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Programming / Re: Ready For Flat Surface Disc-shaped circumference Earth Alternate Truth ? by LotusFan: 4:36pm On May 13, 2018 |
#TheReturnOfBillyonaire 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Some Words Of Wisdom For Young Wives From Adaeze Yobo by LotusFan: 4:50pm On May 12, 2018 |
I am sure many of you will be able to learn one or two things from this. Dear young wife... Keep being kind. Don't change cos he changed. I know it's not all exactly the way you imagined it. it will take longer but you'll get there. Don't feel pressure to be the perfect wife, cook n all. you can't be perfect. If you keep forcing it, you'll break down. Always communicate with God first before any friend. yes, you can vent to one or two good friends just make sure you talk to God first and let that friend be on the same or Higher spiritual level than you. Filter the advice you let in to avoid added stress even this one. IF YOU'RE GOING TO VENT, YOU CAN'T STOP PEOPLE FROM ADVICING YOU SO UUST LISTEN LIKE A MUMU GUS NA YOU FIND TROUBLE; BUT JUST KEEP IN MIND THAT WHAT WORKS FOR A MAY NOT WORK FOR B. Take care of your self, dress well, wash your hair ( I added dat one cos I feel great & relaxed whenever I wash my hair as ), look good n clean 'FOR YOU’ whether you're home or not. Try to go out Church, Lunch, Gym anywhere and just gist. Gossip about hubby in a loving way, talk about all the silly, embarrassing stuff he must have done to you and just laugh with friends. Choose your battles wisely! I know its easier said than done especially if you're hot-tempered like me (I think I've changed thou) If you're not ready to divorce then choose your Battles! If he's about to say something that will get you upset just zone out or end the convo nicely. A FRIEND OF MINE SAID WHEN SHE SENSED THE CONVO WON'T END WELL SHE SAYS SORRY I HAVE TO PEE THEN SHE DOESN'T RETURN AGAIN JUST TO AVOID WAHALA ; I LEARNT IT' I DID IT AND IT WORKED. My Motto: You can't react to what you didn't hear Dont take every word thrown at you seriously. in fact don't take yourself seriously. I remember complaining to a friend about hubby and she said, "who 're you? who are you that he can't say it to you" I weak, but really who am I? Act naive! yes act like it means nothing to you ( I'm still learning). If its not the same for him. (i.e 'if you think' he puts everyone else before you) dont force it, it'll gradually happen don't forget he had people in his life before you. if you wake up on the wrong side stay in your lane without being rude... PRAY. TALK TO YOURSELF. CALL UP A FRIEND READ BOOKS. WATCH T.V GO TO WORK. DON'T GO LOOKING FOR ATTENTION COS YOU'LL SURELY GET IT, IT MIGHT BE MORE THAN YOU BARGAINED FOR, SO JUST RESPECT YOURSELF UNTIL YOU GET YOURSELF TOGETHER. *I transcribed to text from all the slides she shared on her page... 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage, Wizkid And Chioma. Who Rocked The ($690) 248k Fendi Tee Better? by LotusFan: 10:22am On May 11, 2018 |
Tiwa-tiwa-mi-ti-ti #IfYouKnowYouKnow 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Hailey Veronica Adeleke's 1st Birthday: Davido Celebrates His 2nd Daughter by LotusFan: 8:01pm On May 09, 2018 |
Cute girl, she looks so much like David with her smile, eyes and dimples. I’m even seeing David’s dancing Uncle’s face in her. 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: Lady Celebrates As She Rents A House For The 1st Time After 8yrs of Squating(pic by LotusFan: 11:13am On May 09, 2018 |
ShyCypher:No mater what some people will always be negative...Sigh... Why so much bitterness? Must she carry her problem on her face so you know she is down to earth or humble. I am sure she has encouraged someone with sharing what she has been through! 12 Likes |
Family / Re: SIENA GBUDJE Exposed..ladies Be Careful.. Members Be Very Careful by LotusFan: 12:46pm On May 06, 2018 |
freshvine: Nice analysis freshvine! 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Contemplation Seeds From Eckankar by LotusFan: 12:39pm On May 06, 2018 |
benodic: Let me start with, I LOVE all these quotes 1 Like |
Programming / Re: Could Lagos, Nigeria Be The Next Silicon Valley? - American Media by LotusFan: 7:27am On May 06, 2018 |
Xxpress: Yes, Yaba but I think they moved to Ikorodu road last year. I no dey Naija so I’m a bit out of date but I try to keep abreast of these things. 3 Likes |
