired to see women as second class citizens. if u ask them outside,they HV a good marriage but d wife feels d heat mostly. what do u want d wife to say? she know what will follow if she has a different opinion!!!

pls my 2mth old baby has serious cough.I took her to hospital and she was given antibiotic which has aggravated d stuff with vomiting. I am stopping d antibiotics right away.what else can I do?

pls help!! my 2mths old has been coughing seriously! I took her to d hospital and was given antibiotic. is as if d tin aggravated d cough alongside vomiting. what can I do?

na wa!!!!

@phlakkeys,I cried when I read ur post!!!! it is such a painful loss and may God comfort u!!! sorry dear!

Debclem:
I have just lost my mum, how unfair can life be? N orphan at 29wks? She gave up on all the plans we made for postpartum visits, she gave up on me and left me all alone in this cold world. How do I deserve this, how do I survive this? It's all empty now, it's all gone. My world has crumbled on me. Who do I turn to, what do I do. It's a nightmare and I want to wake up.

this is painful!!! so sorry 4 ur loss! may God stand by u!!!!

birth story
I was expecting to deliver at 37wks coz I was just tired of carrying my weight around.when I went for and at 36wks,d doctor asked me to come wt scan result at 38wks but I was just praying to give birth b4 then coz I was having mild cramps almost every nite and my belly had dropped much earlier! at d 38wk appointment, I went for scan,d weight read 3.4 each and d sonographer said they were ready to drop. in my mind I was even telling myself that am sure I was dilating already. I got to d hospital insisted on being checked by d doctor only for him to say I had not even started! the thing pained me mehn!!!

BIRTH ALERT!!!!!
hi all! sorry I HV been feeling too lazy to type! my twin girls arrived on Mon five minutes apart thru cs weighing 3.4kg and 3.6kg!
discharged and at home! Bs later in the day!!!!!

pls do u HV cute christening gowns for girls?

hello house! I need help! I am 39wks ds wk wt twins! according to last Fri scan, each baby weighs 3.4kg! I am massive,being feeling mild cramps for like 2wks,Ds morning, I had a dizzying headache for like 1hr. am so uncomfortable and my belly has dropped for like mth. at d last anc which was last Fri, I forced d doc to check me&he said I had not even started at all! I HV anoda appointment 2mrw,what can I do?
Note- this is my 2nd pregnancy but d first was a single.

pls aox,I lost my antenatal drugs and I still HV a whole 2wks ahead.what can I do?I had a single daily dosage for d calcium,folic acid& iron tabs.

eksbabe:
Just because we are happy and we gotta flaunt it. 38 weeks and i cant wait to meet this bundle of joy in my belly . This has to be my last #BumpyTuesday# by God's Grace.
Cc Cappo Phlakkeys and my fellow teamies come show us watchu gat.

see sexy bump at 38 weeks.u r even using hand to gauge it.u need to see my bump at 37wks!I wish I had someone to take a picture!u go fear fear!

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No way. Biko allow baby to still bake small. 30th too far nah. Wait till 37th week ooo. It won't be long.[/quote
next week is 37 weeks nah. e Neva do? if u see me ehn,u go marvel!

cappo@phlakkeys,my new Id is lotannad1. couldn't remember my password again. congrats to nnejima! I wan port oooooooooo.I HV turned to the queen of bumps and is no longer funny!