Programming / Re: Could Lagos, Nigeria Be The Next Silicon Valley? - American Media by LotusFan: 7:07am On May 06, 2018 |
More specifically, Sabo/Yaba could be the considered silicon valley of Nigeria. Andela’s office is there, Cocreation Hub is there, Konga have or had and office there and olx were there too. I’m sure I can think of a few others too... 5 Likes |
Education / Re: Chinaza Asiegbu Accepted Into 8 Ivy League Schools In US. Photos by LotusFan: 4:04pm On May 04, 2018 |
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Family / Re: SIENA GBUDJE Exposed..ladies Be Careful.. Members Be Very Careful by LotusFan: 5:36pm On May 03, 2018 |
Mindfulness: So true! 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Trolled As Davido Gifts Chioma A Porsche by LotusFan: 12:41pm On May 01, 2018 |
Nigerians are so envious. Sophie kept quiet but they won’t let her be. It’s All good! David is happy Chioma is happy Sophie is happy All these trolls should go and fine their own happiness biko. Sophie is fine for days, although I wish she could take it easy with the bikini pics but her body is lovely so I don’t blame her for flaunting it. Just that I want her to be marketable to a guy that would show World people that the downfall of a man is not the end of his life 5 Likes |
Family / Re: SIENA GBUDJE Exposed..ladies Be Careful.. Members Be Very Careful by LotusFan: 8:20pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
sisisioge: You’ve said it all. This character assassination is totally unwarranted. Citizen advice, social welfare etc can handle this. I have had dealings with Siena in the past, he proved himself a very decent and honest individual. 1 Like |
Family / Re: SIENA GBUDJE Exposed..ladies Be Careful.. Members Be Very Careful by LotusFan: 7:49pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
This is a faceless forum how on earth can this woman think she can come here and tarnish this man’s name. She didn’t live with them, how on earth did she know this? Besides this is against Nairaland’s rules, she even put his surname!!! she’s didn’t think of his kids. If he can’t get a good job in the uk based on this her rant. I still remember the thread where Mrs.Siena was singing praises on Siena. They were in love, how come he is suddenly a monster? Naijagypsy you need to take a deep breath and think of the far reaching effects of this post. Marriage is deep, you are friends with Siena’s wife, you are a brutish citizen she could have said anything to you to garner sympathy. There are always two sides to every story. Seun please this post violates so many of Nairaland’s rules. This is a sheer case of character assassination. Lalastiala where are you? Please delete this thread. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: Sade Okoya Celebrates 41st Birthday In A Lowkey Way But With Glamorous Photos by LotusFan: 1:19pm On Apr 25, 2018 |
Awwwww...Pretty Sade, 41 and glowing with her lovely kids. So happy for her, her naysayers have been silenced. 1 Like |
Family / Men Seek Contentment, Women Seek Happiness? Really??? by LotusFan: 5:00pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
I’m not sure if this is true or not but I would like sample the thoughts of The Nairaland populace. Rian Stone is of the opinion that men just want contentment in a marriage so they learn to put up with what they have. Women on the other hand, seek to be happy and no matter how happy they are, there'll always be someone or something else that can make them happier. He goes on to say that a whopping 70% of divorces are initiated by women Thoughts? ***I totally disagree by the way |
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Slams Chimamanda Adichie For Hillary Clinton's Twitter Bio Question by LotusFan: 12:48pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
there are no dividing forces greater than color, race, gender and tribe. These factors continue to ensure humanity remains segregated. In my opinion, this is the most important part of the whole write up. We need to see beyond all these segregations. Yes, they are there staring at us but let’s try to SEE BEYOND! Freeze is busy warning Chimamanda tut,tut, tut..why does he have to be so rude? Why can’t he commend Hilary for responding so graciously at a tweet which was clearly trying to shake the gender inequality tables and serve as a test for joe Hilary? How would she respond (if at all to the one of the most respected African female writers of our time? I see the table Chimamanda is shaking (she’s even standing on it), she is trying to highlight gender inequality.... A couple who have both run for presidency ...one describes themselves in one way and the other describes themselves differently...Who cares But guess what l? Hillary does! The smart Hilary saw this as an opportunity to interact with and validate the gender bias rhetoric of chimamanda and her followers. Hnmmm...Freeze jumps on it, Dencia jumps on it But they all miss the point. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Girl Who Vanished From School With A Guy Has Been Found, Boy Arrested. Photos by LotusFan: 7:32pm On Apr 23, 2018 |
Vision2045: Ouch! |
Celebrities / Re: Bambam Sitting On Teddy A's Mother's Leg. See Reactions by LotusFan: 7:23pm On Apr 23, 2018 |
This picture should teach women a lesson. Don’t judge, love. It takes a lot to be a REAL mother, it requires an open heart to all, everyone is a child (someone’s child) we all make mistakes and we learn from them. Round of applause to Teddy A’s Mummy!!! 21 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: How Bishop Adjeman Successfully Hijacked Winners Chapel Ghana From Oyedepo by LotusFan: 11:18am On Apr 22, 2018 |
prince3009: The whole story is just an embarrassment |
Religion / Re: Jamaican Pastor Wears Army Uniform, Shoots At His Enemies With Water Gun(Video) by LotusFan: 11:13am On Apr 21, 2018 |
What is the church turning into? 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Celebrities / Re: Juliet Ibrahim Reacts To Lazy Nigerian Youth Comment (photo) by LotusFan: 8:52pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
ObaKlaz: Isn’t she Ghanaian? Why is she biting in Nigeria’s elections? |
Nairaland / General / Re: First Set Of Lagos Big Boys In 1913 (Throwback Photo) by LotusFan: 6:58pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Oshey, look at that one who gave us centre parting at the back |
Religion / Re: The Middle Path by LotusFan: 2:02pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Vivian Chiologi: Married At 50 & Gave Birth At 51 - Mo Abudu Celebrates Friend by LotusFan: 12:56pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
You can tell this pregnancy means the world to her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: The Middle Path by LotusFan: 4:19pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Chubhie: Deep... |
Religion / Re: The Middle Path by LotusFan: 2:44pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
End time...Will miss him so much |
Religion / Re: Pastor Victor Wellington Resigns From RCCG, Exposes Redeemed "Curse Sermon" by LotusFan: 3:07pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
#TheRevolutionShallBeTelevised 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by LotusFan: 8:36pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
eleojo23: Op if only you could read this post by eleojo. I agree that she should do something to generate income but you need to stop blaming her and sympathise. You never know what she could be going through. You said it yourself, you know her actions are unusual. She might really need psychiatric attention but even if that is the case you as her child need to be there for her. Stop thinking of what she should have done or should be doing, just LOVE her. She gave birth to you, nurtured you and you are here typing plenty English. Please take a deep breath and decide to LOVE your mum till her dying day. Without judgement. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze & Tastebudz Feed 890 People At Okobaba Destitute Camp For Lepers by LotusFan: 2:34pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Peace be into you! 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze & Tastebudz Feed 890 People At Okobaba Destitute Camp For Lepers by LotusFan: 2:16pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
ImaIma1: No vex ehn, try to get over it! Assalamualaikum! 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: "My Favorite Sex Position" - Juliet Ibrahim by LotusFan: 1:03pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
All the peeps who rushed in to find out what rocks Juliet’s boat... I’m laughing so much tears are almost coming out of my eyes! Make una take heart!!! 1 Like
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